Indianapolis Times, Volume 40, Number 90, Indianapolis, Marion County, 4 September 1928 — Page 6

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Love Flies Out Window When Pursued,But Will Come Back If Let Alone BY MARTHA LEE i WHEN you pursue love it flies out the window, according to those who have made an intensive study of love and its habits, reactions and inhibitions. But it’s almost humanly impossible to see love fleeing down the road and sit by idly, without ever an effort to make it stay. Besides how can you tell that Cupid is not just playing tag? Argue it pro and con, all you want to and the result is just

the same. If Love is playing tag, he will he will be back, when he sees you do not catch on.” If he isn’t, if he is really running away, it surely is better to have him go than it would be to drag him back by the hand and through force of one kind or another, hold him there against his WillLet me tell you, if you do you will have your hands full, for Love is a sly fellow, always looking for an “out” and the first chance he sees to get away, all your dragging will have been in vain. He will be gone and even if you capture him again, his taste of freedom will make him twice as precocious about getting away next time. It seems to me it would be better to cut the thing clean, with one big hurt, that will heal much better, than it would be to hang on and see yourself stabbed day after day, little jagged wounds that simply will not heal up, because they are always being opened again. For somehow Love is a very human little god. He likes to do the seeking himself. He likes the thrill of battle and the conflict of strength, and he hates a coward, a leech, a pursuer. And so, my dears, if you would keep Love at your side, pat him on the cheek and give him a gorgeous smile once a day, just enough to let him know that you are aware of his presence, and perhaps once in a while give him a good loving, but if he starts to go, shrug your shoulders and stay put. Then, he might come back. I have a letter from a young girl who has had Love with her for a short time, but the unfaithful little wretch has played her a trick and she has grown fond of him and wants him back. Her letter says: Dear Miss Lee: I went with a young man eighteen months and then we broke $> over absolutely nothing Since thee I have written him several letters beg- , pine him to forgive me. but it seems I to do no good. He told me he still loves me, but does not think he will ever go 'l h love e him Nearly. Miss Lee. but he will not believe me. We were,, to h vera 1 married this month. I call him several times a week at his place of business and somehow I feel better after I talk with him. Do you think I call him and how can I win him back. My dear, what is it you are asking him to forgive? You neglected to explain that and I have a feeling that therein lies the point of the whole letter. You had better write again and tell me about this something that you broke up over that was according to your letter “absolutely nothing." In the meantime, do not call him at his place of business, or any place else for that matter. If anyone should do the pursuing it surely is not you. If he loves you at all, he will begin to wonder about you after you have not called him for a few days. It is not disinterest you are showing, but common sense. If you are in the wrong concerning your breaking up with your fiance, (and I imagine you are, or consider yourself to be from the letter) you have asked forgiveness. That is all you can do. Do not impose upon past friendship by calling him, when he has shown no desire to talk with you himself.

Sorority Rush Season Opened by Lawn Fete The Alpha Tau chapter. Delta Gamma sorority, entertained with the first of a series of rush parties this afternoon on the lawn of the home of Miss Elizabeth Ferguson, 3702 Fall Creek Blvd. The party was known as “On Deck” and the yard was decorated to resemble the deck of a ship, with the sorority colors, bronze, pink and blue used in the decorations. Sorority pledges dressed in sailor uniforms, entertained with a sailor stomp. „ .. Two pupils of Miss Peggy Snider danced and presented the guests with the favors, which were Delta Gamma roses, with golden anchors tied to the stem of each rose to represent the Delta Gamma pin. Miss Francis Schube, rush captain, was in charge, assisted by Misses Kathryn Haugh and Elizabeth Ferguson. The next rush party will be a dance to be held Thursday, Sept. 13, at the Meridian Hills Country Club. Miss Nellie Von Staden is in charge of arrangements.

Many Parties Arranged for Sept. 15 Bride Miss Caroline Conaut Maguire, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Albert M. Maguire, 529 E. Thirty-Second St., whose marriage to R. Herbert Ransburg, son of Mrs. E. W. Ransburg 5137 Broadway, will take place at the St. Paul’s Episcopal Church Oct. 10 has chosen as her attendants Mrs. Raymond Maguire, matron of honor; Misses Helen Stratton, St. Louis, Mo ; Leona White, Memphis, Tenn.; Dorothy White and Mrs. Herman Gaines, bridesmaids. Saturday Mrs. Raymond Maguire will be hostess at a luncheon bridge and silver shower to be held at the Columbia Club in honor of Miss Maguire. Saturday, Sept. 15, Mrs. Gaines will entertain, and Mrs. Harry Bolt will have a bridge party and hosiery shower for her Wednesday, Sept. 19. Mrs. Fred Jones will entertain with a bridge party and kitchen shower in honor of Miss Maguire, but has not yet set the date.

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FAIR EXHIBIT SHOWS GROWTH OF SCHOOL Indiana State of Terre Haute has a large white lattice booth at the State fair this week which holds posters and graphs showing the work of the school, its growth and teaching records. The booth represents these departments of the school, faculty, history, student activities, scholarships, awards and aids, rules, licenses, elementary curricula, extension and correspondence work and the graduate school acquired by Indiana State for the first time this year. The Rev. B. W. Tyler of the Presbyterian Church of Terre Haute, addressed the students in the summer school this week in the concluding chapel program of the year. Mr. Tyler spoke on “Our Avocation.” A double mixed quartet gave a group of songs. Kenneth J/Lewis played a violin solo as a part of the program.

Prize Recipes by Readers

NOTE—The Times will give $1 tot each recloe submitted by a reader adludKed of sufficient merit to be orlnted In this column One recloe Is Drlnted dally, except Friday, when twenty are given. Address Recipe Editor of The Times. Prlees wiii be mailed to winners POTATO SURPRISE Three cups mashed potatoes, onehalf cup minced left-over ham, one egg slightly beaten, one-half cup bread crumbs, two tableshpoons drippings and one tablespoon water. Shape potato into balls. Hollow out center, and fill with the ham, cover with potato, made round, roll in crumbs and dip in egg diluted with water. Roll in crumbs again, and fry in the dripipngs. GRACE WATSON. 1101N. Hamilton Ave., Indianapolis.

2 New Y. W. Secretaries Begin Work M?3S Anna Whittenbraker, Evansville, has arrived in Indianapolis to take over the duties of industrial secretary of the Y. W. C. A. a place made vacant by the resignation of Miss Frances Toy, who has taken a position in California. Miss Jenna Birks, Decatur, 111., has also arrived and will have charge of the Girl Reserves. Miss Annie Moore Daugherty, who has returned to her home in Millidgeville, Ga., was Girl Reserve secretary last y^ar. Two mere new secretaries, who will take up their work at the Young Women’s Christian Association this fall, are Miss Irene Harris, who will be in charge of the industrial department of the Phyllis Wheatley branch, taking the place of Miss Bernice Copeland, who has gone to Milwaukee, Wis., and Miss Bessie Hopkins, who will be business and financial secretary. Miss Hopkins, who is from New 1 Britain, Conn., will fill a vacancy left by the resignation of Mis Kate Kinder, who has returned to her home in Newport News, Va. The two new 7 secretaries who have arrived were entertained today with a tour of the central building and Blue Triangle Hall, beginning at 10 this morning. Luncheon was served at the south side branch, with dessert at the Phyllis Wheatley branch and tea at Camp Delight. DANCING SEASON OPENING ANNOUNCED Th informal opening of the Indianapolis Athletic Club dancing season will take place Saturday evening, Sept. 15, with dancing every evening execept Sunday during the dinner hour from 6:30 till 8:30. On Thursday and Friday evenings dancing will take place during the supper hours, 11:30 till 12:30, and on Saturday evenings from 10 till 1. Concert music will be played during the dinner hour. Miss Jean Davis, 51 W. FortySecond St., has left for New York, where she will enter Barnard College, Columbia University, to complete her sefiior year.

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In a rush to get his letter open, Mr. Van de View Drops the drawings on the gallery, a foolish thing to do; While *he rescue act he leaves to Binks, the knowing little pup, Who is doing quite the best he can at gathering them up.

PERSONALS

Mr. and Mrs. Rollin Marris Perkins and children, Rollin, Jr., and Misses Helen and Clara Perkins, lowa City, la., have motored back to their summer heme on Lake Leelnau, Michigan. They came to Indianapolis to attend the wedding of Miss Helen Payne and Carl G. Seashore, which took place Saturday. Mrs. Perkins, who is a sister of the bride, was matron of honor and her two daughters, Helen and Clara, were bridesmaids. Dean and Mrs. Carl E. Seashore, lowa City; Mrs. Paul B. Mather, West Branch la., and Robert H. Seashore, Eugene. Ore., have returned to their homes Mrs. Lulua Atkinson and Mrs. Belle Whippy, Chicago, who have been the guests of Mrs. Harry Reed and family, 3509 Kenwood Ave., gone to Seymour. They will return to Indianapolis before returning to Chicago. Dr. Laura J. Cloud, 49 W. ThirtySecond St., has returned from a

THE INDIANAPOLIS TIMES

FALL ACCESSORIES STRESS FEMININITY

(Accessories from Sally Mtlgrlm. New York) Chic dainties that add dash to tLe well-dressed woman; left to right: Stumptuous and flattering is the elongated, soft white fox neckpiece. A formal tailored bag of brown antelope, with modernistic tucks and a handsome fastening of carnelian, onyx and marcasite set in silver; a bracelet matches. A scintillating evening set of kerchief and envelope purse of ombre paillettes. A diaphonous chiffon hanky of generous size is apricot chiffon with black lace. Molpneux’s new cistume jewelry uses rich blue wooden beads alternately with clusters of small gold beads to fashion necklace and bracelet.

Banquet Will Mark Sorority Founders Day Founders’ Day will be celebrated by the Sigma * Phi sorority with a banquet in the Harrison room of the Columbia Club Wednesday evening. Guests will be seated at a long table, which will be centered with a tiered birthday cake. Individual cerise candles, in silver holders and tied with silver tulle leading up to the birthday cake, will mak each place. Other decorations and appointments will be carried out in the sorority colors, cerise and silver. Covers will be laid for Mesdames Ted Ottinger, Bur Carr, Charles McCreary, Stanley Moore, Misses Martha Rutherford, Selma Harbrig, Mary Stow, Helen Stultz, Virginia Gardner, Lucille Butterworth, Dorothy De Haven, Evelyn Hitz, Wanda Fieriek, Frieda Ettinger and Loretta Henkins. Miss Bess Stow will be guest of honor and Mrs. Stanley Moore, president of the sorority, will preside. Following the dinner, election of officers will take place. Monthly Card Party Sunday The monthly card party given by the Altar Society of St. Roch’s Church will be held Sunday afternoon and evening at the hall, 3600 S. Meridian St. Mrs. Thomas Memmer is hostess for the affair, assisted by Mesdames Joseph Bortlein, George Fgenoff, Charles Klein. Lillian McCorkle, Edward Lange and Anthony Lange. Supper will be served from 5 to 7 and free transportation will be furnished from the S. Meridian St. car line. D. Lawrence Chambers, 5275 N. Meridian St., has gone to Cape Cod, Mass., where he will join Mrs. Chambers and his three children for a two weeks’ sojourn. He will spend two weeks in New York before returning to Indianapolis.

What a loss it would have been to miss a picture such as this, For it gives the Connoisseur a very special kind of bliss To be locking at a lightweight tweed with trimming of pique And a flare upon the overskirt—the fashion of the day.

month’s vacation in southern In-1 diana, Kentucky and Ohio. Miss Eva end Beulah Storch, 3227 Broadway, spent the week-end in St. Louis, Mo. Miss Ann Ursula Mathews, 3865 Ruckle' St., has returned from Feal Harbor, Me., where she has been studying with Caster Reardon, first harpist with the Cincinnati Symphony Orchestra. lOrthophonic . VICTROLAS Trade In yoar old Krai FhnnnifrHiih. i Ask for ■■■ I Furnas Ice Cream I “The Cream of Quality” At Your Dealer

Columbus Girl Becomes Bride of Local Man Miss Verna Hoffmeyer, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. H. L. Hoffmeyer, Columbus, became the bride of Clarence Wampner, Indianapolis, son of Mr. and Mrs. J. H. Wampner, 1010 S. New Jersey St., at St. Peter’s Evangelical Church, Columbus, on Saturday afternoon, the Rev. A. E. Brauer, pastor of the church, reading the service. Miss Amy Bascher, Indianapolis, was bridesmaid, and Norman Wampner, also of Indianapolis, served as best man. Following the ceremony a reception was held at the home of the bride's parents. Mr. and Mrs. Wampner have gone on a trip through the eastern States and will be at home after Sept. 15 at the Moynahan Apts., N. Alabama St. Those who attended the ceremony from Indianapolis were Mr. and Mrs. J. H. Wampner, Misses Margaret and Elsa Waippner, Mr. and Mrs. Carl Nohhke, Mr. and Mrs. Gilbert Osborne, Mr. and Mrs. Robert Reardon, and Herbert Wood. Columbia Club Season to Open The Columbia Club informal opening of the fall season will take place Sunday, Sept. 16. Dinner dances will be played every evening, with supper dances Monday and Wednesday evenings. Charlie Davis and his orchestra will play for the Friday and Saturday night dances during the season. Friday afternoon. Mesdames A. P. Stephenson, W. C. Davisson and Roy Kennedy will be assisting hostesses. Evening Trifles Evening accessories are apt to be gleaming this fall. Tiny caps of sequins, crystals and pearls, little purses of cut stones and crystals, and fans of feather, polka dotted with crystal all testify to the gleaming era it is.

Eve Sketches Coat-Frocks At Chantilly Races

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Now a double-breasted tweed of blue with buttons made of bone, And inverted pleats around the skirt to keep the fashion tone Is another which appealed to Eve and so to Van de View, For their tastes are very similar—and very perfect too.

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Bridge Fete Will Honor Bride-Elect Miss Mary Alice Wishard, daughter of Dr. and Mrs. E. E. Wishard, 5828 Oak Ave., whose marriage to Richard Louis Federman, Brookville, will take place Wednesday, Sept. 12, at the Wishard home, wili oe the honor guest this evening at a bridge party and miscellaneous :hower to be given at the home Miss Edith Corya, 5908 University Ave. Appointments and decorations will be in pink and blue, the bridal colors, and at serving time, the table will be centered with a bowl of pink roses and delphinium and lighted with blue candles tied with pink tulle. Guests with Miss Wishard and her mother, Mrs. E. E. Wishard, were Mesdames Raymond Robinson, Mary Ann Huggins, Lucile Wilson, Donald La Fuze, A. E. Wishard, Misses Mary Ann Huggins, Lucile Wilson, Eleanor Hadd, Laura Templeton, Marian Marshall, Helen Wilson, Mildred Masters, Helen DeVeliing, Getrude Insley , Anna Louts Hall, Marian Barney and Jane Ogborn. The hostess will be assisted by her sister, Miss Bertha Corya. MRS~ C. H. BEST HONORS OUT-OF-TOWN GUEST Miss Jean Fahringcr, Audenreid, Pa., guest of Miss Mary Ahn Ogden, was the honor guest at a bridge party given Monday afternoon at the home of Mrs. Claus Best, 5345 N. Delaware St. Late summer flowers were used in decorations and the hostess was as- - by Mrs. James Ogden and Mrs. Freilc W. Seyfarth, Chicago. who is 'siting her. With Misrcs Fahiinger and Ogden were Misses Jane Holgate, Margaret Macy, Bess Tucker, Flora Hunter, Dorothy Ragan, Margaret Kent, Genevieve McNellis, Eugenia Harris, Priscilla and Martha Pittinger. Sorority Meeting Beta chapter, Chi Delta Chi Sorority, will meet at the home of Miss Margie Douglass, 2149 Riverside Dr., at 8:30 Tuesday evening Plans will be made for the fall rush party at this meeting.

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YOUR CHILD Namby-Pamby Tales Taboo BY OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON What kind of stories do you tell your children? Stories of good little bunnies, wicked witches, pirates, or maudlin tales of mistreated orphans? There was a time, not so long ago, that psychologists preached the doctrine of mamby-pambly-ism to parents in regard to this business of story telling. • The story with the thrill was taboo, particularly if it contained the \Vord "wicked” or dealt with witches, dwarfs, or told of distorted visage and ill-inten-tioned mind. Now we have learned differently. Here I shall make one permanent and irrevocable exception to the following paragraphs, and tnen go on with the story. No child under four should be told an alarming tale or an unhappy one. He should not even be told an exciting one, especially at night. After four, we shall see! At about this time his imagination begins to run away with him. He imagines that he is everything under the sun from an airplane to a turtle. His little dream world is as real to him as his real world and at this time he begins to feel a real hunger for stories. Place for Evil Factors He is very impressionable. He absorbs little sermons and becomes thoughtful about the difference between good and bad. How can he learn about good overcoming evil unless there is an occasional evil factor in the stories he hears. There must be an obstacle to overcome. There is a world of meaning in the good fairy who overcomes the wicked witch, or the kind tailor who breaks the spell of a wicked dwarf by dividing his last morsel of bread with a beggar. How can Tom show his courage unless there is a terrible pirate to fight? Os Jack give an example of bravery without his giant? Now there are stories such as Hansel and Gretel, in which a wicked witch holds Hansel in a cage to fatten him for eating and ending by Gretel pushing the old girl herself into the oven she had prepared. These stories should be burned. Also a story like “Rumpelstiltskin,” the dwarf who stole the baby out of the poor queen’s bed, and “The Rose Tree,” depicting a flower-pot in which a young man’s head had been buried. All these and their ilk should be cut out of a mother’s repertoire. As for “Red Riding Hood,” all the discussion about it has come to naught. But in telling it, I shouldn’t make it silly by changing it. Why tell it at all? Those big eyes and ears and teeth, so incongruous in Granny’s cap, still make me shiver. Mixture Recommended If a child is not too nervous, I should mix the the” story diet and give him a right stiff one occasionally. His imagination must be fed. And if you “sweep off” a pirate or push a giant over a precipice and make “the last of him,” with no revolting details, or demolish a witch before she demolishes someone else, with a large fine sweep of your story brush—why that’s not bad for a child to hear. Let him have a little ginger. Each year the story diet can be strengthened. A child loves to hear the same story over and over when he is little. Later he will beg. “Tell me another.” And if you can beg, borrow or steal stories, tell him all he can hold. It is good for him. But I should not feed him pap. If he is too nervous to hear real stories, don’t tell him any until he is older. Mr. and Mrs. A. J. Porer, 2917 Ruckle St., have as their guest their daughter. Mis. George F. Fisher, Jr., Apopka, Fla.

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In a herringbone design another tweed of feather weight Has arisen there at Chantilly to popular estate, With its collar, tie, and cuffs of white pique with edge of black— Which for trimming autumn dresses constitutes aTnovel knack.

.SEPT. 4, 1928

City Couple Married in Church Rite Miss Dorothy Mae Cole, daughtci of Mr. and Mrs. C. W. Cole, 2258 N. New Jersey St., and Frank Dilling Walker, son of William A Walker, 2838. Central Ave., were united in marriage at 4:30 Sunday afternoon at the Broadway Methodist Episcopal Church. The ceremony was read by the Rev. J. W. McFall before an altar banked with palms and ferns and lighted with cathedral candles. A' program of bridal airs was played by Mrs. Mary Wilhite, organist, and Miss Helen Riley, accompanied by Thomas Poggiani, violinist, sang '‘At Daw'ning.” Poggiani played “I Love You Truly,” “Love s Old Sweet Song” and "To a Wild Rose.” Attended by Sister Mrs. Ruth Orr, sister of the bride, was matron of honor and Miss Georgiabelle Fleener bridesmaid. Mrs. Orr wore rose georgette crepe trimmed with Venetian lace and pearls apd carried a bouquet of Columbia roses and delphinium. She wore a beige hat. Miss Fleener wore blue georgette crepe trimmed with Venetian lace and pearls and carried butterfly roses and delphinium. He hat was a darker shade of blue. Don Walker, brother of the bridegroom was best man and the ushers were Albert Cole, brother of the bride, Charles Walker and Don Walker, brothers of the bridegroom. The Dride, w 7 ho was given in marriage by her father, wore cream chiffon trimmed with autumn brown velvet. Her hat was autumn brown silk velour. She wore a topaz pendant, gift of the bridegroom and carried a rose-point lace handerkerchief, a family heirloom. Her flowers were Aaron Ward roses and valley lilies in shower bouquet. Traveling in Canada A reception for members of the family and out-of-town guests iollowed the ceremony. Mrs. Cole receiving in navy blue georgette crepe with a shoulder corsage of Columbia roses. The table was arranged with a plateau of delphinium and lighted pink tapers in silver holders. Mr. and Mrs. Walker have gone on a trip through Canada and the eastern States, the bride traveling in a brown velvet ensemble with accessories to match. Among the out-of-town guests were Mr. and Mrs. William H. Gaddis, Dayton Ohio Mr. and Mrs. W. A. Cravens, Atlanta, Ind.; Miss Louise Russel, Noblesville; Mr. and Mrs. Emory E. Mendenhall and son, Paul, Mrs. H. H. Bunch, Mrs. Adam Bilheimer, Mr. and Mrs. Lee Leatherman, Mr. and Mrs. Herbert V. Morris, Mr. and Mrs. Guy Nash, Mr. and Mrs. John Nash, Mr. and Mrs. Charles Michel and daughter, Beth, Mr. and Mrs. George Finley and daughter, Bernice, Mr. and Mrs. Charles Fouch, Mr. and Mrs. David Wiggins, Mr. and Mrs. Lee Griffith, Mr. and Mrs. P. E. Self and daughters, Ethel and Pearl, all of Tipton; Mr. and Mrs. Orvill Mayne, Mr. and Mrs. Everett Cravens, Carmel; Mr. and Mrs. Homan Royer, Eaton, Ohio, and Mrs. C. E. Ruth, Pittsburgh. BIRD CAGE GIVES ROOM LAST TOUCH Many rooms fail in their decorative purposes because of one thing —the lack of a color spot, They may be perfectly furnished, the draperies and wall deeprations carefully selected and hung but the room just lacks something to finish the effect. The solution in nine cases out or ten is the addition of some fixture or appointment to the room which will provide a color center or “decorative climax.” Modern decorators frequently use bird cages for this purpose. They are designed in a variety of shapes and sizes which make it possible for the housewife to get one which will fit in well with the plan and period style of her room. In addition, they can be had in practically any color, ranging from a dull gold to the most brilliant Chinese reds.

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