Indianapolis Times, Volume 40, Number 73, Indianapolis, Marion County, 15 August 1928 — Page 6
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Between Parents and Wife, Choice of Man Should Be His Mate BY MARTHA LEE WHEN a husband is forced to make a choice between his wife and his parents, it does not seem to me there can be any doubt as to where the decision should lie. He has taken his wife to protect and love and cherish and try to understand. If the question of dissension has been aroused by her, and a choice between his parents and his wife looms over the horizon, the husband, it seems to mj, should
assert his rights in the home as head of the house, have an understanding with his wife concerning his relationship with his parents as not opposed or interfering with his relationship with his wife and let it go at that. I have never been able to understand why each individual love that a person feels for those who are near to him is not a separate and distinct part of his life, and should not, in any way interfere with his love for another. For example, why should a parent’s love for his child have anything at all to do with his love fbr his wife? Why should there be any conflict at all? And the same with the love of a man for his parents. But, when the wife has done nothing at all to make a choice necessary, when she is the innocent and suffering victim of such a circumstance, it does not seem to me there is any quetsion as to who should be considered first. I have a letter today from a boy who is secretly married. He is afraid to tell his parents because of what/they are going to say, not that he is married, but that he has married out of his faith. Here is the letter: Dear Miss Lee—l am a Catholic boy. Four months ago I married a Protestant girl. We were married by a justice oi the peace. X have never told my parents as they are opposed to mined marriages and X aiir afraid they would disown me. , I have a wonderful wife and I love her dearly, and she loves me. She says I cannot love her very much or I would tell my folks of our marriage and face the conseauences. She says if I do not care enough for her to tell them, regardless of what they will say or think, that she will not live with me any longer. Now. Miss Lee. my parents have been very good to me and I hate to hurt them. But by not telling them I am losing my wife. What shall I do? JOHNNY. ' By all means tell your parents to face the music. When you married the girl you must not have been thinking much about your parents or what they would say when ftiey found it out. You must have realized that they would have to know some day. They probably objected strenuously to a mixed marriage before this occurred, because they did not want you to marry out of your faith, but I am sure since you have done so they will forgive you and accept things as they are. Again the time for you to think about the religious situation as an issue is not now. That chance has passed. You should have done that, too, before you were married. The girl who is your wife deserves your loyalty and respect, to say nothing of being placed first in your heart and mind. How can you expect her to love you if you are cowardly? And your not wanting to tell your parents is certainly nothing else but cowardice. It may be a hard struggle for a while, and they may be bitter for a few months, but that will all blow over. And the sooner you tell the sooner everything will be all right. Entertain at Cards A card party will be held at St. Roch’s hall, 3600 S. Meridian St., at 2:30 this afternoon. Free transportation will be provided from the S. Meridian St. car line. Entertain at Cards Amanche council, No. 47, D. of P. will give a benefit card party at 8:30 Friday night at Red Men’s hall, Morris and Lee Sts.
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Mr. Van de View, a city man, who doesn’t know his ropes, In a glacier-climbing party hasn’t much except his hopes; But he’s truly optimistic and his heart is very bold As he clutches at the cable with a deathdefying hold.
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BY ALLENE SUMNER Sometimes one wonders if all the stories about the June grads who besiege offices and newspapers and stores and factories for jobs, and modestly admit that they’d just as soon start as vice president or editor, are true. But opera directors surely must be awfully accustomed to young singers asking for prima donna roles, for Gatti-Casazza signed up a Miss Pearl Besuner, 22. for next season in the Metropolitan Grand Opera Company because, he admits himself, he was as much impressed by her willingness to “start as a page” as by her voice. 0 0 Up in Smoke Two huge buildings were deliberately burned by the United States
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Every other step he stumbles or his feet becomes entwined Which is very irritating to a timid state of mind— And especially with ladies in the front and in the rear Whose disparaging opinion he is quite inclined to fear.
Bureau of Standards in Washington the other day, and dozens of safes filed with records were burned, too It was all done while officials stood by, making no attempt to stop the fire, for the buildings were burned in a scientific attempt to discover habits of fire and the best resiliency of various safes. This was typically a male act. Woman is never destructive. She would have insisted on saving the buildings some way, even thougn they were no earthly use, just in case she might need them some time, and she would have spent more time and energy and money than it would take to replace the buildings in finding some other way to get the required information Whatever we think of our superiorities, most of us are much more “penny wise and pound foolish” than males. 000 Jazz and girls are ruining fraternity life, according to Trustee
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The sjfcrts outfit a tthe left, by Chanel, Is Bendel’s suggestion for collegiate wear. TThe flat silk crepe frock in the center is designed for classroom and general wear. Right is a periwinkle blue Georgette evening gown by Bendel.
BY HENRIBENDEL For NBA Service NEW YORK, Aug. 15.—The college girl of today is smart about her clothes as well as her books. Wherein she does not give the impression of making clothes of paramount importance, as the society girl often does. So long as she is a school girl, there is an unwritten law that her clothes conform to certain standards of simplicity and youthfulness. “The most exclusive schools discourage elaborate costuming in girls, and boarding schools and finishing schools are often definite to the point of uniforms. I think it would be an excellent plan if colleges had a department where young women might be taught taste in dress, and given thorough instruction in their design and color. For clothes are tremendously important, not in themselves, but in their effect on the wearer and on
Zeta Rho Will Hold Party at Cottage Tonight Members of Zeta Rho sorority will entertain with a swimming party and picnic supper at their cottage in Exeter Park this evening. Sorority members who will be present are Misses Marjorie Beverly, Helen Elbel, Adeline Hudson, Esther Jackson, Mary Mabey, Frieda McMechan, Leola Wood, Corinne Workman, Frances Smith, Pauline Ballinger, Ethel Heimer and Mrs. Grace May Rawlings. Invited guests are Misses Betty Vollmer, Ruth Mather, Roma Mabey, Margaret Hoffmeyer, Elizabeth Hillyer, Irene Kinnamon, Betty Walters, Myrtle Powell and Hazel Shedd. Card Party Won: nos the Altar Society of St. Phillip Meri Church entertained at cards at the auditorium, 500 Eastern Ave., at 2:30 this afternoon. Mrs. John Clifford was in charge of arrangements. Magnolia circle No. 4 will entertain with a benefit card party at 2:30 Friday afternoon at Red Men’s hall, Morris and Lee Sts.
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John L. Porter of Carnegie Institute of Technology. ‘Fraternity, years ago,” he says, "meant a linking of ideas, ambitions, dreams, pride in achievement and comradeship. How can we look for marks above 70 from a student who spends half his time out of schedule in tump-tut-a-tump and the balance necking in some secluded corner?” Question: Do men spend any more time and interest on girls these days than they ever have? 0 0 0 What Every Woman Knows For some reason or other a New York paper found it news becausp two women hailed into court on the same charge as several men arrested with them got the same sentence One woman, a taxi driver, was fined along with some male competitors for driving without a license. The other woman was summoned with a score of men, all charged with
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beholders. Nothing so definitely stamps a girl as one of good breeding and culture as the right clothes, worn at the right time. And many a girl has had to live down her clothes before she could assert her own individuality. For today I have selected three costumes I consider ideal for the college girl. The sports costume, appropriate for golf, hiking or any outdoor activity during the autumn season, is one of Chanel's creations. The blouse departs radically from the formal sweater so long prevalent for sport wear, and is developed in knitted silk in all the rich, mellow colors of brown, tan and bronze. The neckline and waistline end in graceful ties and the straight sleeves have a turn-back cuff. The skirt is of brown jersey, comfortably wide, with deep pleats in the front. The hat has a moderate sized brim, jauntily rolled at one side, and is fashioned of orange and white angora. The evening gown for the college girl must have charm and illusion
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Mrs. E. D. Fouts and daughter, Ruth, 3925 N. Pennsylvania 8t„ left for Chicago today to visit Mrs. Ralph Hiatt. George Somnes, Marott hotel, director of the Indianapolis Little I Theatre, will sail Thursday from New York on the S. S. Muenchen for a tw'o months’ tour through Paris, Vienuna, Berlin ar.i other I cities. He will return in October to resume his duties as director of the Little Theatre for the coming season. Dr. and Ms. Harry A. Jacobs, 3859 Washington Blvd., will leave Thursday morning for a three weeks’ motor trip through the East. Mrs. Meredith Nicholson, 4515 N. Delaware St., and Mrs. Nicholson Claypool have gone to Harbor Point, Mich. ! Dr. and Mrs. Robert I. Blakeman, 384i N. Pennsylvania St,, and their daughter, Mrs. James D. Thrilkill, Hollywood, Cal., and young son, Robert, have returned from a motor trip through Kentucky. Mrs. Hatmon H. Friedley, 1639 N. Talbot Ave , has as her house guest Mrs. Joseph W. Briggs and children, Milwaukee, Wis. Mrs. Briggs was
smoking on a ferryboat and given a suspended sentence. The headline reads, “Equality Nips Two Women.’ This all seems rather absurdly silly. For several years now in this age of man working and competing with woman, we have taken it for granted that women receive the same sentence as men, if not more so. Announcement is made of the engagement of Miss Tarnetis Beatrice Lash, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. William G. Lash, 2412 N. New Jersey St., and Dr. Joseph Pierre LoSelle, 1305 N. Delaware St. The wedding will take place in September
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without suggesting the bizarre or the extreme. An ideal choice is the model of periwinkle blue georgette with the tiered skirt, each tier bound with crepe and applied so that the skirt is longer in the back. Incidentally, the tiered skirt is to be more popular than ever this season, both for day and evening. The bodice is simplicity itself, with a modest neckline and a crushed sash at the low waistline, held in place with a buckle of rhinestones and crystals. For classroom and for general day wear, I can think of nothing more appropriate than flat silk crepes, and I am showing one of Vionnet’s most delightful creations you would recognize her touch at the neckline. The color combination is tw’o shades of rose, with the deep scarf appliqued on with a tiny embroidery stitch, as is also the cash at the waist which falls in a full soft bow at the right side circular, with a delightful side flare the skirt gives the effect of a two-piece frock.
formerly Miss Agnes Ritchie, Indianapolis. Mr. and Mrs. Robert V. Law, 4560 Broadway, will leave Friday for a sojourn at Lake Louise, Banff and other northwestern points. C. C. Underwood, newly appointed assistant superintendent of public schools in Indianapolis and director of elementary education, former superintendent of schools in Crawfordsville, will move to Indianapolis with his wife Sept. 1. They will make their home at the Marott Hotel. Miss Elsie Reider, 2035 N. Meridian St., is registered at the Roosevelt Hotel, New York. Wedding Announced Mrs. Mary Hines, Galveston, Tex., formerly of Indianapolis, announces the marriage of her cousin, Miss Edna Davis Forkner, Indianapolis, to Charles Luther Shore which took place Tuesday at her home in Galveston. Mr. and Mrs. Shore will be at home in Indianapolis at the Elks’ club after Sept. 1. Sorority to Meet The Chi chapter. Phi Omega Upsilon Sorority, will meet this evening at the home of Miss Erma Schultz, 404 E. Ohio St.
In a double coat of sweaters which will keep her warm enough Here’s another who delights in taking Nature in the rough And the Connoisseur encouraged by the feministic spirit Tries to muster up an attitude of daring fairly near it.
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Morning Wedding in Church Miss Frances E. Niedenthal, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Louis Neidenthal, Bluff Rd., became the bride of Carl W. Spitznagel, sen of William Spitznagel, 2749 Madison Ave., at 8 Tuesday morning at St. Roch’s Roman Catholic church. The nuptial mass was sung by the Rev. Peter Pfeifer, pastor. A program of organ music was played preceding the ceremony and St. Roch’s cho : r furnished music for the mass. Miss Julia Niedenthal, sister of the bride and maid of honor, wore green georgette and carried an arm bouquet of pink chrysanthemums. The bridesmaids, Misses Elizabeth Deathler and Cecelia Rauser, wore orchid and pink georgette dresses and carried arm bouquets of pink gladioli. All wore head bands of rhinestones and pearls. William Sanders was best man and the ushers were Edward Strack and Andrew Niedenthal, cousin of the bride. The bride wore white satin trimmed with Spanish lace and made bouffant style. Her full length tulle veil was caught on either side with clusters of orange blossoms. She carried a shower bouquet of Bride’s roses. Following a breakfast at the home of the bride's parents, the couple left for a trip to Chicago, the bride traveling in a tan ensemble with accessories to match. They will be at home after Sept. 1 at 2749 Madison Ave.
Dinner Honors Grand Secretary of Eastern Star Honoring Mrs. Blanche Regetts, grand secretary of the Eastern Star, Mr. and Mrs. Samuel T. Monroe entertained Tuesday evening with a 6 o’clock dinner at their home on Pleasant Run Blvd. The table was centered with a bowl of blue and white larkspurs and August lilies and lighted with blue tapers in silver candelabra. Covers were laid for fifteen guests. With Mrs. Regetts and the host and hostess were Mrs. Crosby, Misses Lydia, Rose Ellen, Bertha and Louise Monroe; Messrs. Gaylord Sweeney, Robert Hampst and William J. Monroe. Out of town guests were: Mrs. Rose Anne Manges and Mr. and Mrs. William Arbegust, Lafayette; Jesse L. Monroe, Winchester, and Mrs. Edward Mclntosh, Chicago.
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NOTE—The Times will give $1 lot each recipe submitted by a reader adjudged ot sufficient merit to te printed In this column One recipe Is printed dally, except Friday when twenty are given. Address Recipe Editor of The Times. Prizes will be mailed to winners Almond Cake One pound powdered sugar, onefourth pound ground almonds, eight eggs, two cups bread crums, one level teaspoon each of cloves, alspice. nutmeg and baking powder, two tablespoons water, one teaspoon vanilla. Cream together sugar and yolks of eggs, adG water, flavoring and spices. Mix bread with the nuts and baking powder. Beat whites of eggs stiff and fold bread mixture with eggs in with the rest. Bake :n layers. Filling—One-half cup sugar, one cup milk, one egg, two heaping tablespoons cornstarch. Cook like custard, flavor with almond. When cold put between layer. Frost top and sides with any kind of white frosting. MRS. O. H. SCHULZ. 4651 Rookwood Ave., Indianapolis.
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BY OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON Don’t laugh at “vitamins!” If you want your children to have good teeth, healthy tissues, organs that function properly, in other words the clean bill qf health known as a “good constitution,” you will get right down to work and look into this übiquitous but necessary word, instead of ridiculing it or ignoring it. A few general suggestions may help busy mothers who have little time for official figures. There sire two or three kinds of vitamins. Some are found in fats, and some are found in vegetables. Needless to say they are contained largely in milk. Good Teeth Food If you wish your child to have good teeth, see that he has plenty of milk and the green vegetable diet so often recommended. Lettuce may be U3ed either cooked or raw. Tomatoes are better eaten raw or bought in cans. They lose something in home cooking. Carrots may be used either way, but are, of course, more appetizing cooked. String beans, spinach, asparagus and peas should be cooked, and the water in which they are boiled used as well. I should give a child at least three of these vegetables a day and see that he eats them. Vegetable soup containing all of them /should be a frequent visitor at meals. The minerals contained in vegetables go into the water when cooked and this must never be wasted. Quart of Milk Daily A growing child should have enough milk either in foods or plain to make up about a quart each day. Many mothers have the idea that a diet of cereals, meat, potatoes, bread, butter and jelly are all that a child needs. He does need those things, particularly the butter and meat fats. The others provide necessary bulk to the food and needed starches, but they are not sufficient in themselves for a complete diet. Fruit is also necessary and helps to regulate elimination. Eggs are almost pure albumen and should be i used preferably soft-boiled, poached, I or coddled. Eeets contain iron anc! are known I as “blood makers.” Corn is rich in fat and starch. It is fine cold-weather food and is very nourishing. But it will not take the place of “green” vegetables. I should not give very little children corn on the cob. It should be scraped off and made into a milk-soup or the raw corn put through a coarse sieve and mixed with a Tittle milk and baked or put into a double boiler and gently cooked until it thickens. Dried soy beans, navy beans, and lima beans are rich in nourishment, but these will not take first place ' on the vitamin list.
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Miss Peters, Bride-Elect, Entertained Misses Helen De Grief and Mary Lee Orloff were joint hostesses this afternoon at a bridge party given at the home of Miss De Grief, 5202 N. Delaware St., in honor of Miss Frances Peters, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Frank Peters, whose marriage to Fred Ahrbecker, son of Mr. and Mrs. E. H. Ahrbecker, Oak Park, 111., will take place Aug. 29. Appointments and decorations were carried out in rainbow shades. The hostesses were assisted by their mothers, Mesdames Harry Orloff and Frederick J. De Grief. With Miss Peters was Mrs. Frank Peters, her mother; Mesdames Francis Sommer, George Maynard Halberson and James Westerman Ray; Misses Helen Wilson, Bertha Green, Margaret Mary, Genevieve McNellis. Ona Boyd, Eugenia Harris, Priscilla Dernier. Kathryn De Vaney, Alma Lucas, Rosemary Smith, Jane Ogborn, Charlotte Reissner, Eleanor Dunn, Beatrice Moore, Betty Hodges, Betty Lee, Valencia Meng, Glen Schwenk, Rebecca Jones and Evelyn Seward, Columbus, and her house guest, Pauline Arthur, St. Petersburg, Fla.; Ruth Robinson, Frankfort, and Annebelle Parr, Lebanon.
Staff Members and Families at Outing, Dinner Members of the staff society of the Methodist Hospital and their families are being entertained with an outing and chicken dinner this afternoon and evening at Forest Park Inn, Noblesville. A program of sports including golf, tennis and swimming was carried out this afternoon. Chicken dinner will be served at 6:30 p. m. Dr. Marie B. Kast is general chairman in charge of arrangements and Dr. Lyman Pearson, Dr, and Mrs. William Gabe and Dr. Lillian Mueller assisted her as chairmen of various committees.
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