Indianapolis Times, Volume 40, Number 48, Indianapolis, Marion County, 17 July 1928 — Page 6

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Marriage Begins With Slight Chance If Based On ‘ Love at First Sight ’ BY MARTHA LEE HOW long must a friendship have been formed before it will be developed into love?- Some contend that there is love at first sight. I contend there is not. There is attraction, infatuation, yes, but not love. Often this attraction or infatuation grows into love and because the first “hunch” was right, the result is attributed to love at first sight.

Love, to be steadfast and lasting, must be founded upon mutual likes, compatibility of disposition, common interests and these are things that a first glance simply will not reveal. They are things that are discovered only after a friendship that allows conversation and companionship. And they are so vastly important because they serve as a stabilizer, a shock absorber for the bumps and knocks of marriage. Marry Quickly and Repent A marriage made after a hasty courtship and short acquaintance almost invariably lands on the rocks. Do you know any persons, even members of your own lamily, who do not surprise you frequently with new and formerly undiscovered sides to their characters? Are there not times when you are disappointed, shocked, amazed at the unimagined traits that are revealed by some of your friends? If those things hurt you, think how much more seriously you would be hurt by someone you loved very deeply. I realize that these same things are apt to occur if you have known a person for years, but at least by that time you know now to handle the situation, to make allowances. A marriage after a hasty courtship is most unfortunate because it does not give the two contracting parties a fair chance. It is hard enough to ride over the rough spots when you have studied the nature of the man or woman with whom you are dealing, but to do it sight unseen is almost positive of failure. Be Sure It’s Love Above all things, learn to detect the difference between love and infatuation. Infatuation will disappear before you can do anything to stop it. It will go as quickly and as completely as it came and for as little reason. I have a letter today from a young girl who had a “blind date.” He was attractive. She only saw him twice. And she is so madly in love with him, or so she supposes, that she has decided that life will be really nothing without him. Here is the letter: Dear Miss Lee: I went on a ‘blind date” with a fellow and since then have had only one date with him. I can't keep him out of my mind. The minute I saw him I liked him. He asked me for a date, but I couldn't give It to him because I always have to ask my father first. He told some friends of mine that he liked me. but since I could not give him the date he asked for I have not seen him. I am nearly 18 and am too young to be in love, but X think I am near it. I am always longing for the time I can see him again. When I am at work I am always thinking of him. Sometimes I get in such a state of mind that I am sick. He told me to call him up—we have no telephone. Should I? UNDECIDED. I should hate to be ernoloying you, Undecided. It must surely affect your work, to be thinking of this boy constantly. Your letter is | a bit inconsistent. How did you have the “blind date” if you cannot get out to see this boy again? Why did your father allow you to go the first time? As I explained in the first part of my article, it is impossible to really love someone you know so little. Don’t call him. If he wishes to see you, he will get in communication with you. In the meantime be a sensible child and pay attention to your arithmetic, or you will find yourself jobless. It’s annoying to have anyone moonstruck among the employes. SPRING MARRIAGE IS MADE PUBLIC Dr. ar.u Mrs. I. H. Barnes, Greenfield, announce the marriage of their son. Feary Grandison Barnes, to Ann Elizabeth Mann, Indianapolis, which took place May 12 at Palestine, 111. Mr. Barnes attended Butler University and is a member of the Lambda Chi Alpha fraternity. He is also a member of the Beta lota chapter of the Kappa Alpha Phi fraternity, Greenfield. Mrs. Barnes formerly was of Little Rock, Ark., but for the past several years has made her home in Indianapolis. Mr. and Mrs. Barnes will live at the Van Courtland Apt., 2010 N. Meridian St. Chapter Adopts Name The Woman’s Auxiliary to the Civil War Veterans of Martinsville has adopted the name of Maj. George W. Grubbs Chapter and has elected Mrs. Daisy Grubbs Eubank, daughter of Major Grubbs as president. Other officers are: Past president, Mrs. Mary Bucker; vice president, Mrs. Ella McNair; secretary, Mrs. Juliet Michael; treasurer, MrsKatherine Major; chaplain, Miss Olive Buchanan, and patriotic instructor, Miss Mary Buchanan. At Rushville Party Mrs. E. D. Taggart, Misses Geraldine McKee, Edna Mae Katzenberger and Virginia Metz of this city, attended a bridge party in Rushville Saturday which Miss Ann Gulliori gave in honor of Miss Lola Jane Rosenberger, Mishawaka, who is visiting there. Other out-of-town guests' included Miss Betty Hull, Connersville; Miss Nadine Todd and Mrs. Paul Day, Newcastle, and Miss Huelda Davis, Muncie. Parties and Sale The July Circle of Holy Cross Church will entertain with card parties Thursday afternoon and evening and Sunday evening. circle will also have a bake sale at the Strand Shoe Shop Saturday evening. Chosen Committee Aid Miss Floy Isley, Shelbyville, has been named secretary of the Shelby County Democratic committee. Miss Islay hat served as chief deputy in the recorder’s and auditor’s offices in Shelby County and was secretary of w* county war chest fund.

Attorney to Be Jefferson Club Picnic Speaker Chalmers Schlosser, attorney, will be the principal speaker at the picnic of the Marion County Jefferson Club Friday evening In the garden of Mrs. W. H. Blodgett’s home, 2034 N. Capitol Ave. Mrs. Mildred Douglas will give readings and B. M. Ralston will give a toast to the club. Mrs. L. D. Hanscom will sing and Miss Jeannette Riggan will play violin numbers, both accompanied by Mrs. William Simmons. Dr. D. S. Goble will give the address of welcome. Mrs. Annette Searls is entertainment chairman in charge of the program.

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Mr. Van de View is thoughtful as ,a gentleman should be, And he rises in the morning very early as you see To arrange a:a easy lounging place along the sandy shore For his mother and his sister—who could ask for any more?

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OFFICERS OF ALPHA CHAPTER

Miss Adeline Philips (left), and Miss Evelyn Pennick Alpha chapter of Omega Phi Tau Sorority recently installed the following officers: Miss Evelyn Pennick, president; Miss Adeline Philips, vice president; Miss Aline Meade, secretary; Miss Thelma Wabnitz, treasurer; Miss Esther Hufford, attorney general; Miss Margaret Carroll, sergeant-at-arms, and Miss Reba Hurley, publicity chairman.

Social Meeting The social meeting of Delta Kappa Sorority will be held this evening at 8 with Miss Bernice Schmidt, 523 Cottage Ave. Members of Chi Delta Chi Sorority are invited to attend.

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On a pile of sand he places with meticulous concern A delightful little mat of rush, for now at every turn They are seen along the beaches just as if they really grew In a colorful array of green and yellow, rqd and blue.

Mrs. Leo Fesler Will Speak at Y. W. Luncheon

Mrs. Leo K. Fesler, self-expres-sion teacher at the Y. W. C. A., will talk on "A Hoosier in Texas,” at the luncheon discussion group of business and professional women at the city meeting informally in Y. W. C. A. Social Hall Wednesday noon under Y. W. C. A. auspices. Mrs. Fesler recently returned from the biennial convention of the Federation of Women’s Clubs, where she was a delegate from Indianapolis Mrs. Fesler will emphasize the Southern hospitality accorded the Hoosier delegates; suggesting the colorful, human interest nappenings of the trip, such as Southern oarbecue suppers, and entertainment by Mexican bands. All business women of the city are invited. Reservations should be made at the Y. W. C. A. before 9 a m. Wednesday.

PERSONALS

Mr. and Mrs. Lowell Smith Fisher, 1120 N. Pennsylvania St., and Mrs. Harriet Keefauver, 829 N. Pennsylvania St., have returned from spending the week end at the Shades and Turkey Run. Mr. and Mrs. Piccard ChalfontMeikel of Paris and London, left Monday for New York and will sail for France the latter part of this week. Miss Ruth Pattersen, 2259 Broadway, has returned from spending several days at Lake Manitou. Coolidges to Be Guests Mr. and Mrs. J. M. Studebaker 111, South Bend, will entertain President and Mrs. Coolidge Aug. 11 at their summer home, Wismo Club, Stone Lake, Wis., which will be the only public appearance of the President during his summer vacation. Shoiver for Bride Mrs. Frank Mindach 843 N. Jefferson St., entertained Saturday night with a surprise Miscellaneous shower in honor of her daughter, Bertha, whose marriage to Louis Dammrich Jr., son of Mr. and Mrs. Louis Dammrich, will take place Saturday. Boat Ride Dance Kappa Kappa alumnae were hostesses to the members of the active chapter, Indiana State, Terre Haute, for a boatrlde dance. Fetes Bride-Elect Mrs. Lee Hale entertained at ner home in Anderson, this afternoon with a bride party and miscellaneous shower in honor of Miss .Adrienne Manville whose marriage to Arnim Brandt. Okron, Ohio, will take place Saturday at Christ church here. the Abovee coupon, including 15 cents (coin preferred), and mailing it to the Pattern Department of The Times. Delivery is made in about a week.

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For Visitor Miss May Lybrand and her sister, Mrs. A. C. Moffitt will entertain with a bunco party Wednesday evening In honor of Miss Mary Shumaker, Washington.

He Gets Beach Ready for His Mother And Sister

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Close beside he has another, this a basket in design Filled with grapes and pears and oranges, an appetizing line; And beneath a big umbrella he has placed a folding chair Made of painted wood and figured duck, a piece they couldn’t spare.

MARYE and ‘MOM’ 9 9 9 THEIR LETTERS

Dear Mom: I’m certainly glad that I invested wisely and wildly In smart clothes before I left Mme. Elsie's shop, for I need all my war paint here. This hotel is filling up fast, and the majority of the population is of my own sex. I am surrounded by the most snappy and unscrupulous flappers and the most elegantly marcelled and groomed matrons, and it looks as if it were going to resolve itself into a matter of every woman for herself. Somehow, I had forgotten the fierce competition that goes on for the elusive male. For a while, I guess I have been riding high, and I haven’t felt it. And by my simple system of keeping Alan constantly on the alert looking out for me, he has had very little time to get into trouble himself. But here, I feel him slipping out of my hands. Undoubtedly all my work will be spoiled if we stay. What with Helen vamping him beautifully, and actually having reduced him to the point of subjection where he will run errands for her, and listen to singing, and with about three others in hot pursuit I long for the good old days when I used to come in with my face smashed up in another man’s car, and get a little attention myself. There is painfully little material for me here. Brother Shelton, whom I regard as my best bet, at the present time, is scarcely my ideal. He quite frankly disapproves of my language, my accent, my independence and my sunburn. He says I am abominably* educated, and have no accomplishments that really matter. And yet, he says I have the most classically cut head, and the best modelled features he has seen in years—and that I am full of unrealized talents and possibilities. It would have been much better for me, he thinks, to have had a career instead of having married, for now, he says, I will never be more than an enthusiast and a dabbler. What he is really doing, is trying hot to fall in :Ove with me. For in spite of not approving of me, he really likes me, and he fights against

Summer Furnishings More Lovely Than Ever For the Country or at the Shore Smart Cushions Quilted Bedspreads Chintz Chaise Lounge Covers Junior League Shop 158 East Fourteenth Street

Guest From California Entertained Miss Alice Henderson, Berkley, Cal., who is the guest of her sister, Mrs. Allen Maxwell, 5015 Central Ave., was guest of honor this afternoon when Miss Ann Burkert, 2942 Broadway, entertained at bridge. Miss Henderson will return home Friday. Summer flowers and appointments in pastel shades were used. The out-of-town guests were: Mrs. Mark Hampton, Plainfield; Misses Lois Mona and Marcia Dena Rushton, Plainfield; Miss Lucy Beddoe, Bedford; Miss Isabel Gauld, Crawfordsville; Misses Mary Williams and Alice Stage, Knightstown. Indianapolis guests included: Mesdames Wilbur Carter, Le Grand Cannon, Lowell Russell Hess, Charles Livingston Walker, Joseph Hartley, Allen Maxwell, Thomas Black and William Scheidler. Misses Frances Smith, Kathryn Stanley, Margaret Loer, Eugenia Harris, Jane Willis, Jane Messick, Henrietta Jungclaus, Josephine Duckwall, Mary Lee Orloff, Mary Ann Huggins. Marie Wagnon, Katherine Wacker, Frances Walters, Rebecca Jones, Mildred Cooke, Pauline Becker, Catherine Bigler and Dorothy Scheidler. Church Party Women of Holy Angels Church, Twenty-Eighth St. and Northwestern Ave., will entertain at euchre and lotto at 2:30 p. m. Wednesday.

the idea. Asa matter of principle, I must humble his proud spirit. That is why I am going with him tonight in his boat for a sail after dinner. ■'Anyhow, that will give Alan an excellent opportunity to listen to Helen’s troubles for a few hours. Perhaps if he hears enough of them, I may not be called on to lnterefere. Yours for trouble, MARYE. Children’s Party Forty-five children of the Sunny side sanitarium were entertained a lawn party Monday afternoon at the home of Mrs. Arthur Brumfield, 3210 N. Illinois St., with the Children’s Sunshine Club of Sunnyside as hostess. The children were brought in autos, with their regulation hospital attire, which does away with clothing from the waist up. A balloon man helped wtih the entertainment. Refreshments were served to the youngsters. Shoiver for Daughter Mrs. J. W. Wiese, 958 N. Denny St., entertained recently with a miscellaneous shower in honor of her daughter, Margaret, who will be married in August in Chicago, to E. F. Thompson. Cards and Bunco Women of St. Francis Church will entertiln at cards and bunco at 2:30 p. m. Thursday at TwentySecond St. and Avondale PI. For Bride-Elect Mrs. George H. Klstler and Miss Edelle Flanders entertained Monday evening at the home of their parents, Mr. and Mrs. W. H. Flanders, 4650 Cornelius Ave., with a dinner party in honor of Miss Mary McCune, whose marriage to Louis Bowman will take place Wednesday noon.

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EVENING FROCKS FOR SUMMER

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He can see his sister here and there on one and then another But he knows the roomy covered one will please his doting mother; So he places it exactly where she’ll get the nicest view Os the water and the sky, a lovely symphony in blue.

Prize Recipes by Readers

NOTE—The Times will ftive $1 for each recipe submitted by a reader adjudged of sufficient merit to be priited In this column. One recipe Is printed daily, except Friday, when twenty are given. Address Recipe Editor of The Times. Pr'zes will be mailed to winners. Checker Board Cake One-half cup lard, one cup sugar, • -ie an dtwo-thirds cup flour, one t ip milk, whites of three eggs, one .spoon vanilla, three level teaspoons baking powder, pinch of salt Cream the lard, add sugar gradually, add milk, sift dry ingredients together and add gradually. Beat egg whites until stiff and add slowly. Add the vanilla. Make the brown part the same way, but add two teaspoons coco) with the flour. This should make four layers. Put the brown batter in the center of two pans, place a ring of the white batter around it and then plqce a ring of the brown batter around the white. Bake in a moderate oven. Put the white batter in the center of the other two pans the brown ring next and the white last. Ice with a chocolate icing Alternate the layers when setting cake together or It won’t check. MRS, B. L. BRINSON 1613 S. Randolph. Indianapolis. Auxiliary Party La Velle Gossett Auxiliary, Veterans of Foreign Wars, will give a benefit card and bunco party Wednesday evening in the hall, W. Tenth St. and King Ave. Benefit Show Gamma Phi Rho Sorority is sponsoring a benefit performance at the Rivoli Theater Thursday and Friday nights.

BY HENRI BENDEL For NEA Service NEW YORK, July 17.—The summer evening frock would seem to be the simplest of all costumes to select and to plan, but contradictorally, it is not. For with chiffons and lacey frocks worn all day, k is quite difficult to achieve distinction in the evening, and all the heavier and richer fabrics which are so attractive rn the winter are completely out of the question in July and August. Practically all other consideiations must be sacrificed to coolness. Even the colors should be damty and delicate rather than rich and striking. The ideal summer evening gcwn has something of magic and moonlight in it, suggesting the gosainer weave of the fairies and the witchery of far-away places. Fortunately the occasions lor formal evening clothes are fewer during warm weather and elaborateness is less to be desired than sweetness and light. Three materials that may be depended upon to give the effect of glminess and coolness are lace, chiffon and tulle. Bride-Elect to Be Honored at Party Tonight Miss Helen Louise Wilson will entertain with a bridge party of fifteen tables this evening, honoring Miss Frances Peters, whose marriage to Frederick Ahrbecker will take place in August. She wiii be assisted by her mother, Mrs. George Wilson, and her sister, Mrs. Edgar Pattison, and Mrs. Oliver Hamilton. Garden flowers in pink and yellow will be used for the appointments. Out-of-town guests will be Mrs. Hugh Sample and Miss June jack-* son; Greenfield; Misses Mary Louise ' Larimore, Anderson; Florence Eleanor Perkins, Lebanon; Gayle W.xlker, Annabelle Parr, Lebanon; Lillian Decker, Newcastle, and Evelyn Seward, Columbus. Editor Here Mrs. Alice Booth Bartwell, Hew York, who has been visiting Mrs. Y. C. Weir, 801 N. Pennsylvania St., will return home Wednesday. Mrs. Bartwell is assistant editor of Good Housekeeping. Mrs. Weir will leave Friday to visit Mrs. Joseph Swain in Philadelphia, Pa

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Shower and Party Given Bride-to-Be Miss Rebecca Jones, 2527 Broadway, entertained Monday evening with a kitchen shower and bridge party to honor Miss Marie Wagnon whose marriage to George Hoster will take place the first of August. Garden flowers were used in the home and at serving time kitchen appointments were carried out in the white and green checkered lunch cloths on the tables. The centerpieces of the tables were ; ink potted geraniums and the ices were served in tiny flower pots. The hostess was assisted by her mother, Mrs. Frank C. Jones. The guests were: Mesdames Arthur B. Wagnon and James Perry Hoster; Misses Alice Wagnon, Mildred- Cooke, Dorotha Weaver, Alice Carter, Frnaces Smith, Jane Mes- - sick Lenore Brandt Alice Ball Ruth McKenzie Martha Baker, Dorothy Hancock, Jean Davis, Priscilla Dernier, Eleanor Dunn, Frances Philips, Frances Peters, Helen and Elizabeth DeGrief and Marjorie Holtsclaw, Los Angeles, Cal. Reservation List Given for Show The following have already made reservations for the Alpha Chi . Omega benefit show to be given at Keith’s theater by the Stuart Walker Company Monday. The first performance of “Nightstick;” * Messers and Mesdames Don U. Bridge, L. G. Wild. James M. Ogden. Ralph B. Clark, Claus H. Best, Orville Hlxon, Robert A. Wolfe, T M. Rybolt. H. L. CUpptnger, Stanley Green, Harry Shipman, Earl Trimpe, Harold Barclay. Kurt Ehlert. EuSene Pursel. Hubert X,. Wann, Rav D. lames. Edward Rice, Charles A. Rockwell, A. H. Helt, J. G. Barclay, Clarence Weaver. L. W. Thompson. H. A. Elkins. Doctor and Mesdames C. E. Cottlngham, Joseph Buck, John Paul Jones, Robert W. Blake. Messrs. Marvin Cochrane, Wade Price, Robert Boyer, Thomas Everson, Edward Rice Jr. Mesdames R. G. Wilkinson, William Mendenhall. Caroline T. Hall. Misses Nora Pharcs. Mildred Blacklidge. Geraldine Keep. Esther Yancey. Thelma King. Katherine Cyran. LaDonna Lamb, Bettv Mendenhall, Eleanor Benedict, Margaret Barlet. Gertrude Wvsong. Katherine Herrod. Lucinda Smith. Katherln* Smith, Vtrginla Curtis. Dorothy Patterson. Robert Tompkins, Eleanor Coryell, Wallace Montague, Grace Martlndale. Isabel Wilkinson. Golden Wedding Mr. and Mrs. Theobold Schmitt, Eox 704, R. R. 5, will celebrate alieir fiftieth wedding anniversary Wednesday at 9 a. m. at St. Roch’s Church, 3600 S. Meridian St. They are both natives of Germany, but have lived in Indianapolis fortyeight years. They have five daughters, two sons and thirty-six grandchildren.

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