Indianapolis Times, Volume 40, Number 44, Indianapolis, Marion County, 12 July 1928 — Page 6

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Home Life Changes to Keep Pace With Times, But Isn't Disappearing BY MARTHA LEE 44T T OME life is disappearing!” That is one of the favorite a* n cries against modernism, whatever that means, that is raised year in and year out by innumerable persons who are making a study of present conditions. Os course, the old home life, when the family gathered around the library table and looked at stereopticon slides has gone. In those days diversion for a whole family was nearly

impossible to find outside the home. I will admit that there are thousands of distractions where twenty-five years ago there were only ten, and for this reason unified home life is correspondingly more difficult to realize. Just a Home Not Enough But more times than T it, lack of home life in a family is the result of a disagreeable atmosphere in’ the home. So many parents seem to feel that if they have provided a house with some furniture that it is sufficient—that their responsibility ceases there. Never was there a more mistaken idea. In these frantic times when youngsters are beset with temptations, their parents never even knew existed, there is a crying need for “temptation” to keep the children in the home, where they may pursue their pleasures under guidance of parents. Make your home atmosphere pleasant. No matter how poorly the home may be furnished, a friendly and hospitable atmosphere can make the place glow like a lighted palace. Give your children and your children’s friends reasons for wanting to come to your home for an evening’s amusement. Need for Will Power Os course, there are unpleasant things to contend with down at the office and the factory all day and, of course, the children are apt to be a bit noisy and I know that these two things do not go r. ell together at all. But a case of jigged nerves that can.be calmed with a little will power is much better than having the worry and disquietude of wondering if your children are all right. And parents, do-try to remember that you were once young—that you liked to have friends—that you liked to dance. And if you didn’t like those things yourself, try to be in sympathy with the times. Don’t try to shackle your children to your apronstrings and suspender straps. Give them the wholesome freedom that they deserve. These things were brought to mind by a touching letter from an 18-year-old girl, who is bothered, not by one of these problems, but both of them! And then another one too. That of having disagreements and wrangling in her home between her parents, which is, I think, too much to ask any humai to stand. Here is the letter: Dear Miss Lee: I am a girl nearly 18. I live at home, but my home life is terrible. Mv father is always fussing. We never have company on that aijfcount and my mother seldom leaves the house. I have begged her to leave my father, but she says she can't because of the younger children that she could not support. She is killing herself trying to make the children and my father happy. 1 am young and like to have a good time, but that is Impossible as ms father hardly ever allows me to go out and when he does I can't enjoy myself, because I know he is at home ouarreling with my mother or will ouarrei with me when X get home. <L The other day I told him X would leave home as soon as I got the money and since then he only speaks to me when he is forced to or when he wants to know something. I have stayed for mother’s sake, but will leave if there isn’t some sort of change. What shall X do? UNDECIDED. It is horrible that you are forced to live in such an atmosphere, my dear, but you are so young to stait cut for yourself. Your mother needs you badly, too, much more than you need the freedom that leaving home would give to you. Can you not talk with your father and explain the situation to him? You are evidently working, and must, through this fact have some sort of financial independence. Make him appreciate your feeling in the matter. ' t

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By ALLENE SUMNER Our neighbors, the Joneses, have been forced to sell their modest but attractive little SB,OOO home and rent light housekeeping rooms at $25 a month because Tom Jones was in the hospital for six months, and the cost of his illness plus no income made it utterly impossible to keep up Xie mortgage payments. There, in its crudest form, is just a sample of what the problem of illness means to hundreds of thousands of middle-class Americans every year. * # Hundreds of articles have been written about the seriousness of the high cost of illness to the man who is neither rich nor poor, but few panaceas have been offered. But in a current magazine article called “Group Practice in Medicine,” Dr. Joseph Collins, eminent neurologist, author of “The Doctor Looks at Love and Life,” sets forth a real program which sounds feasible, and a real answer. He says: ‘“Big business’ has been in the saddle in this country for more than a generation. Nearly every industry, every great institution, every profession has been subjected to organization save medicine. An individual can practice medicine successfully but not satisfactorily. “In the first place, the field Is too extensive for him to survey alone and the equipment required for its cultivation is too varied and complex for one man to operate. In the second place, the price the patient has to pay for individual medical service is a hardship for the majority, and particularly for those of the so-called middle class. "For It is true that the man w;ho is neither rich nor poor—the self-respecting, self-supporting, substantial member of the community —is often denied the medical service to which he is entitled because he cannot afford it. The trouble is not the physician exacts a fee beyond the patient’s means, but that the patient must go to so many physicians before he can find out/ wfjat is the matter with him, and

Miss Judy and M. J. Wolleman Wed at Church Miss Dorothy Judy, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Charles E. Judy, 1019 N. King Ave., and Dr. Max J, Wolleman were married Wednesday morning at St. Anthony’s Church by the Rt. Rev. Bishop Joseph Chartrand. Miss Mary Helen Brooks, organist, played bridal airs before the ceremany and Miss Gertrude Whelan sang “Ave Maria.” The attendants were Miss Mary McGinty, maid of honor, and Misses Hazen Hawes and Catherine Gill. Miss McGinty wore orchid taffeta and carried butterfly roses, Miss Hawes wore yellow taffeta and carried sunburst roses and Miss Gill was in green taffeta with premier roses. They wore picture hats to match their dresses. Little Dorothy Wilheiter, flower girl, wore pink chiffon. William Greener, cousin of the bride, was best man, and Mary Judy and Sylvester Fleig were ushers. The bride, given in marriage by her father, wore a dress of white taffeta and lace with tulle veil held in place by a cap of Chantilly lace and chinstrap of seed pearls. She carried a shower of bride’s roses and Valley lilies. A breakfast at the home of the bride followed the ceremony. The table was arranged with a wedding cake on a plateau of roses and daisies lighted with orchid and yello wtapers. Dr. and Mrs. Wolleman have gone on a trip.

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* ! Urges Flat Heels and Corsets for Business Women By United Press NEW ORLEANS, La., July 12. Corsets and flat heels are necessary for the business woman, because of the growing importance of feminine charm as a background for j big business, Miss Mary Walker, New York stylist, believes. In an address before the National Federation of Business and Professional Women here. Miss Walker declared: “The business woman of today must be corseted and flat heeled. Strictly tailored business women are antiquated, ugly and impossible. Becomingness, practicality ana economy are the thre graces of modern woman’s working garb, and the greatest of these is becomingness.” Forecasting fall styles, Miss Walker indicated they will show an increased fullness of skirts, with gathers, pleats and circular effects, and more variety of neckline. “High heels give a woman less chance for correct appearance than a Chinese woman would have with her bound feet,” Miss Walker said. The stylist urged women to emphasize womanly charm in dress “for success in business.” The tailored woman with high collars and graceless suits is a manifestation of slavish immitation of men, she said. Observe Anniversary Mr. and Mrs. Green Northern, near Shelbyville, observed their fifty-first wedding anniversary Mon-, day, by working about the home where they have lived during their entire married life. Their son, the Rev. Golden Northern, and family were with them to celebrate the day. Breakfast-Bridge Asa part of the summer social activities of the Delaware Country Club, of Muncie, a breakfast bridge party was given this morning at the club house: Summer flowers and greenery formed the setting for the party. Back Panel An afternoon frock of gray figured chiffon has a back collar of pleated chiffon, lace edged, that extends like a panel clear below the frock’s hem. Baked Egg Plant Eggplant is deliicous when baked. Peel, cut in squares, put in layers in a baking dish and season with butter, salt and paprika and bake. Dustless Sweeping Soak old newspapers in water, tear into bits and sprinkle over carpets before sweeping. They absorb the dirt and dust. Chamois Gloves When washing chamois gloves, add a teaspoonful of olive oil to the water. This keeps them soft and pliable. Pointed Cape A yellow flowered chiffon evening gown has a cape back that points below the waist line. The circular skirt points similarly to the floor. Keep the sun off your porch. Buy the 18-ft. awning advertised for only $lO in tonight’s miscellaneous for sale want ad.

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MARYE and ‘MOM’ • m m THEIR LETTERS

Dear Mary: I was delighted to get your last letter, even though I have been slow about answering it. You see, I have been having company. Cousins Grace and Mabel have been here since last Friday, and I have been very busy entertaining them. As you know, this is rather difficult. Whenever I am with them very long, I always am glad that you are as you are, even if you worry me to death at times. For you may find yourself some day. and If you don’t, you at least will have made an effort to do so. Both Grace and Mabel are over 40 now, and neither has ever had any great happiness or achieved anything that required any effort. They did not marry, though they had excellent opportunities in their youth: they never wanted to work, nor never seemed to have any motivation in their lives. They belong to the generation that did not work unless it had to. Their parents would have considered it a reflection upon their standing, had their daughters wanted to work. I remember they always were held up to the rest of the family as such ideal girls—they always did just what their parents told them to. But today they are tragic women. Their lives are absolutely empty, In spite of good incomes, a comfortable home, and no pressing worries. They seem to me to hata missed everything important in life, and not to know what they missed. Now that their parents are dead they live in that big house in Centerville, and were quite shocked when I suggested that they move into anew, modern apartment. They would consider that sacriligious, even though they have great trouble Jceeping help, and that old place is inconvenient and hard to keep up. Grace would like to adopt a child, but Mable thinks that would be more than they could tackle between them. So they just continue to live on, in the least eventful fashion, making as much effort over buying anew coat or anew range as the average woman would to bringing up a family. I think in the future there will be fewer such tragic figures among middle-aged women, because the young people today have more curiosity and courage, and more of a sense of the importance of achievement. They sent their love to you, and were much interested in your life in the city. And encouragement from you doubtless would bring them for a visit. I think it would

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Recent Bride Honored at Bridge Fete Miss Josephine Duckwall, Noblesville, and Miss Henrietta Jungclaus entertained with a bridge party this afternoon at the home of Miss Jungclaus, 5751 Central Ave., in honor of Mrs. Le Grand Cannon, who before her marriage was Miss Helen Louise West, Chicago. The house was decorated with roses, delphinium and daisies and appointments for the party were in the same colors. The guests were Mesdames C. T. Walker, William Shideler. J. W. Hartley, William H. Jungclaus, L. R. Hess and R. M. Riker of New York; Misses Lucy Beddoe, Bedford: Isabelle Gauld and Caroline Gauld, Crawfordsville; Eleanor Snavely, Marshall, Jll.; Mary Williams, Knightstown; Alice Stage. Knightstown: Sarah Crouch and Helen Foster, Fortville; Mary Jo Springer, Kokomo; Evelyn Causer, Cleveland, Ohio; Ann Burkert, Frances Smith, Pauline Becker, Alice Ball. Marie Wanon, Kathleen Biegler, Dorothy Shideler, Jane Griffith, Hilda Griffith, Dorothy Jane Hartman, Delight Baxter, Jane Messick, Frances Walter and Betty Cannon.

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The soft collar caught with pink and white gardenias is an interesting note on a black .crepe satin dress for fall. be kind of you to invite them to your home some day. A little life would do them good. I hope you continue to have a happy summer. MOM. Bridge Honors Sister Mrs. Lawrence F. Orr, 344 Blue Ridge Rd., entertained Wednesday with an afternoon bridge party honoring her sister, Mrs. Frank Bond, Lawrenceburg. The guests were Mesdames Margaret Dietrich, Lawrenceburg: J. D. Thicker, Guy Hayes, Lawrence R. Cartwright, Fred Connell, Henry A. Mewborn, A. N. Bobbitt, A. P. Houck, Mark Rhoads and L. C. Adams, New Albany.

PERSONALS

Mrs. Wallace C. Payne and daughter Helen, 5631 University Ave., will leave Monday to spend three weeks in Leland, Mich. Carl Gustav Seashore, Omaha, Neb., who has been visiting them, has returned home. Mrs. Riles Chapman Is spending some time in New York.

Bride-Elect of July 18 Entertained Misses Helen and Minna Margaret Lauter, 304 Washington Blvd., entertained this afternoon with a luncheon-bridge party and miscellaneous shower in honor of Miss Lenore Henkle, who will be married to their brother, Herman H. Lauter, July 18. Appointments were in green and violet and flowers formed the centerpieces of each luncheon table. A decorated parasol .held the gifts. Covers were laid for Mesdames John M. Caylor, Henry L. Dlthmer Jr., Cecil Crabb, Lehmann Dunning, Alfred Glossbrenner, Maurice Hansen, Frank Abel, Addison King, Alfred Seidensticker, Harold Bunce and Adolph Seidensticker and Misses Marjorie Goldrick, Mary Lee Orlopp, Minnie Abel, Jeanetta Watson, Emily Brossman, Virginia Foxworthy, Alma Lucas, Helen Robinson, Elizabeth Hayes, Suzanne Kolhoff, Ineva Reilly and Anna C. Gardner. Clean Ice Box Never put food loose In an Ice box. Use dishes for everything, or bags, and your ice box will stay clean.

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Bridge Fete for Two Brides in Recent Weddings Mrs. Frank Harvey Cox and Mrs. George W. Poston, two recent brides, were honor guests this afternoon when Miss Mary Gertrude Manley, 5105 Washington Blvd., entertained at bridge. The home was arranged with bouquets of garden flowers, and the hostess was assisted by her mother, Mrs. James E. Manley. The guests were: Mesdtmes Frank Ward, E. T. Severn, John Waldo and Lester Smith, and Misses Helen Barrett, Mary Catherine Coulter, Frances Martin, Frances Krieg and Jean and Florence Sutherland, Chicago. Fetes Visitor Mrs. Edgar B. Sheets, 718 N. Linwood Ave., entertained with a luncheon bridge party today in honor of Mrs. Monte Needier Marion. The table was arranged with shel’. pink and white and pink sweet peas, and tapers tied with pink tulle formed the centerpiece Covers were laid for Mesdames Monte Needier, Earl Halstead, Raymond Dietz, Joseph Murray, Sylvester Reed, Carl Kreis, Hovey Skelton and E. M. Hoyth. Luncheon, Cards Mrs. Everett Stoelting, 208 N. Walcott St., entertained at luncheon and cards Wednesday honoring her mother, Mrs. David Fessler, Hollywood, Fla. The house was decorated with garden flowers and the centerpiece of the table was a bouquet of the flowers In a green bowl. Rozelle-Fisher Miss Bernice Wellington and Miss Lucille Rector, both of Anderson, will entertain Friday in honor of Miss Laura Fisher, whose marriage to Harold Rozelle will take place Aug. 11. For Bride-Elect Miss Alice Daffler, Richmond, entertained recently with* a party in honor of Miss Virginia Righter, Richmond, and Howard J. Leichner, Indianapolis, who will be married Friday.

BERET RETURNS

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The first fall tendencies assure the return of the beret. Patou’s new beret is of beige valour, self trimmed with a bow. Honeymoon on Horseback Mr. and Mrs. J. Wesley Wilburn, near Kokomo, celebrated their sixty-first wedding anniversary at their home Thursday and recalled the wedding trip on horseback which they took sixty-one years ago. They have spent their entire lives in the neighborhood where they now live.

Prize Recipes . by Readers

NOTE:—Th# Times will slve )1 for each recipe submitted by a reader adMos sufficient merit to be printed 3 column. One recipe is printed daily, except Friday, when twenty are given. Address Recipe Editor of The Times. Prizes will be mailed to winners. Green Corn Gems Put two cups green corn through food chopper, then add one-fourth cup milk and two well beaten eggs; add two cups flour in whlcn hat been sifted three teaspoons baking powder, one teaspoon salt and oneeighth teaspoon pepper; mix well. Drop in hot grtosed gem pans and bake in hot oven about twenty-five minutes. LILLIAN BAKER, Amo, Ind. NELLE WINDERS GIVEN DINNER BRIDGE PARTY A group of young women friends of Miss Nelle C. Winders, who will be married this evening to Clarence W. Ryan, entertained with a fried chicken dinner and bridge party at Horseshoe Lodge, Noblesville, Wednesday evening, in her honor. The affair was also a miscellaneous shower. Sweet peas were used on the tables. The guests were Mrs. Glenn Drumm and Mrs. Harry Higby, Arcadia; Mrs. F. C. Ellis and Misses Edna Gardner, Katherine King, Ruth, Mabel and Helen Gorman, Mildred Burger, Gladys Cox and Mary Webber. Attend Party Mrs. Robert Armer, Mrs. Beryelle Kitch, Misses Virginia and Clara Foxworthy, Edith Hubbard, Virginia Graham and Emily Brossman attending the party given in Plainfield Wednesday by Miss Lois Mona Rushton in honor of Miss Virginia Foxworthy, whose marriage to Brewer Graham will take place July 21.

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Miss Henkel Is Bride in . Church Rite The marriage of Miss Helen Henkel, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Robert Henkel, 4426 College Ave., and Fred D. Dorner, Middletown, Ohio, son of Mr. and Mrs. Fred E. Dorner, Lafayette, took place this'morning at the Tabernacle Presbyterian Church with Dr. J. Ambrose Dunkel officiating. Palms and a large basket of white flowers formed the decoration at the altar. Preceding the ceremony Mrs. Ralph Jones, sister of the bridegroom, played the harp. Mrs. Arthur Cline as matron of honor, wore a gown of flesh colored lace trimmed in pink velvet ribbon with hat to match. She carried, pink roses. Miss Florence Seider was maid of honor and wore a gown of green chiffon with hat to match and- also carried looses. ’ The bride wore ivory bridal satin fashioned with tight basque waist and full skirt trimmed in cream colored Chantilly lace. A .bit of tpa lace formed the cape of the which was caught with orange bk s soms at the back. She carried <- bridal bouquet of roses and lilies of the valley. Charles W. Jones was best maxj and the ushers were Robert Stockwell, Arthur Cline, C. W. Shaw, of Middletown, 0., and Ralph Jones of Aurora, 111. An informal reception at thd church followed the ceremony, aftei which the couple left on a tript north and will be*at home after Sept. 1 at 250714 Central Ave., Middletown. The bride traveled In ff, dark printed crepe dress with darla. blue coat and red hat. Entertains for Margaret James, to Wed July 19 Miss Margaret James, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. David J. James* who will be married July 19 to Wendell J. Brown, Chicago, was honor guest this afternoon when Mrs. Charles R. James and Mrs. Edward David James entertained at the home of the latter, 135 Johnson Ave., with a luncheon bridge party. Each table was arranged with a bouquet of summer flowers, which were also used throughout the, house, Covers were laid for Miss James, her mother and Mesdames Robert and Richmond Bastian, Maurice Stephenson, John F. Kurfiss Jr., Mathew Farson, Stanley Green, Thomas Shimer, Dale Hodges, Marie Parker, S. M. Weesner, Telford Orbison and George H. Kingsbury and Misses Florence Lup-, ton, Betty De Hass, Uene Harryman and Katherine Belzer. MRS. ZOBBE HOSTESS FOR BRIDGE PART 3 Mrs. Wilbur A. Zobbe entertainej the Tau Gamma sorority and friend Wednesday evening with a bridgj party, in honor of Mrs. Stanley Cas, tor, Misses Alice May Stevens, HelW Shepherd and Gladys Bainaka. 1 With the guests of honor werej Misses Nigel Haley, Louise Gas kins, Helen Adams, Ruth Bowman Helen Carpenter, Ruth Mason, Syl via Yohler, Louie Breedlove, Geij aldine Barker and Juanita Shafeij Mesdames Benjamin Barrick, Rog er Lowry, Albert Burkhardt, R. Rooj and George Weed. , < Mrs. Zobbe was assisted by Mrj Roger Lowry and Miss Ldu.e Breed love.

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