Indianapolis Times, Volume 40, Number 41, Indianapolis, Marion County, 28 June 1928 — Page 6

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Parents Spare Rod Until Really Needed Whippings Become Things of Past By MARTHA LEE SADLY enough, parents are forgetting how to wield the rod. , After apparently finding out ho tv often they spoiled the tvrong child in doing so, they have abandoned the game altogether until we seldom hear any more of the beaten up, abused, or merely ‘ ‘ punished' ’ son or daughter. Parents are right inasmuch as the wrong child was more

often than not a victim of old correcting system. They were more than wise when they left o'? entirely rather than face the appalling results; and not until they learn when and who and for what to whip they should never raise another stick. Only recently have parents thought it any part of their business to measure the temperaments of their own children coldly and impartially. Those who do so find that some children demand a literal beating and others a psychological cne. Once a parent discovers which kind his child needs, he has solved half the problem. The headstrong, loud mouthed, disrespectful boy or girl whe refuses to be checked or hindered or suggested to Is a little bully and will respond to nothing except bullying. They need to be hurt physically before they know that there is a will in the world stronger or more important than their own. This type cf child is, by no means, hopelessly bad. He is just bursting with uncurbed energy which, with a little regulation, can be utilized for later social and business purposes. It is a nervous, sensitive, but stubborn child which needs gentler but no less firm treatment. Whipping usually will not break the wili; it will only lower the morale and make him more stubborn and morose. He is offended emotionally in such a way that he hasn't felt the beating. He can be appealed to and reasoned with but not driven. The 'day of real sound parental thrashings is and should not be over. But the day has come when ignorance of the law governing correct punishment will excuse no parent. Dear Martha Lee: I am the mother of a bov 16. He has worried me nearly to death since entering high school and I seem to have lost all control of him. His father is busy and besides, has told me that I can manage my own child or should be able to do so. Mv bov speaks crossly and disrespectfully to both of us when we Question him about continual going out at night.. I know he gets into cars with other bovs and leaves town. Some nights he doesn't get in at all. I'm afraid he < will get killed or get into some serious trouble. His father promised that he would whip him for me, but I do not know whether that would be the thin* to do. It might make him worse. Do you think so? WORRIED MOTHER. I should say that your boy is the bully type—not bad necessarily, but one to benefit greatly by a sound thrashing from his father. Make him know first all your righteous reasons for whipping him and you are going to be repaid in full for all your effort.

Dear Martha Lee: Will you answer these questions? What should you say to a bov after he has brought you home from an entertainment? Is it correct to buy a birthday present for a bov? If so. what? Also. i3 It correct to thank a boy for bringing you home? SAL^Y. If you have had a good time, tell the boy sc. If not, merely thank him for taking you. Yes, it would be all right to buy a present for a boy friend if you hove known him a long time and he is, in some way, a special friend. Otherwise, it would be very unnecessary. In any case it would not be wise or in good taste to buy an expensive present. It is correct always to thank anyone for any act of kindness. However, a girl need not thank a boy if he takes her out steadily every night.

Party in Friday Nuptials Guests atL. A. Cox Home Mr. and Mrs.-Linton A. Cox, 2003 N. Meridian St., entertained Wednesday evening in honor of Miss Catherine Schmidt and their son, Frank Harvey Cox, whose marriage will take place Friday. The refectory table held as a centerpiece a silver bcwl of pink roses and delphinium and was lighted with pink tapers in silver holders. The small tables held bowls of pink and blue flowers. The guests, members of the two families were: Messrs, and Mesdames Gustave G. Schmidt, Guy Wainwright, E. G. Cox, Thomas Harvey Cox, L. B. Whitaker, I. H. Hathaway, Peter ~C. Reilly and Messrs. Raymond Schmidt, Horace and William Cox.

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BY SISTER MARY BREAKFAST Strawberries, cereal, cream, creamed smoked halibut, combination muffins, milk coffee. LUNCHEON— Scalloped new cabbage with tomatoes, toasted muffins, radishes, fruit cup, luncheon cakes, milk, tea. DINNER —Broiled veal steak, new potatoes in cheese sauce, grilled carrots, vegetable and bacon salad, lemon sponge pie, milk, coffee. Four tablespoons cornmeal are added to three-fourths cup white flour to make the breakfast muffins. This proportion of meal and flour makes a light soft muffin pleasantly flavored but not crumbly. Fruit cup can be used as an appetizer if chilled orange juice is added and the bananas are omitted. Fruit Cup One cup halves of strawberries one cup diced orange, one cup sliced bananas, one cup shtedded fresh pineapple, one cup powdered sugar Sprinkle sugar- through the fruit, shaking the bowl rather than stirring the fruit mixture. Stirring will crush the fruit and spoil its Chill for at least |wo hours before serving. Serve in Masses or halves of oranges from the pulp has been removed the shells scrapped clean.

Hadassah Session Being Attended by City Women Among local women to attend the annual convention of the Hadassah, the "-/omen’s Zionistic organization of America in Pittsburgh, Pa., this week are: Mrs. Samuel A. Frommer, Mrs. I. A. Goodman, Mrs. A. Goodman, Mrs. Harry Colien and Mrs. Louis Grossman, delegates; Mrs. Isaac Wold, Mrs. W. Fink, Mrs. L. Victorhaus, Mrs. Sol Rosen, Mrs. R. Domont and Mrs. Henry Brill, alternates. A budget in excess of $600,000 for the maintenance ,of five hospitals, eighteen clinics, and an equal number of pre-natal and post-natal clinics, milk stations and ambulatory dispensaries, for the urban and rural population of Palestine, will be presented for ratification fft the delegates at the convention which opened Wednesday. More than 600 delegates representing chapters in 293 American cities, with a membership of 37,000, are participating.

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Beatrice Stumph Becomes Bride of E. J. Heartig Miss Beatrice Louise Stumph, daughter of Mrs. Nellie E. Stumph 3531 E. New York St., and Ernest Joseph Heartig, son of Mr. and Mrs. William Heartig, took place Wednesday morning at 8:30 at St. Marks English Lutheran Church with the Rev. Reiner Benting officiating The altar was arranged with palms, ferns and pink roses. Mrs. O. H. Dunn, organist, played and Crawford Barker sang “I Love You Truly” and “At Dawning.” Walter Blase was best man and the ushers were Edwin Ristow, Wilbur Roesner, John Polter, Alfred Belles and Fred Stamnitz. Miss Dorothy Allen and Miss Juanita Bramblett were bridesmaids and the bride’s sister, Miss Mildred Stumph, maid of honor. Deloris Swoboda, in frock of yellow chiffon, was flower girl. The bridesmaids’ gowns were of chiffon with basque waists and full skirts. Miss Allen wore apple green and Miss Bramblett wore orclfid- They carried arm bouquets of summer flowers. Miss Stumph, maid of honor, wore pink taffeta fashioned in robe de style, the skirt of which was faced with a wide band of apple green. She carried an arm bouquet of pink roses. Artie L. Stumph, the bride's oldest brother, gave her in marriage. She were a period gowri of white bridal satin with a long tiered full pVirt. Her tulle veil was arranged with a band of lace across the top and at the left ride was a cluster of crange blossoms. The train cf the veil was caught with x of orange blossoms. She carried bride’s roses. A reception at the home of the bride’s mother followed the service, after which Mr. and Mrs. Heartig left for a wedding trip and will be at home at 87 N. Brookville Rd.

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NOTE—The Times will give SI for each recipe submitted by a reader adjudged of sufficient merit to be printed in this column. One recipe is printed daily, except Friday, when twenty are given. Address Recipe Editor of The Times. Prizes will be mailed to winners. Strawberry Cream Puffs Boil one-half cup butter and one cup water and sift in one cup flour. Cook until thick, turn in mixing bowl and beat in three eggs and mix thoroughly. Drop from spoon on greased tins and bake twenty-five minutes in hot oven. Stir strawberries in whipped cream, split the baked puffs, fill with mixture, and sprinkle with confectioner’s sugar. GERTRUDE J. LAMAR. Gosport, Ind. Truncheon Bridge Mrs. J. A. Biggie entertained the Daughters of the Nile with a lunch-eon-bridge today at her home, 2515 College Ave., assisted by Mrs. Harry C. Ent, arrangement chairman. Other assistant hostesses were. Mesdames William Ltndholm, Fred Uhl, E. F. Wimans, Charles Brautigan, Clarence Green, Arthur Stanford and Milton Hodgins. Bridge for Visitor Mrs. William E. Youngman, 3030 E. New York St., entertained this afternoon with a bridge party in honor of Miss Alma Youngman of Detroit. The guests with Miss Youngman were Mrs. Robert Wands, Mrs. Robert Taylor, Mrs. William Sering, Mrs. Jimmie Messier, Mrs. Grove Weisenberger and Mrs. Brooks Hendrickson. Dance Honors Daughter Mr. and Mrs. Charles O; Roemler will entertain with a dance at the Indianapolis Country Club Monday evening for their daughter, Miss Jane, who will leave July 5 for Ogonto camp at Sugar'Hill, N. H. Social Club Party St. Patrick’s Social Club will entertain at bunco and cards in the school hall. Prospect and Hunter Sts., at 2:30 p. m. Friday. >- Mrs. Martin A. Barnett, Charleston, W. Va., is th£ guest of her daughter, Mrs. A. F. Barnett, 2360 N. Pennsylvania St., and her granddaughter, Mrs. James V. Rawlings, Jr., 5730 E. Washington St.

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MARYE and ‘MOM’ gum THEIR LETTERS

Dearest Mom—Just when I think you are a modem woman, and that I have you educated to speak my language, you backslide so fast I completely lose you. Your last letter reminded me that there is no theory with which I have less sympathy than that wjfich prescribes a baby as a cure remedy for keeping a woman happy and a home intact. If Alan and I can’t adjust our troubles now, I don’t see why adding a third member to the menage would particularly help matters, except to make it rather tough on the child occasionally. And if we have difficulty reconciling Our temperaments and tastes, certainly a child who might inherit my recklessness and Alan’s smugness, and have them both to contend within himself, as well as having parents always pulling in opposite directions, might just as well give up the game entirely.

I have taken no stand against motherhood. But let this be understoci—if Alan and I have a child, it will be because we want it, and really believe we can do right by it—and because we are willing to sacrifice for it. We won’t expect any child to do for us what we didn’t have character enough to do for ourselves. We’ll be .pretty sure our home can exist without the child, before we take any chances on giving it a bum deal. And I was a bit surprised that you could change your whole idea of Stella, just because you saw her with a baby and realized she could sterilize bottles as well as drive fifty miles an hour. Just because she was what you call “wild,” meaning she had lots life and energy, you assumed she couldn’t possibly have any of the gentler and more womanly qualities. Asa matter of fact, Stella always was a brick and a square shooter if I ever met one. Naturally she’d make a good mother, because she’s too good a sport not to give everyone a fair deal—even* baby. Here I’ve allowed myself to become quite worked up on this subject, and I’ve ranted on at such length that I can’t take time to tell you about the handsome gentleman, mentioned in my previous epistle. Well, there is nothing like suspense to hold interest and whet the appetite for further developments. So my own personal adventures will have to be continued in our ne*t. Place your order early and don’t miss a chapter of our super thriller —Can She Win?—the story of a country girl in a big city. Loads of love. MARYE.

MARIE MEID IS WED IN HOME CEREMONY A home wedding was that of Miss Marie Agnes Meid, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Frank Meid, 538 W. Twenty-Ninth St., and James Gardner McNett, Glen Cove, L. 1.,, son of Mrs. Emma J. McNett, Greenville, S. C., which took place Wednesday afternoon. Palms, ferns and summer flowers formed the background where the Rev. Edward Haines Kistler performed the ceremony. Mrs. F. C. Walker sang, accompanied by Mrs. M. D. Didway. Miss Helen Franke, wearing sea green chiffon and carrying pink roses, was the bride’s only attendant. The bride, given in marriage by her father, wore white chiffon and carried a shower of bride’s roses and lilies of the valley. Donald Meid, cousin of the bride, was best man. Peggy Meid, her niece, was flower girl. She wore pink organdie and carried a basket of roses. A reception followed the ceremony. A wedding cake, forming the centerpiece of the bridal table, was on a plateau of roses. Mr. and Mrs. McNett left on a motor trip east and will be at home at Glen Cove. The bride traveled in a dark blue crepe dress trimmed in angora. Wed at Richmond Miss Alice Lenore Jones daughter of Mr. and Mrs. E. E. Jones, Richmond, and Rev. Guy G. Girton, Redkey, were married Wednesday evening at Richmond. They will live in Redkey.

Hospital Aid Body Honors NewDirector Covers were laid for 225 members of the Riley Hospital Cheer Guild and friends at the breakfast in the Sley room cf the Claypool Hotel is morning to honor Dr. Edward T. Thompson, newly appointed administrator of Indiana University hospitals. Dr. Burton Dorr Myers, assistant dean cf the I. U. medical school, speke and Mrs. Victor Hintzs, accompanied by Mrs. James W. Carr, sang. Joseph Stubbs gave a marimba solo. Mrs. Martha Stubbs, chairman of the breakfast, was toastmistress. Mrs. John F. Ward is president cf the guild. Pink rambler roses and delphinium were used in bouquets on the tables. Following the breakfast the guests made a tour of the hospitals. Marie O'Connor and J. K. Carey Wed at Church St. Joan of Arc Church was the scene Wednesday morning of the marriage of Miss Marie O’Connor, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. T. E O'Connor and John Kenneth Carey, son of JamesJj. Carey. Glens Falls, N. Y. The Rev. James H. Ryan, Washington, D. C„ read the ceremony before an altar banked with palms and lighted with cathedral candles. Miss Marie Moore, organist, played and Harry Calland sang. Mrs. William Helt, sister of the bride, wearing yellow taffeta with picture hat to match and carrying Butterfly roses, was matron of honor. Miss Lucille, O’Connor, another sister, as maid of honor, wore jade green taffeta combined with lace, with hat to match and carried pink roses. Little Joan Cudworth was flower girl and wore white chiffon. She carreid a basket of summer flowers. Glenn O’Connor, brother of the bride, was best man and William Helt and Robert Nichols were ushers. The bride was given in marriage by her father and wore a gown of white taffeta combined with tulle. Her tulle veil arranged with cap of duchesse lace, was caught with orange blossoms and she carried a shower of bride’s roses and lilies of the valley. A breakfast in the gold room of the Marott followed the ceremony Appointments were carried out in the bridal colors, green and yellow. After a wedding trip to Chicago the couple will make their home in Washington, D. C. The bride traveled in a white ensemble. Supper and Party Mrs. Fred C. Slauter, assisted by Mrs. U. S. Lindhom, Mrs. J. A. Biggies. Mrs. John Hermann, Mrs. Fred Uhl. Mrs. Charlie Brantigan, Mrs. Charles Tillman and Mrs Pearl Rudolph will give a penny supper and card party Saturday at 6 p. m. at Mrs. Slauter’s country home on Shadeland Dr., tor members of Golden Rule Chapter No. 413, O. E. S. All members and their families are invited.

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Afternoon Wedding at Church The wedding ceremony of Miss Dorothy Schwaninger, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. J. J. Schwaninger, 442 N. Drexel Ave., and Brevort Baker, son of Mr. and Mrs. C. S Baker of Cdumbus, took place Wednesday afternoon at Christ Church. Chester Heath, organist, played a bridal program before and during the Ceremony. The bride’s sister, Miss Louise Schwaninger, was maid of honor, and wore a gown of light yellow taffeta combined with tulle. She wore a pink picture hat and carried pink rosebuds. Little Jean Mutz, in green<organdie, carried the ring in a lily. The bride wore a gown of white taffeta and tulle and her veil was arranged in cap shape, very plain except for clusters of orange blossoms at either side. Her bouquet was of bride’s rcses.

Wayne Gillian, Columbus, Ohio, was best man and the ushers were Robert McCullouch, New Albany, and Robert Rust, Franklin. Mr. and Mrs. Baker have gone on a motor trip to the lakes cf northern Michigan and will be at home after July 23, at 1035 Hutchings Ave., Columbus. The bride traveled in a brown and tan costume with accessories to match. MISS~NICHOLSONWEDS LOCAL MAN AT HOME Miss Ruth Nicholson, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Lawrence T. Nicholson, Newcastle, and Wilbur M. Carter, this city, were married Wednesday afternoon at the home of the bride’s parents with the Rev. Mr. Howe officiating. Miss Veda 'Miller, this city, was the only attendant. She wore a gown of beige falcon trimmed with blue satin ribbon, and carried Butterfly roses. The bride, given away by her father, wore white bridal satin trimmed with duchesse lace embroidered ip crystals and rhinestones. Her veil was of duchesse lace and she carried a shower of bride's roses, lilies of the valley and orchids. Fred L. Carter, Jr., brother of the bridegroom, was best man. Following a reception the couple left for a trip to Washington and will be at hoipe in Indianapolis at the Lanhurst Apt. So Fra Club Elects Earl Koerncr has been elected president of the So Fra Club. Other officers elected are: Gene Gattiz, vice president: Betty Lee, secretary: Leo Porter, treasurer, and Joe Dux, sergeant-at-arms. The club celebrated its sixth anniversary last week-end with a party at Heflin's camp, near Edinburg. District Legion Meeting American Legion auxiliaries of the Thirteenth district held a meeting Wednesday at Akron. Fifty delegates attended she meeting, which included morning and afternoon business sessions and a luncheon. On European Cruise Mr. and Mrs. A. E. Metzger have gone on the Northern Wonderland cruise to Iceland, Spitzbergen, North Cape, Norway and Sweden, closing with a motor trip through Germany. Mr. and Mrs. Henr*’ Arps will occupy their home untii their return.

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Two Entertain for Bride-Elect of Next Month Miss Ruth McKinzie and Miss Dcrothy Spooner entertained Wednesday evening with a bridge party and linen shower at Miss Spocner's home. 5455 Broadway, in honor of Miss Margaret Finneran, whose marriage to Charles Dana Rollings will take place July 18. A pink and orchid color scheme was carried out in decorations, ices and confections. Miss Spooner's mother assisted the hostesses. The guests were Mesdames Thomas J. Finneran. George O. Desautels. Rose Rollings, Skiles E. Test, Ellison Fadley and C. C. Harmon; Misses Catherine Finneran, Marie Wagnon, Lucille Tyner, Rebecca Jones, Katherine Stanley, Jane Keyes, Hortense Hahn, Alice Carter, Catherine Warrender, Celestine Donnelly, Mary Catherine Coulter. Margaret Godfrey, Katherine Buxton. Beatrice Batty, Mary Kelly and Gertrude Denges. MRS. ELSO GREENE IS LUNCHEON HOSTESS Guests for four tables of luncheon bridge were entertained this afternoon by Mrs. Elso Greene, 1019 N. Rural St. The favors, tallies, tapers and flowers carried out a color scheme of orchid, rose, blue and yellow. Covers were laid for Mesdames H. L. Suffrins, Ray Goodwin. G. W. Farrar, E. Zimmer, Hurm Burnett, L.<T. Glidden. Ray Walker, William Gruner, Russell Stephenson, Parker James, J. T. Barnett, C. G. Claman and Burt Bruder; Misses Ruth Fisher, Corinne Greene and Hazel Van Auken.

JUNE 28, 1928

Lila Dunn Wed Today at Church St. Paul's Episcopal Church was the scene of the marriage today of Miss Lila Lou Dunn, granddaughter of Mrs. Elizabeth Ann Buckler, 501 Sutherland Ave., and Ford H. Kaufman of Peru, son of Mr. and Mrs. J. T. Kaufman, Peru. Hydrangeas, gladioli and palms banked the altar where Dr. Lewis Brown performed the ceremony. The organist played ‘‘To a Wild Rose,” during the ceremony and “The Bridal Chorus" from ‘Lohengrin” for the entrance of the bridal party. Mendelssohn’s ‘‘Wedding March" was the recessional. Miss Mary Eller, the bride's only attendant, wore a dress of lavender, pink and blue georgette with lavender hairbraid hat and carried a bouquet of pink and white roc.es. The bride, givep in marriage by her brother, Evan R. Dunn, Cleveland. Ohio, wore a gown of flesh chiffon and lace with a three-quarter length jacket of lace. She wore a leghorn hat lined with blue velvet and her shoes were blue. She carried roses, delphinium and valley lilies. Robert Butler, Peru, was best man. A small informal reception was held in the vestry room of the church after the ceremony. Mr. and Mrs. Kaufman left for a wedding trip to Canada and will be at home at 3534 Salem Ave. upon their return. The bride wore a printed silk dress with blue felt hat and accessories in blue. ELIZABETH SCHAEFER WEDS IN CHURCH RITE Miss Elizabeth Schaefer, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Charles Schaefer and Charles Doran Jr., son of Mr. and Mrs. Charles Doran were married Wednesday morning at Sacred Heart Church with Father Symphorium officiating. The bride wore a gown of white bridal satin fashioned robe de style and her veil of bridal tulle was fashioned coronet style and had a sweeping train of Valenciennes lace. She carried a shower bouquet of bride’s roses and lilies of the valley. Miss Vera Doran, maid of honor, wore pink taffeta trimmed with tulle with picture hat to match and carried a bouquet of pink roses. Miss Rosemary Fink, bridesmaid, wore a gown of green taffeta and picture hat to match* and carried a bouquet of pink roses. Charles Schaefer, Jr., was best man and Robert Schaefer and Ed Bauer, ushers. Mr. and Mrs. Doran left on a wedding trip and will be at home after July 10 at 1-725 S. Delaware St. Welcome Party Miss Helen Payne, .who returned from spending the winter in Rochester, N. Y„ was given a welcome party Wednesday evening by Miss Emily Brossman, 5601 E. St. Clair St. With the honor guest were Mrs. Emil Linegar and Misses Mary Biggerstaff, Wabash; Edith Jones, Bloomfield; Mildred Johns, Jean Coval, Mary Wagoner, Lucille Sperry and Dorothy Reynolds. Present Pageant An outdoor pageant portraying growth of the Northwest territory from Indian days to the present will be given Friday night at Camp Dellwcod by a group of Girl Scout leaders at the national training school. Mrs. Maxwell Droke wrote and directed the pageant.