Indianapolis Times, Volume 40, Number 17, Indianapolis, Marion County, 31 May 1928 — Page 6

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Be Natural’Epitomizes Surest Way to Acquire and, Retain Affections BY MARTHA LEE yourself, kid,” leared the sidewalk sheik. That’s imadulterated slang. But the sheik uttered a word of philosophy in that gutter statement. “Be natural” is a more civilized way of expressing the same philosophy.

Being natural is one of the greatest “poses” to gain friends and hold them. A lot of trouble among young folk is caused by one or the other of them being anything else but natural. The girl believes she must affect a different line of thought and action from her everyday behavior in order to charm her sweetheart. Perhaps she is just a sweet, homeloving girl, but once she gets in the company of a fellow she immediately feels wild and modernistic. It is a woman’s duty to be charming. She knows that, but believes that by being different she is charming. She charms herself, but does she charm the man? Illusions Shattered The affectation can be carried on for a short time; the man becomes accustomed to that side of the girl's character then the naturalness breaks through the pose, and the man is disillusioned. He thought he was getting one kind of a girl, and he finds he is getting another kind altogether. All of us have latent charm, sides tef our make-up that never have 'come to the surface yet. Just be natural and these qualities ■will come to the surface. We can make many more friends that way. When we start assuming a different attitude with our sweethearts, we are fooling them and ourselves. How Harm Comes Suppose you like to run around and dance. Then you meet a fellow who .wants to establish a home. You fall in love with this fellow and make him believe that you, too, are a home-loving girl. You marry the man, but you can't keep the pose all the rest of your life. The fact that you do like to dance crops out eventually, and the man is disillusioned and hurt. He thought he was marrying a different kind of a girl. That will cause trouble. This is just an example of what can happen by not being natural. There are hundreds of others you can recall. Dear Martha Lee:—l am stumped, and I know that you cm help me. I am 19 years of age. The color of my hair ana eye3 doesn't make any difference. ■ My boy friend is 22 years old. ar.d Miss Lee. he is a real man both mentally and physically. He has high ideals and certainly is not lowering mine. Although we have been going together only three months, we both feel that life without each other would not be worth The other night, after a little hedging, he told me that things were, not going as he thought they should. X agreed with bo you think trying to please each other too much would cause this? .X alwys get pleasure out of doing things for him That I think he likes best. He does the same for me. We never quarrel. I think he is jealous of me. How can I cure him of this? X love him dearly and know that he can return the compliment. He says he doesn't understand me, and that to understand me is his greatest desire. I think that in this case it isn't ■wise to keep him guessing. Do you think the same? , , I don’t worry about rivals because ' think I have none. He thinks he would not like competition, but thinks he will have it. , ... Do you think we are too young to feel as we do? I might say 1 that we did not fall in love at first sight: In fact, see didn't know such a thing existed between us until it was too late to fall out of love. WONDERING. If this keeps up any longer you will have to marry the boy. But that is what you should do. From your letter is seems that you are head over heels in love with him. If you marry him, may you find happiness. Trying to please each other constantly is a strain, even on a saint. Be natural for a change. After your marriage you will be forced to be natural. Try it a little before. You can't cure a man of jealousy. If it is in a mild form then let it go unnoticed. But if it is violent, then let him go. You are right in believing it is not right to keep him guessing. Be natural. Don’t affect a pose. You are not too young to be in love, and this love may be the greatest in your life. Don’t, however, rush into matrimony. You are young yet, and the boy, too, is young. Wait fdr a year or’so, and if you still love each other, then make an appointment with the county clerk.

Presented With Flay Prank Mark, scoutmaster of Boy Scout Troop 68, was presented with a silk American flag by Alvin P. Hovey W. R. C. at the memorial, services at Mt. Jackson cemetery Wednesday. Mrs. Madge Frady presented the flag in recognition of Mark's service as assistant at memorial services at the cemetery for the past nine years.

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Mr. Van de View awakened in the middle of the night By the queerest sort of feeling very near akin to fright, Takes a sniff or two—by means of his aristocratic nose— And decides the house is burning up, disturbing his repose. \

Club Women Oppose Girl Beauty Show Bn United Press SAN ANTONIO. Texas, May 31. Shows of pulchritude, where pretty girls display their beauty do not meet the approval of delegates attending the convention of the General Federation of Women’s Clubs here. They believe the American girl can be glorified by more dignified means than having her “parade in a bathing suit before staring throngs.” Only one of the fourteen women interviewed saw any good in the contests. .The others used “shameful,” “disgraceful.” “vulgar” and “undignified” to express their disapproval. “They're too much like prize stock shows. The girls are paraded and measured like animals, ’ said Mrs. Edward Franklin White. Indianapolis, attorney and candidate for the presidency of the federation. “The sole stress is placed on physical perfection.” But in the search for the physically harmonious lies a benefit in holding the contests, according to Mrs. Claude North Christian, wife of a Dayton (Ohio) physician and president of the Dayton Federation of Women’s Clubs. She was the only defender. “I loathe them,” stated Mrs. Guido Stempel. Bloomington, Ind., chairman of the federation’s credentials committee. “They are undignified, unnecessary and disgusting.” TWO HOSTESSES FOR PRE-NUPTIAL PARTY Miss Dorothy Forsyth and Miss Maud Russell entertained Wednes- j day evening at Miss Russell’s 'home, I 60 N. Ritter Ave., in honor of Miss Ida Hert, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Henry J. Hert, 441 Dorman St., who will be married Friday to Harvey N. Brown, son of Mr. and Mrs. Brazier Brown. The bridal colors, pink and white, were used in the appointments and decorated the basket in which gifts were presented to Miss Hert. The guests were Mesdames Jams E. Butler, Walter V. Alske, Edward Donaldson, Mary Ray Johnson and Ernest Rease, and Misses Martha Kincaid, Margaret Griffith, Mary Henderson, Lucille Cartti. and Adelaide Gastineau. To Install Chapter Members of Beta Sigma Delta oi Teachers College will be initiated Saturday afternoon into Sigma Sigma Sigma, national educational sorority. Pledge service will be held this evening at the chapter house, 2217 Broadway, and a dinner will be given at the Indianapolis Athletic Club for patronesses of the sorority. Saturday the young women will have luncheon at Greencastle, followed by the institution banquet at the Columbia Club. Catholic Conference The State conference of the Catholic Daughters of America will be held Sunday in the new St. Joseph school at Kentland. National officers, including Miss Mary 6. Duffy, Newark, N. J., supreme regent, will speak. Fayette Club Picnics The Fayette Club will close the club year with a basket picnic at Broad Ripple Park, Tuesday at 1 p. m. Mrs. Bertram Sanders, Mrs. Dayton Condon and Mrs. Ernest Goble are in charge.

Benefit Party A benefit card, lotto and bunco party will be given in St. Mary's hall, 315 N. New Jersey St., Sunday at 8:30 p. m., Central Standard time. Visit Parents Drexel B. Hunt, Los Angeles, Cal., and Harold Hunt, Detroit. Mich., are guests of their parents. Mr. and Mrs. T. E. Hunt, N. Olney St.

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Now there must have been a notice to the ladies in advance, For they never could appear by unadulterated chance Looking quite so very charming in their flowing negligees, He is thinking, as another puts him wholly in a daze. __

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Left to right, Mrs. Raymond G. Kissell. Mrs. Jack Klinger and Miss Lucille Young Mrs. Raymond G. Kissell was Miss Marie Bernett before her marriage. May 19, at the home of her parents, Mr. and Mrs. Emil Bernett. Mr. and Mrs. Kissell are at home in Indianapolis. Mrs. Jack David Klinger was Miss Lilliam May Young before her marriage, May 17. With her is her sister. Miss Lucille Young, who was maid of honor. After a wedding trip Mr. and Mrs. Klinger will be at home here.

Sorority to Hold National Meeting, Over Week-End The national convention of Sigma Phi Gamma Sorority will be held Friday, Saturday and Sunday at the La Fontaine Hotel. Huntington. A reception and dance will be given Friday night at the Elks home and the first business meeting will be held Saturday morning A formal banquet followed by model initiation will be heid Saturday night. Cities to be represented include: Hartford City. Muncie, Marion. La Porte. South Bend, Mishawaka, Elkhart. Terre Haute, Pendleton. Wabash, Ft. Wayne, Kokomo. Garrett, Indianapolis, Newcastle, Lafayette, Columbus and North Manchester. Ind.: Sagniaw, Grand Rapids and Jackson, Mich.; Newark and Lcgan, Ohio; Moberly and St. Joseph, Mo.; Baltimore, Md.; Tucson, Ariz.; Los Angeles and Long Beach. Cal.; Miami, Fla.; Ft. Collins, Colo., and Clarks, La. Se-Elect Officers Mrs. L. R. Halvorsen, Evansville, was re-elected chairman of the First District League of Women Voters at the annual meeting Tuesday. Mrs. Christine Cunningham, Princeton, was re-elected secretary, and Miss Lena Frank, Newburg, treasurer. Lunheon for Classmates Mrs. Oren Miller, 345 Blue Ridge Rd., entertained at luncheon Tuesday for former classmates of the old East Germantown School. Crimson tulips and iris decorated the tables which were lighted with tapers in crystal holders. Covers were laid for thirteen. dress at the lower edge extended is 1% yards. Every day The Times prints on this page pictures of the latest fashions, a practical service for readers who wish to make their own clothes. * Obtain this pattern by filling out the above coupon, including 15 cents (coin preferred), and mailing it to the Pattern Department of The Times. Delivery is made in about a week.

Prize Recipes by Readers

NOTE—The Times will give $1 lor eech recipe submitted by a reader adjudged oi sufficient merit to be printed in this column. One recipe is printed oailv. except Friday, when twenty are given. Address Recipe Editor of The Times. Prizes will be mailed to winners. Write on one side of sheet only. Only one recipe each week will be accepted from one person. Cabbage Dumplings Cut eight slices of salt pork in small pieces. Fry and remove pieces from fat. Add two cups chopped sour apples, two quarts chopped cabbage, one teaspoon salt, two quarts boiling water and cook onehalf hour. Add a dozen or more small baking powder biscuit dumplings. Cover and cook fifteen minutes longer. Serve with salt pork added to stew. Sprinkle each dumpling with paprika before serving. MRS. RECIL O. ARNOLD. Fillmore, Ind.

Card Parties

La Velle Gossett auxiliary, Veterans of Foreign Wafs. will give a benefit card and bunco party Friday evening in the hall, W. Tenth St. and King Ave. St. Patrick’s Social Club will give a card party at the school hall Friday at 2:30 p. m.. daylight saving time. To Honor Visitors Mrs. Albert Edward King, Pittsburgh. Pa., who is the house guest of Mrs. Harry W. King, 2870 N. Illinois St., was honor guest at a bridge party givenby her hostess this afternoon. Mrs. King will also entertain Tuesday with a party for her guest and for Mrs. Charles R. Wheeler, Boston, Mass., who will come Sunday to visit her sister, Mrs. James A. Stuart. Mrs. Stuart will entertain with a theater party Saturday in honor of Mrs. King. - Garden Tea \ - Mrs. Charles Jackson Lynn. 3519 Washington Blvd., entertained this afternoon from 4 to 6 with a garden teaat her home. The flowers and shrubbery in the garden formed the only decoration. The hostess was assisted in serving by a number of iirtimate friends. Union Daughters Meet The Oliver Perry Morton chapter, Daughters of the Union, will have a special meeting at 2:30 p. m. Friday with Mrs. W. W. Gates, 611 E. Thirty-Second St. ” Covered Dish Luncheon Pennsylvania division 92, Ladies’ Auxiliary to the Oraer of Railroad Conductors, will meet Friday afternoon at Hamilton Hall. Hamilton Ave. and Washington St. Each member is to bring a covered dish.

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Then a third who wears a charming thing of coral satin crepe domes to ask him to direct her to the nearest Are escape. And he tells her in embarrassment he really doesn’t know— But he thinks the elevator is a better, way to go.

Two Couples Soon to Wed Entertained Miss Dorothy Stafford, 2434 N. Meridian St., entertained at dinner Wednesday evening in honor of Miss Jane Rogers and 'Morris Wadley and Miss Jane Wells and George Lemcke, whose marriages will take place in June. Among the out-of-town guests were Miss Elizabeth 3anks, Memphis. Tenn., Miss Stafford’s house guest; Miss Grace Leymna, Cleveland, Ohio, house guest of Mrs. Marcus Warrender, and John Ingham and Ed Hartje of Pittsburgh, Pa., and Charles Hinsch of Cincinnati, Ohio. Covers were also laid for: Messrs, and Mesdames Francis J. Feeney. Hr-nrv Frenzel. Ralph Whitehtll, Ct r iffUli Raidle and Marcus Warrender: Misses Llewel yn and Betty Kereth, Helen Oakes. Imogenc Shea. Marie Eisenlohr, Edith Watson. Lucille Tyner. Ann Timberlake, •lane Griffith and Catherine Warrender’ Messrs. Robert Stafford. Georg? Zieq'er. Pearson Smith. Charles Nicholson. Gaylord Millikeo, Samuel Simpson, Richard Mcßride. Cameron Moaq. Harry Shea. Liouis Rainier. Eugene Whitehijl. Donald Davis. Norman Miller and Fred Carter. Samuel W. Simpson entertained at dinner at Woodstock. Tuesday evening in honor of the two couples. Payeant Queen Miss Edna Marsland, Montpelier, senior at Ball Teachers’ College, has been elected queen of the pageant of girls’ week activities at the college, to be presented June 8. For June Bride Miss Kathryn Delaney, 1915 N. Meridian St., will entertain Saturday afternoon at the Columbia Club, honoring Miss Loretta Derleth whose marriage to Francis McCarty will take place June 6, at St. Catherine’s Church. Plan Prenuptial Parties Among prenuptial parties planned for Miss Olga Ruehl, who will be married June 16 to Edward W. Able, are those planned for June 8 by Mrs. George Hess and June 9 by Mrs. L. P. Develling. Mrs. R. E. Lentz will entertain for the brideelect at luncheon June 14. The engagement of Miss Marguerite Ward, niece of Mr, and Mrs. Mont Brewer. Dugger, and Reed Mills, Indianapolis, has been announced.

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MARYE and ‘MOM’ a a u THEIR LETTERS

My Dear Marye: You are a constant surprise to me, Marye: sometimes you talk and act exactly like a child, and then again you come out with mature ideas that sound as if you actually used your pretty head for thinking purposes. I don’t think you missed romance in your girlhood—l think you had a very pleasant and happy life. You associated with boys and girls of your own type and your own environment. Perhaps you did not receive many sonnets, but you always went to all the dances and parties and you were always escorted by a respectable young man who respected you, and I seem to remember that you hungered less for poetry and romance than you did for jazz and excitement. You seem to assume, just because Alan is a business man, who goes every day to his office, and works hard to support you, that he has no desire or no appreciation of the more aesthetic pleasures of life. I am sure you do him an injustice. Perhaps he does not have the time you do, to think about himself, and to w r ondcr just what he is missing, but I cannot feel that there is the gulf between your minds that you insist. You are really too smart a girl, Marye, to have so much time on your hands, and to be obliged to make so little effort. I wish you would forget about Pede, studio parties, romantic memories, and give more of your time and attention to Alan. You two must not grow apart. Try to be just as charming and as Interested in romance with him as you do with these new friends of yours. See if you don’t find that you have underestimated his “soul.” Florence is home, but I have not sen her yet.” All my love, MOM. House Party at Lake The executive committee of the Indiana Nature Study Club and some members of the Prairie Club of Chicago, will be week-end guests of Mr. and Mrs. C. J. Buchanan, Marott Hotel, at their summer home at Pottawattomie Lodge, Lake Tippecanoe. Mrs. Buchanan, Mrs. I Robert Gesses and Mrs. William C. j Gardner went to the lake Wednesday in advance of the party.

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Two Will Be Hostesses to Bride-Elect Miss Esther and Miss Geneva Hungate, 802 E. Forty-Second St., will entertain with a bridge party this evening at their home to honor Miss Helena Sicloff, whose marriage to Robert L. Nipper will take place June 9. Yellow, pink and blue, the bridal colors, will be carried out in decorations and refreshments. Roses and sweet peas will be used in bouquets in the house and on the tables. With Miss Sicloff the guests will be: MPisdami’s G. Herbert Smith, Walter Riser. Louis O. Ward, Frank Ball Jr., Noble Ropkev, John Scott Mann Jr. and H. F. Hunqate; Misses Billie Mae Kraider, Dorothy Lou Thomas, Mary Fiances ORle. Susanna KolhofT. Marjorie Okes, Marqaret Kellenhach. Maurine Jacquith, Mildred Jacquitn, Lucille Tyner and Mary White. Committees for Sponsored Show Monday Chosen Committees have been announced for the Stuart Walker performance of “The Wooden Kimona,” Monday night, w r hich will be given under auspices of Delta Lambda alumnae of Delta Delta Delta sorority of Butler University. Mrs. Mildred Foxworth.v Morgan is chairman, assisted by Miss Bertha Green of the active chapter. Miss Frances Woolery, Mrs. Karl Stoute, Mrs. Merritt Thompson, Mrs. Charles Stuart and Mrs. Anna Meier of Tri Psi, the mothers’ club. Farewell Party Alpha chapter of Alpha Omicron Alpha entertained Tuesday evening at the home of Mrs. John R. Sentney. 3822 N. Illinois St., in honor of Mr. and Mrs. J. E. Mueller, who will leave soon to live in Chicago. Mrs. Mueller is retiring president of the chapter. Race Dance The Elks Club entertained with a race day dance for several hundred couples at the club Wednesday night.