Indianapolis Times, Volume 40, Number 13, Indianapolis, Marion County, 26 May 1928 — Page 9

MAY 26, 1928

Love Fades at 22 Says, Marthe Lee By MARTHA LEE In spite of the opinion of Oscar Odd Mclntyre, New York columnist. I like the idea of Will Durant who writes every day for The Indianapolis Times. And in spite of liking Durant’s Ideas, I disagree with him that “Thirty Is the Love Deadline.” I contend that no person, particularly a woman, is capable of true love after she has reached the age of 22. That drops the deadline just eight years. Note that I say TRUE love. There are many other kinds of love. Before a woman is twenty-two years old she falls in love with the man herself, and before a man reaches that age he falls in love with the woman. There is nothing else. In this day most of the social contact comes at night. The fellow puts on his “best,” takes the family automobile, borrows a couple of dollars from his dad, and goes out to see his girl. The girl dons her best bib and tucker, and waits nervously for her date. The fellow is probably a S2O or $25 a week clerk, and the girl loesn’t realize that all he has he owes to his family. She doesn’t think about anything else but the boy, and as a result she falls in love with the boy and not with anything else. He hasn’t anything else. Before long an older man comes along. He has money and a position in the world. The boy is jilted for the other and older man. The older man is more competent to become a husband and father. He does. And the girl spends the rest of her life longing for her childhood sweetheart who offered her true love. After we are twenty-two our eyes are opened. We find out that it is not the first year of married life, but the ninety-nine years that follow. Asa result we look around for a mate who embodies all the virtures ■we believe will make our married life more easy. > We don’t look at the boy himself, ■but at the things surrounding the chap. Has he money? Will he be able to earn money? Has he a family? Will he be a good father for his family? Therefore I say that TRUE love comes only before twenty-two. The love coming after twenty-two is something else, some other kind of love. Perhaps I’m right; perhaps I’m wrong. But give me the liberty to express my opinion. If you will do that, then I’ll do the same for j you. Send me a letter with your opinions. I’ll publish everyone of them with or without your name. Dear Martha Lee: When I was nineteen years old I met a charming fellow who was twenty. We ■were in love with each other for several years. Then before long we started having little quarrels about nothing at all. Usually we made up before he left my house at night. But once we didn’t make up before he left and thing:) never have been the same *lnce. Several weeks ago I met a wonderful fellow. He has a car and money and a well know'n family. He says he loves me. I keep thinking that I still love the first fellow. He is different from this fellow now. He didn’t have much money, but we always had a good time wherever we went. I have Just about made up my mind to marry this second fellow, because I know he will make a good husband and father. I am Just puzzled with myself for not knowing my own mind. RAMONA. If you marry this second fellow you will be happy ,no doubt. You will have everything that a girl desires, a home and friends and children. But way down deep in your heart you will long for the first fellow whom you loved so completely. He always will be before you in your dreams. He will mean happiness to you. Not that you would be happy married to him. Love doesn’t pay the butcher bill and buy milk for the baby. Theater Party Misses Louise and Mary McCarthy entertained with a theater party Thursday evening, in honoi of Miss Loretta A. Derleth, 1302 Comer Ave., whose marriage to C. Francis McCarthy will take place June 6. Among the gueits were Misses Helen F. Doerr, Bertha Pieper, Loretta A. Derleth, Louise and Mary McCarthy, Mesdames Clara Wichmann, C. C. Hennessey and Elia McCarthy. Country Club Opening The formal opening of the Ft. Harrison Country Club of Terre Haute will be held Saturday night when a dinner dance will be given at the club house.

THE CONNOISSEUR

Now, the Connoisseur would never think of being out of style. 60 he’s had his tonsils taken out with courage and a smile, And although the operation really wasn’t any fun He is glad he had the fortitude to go and have it done.

PLAN EXTENDED SUMMER VISIT IN SYRACUSE, N. Y.

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MARYE and ‘MOM’ * * * THEIR LETTERS

My Dear Marye: I declare you seem to get worse and worse all the time. Perhaps you don’t quite realize how your conduct appears to people who live simply and take marriage seriously. But you surely can't believe that Alan wasn’t justified in being angry with you for that silly spectacle you arranged in Mr. Michello’s studio. It wouldn't have been so bad if you hadn’t let everyone know that both of those men were your admirers. Any woman of my day would have felt heiself degraded to have men fighting over her. And such a thing as flaunting their admiration would have been unthinkable. But it serves them right and I hope they're both disgusted with you that they let you alone. I suspect, however, that you wanted to punish Norman for his interest in Florence and merely used your friend Pedro to do it. It’s too bad, when women can use their wits to play with men and take advantage of them, that chivalry does not permit .men to use their best weapon against them. I heartily recommend wife spanking for the modern genration. Having made three men unhappy you escaped too easily with a mere scolding from your husband. Not one of them would think of plotting against you, as you did against Norman and the other poor victim of your misguided inventiveness. So why shouldn't they be allowed to use their strength to punish you? If Alan wants my consent to paddle you he can have it. But I dare say Alan knows you’d find a way to get even, or rather ahead of him. You’d want the last act as well as the last word. I never knew anyone who could find so many reasons for doing things she shouldn’t do as you do, Marye. Is that one of your modern accomplishments? Well, I hope you don’t change your mind about coming out home this summer because I think you’d better get away from the people you know and take a good look at where you’re heading. I never knew anyone who was going along as heedlessly as you are who did’nt come up against trouble with a grand smash. Some day you’re going to do something that Alan won’t stand for. Then you’ll see that there’s something in life to live for besides thinking up some new kind of a surprise party. With all my love, MOM. * Grated Cheese If you have made a creamed soup that seems to lack something tasty, try adding a tablespoonful of grated cheese just before serving. Mayonnaise can be varied tremendously by adding any cf ’the following: W’hipped cream, grated cheese, peanut butter, horseradish, chili sauce or shredded pineapple.

He discovers, too. advantages and ample compensation For the most offensive features of a tonsil operation, When he has a charming visitor—it’s Natalie you see— In a polka dotted skirt and cape as smart as they can be.

Patterns PATTERN ORDER BLANK Pattern Department, Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Ind. Enclosed find 15 cents for which send Pat- g g j 5 0 Size Name Street City

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A PRETTY FROCK FOR A LITTLE MISS 86150. Printed lawn, embroidered pongee, rep or crepe are nice for this model. The pattern is cut in four sizes: 4, 6, 8, and 10 years. AlO year size will require two and three-eighths yards of 32 inch material, together with one-fourth yard of contrasting material for facing on collar and cap sleeves. Every day The Times prints on this page pictures of the latest fashions, a practical service for readers who wish to make their own clothes. Obtain this pattern by filling out the above coupon, including 15 cents (coin preferred), and mailing it to the Pattern Department of The Times. Delivery is made in about a week. Metcalf -Bishoff Mr. and Mrs. Bert Edwin Metcalf, 432 E. Thirtieth St., announce the engagement of their daughter, Carol Elizabeth, to Thomas A. Bishoff, son of Mr. and Mrs. George A. Bishoff. The wedding will take place June 5.

Van de View Has Had His Tonsils Removed

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it's an unexpected pleasure, one he hardly can believe, When he has another visitor—the fascinating Eve— Who is ravishing as ever in a frock of navy crepe Which is made the more becoming by a little shoulder cape.

THE INDIANAPOLIS TIMES

Prize Recipes by Readers

NOTE—The Times will Rive $1 for each recipe submitted bv a reader adjudged of sufficient merit to be printed in this column. One recipe is printed dailv. except Friday, when twenty are eiven. Address Recipe Editor of The Times. Prizes will be mailed to winners. Write on one side of sheet only. Only one recipe each week will be accepted from one person Date Pudding One cup grated bread crumbs, one cup sugar, one cup milk, one cup finely cut dates, one cup pecan or English walnut meats (cut fine), one-half cup butter, one egg, and one teaspoon baking powder. Bake one-half hour in slow oven and serve with whipped cream. MRS. THOMAS R. HILL. 1302 Ringgold St., City.

CARD PARTIES

There will be a card party at Holy Rosary Hall, 520 Stevens Street, Monday afternoon and evening, for the benefit of Holy Rosary Church. The mothers Council of Boy Scout Troop No. 34 will give a benefit card party at 8 this evening at South Side Y. W. C. A., Alabama and Madison Ave.

Local Woman Renamed State D. of U. Regent Mrs. Edward J. Hecker was reelected State regent of the Indiana Society of Daughters of the Union, 1861-1865, at the State meeting Thursday at the Columbia Club. Other officers elected were: Mrs. George Schlosser, Franklin, vice regent; Mrs. Millie Voris, Columbus, corresponding secretary; Mrs. C. F. Neu, Indianapolis, recording secretary, and Mrs. Thomas Larkin. Indianapolis, treasurer. Dr. Francis W. Monell, New York, president of the national society, was honor guest and speaker at the meeting. Mrs. James P. Goodrich, Winchester, fifth national vice regent, was also an honor guest. Slimmer Cleaning " Getting ready for summer need not be so hard, if one is systematic. Wash all blankets, curtains, rugs and other furnishings for storing, then pack all at once. Disinfectant Water Use a little disinfectant in all the water you clean with. Windows, ceilings, floors, furniture, and especially the bath room should have it. Washing Rugs When washing rugs, do not wring out. Hang on the line and play the hose on them for rinsing. Then leave hanging until dry.

Miss Georgia Mayer, 4160 W. Washington St., and Miss Helen L. Davis, R. R. 2, will leave May 29 for an extended visit with Mrs. Robert Ramsey in Syracuse, N Y. Mrs. Claude Allen Dale was Miss Emma Hauser before her recent marriage. Mrs. Evan W. Mcßroom was Miss Marion Miller, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Julius Millex, 1048 W. Eighteenth St., before her marriage this month, at Greenfield. Mr. and Mrs. Mcßroom are at home at 134 W. Twenty-First St.

Camp Fire Girls

One of the eight training courses for leaders to be conducted by the national field department of Camp Fire Girls this summer, will be held at Camp Delight (by permission of the Y. W. C. A.) June 6 to 13. The course will be under the direction of Miss Janet McKellar of the National field staff, assisted by Miss Bernice Boynton, local Camp Fire executive, Miss Gertrude Theumles, of Tech High School, who will conduct the class in girl psychology, and the following members of the nature Study Club, who will be in charge of all nature work; Mrs. W. P. Morton, Mrs. Alma C. Gardner, and Mr. S. E. Perkins, 111. The courses will include lectures on the principles and theory of Camp Fire, girl psychology, besides practical demonstrations in outdoor cooking, fire building, trail blazing, nature study, swimming, singing, first aid, hiking, handicraft, dramatics, talks around the Camp Fire. The enrollment is limited to fifty persons and will include people from neighboring states as well as guardiaus and council members from other cities in Indiana. All Camp Fire Girls who can take part in the Memorial Day parade are asked to meet in front of the Penway Building at New York and Pennsylvania Streets at 1 p. m., Wednesday, May 30. Wear full utility costume. Margaret Harvey conducted the last meeting of Wokitan group at school 55. Helen Carmichael was a visitor. Chipponock group of the Irvington M. E. Church held a business meeting and planned a hike for Saturday. Girls of Wikoda group met for a spread and council fire at the home of their guardian. Miss Dorothy Schlesinger. Honor beads were awarded. Tayusda group of school 17 devoted their weekly meeting to work on May Day costumes. The training course for leaders, which has been in progress at Butler University since February 29 ended with a council fire Friday afternoon. The following girls received national training course certificates: Dorothy Schlesinger, Gladys Ervin, Bernetha Odell, Zelta Robey, Anna Shelton, and Eleanor Amos. Others having completed the course are: Elma Ferguson, Helen DeVelling, Mary Hargitt and Dorothy Squires. Camp Fire Girls of School 47 started nature note books at their meeting Monday. Each girl made six paint prints of leaves. The Camp Fire Guardian’s Association met for a picnic Thursday at the home of Mrs. W. E. VanTalge. This was the last meeting of the year and all final business was finished. A program of games concluded the evening. The Tatapochon group of Zionsville met Tuesday evening with twelve Blue Birds and conducted a lesson in sewing. The Wendat group hiked to the woods and cooked their supper. For Sorority Dance Miss Eva Eckert is on the committee in charge of the Sigma Sigma Kappa Race Romp, to be given Saturday at the Severin Roof Garden. Others on the committee are the Misses Jessie Brunell, Elaine Henricksen, Evelyn Carpenter and Helen Bettcher.

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With Amelia, too, to comfort him, he’s happy as can be. (SJie explains her dress of black is worn to show her sympathy) But the tragic part about it is he can not speak a word And is forced to write his compliments which seem a bit absurd.

Clubs Plan for Exhibit j of Flowers The second of the series of flowev shows to be fostered by the Irvington Union of Clubs will be the iris and peony shows next Saturday at 5436 E. Washington St. Entries arc not limited to Irvington growers, but may be from any place in the State. The entries will be receh’ed and , arranged at 12:30 p. m. and judging will be completed at 2 p. m.. from which time the show will be open to the public until 9 p. m. Mrs. Jennie Jeffries, general chairman of the series of shows, has announced the following judges for the iris and peony entries. Mrs. : Irwin Bertermann, Mrs. Clifton i Wheeler and Robei't Hall. Entries i may be made with Mrs. Jeffries. ■ 5329 University Ave. Mrs. Elijah Jordan. Irvington j Union of Clubs chairman, has an- ! nounced the following committees i for the campaign for national prej vention of crime news appearing or. j first pages of newspapers: Mrs. H E. Barnard, chairman; Mesdames T. j C. Howe, Bertram Day, F. R. Davidson, James H. Butler, Carl Wagner, W. H. Insley, Willard Bolte, Robert Insley, Elbert Glass. Jessie H. Wood. Wilson Doane and J. R. H. Moore.

PRESIDE AT SORORITY DINNER

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Miss Bertha Ann Klinge (left), and Miss Georgia Thomas,

The toastmistresses for the formal dinner of Gamma Chapter of Omega Nu Tau Sorority this evening at the Columbia Club are Miss Bertha Ann Klinge and Miss Georgia Thomas. Miss Onamarion Newgent is general chairman, assisted by Miss Helen Svendsen. Favors will be silver spoons engraved with the sorority name, and corsages of American Beauty roses will mark each place. Covers will be laid for: Misses Marianne Schweicho, Mildred Zook, B. Louise Whiteside, Elvira Schein, Helen Svendsen, Margaret Lee, Louise Weaver, Laura Carroll, Ruth Rogers, Helene Newgent, Alice McCoun, Helen Cummins, B. Ann Klinge, Georgia Thomas, Eleanor Hill, Marguerite Hastey and Onamarion Newgent.

Girl Scout News

New candidates are: Tioop 11, Carol Koontz, Vera Keetdn, Jennie Harling, Jean Mathews, Juliana Meunel, Betty J. Doglish, Virginia Darrow, Gertrude Jones; Troop 10, Mary Alberta Gates; Troop 26, Anne Aufderheide, Joan Ickenback, Margaret Kimball; Troop 21, Mar> Latinska, Mary Jane Dixon, Louise Hardsty, Mary L. Carpenter, Ruth Fox; Troop 6. Martha Mormau. Jean Miller, Betty Ridgeway, Georganna Pittman, Hilda Perdy, Jean Fisher, Miriam Ellison, Roberta Denham, Hargo Sheerin, Ruth Duckwell, Mary, Alice and Dorothy Brady. Rita Royse, Marjorie Sternfele, Williameta Wamock. Ruth Rehm, Luana Lee; Troop 36, Dorothy James; Troop 43, Beatrice Alter, Marion Lantan, Eleanor Wingle; Troop 38, Donna Hudson, Mary Hudson, Margaret Bartlow, Eleanor Beall, Gwendolin Bell; Troop 34, Glenna Jones, Elouise Spear, Esther Henderson; Troop 13, Katherine Kusing. Those invited are: Troop 11, Frances Ferestal; Troop 47, Joar. Robinson, Ruth Bibbins. The Girl Scout Drum and Bugle Corps is continuing practice every Saturday morning in Room D at Shortridge High School at 9:30. The planning committee of Camp Dellwood wishes to acknowledge receipt of gifts from the following people: Mrs. Luther Williams, Mrs. P. R. Campbell. Mrs. Charles E. Rush, Mrs. Joseph Langfitt, Mrs. E. Blake Francis, Miss Laura Tucker. Mrs. Theodore Root, and members of her,troop, 143; Miss Mary Young, and members of her troop, 33; Mrs Van Brown, Hottentot girls basketball team and Jean Adamson. Russel Sullivan will give a lecture on ‘Stars” Friday, June 1, at the First Presbyterian Church, comer of Sixteenth and Delaware Sts. All leaders and scouts should take advantage of this opportunity to hear this very fine lecture. Tire talk will be at 7:30 promptly. The Girl Scout salute is now ready. Leaders can obtain them by calling at office. More girls are needed for Community Service on Memorial day. Please call the office and register. Girls will meet at Scout headquarters at 1 p. m. for inspection, then they will be stationed around the Circle to scatter Lowers and later will be taken to Crown Hill to scatter flowers on the graves of the veterans. All girls must be in uniform. We are still in need of old jersey dresses, wool blankets and old silk garments for hook rug weaving at camp. Phone Lincoln 3201 if you cannot bring your contribution in. Raw Vegetables A raw vegetable salad is a fine luncheon dish. Use slivers of carrots, chopped cabbage, grated beets and sliced beans. Serve on lettuce with French dressing. Clean Brushes Whisk brooms, hair brushes and all household brushes should be kept very clean. Wash in warm suds, with a little ammonia and dry upright.

MAY BRIDE

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Before her marriage May 14 at the Seventh Presbyterian Church, Mrs. Fagin was Miss Geraldine Dunlop. Serve Dinner The Harold C. McGrew Auxiliary No. 3 United Spanish War Veterans will serve dinner at 6:15 p. m. Monday at Ft. Friendly, 512 N. Illinois St.

BUCKLES OF WOOD

Wooden buckles, carved, are the latest smart adornment of spring shoes, typified here in brown suede.

Family Menus

BY SISTER MARY BREAKFAST Shredded fresh j pineapple, cereal, cream, toasted salt! codfish, corn muffins, milk, coffee, i LUNCHEON Toasted cheese j sandwiches, molded dandelion salad, banana whip, lemonade. DINNER—Baked sturgeon, new cabbage in cream sauce, buttered new beets, shredded fresh pine- i apple, mock angel-food cake, milk, coffee. Sturgeon is a rich, red-fleshed fish now in season. The fish is simmered in boiling salted water • for two hours before stuffing and baking. Skim frequently while simmering to remove fat. Banana Whip Four to six ripe bananas, 2 tablespoons lemon juice, 3 tablespoons of sugar, 16 cup of finely chopped nut meats, few grains of salt, 14 cup whipping cream, few drops of vanilla, 1 tablespoon powdered sugar. Peel and scrape bananas. Force through fine sieve of potato ricer. There should be about two cups. Add lemon juice, sugar, salt and nuts. Mix well and chill thoroughly. Serve in sherbet or parfait glasses garnished with cream whipped until firm and flavored with vanilla and sweetened with powdered sugar. Resting Periods Housewives who have the extra duties right now of getting the house ready for summer, should set aside regular resting periods to prevent fatigue. Fifteen minutes before lunch and mid-afternoon will do wonders.

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Music Clubs Arrange for 1929 Contest Announcement of the dates for the young artists’ and students* music contests, lias been made by the Indiana Federation of Music Clubs. Each two years the contests are held. Each State will hold its contest between Feb. 26 and May 6, 1929, and each of the fourteen districts will hold contests not "later than May 20. 1929. Following that the district winners will compete at the convention of the National Federation of Music Clubs at Boston, in July, 1929. The contests will include voice, piano, organ, violin and violincelio. Contestants must have resided in the United States more than onehalf their lives and must have had their entire musical training in the United States during the ten years immediately preceding the contests. Contestants must perform entirely without words or music and ail opera must be sung in English. Each State winner will be .presented with an embossed official certificate signed by the State president and State chairman of contests. Money prizes also are offered by the State and district. Indiana. Michigan and Ohio comprise the Great Lakes district. Two hundred dollars will be given each of the six first national prize winners. In addition the following prizes have been donated: Piano Mrs. Albert J. Ochsner, Chicago. $150; Baldwin Piano Company, $500; violin. Francis McMillan, Now Yoric City, 8150; voice. Mrs. Christine Miller Clemson. Pittsburgh. $500: voice, Mrs. Frank A. Seiberlin;:, Akron. Ohio $150; Mrs. George Hail. Providence, R. 1., $150: Mme. Ga'Ji Gurci, $150; Sigma Alpha lota. $l5O, Mme. Ossip Gabrilowitsch, $l5O. Contest bulletins may be obtained from the State chairman o. 1 Young Artists’ and Students’ contests, Mrs. Louise A. George. 639 E Drive, Woodruff Place, Indianapolis.

Bride-Elect Is Guest at Bridge Fete Miss Dorothy Lou Thomas, 4935 Park Ave., entertained Thursday evening with a bridge party and linen shower in honor of M.ss Helena Sieloff, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. R. H. Sieloff, 5140 Riverview Dr., whose marriage to Robert L. Nipper will take place June 9. The appointments in butterfly design were in blue and yellow, and the gifts were presented in a yellow butteifly gift box. The hostess was assisted ' her mother, Mrs. Harry B. Thor. The guests were: Mesdames F. Noble Ropkey, Frank W. Ball, Jr., Louis Ott Ward, Ralph Schetter, G. Herbert Smith, Urbana, 111., and Misses Mary Frances Ogle, Billie Mae Kreider, Susan Kolhoff, Marjorie Oakes. Margaret Thompson, Geneva Hungate, Esther Hungate, Ruth Omelvena, Maurine and Mildred Jaquith, Dorothy Spooner, Madeline Byrkit and Mary White. Miss Janet Carr. Miss Katherine Reagan and MisS Ogle will entertain for Miss Sieloff Monday evening and Thursday evening Misses Geneva and Esther Hungate will entertain for her. Miss Susan Kolhoff will have a luncheon at the Columbia Club Saturday, June 2, for the bride-elect, and June 4 Miss Billie Mae Kreider will entertain at supper bridge and a kitchen shower at her home in Plainfield.

Life’s Niceties Hints on Etiquet

1. Who announces an engagement? 2. Does the fiance ever announce the engagement? 3. Do his parents or any member of his family? The Answers 1. The parents of the bride-to-be, or her nearest relative. 2. No. 3. No.

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