Indianapolis Times, Volume 40, Number 10, Indianapolis, Marion County, 23 May 1928 — Page 6

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Young, Bride Advised to Work at First, but Quit „ Later for Family ’s Care By MARTHA LEE WOMEN should work after they are married, M omen should not work after they arc married. ■And 1 m right in both statements. There would be fewer marriages if all brides were forced to stop work. And on the other hand, there would be fewer broken homes if all wives were forced to stop work. In this modern age very few young men have salaries

large enough to support a wife in idleness. Most persons agree that youth is the best age for marriage. Then we are young enough to adapt ourselves to a changed nevironment, to make allowances for the other. But money is needed to make marriage successful, just like money is needed to make a business partnership click. Girls who are fitted physically and mentally for the commercial world should not withdraw when the minister tics the knot. They should not only help their husbands in the home but in the business world as well. The extra money in the first years of married life does more for economic stability than bridge parties and dances. If the wife works, of course the pair must give up a lot of the social life to which they no doubt have been accustomed. They won't have so much time for parties and the like But at the same time they are foregoing a little fun,, they arc laying the foundation for after life. A few years of youth placed in tiie bank of life brings high dividends later. But I do not mean that a wife should work forever as a man is forced to do. And there can be no time limit set. The length of time a woman works should be a matter for settlement. in the family. Perhaps one year will be long enough or perhaps she might work for the rest of her life. At all events I believe it best that a woman should stop for her children. Children demand everything that a mother can give, and a business man should not take away one moment from them. A woman who is earning a living by writing should not stop for her children. She can give them every attention and still go on with her work. But a * stenographer couldn't' pound a typewriter for eight hours a day and rear a family, too. That would be suicide. Michael Eyqucm de Montaigne, the French philpsopher born in Bordeaux, France, in 1533, says, ’Wcmen are lazy, and I hold it j rridiculous that the idleness of our wives should be festered with our sweat.” Montaigne admits with engaging , candor and in the most liberal man-; ncr ‘‘women's right to work.” And Sainte-Beauve said he was the wisest Frenchman that ever lived. Maybe he was. We do know that this man was the bridge between the Renaissance and the Enlightenment. lie is the father of clarity and beauty, in French prose: he is the most read of all the classic writers of France. I respect his opinions. We can't call them ‘‘poppycock.” Dear Martha Lee: You have given real fidvice to others, and now I want you to Kive me a little advice. I am a married woman twenty-two years old with a dear husband and a darling baby girl. My husband has worked hard since we were married, but it seems as it we are not able to get ahead. Recently I was sick and the doctor bills threw us into debt. I went to work when I was well, and now we are about out oi debt s .-.ain. But. Miss Lee. mv husband thinks I shouldn’t work. He doesn’t sav much about it. but I can see he is dissatisfied. He is ft home from 9 a. m. to 3 p. m. alone. He says I am worth $lO a day to him just to talk to when he is at home. I would much rathe/ be-with him and with the baby, but mv extra money helps us get so many little things we need, and 1 hesitate to quit. But what are nice clothes compared to a husband's love and a peaceful home? MRS. A. G. You utter a philosophy as sound as the ages; a husband’s love can not be measured in gold. It is priceless. It can’t be purchased with anything but love. But you are right when you say “The extra money buys us so many little things, things we need.” But you must stop work. Your husband and little girl need you. Set a time limit, say three months, and stop workfiTg then. Save your money in the meantime. You can be more valuable tp yourself and your daughter and your husband when you are at home. Perhaps, when your daughter is older, you can start working again and help your husband bring more money into the firm of ‘‘Mr. and Mrs.” Dear Martha Lee: I met a certain fel-

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Mr. Van de View, whose interest in higher education Is apparently developing with great acceleration, •Goes 'to see the inter-class events, an annual affair, Os athletic games and exhibitions in the open air.

low about five years ago and went with him for aboxt a vear. Then lie got into trouble and had to leave town. It reallv wasn’t his fault: lie did it to shield me. He was away for almost three years, and I never really forgot him. When he came home about a year ago we started going together again. Miss Lee. w hen he was a wav there seemed to be something lacking in mv life. Even now I can’t bear to be awav from him. I’m always afraid something will haoDen. The question is—"Do I love him?" Do you think I just want to help him? I see lots of other fellows I like just as well as I do him. but there is lust sometiling that makes me stick to him, I am quite puzzled with myself. DOUBTFUL. If I knew more of the circumstances surrounding the trouble you mention, perhaps I could tell you whether you pity or love him. But from your letter it seems that you are stricken with an uncurable malady. The only remedy is ‘ Marriage.”

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There is baseball on the program and he's quite enthusiastic. But devotion to the ladies make-his interest elastic, So instead of watching every ball as all the others do He is keeping score on polka dots in red and white and blue.

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MARYE and ‘MOM’ a a a THEIR LETTERB

My dear Marye: You certainly can twist tilings around to suit yourself. But I really am amused at you. Can’t you sec that Florence already is applying the experience she has gained with you? She sees you doing precisely as you please. Why shdTildn't she? Don't you suppose she knows that Alan wouldn't approve of your going out. with Norman? But you do it anyway. Then why shoujd your disapproval keep her from doing the same? If you do not care frr what Alan thinks, why should she care for what you think? No. I don't consider she has done anything for you to call a betrayal of your trust. Though naturally I do think'it's terrible for a girl to stay out most of the night. I don't know why it is. but most of the world's mischief is perpetrated after sundown. Late hours arc as conducive to evil as idleness. One reason. I think, is that pectrle need artificial stimulus to make the time pas-, pleasantly at nigbt. Late at nieht, I mean, when, if there was nothing cxc tng to do every one would go home. And when the senses are excited and a sleepy body is kept animated with music and gaiety the mind becomes lees rational than usual. I can't believe that a girl isn't running a risk of making a mistake cf some kind if she turns night into day. It isn't normal. And it mav be dangerous. I don't care how you defend it; I think it cheapens a girl. Now I suppose you will say you told Florence to turn in early. What if you did? It was only to serve your own ends and to keep Alan from being cross, and not because you have tried to make Florence keep sensible hours for her own good. No, Marye. you are only rcaoing as you sowed with Florence. But I am not amused at your seeing this Pedro again. That worries me. Lovinelv. MOM. Bunco Club Mrs. Robert Mershon, 1640 College Ave.. entertained the members and guests of the Cleophas Bunco Club at luncheon today. The home was arranged with iris and lilies of the valley. Election of officers took place at the business meeting. Beach coats of awning striped line are appearing, with the stripes running up and down or around as Milady fancies. Some combine both.

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Sister Jane is so excited she is jumping up with glee Which is quite incomprehensible to such a man as he, But her ardor is becoming and she couldn't be inert When her frock is so vivacious with its printed tie and skirt.

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Tuo Named on Y. W.C.A.Board ! for Next Year Mrs. Fred Hoke and Dwight Bailer were c’ * ted new members of i the Y. W. C. A. board of trustees , at the meeting Tuesday at the Y. W. C. A. Members who will con- ; tinue to serve are Mrs. J. R. Barrett. Arthur Baxter, Burkley W. j Duck. Henry R. Danner. Woods A. Caperton, Thomas C. Howe and Mrs. Allan B. Philputt. T. C. Day was elected nn honorary trustee. New officers cf the board elected are: Henry Danner, president; T. C. Howe, vice president; Euvkley i Duck, treasurer. a:id Miss Pearl Forsyth, secretary. The Spanish Club held its lasi meeting of the year in Y. W. C. A. social hall, Monday evening, at which time the officers for next | year were elected. Harold Devine was named president and Mrs. George Ottman, secretary-treasurer. The program included readings by Bcrnarbo Laverde of Bogota, j Columbia; piano selections by Miss j Rolando Anglada of Porto Rico; i songs by Miss Inez Samper, accompanied by Mrs. Kate Collins, and a playlet in Spanish. “The Model Husband," portrayed by Miss Eleanor Maingaring and L. B. Powell. Dr. Osse Dill gave an account of her trip to Jamaica.

Prize Recipes by Readers

NOTE-The Times will give $1 for i-ach recipe submitted by a reader adtudged of sufficient merit to be printed in this column. One recipe is printeJ dally, except Friday, when twenty are given. Address Recipe Editor of The Times. Prizes will be mailed to winners Write on one side of sheet only. Only one recipe each week will be accepted from one person Tojafo-Mushroom Pudding Cut eight peeled potatoes in quarters and boil in salt water with onehalf lemon. Mash with three ounces butter and one-half pint cream. Beat well and add four beaten egg yolks. Pour in buttered potato mold, leaving a hole in center for several mushrooms. Cover with the potatoes and bake. ZERILDA STUART. Hagerstown, Ind. Matinee Musicale Board The board of directors of the Matinee Musicale will meet at 10 a. m. Thursday with Mrs. Frank W. Cregor, 1621 N. Meridian St.

Report Work of Irvington Clubs - Today Report on the work of the Irvington Union of Clubs last year was given this afternoon at the third annual May mass meeting of the union in the Irvington Masonic auditorium. Mrs. George Miller read a comprehensive paper on “Woodrow Wilson,” and pupils of Miss Helene Hibfcen, dancing instructor, gave a program of four dances. In the receiving line with the officers: Mrs. Elijah Jordan, chairman; Mrs. J. H. Butler, secretary, and Mrs. D. H. Giffin. treasurer, were presidents of the affiliated clubs. Baskets of spring flowers were used in the auditorium and in the banquet hall where ices and cakes were served. FRIES HSU IP PROGRAM GIVEN AT CLUB MEET Mrs. V/. R. Burcham, 2002 W. Michigan St., was hostess today for the Wednesday Afternoon Club. Responses were quotations cn friendship and Mrs. A. E. Shirley read a reciprocity paper on “Friendship." Mr. O. F. Wright tc’.d the story cf Dair.cn and Pythias and Mrs. E. H. Thcwscn the story of David and Jonathan. Mrs. Paul Amctcr sang “Friend of Mine,” accompanied by Mrs. J. 11. Gill. Little Betty Lou Burcham gave readings. A color scheme cf blue and white was used throughout the heme and forget-me-nots were used on the tea tabic. Youny-Campbcll The marriage of Miss Jean Campbell. daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Edward Campbell. 4200 Brcokvillc Rd.. and Daniel J. Yeung, son of M. aand Mrs. Daniel R. Young. Attica, took place Saturday at Jeffersonville. The ceremony was read by the Rc\ Starr H. Lloyd, pastor of the First Presbyterian church there. Mrs Matthew Parson, sister of the bride and M", Farscn were the only attendants. Mrs. Young attended Butler Univesitv, where sb n was a member of Kappa Kanna Gamin' 1 . Mr. Young attended Wentworth Military Academy. They will be at home after June 1. at 5724 Julian Avc. Churches Give Cantata Mrs. Wallace R, Smith. Miss Pair.: Kennedy. Miss Martha MacDougail, William Robinson and Ernest Hoberlein will have solo parts in the cantata to be presented by members of the North Pa v k Christian Church rheir and the choral socialv of the Tabernacle Presbyterian Church, at 7:45 p. m.. Thursday, at the North Park church. To Federation Mrs. F. W. Troutman. Peru. Eleventh district chairman of the Indiana Federation of Clubs, will leave Friday on Ihe Indiana special for Sen Antonio. Texas, to represent her district, at the General Federation cf Clubs. At Junior Learjue Meet Mrs. Sylvester Johnson, president of the Indianapolis Junior League; Mrs. Charles Latham and Mrs. E. E. Gates Jr., are in Buffalo to attend the conference of the national organization of Junior Leagues. Arranfie Dance Sigma Sigma Karma sorority will meet at 8 this evening at the Spink Arms when final arrangements will be made for a dance to be given Saturday at the Sevcrin roof garden Entertain Husbands The Amigo Club entertained husbands cf the members with a bunco partv Tuesday evening at the home of Mr. and Mrs. O. C. Bade, 4022 Carrollton Ave. Sorority Hostess Delta Delta Tau sorority will meet tonight with Mrs. Paul M. Cook. 423 N. Limvood Ave. Club Card Parties The Maple Club will give a card party Thursday afternoon and evening at 29 1 i S. Delaware St. Coiled Cords Coil your cords for electrical appliances loosely when you put them away, and protect them from being jammed by heavy objects, if you want them to last long. Jellied Salads Jellied saladsL cooled in fancy pudding much dressier luncheon dishes than plain ones. Any flaked fish, with pimento and a bit of egg makes a good! one. Clean Vacuum When you empty your vacuum cleaner, turn the bag inside out occasionally and brush it vigorously. This prsßnts the pores from bpcoming clogged.

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If the girls who play the game would only wear a frill or two They would have a more respectably attentive Van de View, But the frocks upon the bleachers which appear so very smart Have enraptured all his faculties completely irott Uae

TWO CITY CLUBS OBSERVE GUEST DAY WITH PARTIES

Two Indianapolis club observed guest day with parties this afteincon. The Home Economics Club entertained 150 guests at the home of Mrs. J. Edward Morris, Williams Creek estates and the Zctetlica Club’s observance was with Mrs. S. O. Sharp. Grandview Dr. / A variety of spring flowers formed the setting for the Home Economies Club party. Mrs. Frank B. Hunter sang and Mrs. Demarchus Brown gave a reminiscent talk of her recent trip around the world. The Zetathea Club colors of red and white were carried out with red tulips and bridal wreath at the Sharp home. Sixty guests were enterained with a program which inlcuded piano numbers by Mrs. Charles Albriglu, soles by Mrs. E. F. Sharp, accompanied by Miss Louise Sharp, both of South Bend; soles by Mrs. E. S Matingcr. accompanied by Mrs. Albright; readings by Mrs. Lucrctia Altrusa Club Nominates for New Officers The two nominating committees of Altruca Club will report their candidates at the dinner meeting *cf the club Friday at the Columbia Club. Reports of the national convention held last week will also be made. The white nominating committee is composed of Mieses Mary Perrot, chairman: Mary Meyers. Mary Rigg. Mary Buchler and Mary Ann Fitzsimmons. and the blue ticket Miss Eva Kuetemcier. chairman; Mrs. Nancy Ladd, Mi sees Emily Rigler, Bertha Lemlng and Lucy Branch. Miss Lois Anderson, membership chairman, announces the following new members: Mrs. Ruth Sterling Devin. Mr.-. J. R. Farrell. Mrs. Grace B'crett, Misses Lucille Moulton, Bertha Ginn. Winifred Conrick, Elizabeth Ann Redmond. Mary Phillips Ramsey. Mamie Bass. Anna Glaska. Frances McGee. Jessie E. Jelly. Estcra Whitaker. Laura Holden.

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Pick Women in Charge of Bridge Party The committee in charge of the tournament finals and benefit bridge, to be given Saturday at%she Woman's Department Club by the American Association of University Women for the benefit of the scholarship fund, is as follows: Misses Thelma Davy. Mary Riggs, I.ula Case. Dorothy David. Helen Irwin Mesdames G. B Wolfe. W. L. Richardson, N. E. Pearson. Ward Fowler, Howard Benedict. M. R. Granger. E. C. Fahey, Albert Stump The hostesses for the party, which will be at 2:30 p. m.. arc: Mesdames J. W. Weddell, chairman: ,1. H. Butler. N. Taylor Todd. A. B. Carlile, J. H. Berk. N. D. Doane and Miss Katherine Laing. Reservations may be made with Mrs. E. M. Guthridge, 3037 Park Ave. Bride-Elect Is Entertained at Columbia Club Misses Dele and Mane Gardiner entertained with eight tables of bridge at the Columbia Club Monday evening, in honor of Miss Zola Marie Rice, whose marriage to J. Frank Jones will take place May 29. Miss Rice was presented with a silver coffee service. A color scheme of pink and white was carried out in the favors and tall tapers lighting the tables. The guests included: Misses Geneva Sands. Nelle Johnson. Lillian Pruitt. Mary Scanlan. Anna KHngschrnidt, Leona Sage. A’ma Hoenig, Emma Hoenlg, Frances Lawlor. Agnes Lawlor. Kathrvn Ashe. Leona <3ulnzonl. Anne Hickory. Eva Purler. Frances Koof. Mildred Keller May Ward. Gladys Leonard, Mary Reagan. Cora Rafert. Elizabeth Robinson. Lena High, Inez Whitaker. Josephine Rilrv. Louise Rice. Pairs Kenned’. Mary Reilly. Anne Griffin, Nell Maloney. Mesdames: Carl Van De Walle. Harold Marschke, Thomas Gardiner, Mary Rice. Card, Lotto Party A card party will be given Friday evening i uHoly Angels hall, TwentyEighth St. and Northwestern Ave., with M rs. W. H. Rohr and Mrs. JohnSurge in charge. They will be assisted by Twenty-Ninth St. members. In the afternoon a lotto party will be given. Card parties are given each Wednesday afternoon.

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