Indianapolis Times, Volume 39, Number 322, Indianapolis, Marion County, 8 May 1928 — Page 6

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Husband-Wife Jealousy Most Destructive Form of That Evil Weakness BY MARTHA LEE PETTY jealousies often grow into mountainous conceits wrecking a marriage built on the most solid foundation. Just as the small crevice in a high dike may lead to the destruction of that very seructure, so the small things in life lead to disaster. Certainly it is difficult to control jealousy. But stern measures of control must be used, and used quickly.

Jealousy between sweethearts, in the final analysis, is not so serious, but jeabousy between husband and wife is something that can not be toyed with successfully. There is a letter from a young girl whose entire life might be ruined by jealousy: Dear Martha Lee: I am eighteen years old and have t been married only three weeks. My hdsband is a musician and plays at a theater. Last night I went with him to wait while he played, and a girl X knew before I was married came into the show and sat down beside me. My husband has forbidden me to go with or be seen with this girl, but I didn’t know she was coming there. I couldn't tell her to leave. . . She stayed until my husband was through playing and asked if we would take her home. I told her she should go home on the street car. because I knew my husband would become angry if he had to take her home. . . , She insisted on staying, and we took her home. My husband was very angry after we had taken her home. After he took me home he left, and I haven’t seen hi l’love C him and I am sorry for what I have done. What would you do. Miss Lee? Please help me. . , , Your husband’s jealousy has led •him to do a very foolish thing, M. J. B. His love for you was the strongest thing in his soul when he asked you to be his wife. But now he has let jealousy strangle love. No doubt when his anger cools he will return to you. For no man whose anger is kindled so quickly can remain in that state for a very long time. But don’t make the mistake of playing up to his sudden fits of peevishness. It is much better to live without a husband whose temper is on a hair-trigger than to live in constant dread of an outburst of anger from one you love. However, I am inclined to believe that your trouble is just one of the little quarrels that beset all young married life, and that it will blow | over more quickly than it started. Dear Miss Lee: We are two lonely girls and would enjoy the association of the opposite sex. That is. if we could find the right kind. We do not have more than one or two dates with the same fellow because they do not seem to appreciate our higher ideals of personal character. Are there no fellows who appreciate a nice girl? TWO PALS. You just bet there are fellows who appreciate a nice girl. There are hundreds of them right here in this city looking for girls just like you “Two Pals.” You seem disappointed In your search for chaps who appreciate high ideals. But don’t be discouraged, because the class you are choosing from necessarily is limited. Keep right on looking for the right one. Have dates with all of them, don’t be snooty," and select the one you want. I’ll wager anew pair of hose that any number of young men with the qualities you describe will write in here this week to me. These young fellows don't like to have it said that they don’t exist. And that’s just what you are saying. I’ll publish every letter sent into The Times on the subject. Here are eight girls in need of a little help. Dear Miss Lee: Eight of us girls in the Methodist Episcopal Church with the organist have organized an octet. We would appreciate it very much if you could auggest an appropriate name. MISS H. S. Martha Lee is up against at now and is asking Times readers to help. If any of you have a suggestion just send it to me. BLACKMORE-DIETZ WEDDING ANNOUNCED Mr. and Mrs. Harry Dietz, 3443 Carrollton Ave., announce the marriage of their daughter, Charlotte Marie, to Loren J. Blackmore, son cf David M. Blackmore, Detroit, Mich., which took place April 28 at St. Joan of Arc rectory. The attendants were Mr. and Mrs. Henry J. Joyce Jr. Mr. and Mrs. Blackmore will be at home after May 15 at 245 W. Maple Rd. Stuhldreher-McEnery Harry A. Stuhdreher, formerly of this city, one of Notre Dame’s famous “Four Horsemen,” will wed Miss Mary Agnes McEnery, Philadelphia, Pa., in June. Ushers for the event will be James Crowley, Elmer Layden and Don Miller, other members of the famous four. Vigo Federation The Vigo County federation of clubs will meet Wednesday afternoon at the Terre Haute Y. W. C. A. Mrs. Frank Donner, ..district chairman, will spea kand Mrs. Carl Wolf will give a short report on the peace conference which she attended in Washington, D. C.

THE CONNOISSEUR

Van and e View, after no engagements with ladies for i c 4 three weeks, "ism by way of a t tempting to cure his wSSKm lady complex, is now BmSM break ing IWS^T having a Jfcj h j house party I m ]£m at his coun- ■

Having practiced self-denial till he couldn’t practice more, Mr. Van de View has now invited ladies by the score / To a party at his country house, and up and down the drive Be is pacing like a lion to await till they arrive.

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In a most informal manner, too, a smile from ear to ear, He is rushing out to greet the first arrivals with a cheer— Seeing Nataile as dearly irresistible as ever In a little jersey jacket frock impertinently clever.

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Mrs. W. D. Long

Asa part of the program of music week which is being presented at Hollenbeck Hall at the Y. W. C. A. this evening, Mrs. W. D. Long will give readings from Southern folk lore. The program is free. The public is invited. Literary Day for Hoosiers to Be Held on Aug. 4 The fourth annual literary field day of Indiana will be held Aug. 4 at Culver Military Academy. Its object is “to stimulate interest in fine arts among the boys and girls of Indiana and to encourage them to greater efforts in these fields.” Prizes are offered for drawing, one-act. short story (open to college stuednts) and short story (open to high school students), piano composition, poem, descriptive or narrative composition and theme. The advisory committee for the field day is: Meredith Nicholson, chairman: Wavman Adams. Maxwell Alev. George Ade. E. R. Culver. Claude G. Bowers, D. L. Chambers, Col. George T. Buckingham. Elmer Davis, A. R. Erskine. William Forsythe. Walter S. Greenough. Will H. Hays. Edward M. Holloway. Rov Howard. Hewitt H. Howland. Kin Hubbard, McCreadv Huston. Ray Long. John C. Mcllett, John T. McCutcheon. William Herschell. Anna Nichols. C. E. Scoggiru, Lorado Taft, Booth Tarklngton. Will Vawter and Earle Hitch, secretary. Teachers College Faculty Member to Give Recital Miss Mae Engle, artist pupil of Percy Grainger and member of the faculty in the music department of Teachers’ College, will give a piano recital at the college, Wednesday evening. Mias Engle ( will be assisted by Miss Twanette ‘Nutj ter, dramatic soprano, also of the music department of the college. The program will be a follows: ‘•ltalian Concerto” (first movement).. Each Miss L'ngle. “Nymphs and Shepherds” Purcell “My Mother Bids Me Bind My Hair’’. Haydn Miss Nutter. “Sonata Opus 7" (E minor) Grieg Allegro moderato. Andante molto. Alla Menuetto. Finale, molto allegro. Miss Engle. “One Spring Morning’’ Nevln “Dawn In the Desert” ...Ross “Ecstacy” Rummel Miss Nutter. “Nocturno Opus 32. No. 1“ ) “Etude Opus 10. No. 3” ) Chopin “Scherzo Opus 31” ) Miss Engle. “Je dis que rien ne m'epouvante” from "Carmen” Bizet Miss Nutter. “Rhapsodie Hongrolse No. 13” Liszt The Teachers College chorus under direction of Miss Nutter sang the cantata, “Hiawatha's Childhood,” this afternoon at the college. Mothers Picnic Luncheon An all day meeting and picnic luncheon was held today by the Delta Gamma Mothers Club at the Chapter house, 152 Downey Ave. Plans were completed for a farewell dinner to be given May 25 in honor of Delta Gamma seniors and their mothers, at the Memorial Presbyterian Church, Eleventh St. and Ashland Ave. Officers were elected for the coming year. The committee in charge was Mrs. E. H. Emrich, asssited by iMrs. L. P. DeVelling and Mrs. E. R. Parker. To Wed June 11* Mr. and Mrs. Rufus Swain announce the engagement of their daughter, Kathryn to John M. Kissinger, Columbia City, the wedding to take place June 14. Miss Ruth Campbell has resigned as principal of the Lebanon Junior high school to accept a position as hostess in Chadbourne Hall, University of Wisconsin dormitory and to work on her master’s degree.

The Guests Begin to Arrive for His House Party!

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There’s Amelia, too, whose company the Connoisseur had missed—(Who is verily the leader on his preferential list); She is looking very jaunty in her jacket suit of tweed, And his spirits now are soaring with a sudden burst oA speed.

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MARYE and ‘MOM’ nun THEIR LETTERS

BY RUTH DEWEY GROVES Dear Mom: To go on with my story about the meeting of Norman and me with Pede— Norman said some good,old-fash-ioned words when Pede insisted on my going with him, and then Pede stepped back and looked straight at Norman with fire in his eye. “The Senor forgets the lady,” he said in a voice that sounded like the rustle of silk. “You’d better do the same,” Norman told him. “She doesn’t seem to want to keep that date.” Then lie turned to me and asked me if I knew this masher. I had to say I did, of course, but I was not going to have Norman think I had deliberately walked him into the man. So I told Pede I was very sorry, but he’d have to excuse me because I didn’t know I had a heavy date with him. Then Norman took a step forward, with me on his arm, but Pede got in the way again. He put out a hand and stopped me. That was too much for Norman. He swung on Pede’s jaw and spun him half way around. I guess Norman didn’t stop to think how perfectly insane it was. But he knew in an instant all right. Pede whirled back and smashed him in the eye. By that time a crowd had gathered on the scene and more were coming. It was fighting mad, too. Because it certainly wasn’t my fault if those two dumb-bells wanted to indulge in a cheap street scene. So I ducked. When Norman followed me back into the apartment after finishing it up with Pede—three men pulled ’em apart—l gave him a good sound talking to. And put some chopped steak on his eye. I didn’t have any any other kind. It w T ould have been all right, but I’d already salted and peppered it. Norman didn’t stay very long after that but this morning he was feeling better. Well, I do hope his aunt won't hear about it. Dearest love, MARYE.

Prize Recipes by Readers

NOTE—The Times will f?lvc $1 for each recipe submitted by a reader adjudged of sufficient merit to be printed in Ihis column. One recipe is printed dallv. except Friday, when twenty are given. Address Recipe Editor of The Times. Prizes will be mailed to winners Write on one side of sheet only. Only one recipe each week will be accepted from one person Rocks One scant cup butter, one cup brown sugar, three whole eggs, one teaspoon cinnamon, one teaspoon dissolved soda, one cup nuts, one and one-half cups raisins, pinch of salt, three cups flour, one teaspoon baking powder. Mix well and drop on buttered tins. Bake slowly. MRS. A. GREGER Brownstown, Ind. Butler June Day Program to Open With Breakfast June day at Butler University will be observed June 1 with a breakfast at 11 a. m. on the Fairview campus and a pageant and a dance that evening at the Claypool. Sorority representatives for June Queen announced at Dean Evelyn Butler’s office are: Delta Delta Delta, Betty Bowman; Campus Club, Martha Gowdy; Kappa Kappa Gamma. Mildred Peyton; Kappa Alpha Theta, Gertrude Delbrook; Alpha Chi Omega, Lucinda Smith; Delta Gamma, Emily Mauzy; Zcta Tau Alpha, Mary Hastings; Kappa Phi, Margaret Walker: Alpha Delta Theta, Dorothy Robert ; Pi Beta Phi, Virginia Flowers; Alpha Delta Pi. Lillian King; Chi Theta Chi, Helen Lillie; Alpha Omricon Pi, Ruth Lindenburg, and University Club, Dorothy Lee. Missionary Society The sixteenth annual district convention of the Woman’s Home Missionary Society of the Methodist Episcopal Church was held at the First M. E. Church in Mt. Vernon today. Mrs. J. R. Wilkinson, district chairman, presided. Miss Lula (Krepps, national field secretary of the society spoke at the afternoon session. P. T. A. to Elect Parent-Teacher Club of School No. 31 will hold the last meeting of the year Wednesday at 2:30 p. m. Stunts will be given and annual election of officers held. Rummage Sale The Sahara Buds will hold a rummage sale at 701 Indiana Ave., Saturday. Anyone wishing to donate rummage may call Harrison 1365-W.

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Not the “Patent-Leather Kid” but the kid ensemble is the latest. Wrap-around skirt, short jacket, one strap pumps and novelty hatband of this smart sports outfit are made of jade green kidskin, cleverly handled. White kid pipes all the edges and fashion long hat is of white felt with a green banding: ,

Young Mothers Receive Advice of Mrs. Lieber “Mothers think that they will instinctively know the right thing to do for their child, but this is not their atitude toward cooking their first steak,” said Mrs. Emma Lieber, director of the Claire Anne Shover Nursery School before a group of young mothers at Butler University Monday. Mrs. Lieber said that parenthood should be regarded as a profession requiring years of training, just as every other profession does, and she said that the nursery school exists as much for the benefit of the parent as the child. “Piece-mealing,” the speaker said, “tends to develop food prejudices. A hungry child will usually eat what is set before him.” The old adage, “a child should be seen but not heard,” was refuted by Mrs. Lieber, who said, "Children should be heard. While they should not be allowed to monopolize the conversation, they should be given a chance to express themselves.” This class meets on Monday afternoons at 3 o'clock in Room 8 and is open to all mothers of young children. Chicago Writer Speaker Before State Press Club Covers were laid for fifty members and guests of the Woman's Press Club of Indiana at the guest luncheon of the club today at the Columbia Club when Geneva Forbes Herrick, Chicago Tribune feature writer, spoke on “What Is News?” Mrs. Sara Messing Stern, Terre Haute, president of the club, presided. Miss Mildred Johns, contralto, sang during the luncheon. Spring flowers decorated the tables. Rummage Sale The Little Theatre Society will have a rummage sale Saturday from 10 a. m. to 4 p. m., at the Lauter Memorial. Mrs. Frank W. Warsel is chairman. Anyone who has rummage to sell can send it to the playhouse at Nineteenth and Alabama Sts., or to 612 E. Thirteenth St., Miss Sara Lauter. On Friday rummage can be sent to the Boys’ Club. Anyone not having a car can call Mrs. Warfel at Washington 1649 and the rummage will be called for. Pastry Care Have care where you stand pastry just out of the oven. A cold or draughty place often condense the steam and makes it heavy.

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An accelerator, too, to send his spirits even higher Is the fascinating Eve, a lady always to admire, And today she’s more than charming in a suit that has a Os the zodiac upon it—and he thinks her super-fine.

Banquet for Mothers and Daughters will be special guests of members of the Y. W. C. A. industrial department mother and daughter banquet to be held at the Central Y. W. C. A. Wednesday. The May basket motif will be used in all the decorations, which will be in the pastel shades, and also in the program. Tables will bear spring flowers and miniature May poles; favors cf glass May baskets filled with flowers will be presented each mother.

An orchestra composed of Thelma Tacoma, Jane Thorn and Katherine Tacoma will play through the dinner hour. Miss Mary Ruth Sipple, president of the industrial department, will act as toastmistress, introducing Mrs. Lennie Gorens, representing the mothers, who will talk on “The Basket,” followed by a representative of the girls, Miss Gladys Champlain, who will talk on “The Flowers in the Basket." Miss Opal Boston will show how the Y. W. C. A. is the handle that links mothers and daughters. Miss Katherine Harrod will give a reading for mothers, "Special Flowers,” and pupils of Mme. Theo Hewes will dance. One hundred and fifty guests are expected. Following the program Miss Violet Van Note will be in charge of a play hour in the gymnasium. Miss Ollie Davenport is general chairman assisted by Miss Gladys Champlain.

Under the title “The Sons and Daughters of I Will Rise,” Miss Mae B. Belcher, executive secretary of the Phyllis Wheatley Branch of the Y. W. C. A., will review a cross section of Negro achievement at the weekly luncheon discussion group held In the green dining room of the Central Y. W. C. A. Wednesday noon. All business and professional women of the city who enjoy discussions of current topics are invited from 12 to 1 p. m. Miss Ruth Milligan. educational director of the Y. W. C. A., will preside. The educational department of the Y. W. C. A. will entertain its j teachers with a dinner Thursday evening at the Y. W. C. A. Guests i will be Kirs. Leo K. Fessler, Miss

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Dotted Marquisette and Grenadine Curtains 9§c Full 2'4 yards long. With white or colored dots. Complete with matching tiebacks. 98c pair.

Spanish Net 48-Inch width jf openwork Spanish net in ecru color. . Wide enough to use one strip to a window, 69c yard.

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APRIL BRIDE

Moorfleld Photo Mrs. Robert E. Hendrickson Before her marriage April 28, Mrs. Hendrickson was Miss Winifred Jeanette Rupert, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Robert O. Rupert. Mr. and Mrs Hendrickson will live in Indianapolis.

CARD PARTIES

The Altar Society of St. Philip Neri parish will give a card party Wednesday at 8:30 p. m., at the audito”ium on Eastern Ave. Mrs. Irwin Vaughn is chairman. St. Marys Social Club will entertain at cards and lotto at 315 N. New Jersey St., Thursday afternoon. Reeta Clark, Mrs. Musette A. Stoddard, Miss Kathryn Harrod, Mile. Marie Cousin, Miss Vera Fee, Mrs. Glenn Diddell, Mrs. May K. Stevenson, Mrs. Norman C. Green and Mrs. Anthony W. Bowen. Miss Ruth S. Milligan, educational director of the Y. W. C. A., and Mrs. Bowen will be co-chairmen of the meeting at which plans for the next year will be made.

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Mrs. Rybolt Heads Sale of Flowers Mrs. James Rybolt Is general chairman of the annual Carnation day sale to be held Saturday on the streets of Indianapolis by the Marion County chapter of the American War Mothers. She will be assisted oy members of the chapter. Proceeds from the sale which always is held on the Saturday preceding Mother’s day, will go to needy ex-service men and their families. The day sale has been indorsed by President Coolidge. Mrs. E. May Hahn is president of the Marion County chapter of American War Mothers. The carnations are sold for 10 cents or any larger amount. June 23 Wedding Date The engagement of Miss Violett© Grabhorn, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. George Grabhorn, 417 N. Euclid Ave., to George Schumaker has been announced. The wedding will take place June 23 at the German M. E. Church. Silver Offering Tea Mrs. Ida Thomas and Mrs. William Graham will entertain with a silver offering musical tea Sunday, from 2 until 6 p. m., at tha home of Mrs. Mary Ann Phillips, 2028 Columbia Ave., as a benefit for St. Rita’s Catholic church. Flanders-Kistler Mr. and Mrs. William H. Flanders, 4658 Cornelius Ave., announce the engagement of their daughter, Alice Elizabeth, to George H. Kistler, son of the Rev. and Mrs. Edward Haines Klstler. The wedding will take place In June. Polka Dots A gold handkerchief linen frock with quarter-sized brown dots has a plain brown velveteen long coat over it, with linen facings. Beach Berets Smart bathing beauties will wear berets fully as often as kerchiefs for headgear this year. They come in soft jersey, in flannel, and in broadcloth.

Rayon Cornice Fringe 98c Usual $1.29 quality of beautiful rayon cornice fringe in popular color combinations. 9 Inches deep. Headed and reads' to hang. 54-In. Sunfast Velour $1,89 Heavy quality mercerized velour In rose, blue, Spanish red, mulberry, wine,, green, orange and other colors, also black.

45-Inch Taffeta Rayon drapery a and bedspread taffeta in rose, ~ blue, gold and orchid. A good heavy quality, 89c yard.

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