Indianapolis Times, Volume 39, Number 291, Indianapolis, Marion County, 2 April 1928 — Page 6
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Absence and Fondness Theory Dangerous When Applied to Matrimony
By MARTHA LEE ■jy TANY “part-time” widows sometimes feci like rebelling IVI against the life thy lead due to their liuband's occupations. Wives of traveling men find themselves alone for three or four nights every week or for several weeks at a stretch. Os the two, of course the one whose husband is away for the long period of time without any intervals home is the one who has the most about which to complain. Every wife knows that
a long separation means beginning of a barrier between her husband and her composed of different friends, interests and experiences that can be torn down only by the extreme skill and tact of the wife because men never realize that a situation like this can come up. As for the wife whose husband is away for several nights each week, but is home for the week-end, she really has a fortunate position. With little effort she can keep all the fascination of her sweetheart days because her husband will not be bored with seeing her every night. She, too, will find that she is more eager to see him after his trip than if he returned home every evening promptly at six. Each wife has her own problem. My advice is to cultivate that ability to turn every situation into an advantage. Then the happiness of your marriage constantly will have a foundation which grows stronger and stronger as the years go by. Pear Miss Pec: I am a young married woman and my husband is away for three weeks at a time. Then he is home for three weeks. It worries me because I am so afraid that something will make our marriage turn out unhappily like so many of them do. Do you think that my husband will lose interest in me since he is away for so long at a time? If so, what should I do? Fortunately I have plenty to do while he is gone because I have many friends here and I am interested in several charities, but do you think I ought to go with him when he asks me on some of these trips? I really would just as soon stay here in town, but I wonder if that is best. MARY h. Dear Mary L: T rather imagine you have been married but a short while for brides constantly fear that something will- mar their idyllic happiness. Your husband’s being away for three weeks will do nothing to ruin the success of your marriage if you yourself manage things ' right. You must make your home so attractive that this young husband actually will long for the time when he can return to you. Take occasional trips with your husband even though it rather bores you. Men delight in showing women how much they know about this and that, and this will be a good opportunity for your husband to show you how much he knows about traveling. Just a hint, my dear—bo properly admiring of his knowledge. Your having outside interests no doubt- gives you many things to tell your husband when he comes nome Keep this up. Dear Miss tee: T was going steady. About a month ago 1 had a date with this young man. He did not say anything abount writing or calling. I have not heard from him since. I went to the show today. He came In with another boy friend and sat down right in front ol me. He did not see me until he had sat down. Then he said something to his companion and neither one acted as if I were anywhere nearby. Wasn’t it his place lo speak? T thought I would be out of place in making him speak unless he turned around. Do you think it would be all right for me to write or call? I have no phone fnr him to call me. I do not know what I have done for him to act tills way. Thank vou for vour kindness. BABS. Dear Babs: You were right in not forcing him to speak. II he had turned or if you had both seen each other as this youflg man entered the show, it would have been j our place to speak, because it is j always the woman’s place to greet; the man first. Do not write or call this young man. If he wants to see you lie knows where you live and if I rj can not call he can write you a note. Evidently he has decided that your friendship should stop and so he has just dropped out of your little circle. He probably has no reason. Beys sometimes act peculiarly You will learn this as you grow older, so do not worry about his actions, my dear. Dear Marti n T.rc: T wisli to sc- this in print and tell fir. Old Man 23 that h “knows his stuff." I am around that agand unmarried. That is why I did not j marry is as Old Man 28 said, too many j fallows in these days r-.pect the girls lo ; work and rp-ke the living. Please I"11 , Old Man 28 I shake hands with him. He is the kind ot feilow who makes a girl a happy home. DOLLY DIMPLES. i Dear Dolly Dimples: Another letter disagreeing with Married Student from Bloomington. Perhaps not so many of ou young persons have I the same idea as he after all. I was | very glad to hear from you. Wed din rs Ann iv ersary Mr. and Mrs. George Dale, near Wabash, will observe the fifty-first anniversary of their marriage Sunday with a quiet family gathering. They are early settlers in the county and well known among the older people.
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In a final firm endeavor f ' effect conciliation, Mr. Van de View to consummate a marvelous vacation Asks Amelia, Eve and Natalie to motor home with him, But they haven't yet appeared and hope is growing very dim.
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Just because he got their flowers mixed a week or two ago Isn't really any reason why they ought to treat him so, But it's quite the best surprise the Connoisseur has ever had When he secs the charming Natalie fur motor travel clad.
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Roberta F. King , i Willard Whipple Wed at Church Miss Roberta Florence King. ! daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Robert F. King, Eighty-Second at., and Central Ave.. and Willard Whipple, were married at 9 a. m. Sunday at the Meridian Heights Presbyterian Church with Rev. Thomas R. White, officiating. Mrs. Louis Mavin sang “O Promise Me” and “At Dawning.” The bride’s cnlv attendant was her sister. Miss Grace Louise King, who wore a blonde georgette gown and carried an arm bouquet of pink roses. The bride wore a gown of blue chiffon trimmed in ecru lace and carried white roses. Weldon E. Worth was best man. After a wedding trip, Mr. and Mrs. Whippel will be at home in Indianapolis.
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NOTE The Times will give SI for each recipe submitted by a reader adtudKcd of sufficient merit to be printed lu mis column. One recipe is printed daily, except Friday, when twenty are Kiven. Address Recipe Editor of The Times. Prizes will be mailed to winners. Write on one side of sheet only. Only one recipe each week will be accepted from one person. Banana Jalousie Bake puff paste over oval tins. When cold line with pineapple preserves; cover with slices of banana overlapping eacli other and sprinkle with powdered sugar. MATILDA BROWER. Bainbridge, lnd. MARY ETTA MAUCK WILL WED ROBERT DAVIDSON The marriage of Miss Maryetta Mauck, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. C. A. Mauck, Owensville, and Robert Davidson, will take place Wednesday at 11 a. m. at the home of the bride's parents in Owensville. Miss Mauck Is a teacher at the Herron Art Institute anc! Mr. Davidson, a graduate of the art school, is a tear her at file Orchard school. The wedding will be the culmination of a romance started when both were students at the art institute. After a wedding trip, the couple will be at home at 1917 N. Talbott St. Artists ’ Club Ball The Indiana Artists' Club will entertain with its annual costume ball Saturday, April 14, in Sculpture Court at the John Herron Art Institute. George Calvert, president, will be assisted with arrangements by Simon Daus, Robert Cra'g, Dr. Leonidas. Smith, Edward Sitzman, Mrs. Geraldine Scott, Paul Randall and Edward K. Williams. Woman Judicial Candidate Mrs. Hartley Stuaebaker, Delphi, is a candidate for the Democratic nomination for circuit judge in Carroll County. Gus Hall. Delphi attorney, is also a Democratic candidate. Mrs. Oren W. Miller is in Washington with Mrs. Charles Winter, Cambridge, Md. Mrs. U. S. Stoner has returned from visiting her son, Russell Joel Horton, in Ft. Wayne.
He Motors Natalie, Amelia and Eve Back Home
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And Amelia, too, apparently is going right along For she smiles at him as if he'd never made a motion wrong, And her collar scarf is thrown arounc} in such a jaunty way That he stutters out the welcome that was on his tongue to say.
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MARYE and ‘MOM st a a THEIR LETTERS
BY RUTH DEWEY GROVES Marye Dear: I’m really worried about your behavior in regard to your young friend. Billy Bartlett. Why don't j r ou let him alone. Suppose you should succeed in transferring his interests from yourself to Florence? Do you think it would make him any happier than he is now if Florence failed to respond accordingly? And just consider how unfortunate it would be if she should begin to care for him. She must come home to look after her mother. If she doesn't. Betty will be miserable wtih either a discontented mother or husband on her hands. Or you and Alan will have to move back here and provide a home for the dear old lady. Os course, if it happens that Florence finds the right man in the city no one can expect her to sacrifice any more of her life than Alan or Betty should. However. I do think you ought not to encourage her in anything that might cause her to imagine herself in love with a young man like Billy Bartlett. It might lead to some foolish and hasty consequence. If she were going to remain there it would be different. They would not dread a parting as will be the case if they fall in love with each other now. Young people often rush into matrimony when they would not think of it if a parting did not threaten them. Please think seriously of this. Marye. You may believe that marriages are made in heaven but experience proves that propinquity lias a lot to do with the average mating. By throwing Florence and this young man together you risk getting them interested in each other beyond the point you have in mind—to merely cure him of hit: penny love for you. * Os course, yon are scarcely more than a youngster yourself even though you are married. And I do not expect you to show sound judgment in these matters. But I do hope that at least you will heed what I say to you, Marye dear, and stop n’aying with fire. For human emotions are like fire. They can so easily get beyond control. You can never tell where the attemnt to direct another person's affection will lead to; and I trust you have enough sympathy in your nature not to enjoy making any one suffer from a hopeless love. It might easily happen that Florence would loss her to this young man and yet fail to attract him. You must realize. Marye, that while she is with you it is your duty to look out for such things and protect her wherever you can. Dearest love. MOM. Chime Formal Banquet One hundred invitations have been issued to former members of Chimes, Butler’s honorary junior organization for women, faculty members, prominent upper classmen and pledges for the formal banquet of Chimes to be held Monday, April 9, at the Columbia Club. Eight sophomore girls will be pledged. Re-Elected Chairman Mrs. John Shroyer, Richmond, was re-elected chairman of the Wayne County Federation of Women’s Clubs at the recent convention.
Minstrel Show Monday to Be Club Benefit A juvenile minstrel show will be given next Monday evening at the West Indianapolis branch library. 1926 W. Moris St., for the benefit of the Girls’ Expression Club of the W. C. T. U. with Mrs. Mae Boyl Brown directing the show and Mrs. Virgil Thomas as interlocutor. The program will feature a plantation wedding and dance revue with the following taking the part of special dancing characters: Maxine Lambert. Joseph Kcrsting. Alma Edmonds, Bessie Short. Irene Grose, Bobbie Thomas, Eunice Quackenbusli, Margaret Kemp and Olive Brown. Pickaninnies will be Evelyn Lockwood, Zola Jordan, Mary Jane Dc Hoff, Grace Dickey. Constance McLean, Jean and Genevieve Sanders. Hope Brown. Dorothy Conroy, Irene Sking and Ramona Brown. The cast includes members of Mile. Thco Hcwes’ studio classes and the Girls’ Expression Club. Rex Young to Speak Rex P. Young, assistant secretary of the Fletcher Savings and Trust Company, will speak at the Alliance Francaise this evening at the Y. W. C. A. He will describe places in France and Switzerland which he visited last summer. Jay County W. C. T. U. The Jay County W. C. T. U. will meet all day Tuesday at Portland. Mrs. Stimpscn will speak and Mrs. L. W. Stewart, county president, will preside. New Mancie Nurse Miss Effie Katherine Smith. Speed. Ind.. took up her duties as field supervisor of the Muncic Visiting Nurse Association today, to succeed Miss Lucy P. Beldcn, who resigned to return to her home in Cleveland, Ohio. Celebrate Annie ersary Mr. and Mrs. Charles George celebrated their fifty-sixth wedding anniversary Sunday at the home of their daughter. Mrs. E. C. Claman. 417 N. Riley Ave. They have lived here since 1882. Phi Delt Mothers Phi Delta Theta Mothers' Club will meet for luncheon Wednesday at tlic chapter house. Mrs. Urban Wilde. Mrs. C. S. Buttcrworth and Mrs. George Cottrell will be liostes:cs. For Bride-Elect Miss Dorothy E. Basey, 47 E. Raymond St., entertained Saturday afternoon with a bunco party and miscellaneous shower in honor of Miss Jane Axtcll. whose marriage to Harrison Marsh will take place this spring. Bridal colors of pink and white were used. Honor Miss Bakemcicr Mrs. Delmore F. Nucklcs, 3614 Robson St., entertained Saturday night with a miscellaneous shower and bunco party in honor of Miss Hazel Bakemeier. whose marriage to Russell W. Durler will take place April 15.
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With the two he's very happy and he hardly can believe That the other one is coming, too—the captivating EveIn a coat of tweed that has a belt to make it sleek and slim— Now he thinks he’ll drive i thousand miles with undiminished vim.
Club Hears Professor of Wabash Prof. George Henry Tapy of the psychology department of Wabash College spoke at the guest day meeting of the Review Club this afternoon with Mrs. Robert C. Elliottt, 2057 N. New Jersey St. About fifty members and guests were present. The Irvington Woman’s Club met this afternoon with Mrs. L. J. Wood, 28 S. Irvington Ave. Members reviewed books read during the past year. Mrs. Mary E .Cotton. 2818 Ashland Ave.. w’as hostess tor the Fortnightly Study Club this afternoon when Mrs. Frank Symmes read a paper on “Revolution in Modern Poetry, 1912,” and Mrs. James E. Gaul talked on “Huntington and Barnard Art Collections.” Mrs. M. E. Robbins presented a number of interesting facts about the Wheeler Mission. Tulips and sweet peas were used for decoration in Mrs. Cotton’s home. CHICAGO WOMAN WILL SPEAK AT PRESS CLUB Mrs. Mary Ridpath Mann, Chicago, will speak on “Woes of a Manuscript Reader,” at the luncheon cf the Woman’s Press Club of Indiana April 10 at the Columbia Club. Mrs. Walker Baylor will sing two groups of songs, accompanied by Mrs. Cora Young Wiles and Mr. Baylor. Reservations for the luncheon should be made by Saturday with Mrs. Bernard Korbly, 425 N. Audubon Rd. Take Practice Teaching Bjl Timt s Sprcinl BLOOMINGTON. Ind.. April 2. Gertrude Lewis, Marie Bagnoli, Katherine Gause, Mildred May, Lucille Roth and Esther Sullivan, all of Indianapolis, are among 153 Indiana University students gaining experience in teaching through practice in public schools of Bloomington and elsewhere in Monroe County. This work is done in connection with the university school of education as part of the required preparation for a teaching career.
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WILL SWIM TO RACES AT MUNCIE Y. W. C. A. Swimmers at the Y. W. C. A. will swim down White River to Indianapolis, starting April 4 and arriving for the Speedway races, May 30, in a novel stunt in which all the swimming will be done in the Muncie Y. W. C. A. pool. Miss Anne Rodecap, instructor is in charge of the swim, eleven laps of which may be done each day at the pool. Those entered are: Mrs. Dora Snyder. Miss Helen Koontz, Miss .Emily McCarty, Miss Esther Bryan, Miss Martha Perdiue, Miss Margaret Johnson, Miss Norma Seal, Miss Frances Swanson, Miss Virginia Rankin and Miss Mary Alice Lane. Officers’ Wives Bridge Officers’ wives of the Indiana national guard and naval militia entertained at bridge this afternoon at the National Guard Armory. New officers, appointed at the last meeting and who acted as hostesses were: Mrs. William Kester, president; Mrs. W. W. Poet, treasurer and Mrs. J. W. Carr, secretary. Others on the committee are Mrs. N. A. Nicholai. assistant secretary; Mrs. R. F. Taylor, assistant treasurer; Mrs. G. A. Summa and Mis. H N. Bryan. Queen Esther Circle Queen Esther Circle of the First Moravian Episcopal Church will meet Wednesday afternoon with Mrs. George Rothrock. 37 E. ThirtyFourth St. Mrs. Rothrock will be assisted by Mrs. Charles Johnson and Mrs. John Rusie. Club Meeting Mrs. Anna G. Moore. 1925 N. Pennsylvania St., was hostess for the Monday Conservation Club this afternoon. Mrs. Robert Gilliland and Mrs. Edwin Hunt gave the program. Golden Wedding Mr. and Mrs. William F. Cain, near Plymouth, will celebrate their golden wedding anniversary Tuesday with a family dinner at noon and open house during the afternoon. Tuesday Club Party The Tuesday Chib will entertain at cards at 2 p. m. Tuesday at 3514 E. Washington St. Cathedral Mothers Club The Mothers Club of Cathedral high school will meet in the cafeteria Tuesday at 2 p. m.
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County Club i Women Will 1 Meet Friday I The sixth annual meeting ot (ha V Wabash County Federation of Wo- fl men’s Clubs will be held at the I Lutheran Church in North Man- fl Chester, Friday. Mrs. Archie Porter, J Wabash County chairman, will pre- fl side. Mrs. E. D. Pearson is vice fl president and Mrs. J. W. Warrvel, fl secretary-treasurer. fl Committees of North Manchester ■ ciub women in charge include: Reception, Mrs. A. W. Coidicr, fl Mrs. Herman Martin, Mrs. A. C. \ Wolfe, Mrs. Charles Signs, Mrs. W. H. Shaffer, Miss Gertrude Eichholtz, Mrs. Laura Ginther, Mrs. Lou Harrell and Mrs. Lautzenhiser; registration, Mrs. Tobias Peugb and Mrs. C. B. DeLancey; program, Mrs. Arch Porter, Mrs. A. C. Wolfe and Mrs. E. D. Pearson; music, Mrs. C. H. Risser; ticket, Mrs. J. W. Warvel and Mrs. H. H. Martin; decoration, Mrs. W. E. Billings, Mrs. J. H Miller and Mrs. J. L. Gilbert. The Eleventh district Indiana Federation of Clubs will meet next Monday at Marion. Mrs. Hamet D. Hinkle State president, and Mrs. Walter Bent, Wabash, district chairman, will be honor guests. Mrs. Austin Ferguson, Grant County chairman, has announced the following committees for the day: Place and luncheon, Mrs. E. L. Rasehbacker and Miss Alice Goldthwaite; reception, Mrs. J. H. Deakins; pages, Miss Blanche Beshore, Van Buren and Miss Lenore Hartman, Gas City; music, Mrs. Virgil Sipe. MISS HARDY ENGAGED TO WILLIAM TONER Mrs Amelia Hardy, Monte Carlo, France, announces the engagement of her daughter, Gloria Virginia Hardy, to William M. Toner, publisher of the Anderson Herald, son of Mrs. E. C. Toner. Anderson. The wedding will take place in the fall. Miss Hardy will be presented at the court of St. James during the summer. Mrs. Hardy and her daughter visited Anderson recently. Church Dinner Women of the Second Reformed Church, Merrill and Alabama Sts* will give a dinner from 11 to 1, Tuesday at the church.