Indianapolis Times, Volume 39, Number 287, Indianapolis, Marion County, 28 March 1928 — Page 6

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Teasing Husband Merely Proves Theory Some Men Never Really ‘Grow Up' -By MARTHA LEE WOMEN sometimes forget that men never grow up. No matter how old men get in years, they still enjoy that boyish habit of teasing even though' to a woman the teasing seems ridiculous and boring. Since this boyishness is one of the characteristics that makes a woman first fall in love with a man because it arouses her maternal instinct, my advice to the wife who becomes annoyed in later life by this habit of her

husband's “to put her on” is to cultivate the quality of forbearance. Remembers, wives, many a man expresses his lore for his wife by gently chiding her, always calling attention to her little oddities. The smart wife knows that every man is afraid to reveal just how much he loves his wife for fear his friends will dub him lovesick. Consequently, when she is on his mind he feels he must say something about her, and he will generally reveal this by a “just look at the way my wife plays cards” or “isn’t my wife lazy; does nothing all day?” Still, all the time back of this teasing is real love and affection. Everyone dislikes the person who fails to be a “good sport.” The wife who can not take this teasing by her husband shows that she is egotist because she can not bear any remark that is not entirely complimentary, even though she knows down in her heart that her husbands means it just in play. Be glad, wives, that your husbands have this boyish streak. Give thanks that your husbands do not treat you with indifference for that sometimes is a sign that love is going.

Dear Miss Lee: I am the mother of seven children five of them are from ten months to ten years. As we are of moderate means, I do most of my work. I manage to have my washing done, but that is all. I cook, sew, mend, clean and run after the little ones from 7 in the morning to 10 o'clock at night. I dress and look as well as the average woman, and I always try to have the house clean when my husband comes home. My husband is a good dresser, has short working hours and works from 1 o'clock to 9 o'clock, and then he comes home to talk and in a teasing way about all the girls he has seen. Os course. I am tired this stuff sounds perfectly silly. He does not seem to have much interest in the home and that worries me. The children do about as they please as far as he Is concerned. He stands in front of a mirror and primps. Miss Lee. worst of all. when a trifling mistake happened, he said it was due to my laziness. That really hurt my feelings and I have cried just about all day over it. My husband had never know what it is to want for clean clothes or anything and then he savs I am lazy. Please advise me what to do. TIIED WIFE AND MOTHER. Dear Tired Wife and Mother: I know that you have so many duties that you are completely worn out. You have Worked yourself into an hysterical condition over a trifling comment that really amounts to nothing. You know yourself when something vexes you, you ae apt to say most anything without any thought behind it. No doubt this was the way your husband happened to make his comment. You do extend a lot of energy to make your home a success, but you forget that' most husbands would •ather have more dust and a better, disposition in their wives than a spotless house and a nagg’ng, bad , tempered wife. This teasing and “primping” of j your husband is just characteristic of some men. They mean nothing I by it and I am sure if you stop overtaxing your strength by working so hard you will be able to overlook it. Dear Miss Lee: I am 18 and have had several dates with a bov who is 19. He cares a good deal for me and has asked me to go steadv with him and give up all my other bov* friends. If I do not go steadv with him. he will not have any more dates with me as he says he wants to come first with me and not rate third or fourth. I like this bov a lot. but I do not want to go steadv with anyone. I told him I would give him two dates a week, but he says he can have two dates a week with lots of girls for whom he cares nothing. . .... His main reason for not wanting to date me at all is that he would like me more and more and could not bear to see me with others. He has a stubborn and determined nature and I do not think I could change his mind about this. I reallv want to have dates with him as I think very, \ very much of him. SALLY. Dear Sally: Forgive me for printing your letter but it contains the question that puzzles so many readers. I do not believe in going with one young man at your age because I feel that it keeps a young girl, as well as the young man, of course, from having ail the delightful fun of having many dates with many different boys, that makes youth the gay time it should be. There are always many ways of avoiding a difficulty my dear, where young men are concerned. Why did you not explain to him that your parents objected to your seeing one young man so constantly? Most parents do object because they know that besides the good time it deprives their daughter of, it also is against the rules of convention that dictates that a well bred young woman does not devote her entire time to any young man to whom she does not intend to announces her engagement in the near future. Since you are too young to think of matrimony, you see yourself that it would not be the thing for you to see this young man and no one else. Os course, young men at the age of 19 are proverbially jealous. He will get over it as he grows older and gets some sense.

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Bridge Fete in Honor of Guest Here Mrs. Littleberry S. Foster. Jr., 3540 N. Pennsylvania St., entertained with an afternoon bridge today in honor of Mrs. Burt J. Clark, Minneapolis, Minn., who is the guest of Mrs. Arthur E. Guedel, 4455 Carrollton Ave. Daffodils were used for decoration. With the honor guest and her hostess were: Mesdames Otto Mueller, J. L. Schmidt, A. H. Webber, B. Clark. Fred W. Mayer, Roy Sahm, Wilson B. Parker, J. W. Carmack. Arthur Strauss and Ralph Norwood. 0. E. S . BREAKFAST BY WORTHY MATRONS A 10 o’clock breakfast honoring high officials of the Indiana grand chapter of the Order of the Eastern Star was given today by the Indianapolis section of worthy matrons of the organization at the Lumley tea room. The honor guests included Mrs. Lettie M. Ferguson, Ft. Wayne, worthy grand matron; Mrs. Susie Masters, Indianapolis, associate grand matron; Mrs. Blanche Regrett, Clarks Hill, past grand matron, and Mrs. Martha Zoercher, past grand matron and editor of the “Eastern Star.” Mrs. Harold Trusler of the Indianapolis section was chairman in charge of the arrangements for the affair. Business Girls’ Charm School Business girls of the South Side Y. W. C. A. will meet there for supper and a "charm school” tonight and will hear Mrs. John Spiegel talk on “The Charm of Table Etiquette.’ This is the first meetnig of the complete organization, which is composed of the combined membership of several south side business groups. Miss Helen Dongus will preside. For Prosecutor Mrs. Bernice M. Harrison, Angola attorney, is a candidate for nomination for prosecuting attorney on the Republican ticket. Mrs. Harrison is serving her fourth term as secretary of the Steuben County Bar Association and is president of the Busyness and Professional Women’s Club. Strong-Butler The marriage of Miss Elaine Butler, Farmington, 111., and Allen Strong, Bloomington, took place in this city Saturday. They will live in Bloomington. Bunco Club * The meeting of the Cleophas Bunco Club was held this afternoon with Mrs. William Sprat, 722 N. Linwood Ave. A business meeting was held after the luncheon. Girl Reserve Party The Technical High School Girl Reserves will entertain Friday night with a Camp Delight evening in honor of alumnae of Girl Reserves. Among those to attend will be Marian Shadd, Alice Hall and Isabel Early, Butler; Alice Evans, De Pauw; Eva Pyle, Purdue; Marjorie Bollinger, Evansville, and Margaret Cornell, Myrtle Powell, Francis Shaffer, Ruth Patterson, Opal Boston and Anita Brownley. Dinner Bridge Lieut, and Mrs. R. R. Louden, Ft. Harrison, will entertain eighteen couples with a dinner bridge at the Hocsier Athlete Club Friday evening. Bridge Hostess Mrs. Edward H. Enners is hostess for the monthly night bridge party for members and guests at the Hooser Athletic Club Thursday at 8:30 p. m. Pretty Combination Maize hand-blocked linen in a geometric pattern in browns and orange,! makes a sleeveless cardigan to top a maize crepe de chine frock.

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Sentimental in his nature as a lad of seventeen Mr. Van de View’s enchanted by the beauty 'of the scene, When the stars above are twinkling in a spirit of delight. And the darkness puts a mystic spell of wonder on the night.

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Teachers College Tea Teachers College will give a tea at 4:30 p. rA. Thursday for former students in Indianapolis and Marion County. Miss Rubie Stapp is in charge and Dean Emma Colbert, Virgil Binford and Mrs. Alice C. Sies, president, will explain progress of the endowment campaign fund. An historical exhibit of old college pictures and trophies will be shown.

He decides that merely dancing is a sinful waste of time And neglecting of the starlit heavens nothing short of crime. So he takes his dancing partner (in a satin gleaming white) To the balcony to share with her the glories of the sight.

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BY JULIA BLANSHARD NEA Service Writer SHOES, ’tis said, date the Easter costume this year, as tight skirts or new hats have in other years. Some of the newest notes of the Spring mode, one might say, strike one feet-first. She who would keep step with Dame Fashion in Easter parade, therefore, must look to her feet. For one's impeccable taste is revealed when a discriminating sense selects just the proper shoe for a given occasion and costume. Shoes that will march on Easter have classic lines. Gone arc the novelties that were so cut-up with inserts of contrasting materials, lines and whatnot that they looked ginger-bready. Restraint, rich beauty and svelt grace characterize new daytime shoes. Livening New Leathers They are distinctive and individual. New leathers will liven the pavements of New York and other cities. .But even the bright green, scarlet, red or maize kids have such svelt Tines and graceful, unbroken surfaces that they seem colorfully elegant rather than decadently novel. The shoes that walk out on Easter are apt to be pumps, step-ins or one-strap modeis. T-strap sandals are seen occasionally. Slenderness of straps is a distinctive note now. The intricate, elaborate and showily adorned laced straps oi the winter have melted from view as have the snows. All trims are delicate and accent a slender silhouette of grace rather than being merely ornamented. Heels are sensibly lower—the modified spike and even cuban heels finding favor. And everywhere there is a trend away from the cute shortish vamp of French favor towards the slender, more graceful American style. Tips, therefore, are disappearing. And the much cut-up vamp is no longer good. Reptilian Leathers Desirable All the reptilian leathers are excellent, especially independence blue lizard and honey beige snake-skin. Chintz kid, flowered linens, handblocked prints and embroidered straw weaves predict a colorful and decorative year for feet, as do patent leather, gun mental kid and the fine calf by taking soft shades. Black is good for the street. But color’s the thing! Five totally different types of Easter shoes are shown today. First we have the step-in of pale silver grey doe-skin with cut out saddle of snake skin in a dark grey. A modified heel, a tipless vamp and an elegant simplicity .about the trim of this svelt shoe commends it. A tongue of the snake skin is restrainedly simple. Next comes the simple elegrance of kid one-straps in violet kid with Basque woven trims. Os slender silhouette and real grace, these shoes are perfect with the printed silk ensemble in the new pansy shades. Featuring the Open Shanks For the printed frock we show printed rajah one-straps, with bag in matching material—both accenting the reds and white of the frock. Red kid binds, straps and heels the slippers as well as edges the bag. The open shank is one outstanding feature of this sandal. But there's enough of this slipper to give real support to the foot. For the printed linen, the light, colorful ensemble or the all-white outfit we have the new decorative one-strap straw sandal. This is a fine, woven straw, coming more often than not in natural straw —an off-white —with much color in its embroidered design. This one uses maize and a deep yellow to work out its sunburst motif and the edgings are of maize kid. The heel is slightly higher than the, kid sandal shown today—as if the straw sandal asserts its correctness for street wear by standing very erect. Last, and perfect for the tailored Easter woman comes the pump of the finest of nut-brown glazed kid. The rounded toe, the Cuban heel and above all the exquisite workmanship in the buckle of brown chintz kid stamp this shoe as eminently correct. Chintz kid beading follows the line of the instep along the side, ending at the heel. Vastly varied in material, cut, color and trimming are Easter shoes this year. But the woman with chic will use restraint and choose for Easter the pair that harmonizes best with her costume.

Club Anniversary Members of the Hone Economics Club of the Indiana State Normal, Terre Haute, held their second anniversary dinner Saturday evening, at the Elks Club. Miss Helen Johnson, Brazil, president, acted as toastmistress and called for talks from the former presidents, Miss Edith Flesher, Clinton, and Miss Amelia Pemberton, Cloverland. and fronvMiss Ivah Rhyan, head of the department of home economics at the normal. Miss Elizabeth Corvan, Indianapolis, was a guest of the club, and gave an address. Benefit Party The ways and means committee of Magnolia Circle, No. 4, will entertain with a benefit card party Thursday at 2 p. m. at Red Men’s Hall, Morris and Lee Sts.

Starlit Night in Pinehurst Has Its Effect on Him

But, discovering she thought him astronomically a fool, He decides to try another (in a frock of spangled tulle) But she doesn’t quite appreciate his favored constellation, And admits that she prefers a little pleasant syncopation.

Eighth District Clubs The women's clubs of Muncie and Delaware County will entertain the eighth district clubs April 18 at the Masonic Temple in Muncie. Mrs. Hamet D. Hinkle, State federation president will give the address of the afternoon and district officers will speak. County chairmen in the district are: Mrs. Karl T. Brown, Delaware County: Mrs. O. L. Vance, Decatur. Adams County; Mrs. Charles Holmes, Portland, Jay County; Mrs. Elmer Cox, El wood, Mad iso, n County; Mrs. O. E. Ross, Winchester, Randolph County; Mrs. Charles Dean, Bluffton, Wells County. Officer Is Candidate Mrs. Ella Peoples, Decatur, attendance officer of Adams County, is a candidate for county recorder,

Afternoon Club Members Meet at Women sHome Mrs. R. L. Davidson was in charge of the program for the meeting of the Wednesday Afternoon Club today at the Home for Aged Women. Responses were favorite hymns ana Mrs. C. L. Hackerd gave the federation report. Mrs. E. H. Thompson had the Bible lesson. Miss Emma Lou Thornbrough and Miss Betty Sturgeon, pupils of Mrs. Claude J. Stephenson gave readings and Miss Claribell Davidson played piano numbers. Refreshments were in keeping with Easter and were served in Easter baskets.

Prize Recipes by Readers

NOTE—Thp Timer> will Rive SI for each recipe aubmiltcd Lv a reader adjudged cl tuHicient merit to be printed in this column. One recipe is printed daily, except Friday, when twenty are Riven. Address Kecipe Editor of The Time.-!. Prizes will be mailed to winners. Write on one side of sheet only. Only on* recipe each week will be accepted from one person Egglcss Drvils Food Cake One-fourth cup of fat. one cup sugar. Cream sugar and iat and add one cup of sour milk. Sift together two cups of flour, one-helf cup of cocoa, one teaspoon of soda. Sift this four or five times. Add to preceding ingredients and bake from twenty to thirty minutes. FRANCES SMITH, 962 Moreland Ave., City. Wed Sunday Miss Ruth Isabeil Schneider and Lyall Donald Morrill both of Ft. Wayne, were married Sunday at the Episcopal Church in Bloomington. The bride is a member of Delta Gamma and Mr. Morrill of Kappa Sigma.

Rabbit’s Foot Aids Cupid Good luck charms may not be charms at all. but the left hind rabbit's foot hanging in the county clerk's office at Greenfield, seemed to bring luck to the young women who work in the office. Mabel K. Harding, the original owner of the charm, hung the foot in the office as a decoration, and when she left to become Mrs. Myron Moorhead, the charm was “willed” to her successor, Miss Lillie Beever. Miss Beever resigned recently to be married and Miss Lucille Watkins fell heir to the rabbit's foot. Unattached young women employed at the courthouse have begged for the charm, but to no avail. Miss Watkins considers it a part**of the office equipment and refuses to part with it.

Then forgetting his endeavors of a scientific kind And remembering that ladies have a different turn of mind, He begins to tell a maid in white chiffon about her eyes v And persuades her thus politely to admire the starry skies.

MARYE and ‘MOM’ 8 tt a THEIR LETTERS

BY RUTII DEWEY GROVES Mom Dear: That was a blow in the solar plexus, as Alan would say. Your opinion of my feeling toward Billy Bartlett, I mean. I’m afraid you think I’ve encouraged him, but honestly I haven’t. And to prove I don't delight in having him mooning over me, I’ve told him that if he doesn’t stop acting as my persoral Santa Claus I won't have anything more to do with him. Alan found out about the perfume. It was in a box on my dressing table and I don't know what business Alan had to be snooping around thre. He also discovered a note from Billy. There wasn’t a ‘hing in it that the whole world couldn't read, but Alan said I’d had to stop robbing the cradle. Well, I decided not to make a crisis out of it. I want everything to be peaceful when Florence gets here, though how long it will remain that way if Alan persists in snooping around I don’t know. Just as if he had a right to object to my getting an innocent little note from Billy after I discovered a letter in his pocket from that freak friend of his; you remember the one I saw him lunching with when Norman was here? I was getting his suit ready for the tailor, which is one of the slavish things he expects of me; and when I emptied the inside coat pocket I found the- tell-tale missive. I happened to remark that if he couldn't bear to destroy her correspondence he'd better send his suits cut himself. He thought I was jealous, the silly, and when he pried around and discovered Billy's note he said he felt he had more right to be jealous than I had. As though you eguld compare the attentions of a Kid like Billy to the expert camping of his girl friend. Os course, I don’t object to Alan recceiving mail from other women, but why not have it sent to the house instead of the office? That’s where men have the advantage. If I wanted to carry on a secret correspondence I’d have to hire a postoffice box. That’s what made me hot—to have the letter go direct to his office. It looked as though Alan suspected I’d open his mail. I wouldn't have read the old letter if it hadn’talready been opened. But when I saw the way she addressed him I felt I had the right to read the very end. I don’t think “Old Fruit” is any way to start a letter to a married man. Dearest love, MARYE. Delta Alliance Mrs. Roger Bean, 757 Graham SI., will be hostess for the Tri Delta Alliance thus evening. Bridge was started at 4 p. m., to be followed by a dinner and business meeting at which Mrs. Alexander Hamison of the Marion County Tuberculosis Association will speak. Mrs. Eugene Ong Ls chairman of the meeting. assisted by Mesdames G. D. Boyd. George Foreman, J. N. Ott and Wendell Hicks. Re-Elect Officers The Arabian chapter of the International Study and Travel Club reelected Mrs B. Prater, president, at the meeting Tuesday afternoon at the Marott. Other officers re-elected are Mrs. Amma Peep, first vice president; Mrs. Emma Bristow, seconu vice president; Mrs. Mary Brooi; Miller .secretary, and Mrs. Emma Zwickel, treasurer. Mrs. S. R. Artman talked on “English Cathedrals.” The next meeting of the chapter will be April 24. Writes Senior Play Miss Martha Wood, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Frank W. Wood, 2933 N. Meridian St„ a senior at Sweet Briar College. Sweet Briar, Va., has written the 1928 senior class play for her school. Miss Wood has also been named on the scholastic honor list. Sorority Bunco Beta Delta Tau Sorority will have a bunco party for members, pledges and friends at the home of Mrs. George B. Loy. 603 N. Chester Ave., this evening. The sorority colors of green and gold will be used in the appointments. Woman Would, Be Sheriff Miss Lela Smith, Bloomington, who has successfully conducted a paper hanging business for several years, is a Republican candidate for the nomination for sheriff of Monroe County. Amigo Club Elects The Amigo Club met Tuesday afternoon with Mrs A. G. Swank, 738 N. Arlington Ave., Mrs. W. L. Stace gave a travelogue on Canada. Mrs. Arch E. DeMars was elected president; Mrs. Swank, vice-presi-dent, and Mrs. Stace, secretary and treasurer. Pre-Easter Party Ladies of the Murat Gatling Gun Club will give a pre-Easter dance and card party Saturday night at the club, 709 N. Illinois St. Hostesses are Mesdames Harry Pell, Russell Thompson and Heinie Webber.

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Play Cast Honored at Luncheon Alumni in Indiana of the University of Pennsylvania entertained at luncheon today at the Indianapolis Athletic Club in honor of the cast of “Tarantella,” Mask and Wig dramatic club production of the university to be presented this evening at the Murat. The cast of sixty-five young men arrived in* Indianapolis this morning. Robert Frost Daggett entertained with a small luncheon at the Indianapolis Country Club in honor cf his son, James L. Daggett, who is “leading lady” in the show. Following the theater, the alumni of Pennsylvania in Indianapolis will entertain with a supper dance at the Indianapolis Athletic Club. The entertainment committee is C. Willis Adams, chairman; Henry C. Thornton. Dr. O. N. Torian, Howard M. Gay and Theodore Stein Jr.

Personals

Mr. and Mrs. Frank Grote, 492 N. Drexel Ave., have returned after a three months’ stay in Miami, Fla. Mrs. William H. Coleman, 1006 N. Meridian St., and her house guest, Mrs. John Middleton of Louisville, Ky., will leave soon for Atlantic City, N. J. Mr. and, Mrs. Edward B. Raub, 60 W. Forty-Third St., have returned from New Orleans and Biloxi, Miss.

Life’s Niceties Hints on Etiquct

1. What should be the guiding factor in setting a table? 2. Should pickles, sauces, jellies and so on be placed on a table? •3. Are individual sauce plates used now for vegetables? The Answers 1. Simplicity. 2. No. Pass them in glass or china dishes, with spoon or fork for serving. 3. No. Vegetables should be served on the plate with the meat. St. Catherine’s Benefit Mrs. Thomas Hannon, Mrs. Louise Betzler and Mrs. Edward Grimpe will be hostesses for a euchre, 500. bridge and lotto party for the benefit of St. Catherine's Church Thursday at 2:30 and 8:30 p. m. in the hall, Shelby and Tabor Sts. To Pledge Members Beta chapter of Phi Tau Delta sorority will pledge Misses Eva Burton. Marguerite Woerncr and Clara Stierwalt at a meeting this evening in their honor. Miss Geraldine Newman, sorority president, will be hostess. County Federation The Wayne County Federation of Clubs will meet Friday at the First Christian Church in Richmond. Mrs. Paul C. Miller, vice chairman of the district, and Mrs. Thomas I. Ahl will speak. Irvington Union The Irvington Union of Clubs met this afternoon with Mrs. Samuel McGaughcy fox the election of officers. Card Party Thursday The women of Mooseheart Legion will give a card party at 2:30 p. m. Thursday at the Moose Temple, 135 N. Delaware St. Club Meeting The Howdy Club will meet at 8:30 p. m. Thursday at the Lumley Tea Room. SCMUMMUt’t Offmwm (fresh Churned from e )ttsh Cham lErla Radios I ARSON’S I EVANS' AT ALL GROCERS * Gran’pa’s Wonderful Popcorn Every Bite a Relish tlliiy It By th.* < nn It retains its delicacy and crispness With pecans, With peanuts, HOC can Home-Made ( addles This Week's Special! Anpcl Food Kisses Marshmallow Croquettes 244 E. St. Clair Street