Indianapolis Times, Volume 39, Number 276, Indianapolis, Marion County, 15 March 1928 — Page 10

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Wavering Girl Should Be Avoided by Man Seeking Happiness in Marriage By MARTHA LEE A WAVERING answer is far worse than an answer that is definite!}’’ in the negative. The man who receives an answer of this sort is wise if he takes it as dismissal because it proves that the girl does not know her own mind. When a girl is in love and has had a reasonable length of time to decide the question of whether or not she wishes to marry she should be capable of giving a direct answer. Her

answer should not change from yes to no, depending upon whether the young man is with her or away from her. The girl who is influenced by any one shows that she has a weak character. A girl of this sort will be the type of a wife who will be susceptible to any attractive man who flirts with her. She will never be sure she did the right thing in marrying the man she did. Constantly she will be reproaching him for having convinced her to marry him against the dictates of her better judgment. My advice to young men in this situation is to take the “I don’t know” reply as a strictly “no” decision. There are many other girls, my friends, who have the ability to say “yes” with conviction, so it is futile to risk your happiness on the wavering girl. Dear Miss Lee: I am a constant reader of your advice to persons in trouble. I am a man, 32, and have been married three times, the last one died a year ago last November. I met a very sweet, girl, and we started going together. She told me that she had been married and had two children but was getting her divorce, so we went together until March 3 this year. I bought her an engagement ring Christmas eve, and we were supposed to nave been married as soon as she got her divorce. I told her all my life's nistory and she said that did not matter, that she loved me. I have a home of four rooms, completely furnished and offered to get her anything she wanted. She seemed wild about me until the last week I went with her. Then she would write me that she was through with me and then I would go down to see her and she could not say "no.” In my presence she can not say "no” and when I am not with her she says she is through with me. Last Saturday evening Instead of meeting me at a friend's house as she had told me she would, she left a letter telling me that she cared nothing for me. that I was too old and had been married too many times. I answered her letter asking her if she ever saw her mistake to call me or write me but she did not answer my letter. She is past 21. Will you please advise me? HOME LOVER. Dear Home Lover: This girl has proven to you that she did not care anything for you by her changing her mind so often. She had doubts as to whether you would make a good husband for her when you were not with her. VVnen you were with her, these doubts were dispelled by your interesting persornlity, perhaps. Take your dismissal and forget this girl. I admit there is some excuse for the girl’s indecision. A man who has been married three times by the time he i.; 32 naturally seems a bad matrimonial risk. As long as she felt that way, you never would have been happy together and I am sure you want to make your next marriage your last one.

Dear Miss Lee: I want your advice. I have a daughter. 34. who is married to a “sissy” for a husband. He doesn’t do a thing but run around with his brother and drink. My daughter has been married five years, and he has not done anything for her during that time. He stays with his mother and she stays with me. He comes to see her as a sweetheart would two times a week for awhile. Then he gets angry and stays awav for awhile. He just causes trouble. She works and pays her board and buys her clothes. If she is sick and asks him for money, he gets angry. I do not think I can stand it much longer. I am 59. What do vou advise me to do? AN OLD MOTHER. Dear Old Mother: Os course, a mother has the interest of her children at heart. However you are assuming your daughter’s problem. Let her decide this herself. A woman of 34 is no child, you know. She has a mind capable of looking after her own affairs and I am sure she would resent any interference from you. Since she pays for her board and clothes, you have no objections from the financial standpoint. My opinion of your daughter is that she is a very foolish woman to put up with this worthless husband. Most women would not tolerate such treatment . Still if she is happy you had better keep your opinion to yourself because you only cause her trouble for which she will never forgive you. Another thing, are you sure you gave the true facts about the case? You know that many times women as they grow older will permit themselves to become narrow in their judgment of persons. As the youngsters say, they become “crabby. Surely you would hate to be labelled as such so try and keep away from saying unkind things. Mrs. Irma W. A.: Your husband is so impossible that tne only thing for you to do is to leave him. How did you ever let him start treating you the way he does now? Surely he was kind to you before you married him or else you would never have consented to be his wife. Husbands have to be trained, my dear, and you certainly did not use the right method, I am afraid. Since there seems nothing you can do about it now, I really think you would be happier away from him. Waistlines New silk smocks in fancy little prints have wide belts to fasten tightly around the natural waistline, giving quite different silhouettes.

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Wednesday Club Holds Luncheon, Elects Officers At the luncheon meeting of the Wednesday Afternoon Club Wednesday with Mrs. Frank Driver, 127 Blue Ridge Rd. Mrs. C. W. Hardwick was elected president of the club; Mrs. O. S. Wright, first vice president; Mrs. B. H. Bass, second vice president; Mrs. E G. Ryan, secretary; Mrs. William Praed, treasurer; Mrs. Homer Trotter critic, and Mrs. C. C. Shaffer, parliamentarian. Mrs. Driver was assisted by Mrs. C. W. Shaffer, Mrs. Homer Britan, and Mrs. J. H. Gill. All appointments were in St. Patrick’s design. Responses were household helps, and Mrs. J. R. Horne gave the local council report. Mrs. E. H. Thompson gave the Bible lesson. Members who had part in the play “The Irish Invasion,” were Mesdames H. J. Schwab, J. R. Horne, B. H. Bass, J. W. Spicer, G. A. Bass, and William Praed. Mrs. C. C. Shaffer and Mrs. J. Horne, gave a group of Irish melodies, accompanied by Mrs. C. C. Munday. MISS COLLINS WED AT NOON TODAY The marriage of Miss Charlotte Catherine Collins daughter of Mr. and Mrs. M. V. Collins, 815 Fairfield Ave., and Clarence W. Smith took place at high noon today at the Broadway M. E. Church, with the Rev. John W. McFall officiating. The ceremony was followed by a wedding breakfast at the bride’s home. After an eastern trip Mr. and Mrs. Smith will be at home at 2152 N. Meridian St. Mrs. Sics Dinner Hostess Mrs. Alice Corbin Sies, president of Teachers’ College, will entertain members of the student council of the college at dinner. White sweet peas and green tapers will be used on the tables. Mrs. Sies will tell of her recent Eastern trip. Covers will be laid for Mrs. Sies, Mrs. Mazie B. luppenlatz, student councilor, and the following council members: Misses Marcelene Gannawav. Agnes Hawkins. Sara Nell Mclntosh, Frances Hellman. Mary Frev. Juanita Bizins. Martha Phares, Alice Meyer, Wilma Mae Wolf and Mercedes Harsin. District Conference A luncheon Sunday noon will be a feature of the Fifth district conference of the Business and Professional Women’s clubs at the Hotel Doming in Terre Haute Sunday. Miss L. Marie Ferguson, Fifth district chairman; Miss Marie Tudor, Indianapolis, and Miss Jennie Rae Hirsch, Portland, will be honor guests. Mrs. Florence Wynkop is president of the Terre Haute club which will act as hostesses.

Musical Program On the musical program given at the Home for Aged Women by the Welfare Club this afternoon were Robert Morris, pianist; Miss Louise Critser, soloist; Miss Catherine and Donald Vogel and Miss Mary Frances Liten, readers. Club members in charge were: Mrs. Joseph Marshall, chairman; Mrs. James E. Berry, Mrs. E. L. Donahue, Jesse G. Marshall, Eugene Ong, O A. Farthing and Alice Ross Hadley. Psi lota Alumnae Delta Beta, Indianapolis alumnae chapter of Psi lota Xi sorority will have a business meeting at the Severin at 8 p. m. Friday, to which all members are asked to come. Golden Wedding Mr. and Mrs. John M. Hare, North Manchester, celebrated their golden wedding Wednesday at their home with a reception from 7 to 9 p. m. They have spent the entire fifty years in that community. Receive Informally Mrs. Charles P. Benedict, 3301 Washington Blvd., will receive informally from 3 to 6 p. m. Friday in honor of Mrs. Joel Wilmoth, Dallas, Texas, who is visaing here. There are no invitations. Rummage Sale The Sahara Buds will give a rummage sale Saturday with Miss Carolyn Foster in charge. Brown Roasts Roasts should be put into a hot oven, dry, for live minutes or so to be seared before adding water and covering. This seals up the juices and gives a brown color.

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Mrs. Langdon Post BY BETSY SCHUYLER NEA Service Writer NEW YORK, March 15.—Dapper days are in store for Park Ave. with the advent of the swanky little spring suits. They are beginning to appear now whenever the sun shines brightly enough to give the illusion of a warm day. Spring suits have the same lilting psychology of the first crocus and the first robin’s call. But this year they seem doubly fresh, pleasing and snappy because of the almost übiquitous fur coats. Not that I want to discredit some of the masterpieces of fur that strutted Gotham's avenues this winter! But spring suits are a welcome change. The strictly tailored, I suppose, is the inevitable choice for spring of a certain type of immaculately groomed Social Registerite. But if there's any wavering, Dame Fashion certainly seems to furnish enough variety to suit the most individualminded. Long-coated Tweed The long-coated tweed suit, with sweater blouse, is one chaiming version of spring suit modes. Mrs. Langdon Post came out of Pierre's looking fresh as a spring morning in a brown and tan tweed suit with three-quarters coat. The skirt had ample fullness, by way of box pleats. And the coat gained grace by having a slightly nipped-in waistline. Just a suggestion of a molded silhouette. The coat was collarless and cuffless, being finished with one-inch bandings. And the angora sweater blouse, in a lighter shade, had the same banding around its pointed neckline. She wore a double pointed fox neckpiece. And her hat had a smart modernistic pin it in—of gold and enamel. Mrs. Martin Scott looked exceedingly trim in anew black tailored suit of soft woolen. It had a tuxedo front and one day she wore the smartest of smart little white silk pique blouses. This new silk pique has the edge on almost all shirtings for style, it seems to me. On Lady Diana Manners The new type of suit that promises great vogue is the kind Lady Diana Manners introduced to Park Ave. one warm day, the silk jacket frock. This is a silk frock with its own jacket and it seems to me one fine escape from the ennui of longcoated ensembles. Lady Manners was exquisite in black fiat crepe, with great sheen in it. The frock had the irregular SCHLOSBER’S CMSrove Butter C/resh ChurnedfromfyeshCnam

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Lady Diana Manners curved neckline that is vastly smart when just right. And of course hers was! It was outlined with one of the soft beige pinks and a ittle tab of the pink relieved the black by hanging down the left side. She wore an extremely becoming hat of black pica, a fine new straw, faced with pink silk. Her use of pink emphasizes that color's popularity now. The return of flesh and soft beige pinks—even for smart bathing suits —is one more indication of how ladylike are the new modes. For pink does something nice to a woman’s face which makes me welcome its return to favor. Sunshine Club Elects The Children's Sunshine Club of Sunnyside elected the following officers Wednesday: Mrs. John Connor. president: Mrs. August Soutter. first vice president; Mrs. John Herrman, second vice president: Mrs. Alva Craddick, recording secretary: Mrs. B. L. Byrket, financial secretary; Mrs. James Berry, corresponding secretary; Mrs. R. E. Rothweil, treasurer: Mrs. William B. Peake and Mrs. Harry Kennett, directors at large. Trainmen Auxiliary Party The Ladies Auxiliary to the Brotherhood of Railway Trainmen Lodge No. 297. will give a euchre and bunco party Friday night at Trainmen's Hall, 1002 E. Washington St. Mrs. W. E. Dooley is chairman. Junior League, Delegates Mrs. Eugene C. Miller, president of the Indianapolis Junior League, Mrs. John S. Fishback, Mrs. Sylvester Johnson and Miss Mary Hamilton, will attend the Junior League regional com-rence in St. Paul, Minn., Tuesday.

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Registration Forms Topic for League Discussion of the Indiana registration law and presentation of candidates for Governor and United States Senator were on today’s program for the ninth annual convention of the Indiana League of Women Voters in session at the Marat* hotel. Mrs. Walter S. Greenough was elected president of the league to fill the unexpired term of Mrs. Frank H. Streightoff, whose resignation was accepted at the close of her address Wednesday. Nominations accepted unopposed Mrs. T. J. Louden, Bloomington, first vice president; Mrs. H. R. Misener, Michigan City, second vice president; Mrs. Ora Thompson Ross, Rensselaer, treasurer; Mrs. Mabel j Myers, Valparaiso, Mrs. Warren K. Mannon, Indianapolis, and Mrs. R. E. Small, Hagerstown, directors. Anew registration law for Indiana to provide for permanent reregistration throughout the State and for a future State-wide check on registration before every general election, was suggested and explained by Professor Howard E. Jensen, Butler University, at the morning meeting which an open discussion of the registration law. Professor Jensen would give commissioners power to order re-registra-tion in counties where it is needed, having in mind the more thickly populated counties. Committee Meets Mrs. Walter Greenough, chairman of the league committee to investigate the registration law, presided at the meeting and held a meeting of her committee with representatives of other civic organizations immediately following the morning session for discussion of the problems Among State candidates appearing at the afternoon session, presided over by ?rs. T. J. Louden, Bloomington, chairman of the convention program committee, and who were aseked to give their views on the direct primary were Alvah J. Rucker. Albert Stump, Frederick E. Schortemeier. Earl Crawford, Olin R. Holt, Kokomo; Arthur Symmes, Linton: George E. Hershman, Crown Point; Marshall Wells of Scottsburg represented his fa. ther. Samuel Wells, candidate for Governor. Luncheon Today Mrs. J. E. Neff. South Bend, presided at the new voters’ luncheon at noon today. College league presidents, Miss Marian Linkmeyer, Indiana University; Miss Edith Ratts, Butler; Miss Mary Elizabeth Skinner. Purdue, were honor guests and spoke. Dr. Sophronisba Breckenridge, University of Chicago, will speak on “Widening Borders of Social Control,” at the banquet tonight, and the Butler University League will give "A Newspaper Revue.” Preceding the morning session, standing committee breakfasts were held. Mrs. William S. Ehrich, Evansville. presided at the international cooperation to prevent war breakfast for which Mrs. William S. Lockhart and Miss Pearl Forsythe were hostesses. Mrs. John C. Boss, Elkhart, presided at the efficiency in government breakfast for which Mrs. Ralph E. Carter was hostess. Dr. W. F. Hughes has returned from a two months’ vacation in Ft. Lauderdale, Fla.

BEAUTY HOW and WHY CURVES BEST FOR SQUARE FACES

BY ANN ALYSIS In giving advice for proper makeup for the square type face, we have in mind such a face unmodified by rounded or tapering chin or oval forehead. Generally, all square faces should have the hair waved and dressed in curves over the forehead, and the neckband should be cut in points or curves in order to break the too geometrical straight character lines. There is, however, just one exception to these instructions. When the features are classically beautiful or distinguished, emphasize your type. Bring it out strongly by adding more straight lines to those you already possess. However, women find curves more often suited to their types than straight lines. For the long, narrow, square face, rouge deeply at the inner cheek, carrying the color all the way to the ears, but not going too close to the eyes or jaw line. The medium square face should have the rouge applied more deeply in the central part of the cheek, fading to light pink near the ears. The short square face should be deeply rouged to the inner cheek, close to the eyes, fading out gradually toward the ears.

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1. What, generally, is the best preparation for the social requirements of adult life? 2. When do most children becom. extremely sensitive about the details of good form? 3. Should parents ever ridicule their studied efforts to do the right thing? The Answers 1. A home where children learn, through example, the courtesies of life. 2. During adolescence, especially at high school age. 3. Certainly not. They should assist them. Chicken Waffles Mi.: minced chicken with unsweetened waffle batter and serve with maple sugar and you have an unusually fine luncheon. Tired Feet Three, tablespoonfuls of ammonia and a cup of salt added to a footbasin of hot water is ideal for bathing tired feet. Rinse in cold water before drying. Garlic Touch When cooking mutton, or any inexpensive cut of beef or lamb, rub your roasting pan with a little garlic and you will have a much tastier meat. If you want to boil soft-shelled eggs, put quite a little salt in the water. It tends to prevent their cracking.

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, National idio Mrs. Charles W'. Butler Before her marriage Wednesday evening Mrs. Butler was Miss Mary Harrison. The couple will be at home at 4530 Washington Blvd. after March 22.

Department Club Presidency Held by Mrs . Perkins Mrs. S. E. Perkins was re-elected president of the Woman's Department Club, Wednesday. Other officers elected were: Mrs. R. O. McAlexander, second vice president; Mrs. Clayton Ridge, recording secretary; Mrs. Clark Wheeler, treasurer; Mrs. Tilden Greer, membership secretary; Mrs. James D. Ermston, Mrs. J. H. Hamlet and Mrs. George M. Weaver, director at large. D. A. R. Bridge Tea Mrs. Henry C. Ketcham and Mrs. Ray T. Falout will be hostesses at Mrs. Ketchams home. 5139 Kenwood Ave., for one of the series of j bridge teas being given by the j finance committee of Caroline Scott Harrison chapter, D. A. R. Assisting will be Mesdames Wilbur Johnson Merle N. n. Walker, John M. Lochhead, Herbert R. Fieber. Roy E. Adams, James A. Sutherland, John B. Newcomb, William F. Kuhn, Gavin L. Payne and Frederick D. Stilz. Mrs. F. Ellis Hunter, regent, will pour tea. Benefit Movie Friday evening at Holy Rosary Hall, 520 Stevens St., there will be moving pictures of the Passion Play, or Life of Christ, for the benefit of Holy Rosary Church.

MARCH 15, 1928

Musical -j Program Announced The following program, arranged by Miss Lucille Stewart, will be presented by the student section of the Matinee Musicale Friday at 8 p. m. in the green parlors of the Y. w. C. A.: i Piano—- " Melody From the Voyager” Paderewski "Ta the Spring" Grief ClaWa You Webber, pupil ot Mrs. B. A. Richardson. II Voice — "Delmonica (Aria from Orfeol.. .Haydon "Songs Mother Taught Me” Dvorak Mrs. Sheldon Book, pupil of G. I. Friermood, accompanied by Mrs. Dante Conner. 111 Piano—"Etude, Op. 25 No. 1” Chopin "Etude, Op. 10 No. 1" Chopin Lavon P. Trick, pupil of Eleanor Beauchamp. IV Voice—- " Come Ye Blessed”. .John Prindle Scott •‘Coin’ Home" Anton Dvorak "Ach Wie Ist’s Mogltch Damn” (Must I Now Part From Thee) Liza Lehmann Robert Ledig. pupil of Mrs. Mary T. Busch, accompanied by Mrs. Busch. V Violin—- " Old Refrain" Fritz Kreisler Georgia Bauman, pupil of Hugh McGibeny, accompanied by Virginia Harbaugh. VI Voice—- “ Birthday" Woodman "Gav Days.” ■> Mrs. Fred Knodel. pupil of Rudolph Heyne, accompanied by Mrs. Luther Shirley, VII Piano—- " Rhapsody No, ■ 11” UU Maxwell Fentz, pupil of Mrs. Wiley Leire. VIII Voice—pDio Forelle. The Trout” Schubert "The Sleep That Slips on Baby’s Eves" carpenter "Rain” Curran Mrs. Allen H. Johnson, pupil of Mrs. E. E. Flickinger. accompanied by Mrs. Flickingtr. Piano — _ .V. ■ Sictbana” RespigM "Sonata in A Major" Scarlottt Virginia Lucas, pupil of Bomar Cramer. Minerva Chib Officers Mrs. V. C. Wiley was elected president ol the Minerva Club Wednesday at the meeting with Mrs. C. F. McDaniel, 3839 Ruckle St. Other new officers are Mesdames Georg* Wood, vice president; W. H. Biddlecombe, secretary; George Maxwell, treasurer, M. E. Nurkhart, Seventh District Federation delegate; Edward H. Zeigner, alternate; K. V. Ammerman, Indianapolis Council of Women delegate; E. S. Cummings, alternate. Ladies' Society Party The Ladies’ Society to the Brotherhood of Locomotive Firemen and Engineers will give a card party Saturday night at Shelby St. and English Ave.

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