Indianapolis Times, Volume 39, Number 274, Indianapolis, Marion County, 13 March 1928 — Page 6

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Bitterness as Aftermath of Broken Love Affair Shuts Door on Happiness By MARTHA LEE BITTERNESS is such a detestable characteristic. This trait prohibits the person from getting all the joy out of life, joy that is rightfully the inheritance of everyone. So many times I receive a letter from a young man or woman w'lio has just ended a love affair. Instead of thinking kindly of the former sweetheart and retaining the precious and thrilling memories of the times when things were brighter,

the writer tells how much bitteriness the affair has aroused. “Love affairs” can be made such wonderful things if youthful cases can be categoried as such. Youth has to have many of these little romances, for how can one be sure which dashing young man or charming young woman is the right one until a small affair of the heart has decided the question? Naturally, not all of these romances can come to a successful conclusion. Quarrels, misunderstandings and various other things cause an end to the affair. All the remembrances of the friendship between the young man and woman are completely forgotten by the bitterness the quarrel caused. Stamp out this unhappy trait, readers. Really, life is so wonderful that it is unfair to oneself to spoil it by cherishing any characteristic that overshadows one's chance at happiness. Dear Miss Lee: Until Just recently 1 was engaged to a young man. We quarreled and It ended in our breaking oft the engagement. I can not stand even to sec him now and though I try to avoid him. our many mutual friends invite us both and we are constantly meeting. Should I just not speak to him or should I refuse these invitations where I know he will be? WONDERING. Dear Wondering: I feel so sorry that you have not trained your own character better than to react in this way to a situation of this sort. How can you possibly be so boorish with a young man in whom you once had a very deep interest? I think the love you once had for him must have been a very selfish sort of love for you to completely forget everything once liked about him. It would be very rude of you not to speak to him. Os course, if you can not have any better control over your feelings than to show this bitterness you feel toward your former fiance when he is in your presence, it would be better for you to refuse the invitations where you know he will be. Why do you not try to overcome this mean trait of yours? It just causes you unhappiness. Dear Miss Lee: I have been going with a young man two years older than I. We Lave been going together for nearly a year. I am considered popular, a good dancer, nice Isoking and I have attractive clothes. My parents are liked by all the boys and girls. I love this young man better than anything else in the world and would do anything for him. but when I ask him to go places with me he refuses to go. Wherever I go. though, he will meet me afterwards. Do you think that after we are married he will be that way.' or do you think he v ill go places once in awhile? Thank von in advance for this letter. TOM BOY. Dear Tom Boy: This young man will be just the same after marriage as he is before. There is no reason to think that he will change just because he is a married man. In fact, most men like to go places much more before they are married than afterward. Hence this young man probably will be a “stick by the fire’’ sort of husband. If that is what you want and will satisfy you, take him, my dear. However, you know what you are getting so do not expect to be taken anywhere after you are married. Decide this question now while you have the opportunity. If more young women would analyze carefully the characters of their fiances we would not have so many unhappy and “misunderstood” wives. G. H.: It is much easier for a girl to live at home than to go to some strange city and work there. Her expenses are decidedly less and besides that she has home life that can not be purchased. I really think you can specialize in your particular line of work here, so I advise you to remain here. There is no wrong in your going with this young man >i you can enjoy yourself with someone so much older than you. However, I think it very foolish for you to do so because, as you say, .you never intend to marry him and naturally when you are dating him, you do not have the time to go out with young men whom you would consider eligible for a husband. Sorority Pledges Sigma Sigma Kappa sorority will meet Wednesday at 8 p. m. at the Spink Arms Hotel. The new pledges are Misses Evelyn Hitz, Maxine Gardner, Mildred Wel/n, Jean McKay and Roberta O'Neal. Social Meeting Chi Beta Kappa Sorority will have a social meeting Wednesday night at the Hoosier Athletic Club.

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Club Hears Officer of Pen Women Mrs. Edward Nelson Dingley, Washington, D. C., who spoke at the meeting of the Women’s Press Club this afternoon, will address the Writers’ Club meeting tonight. Wednesday morning the League of American Pen Women will entertain with a breakfast in her honor at the Propylaeum. Mrs. Dingley is vice president of the National League of American Pen Women. Officers of the press club and of the league will be guests at tea Wednesday afternoon when Mrs. Ovid Butler Jameson will entertain for Mrs. Dingley. Mrs. Edna Cogswell Otis, Greencastle, sang at the luncheon of the press club today when officers were elected.

MARYE and ‘MOM’ a a a THEIR LETTERS

By RUTH DEWEV GROVES Dear Maryc: What do I think? Marye Meredith, are you out of your head? You must think you are a middleaged woman, calling young men who make love to you mere kids. And. certainly you're to blame. If you weren’t so sure that it's all right for you to do oO just as you please and flaunt all the old fashioned conventions you would know that such a thing as a boy falling in love with a married woman docs happen. It’s because you want to cat your cake and have it too that you think you can run around with other men whether they’re boys or not, and expect them to forget that you’re a very attractive young woman. I don’t care what new-fangled ideas you try to harness omo the world, you can't get away from the fact that men, and women, too, still continue to fall in love. If you had paid attention to what I said you'd have known that this young man meant something when he played up to that story you told the police officer. But it’s my opinienthat a lot of your fun would be spoiled if you didn't fool yourself with these modern ideas. Such little familiarities as that don’t mean a thing to you—because you don't want them to. Well, my dear, you ate your cake when you got married and that ought to satisfy you. Hereafter let the single girls go to lunch and tea with such nice boys as Norman and “Billy.” It didn't take you long * call him by his first name, did .t,? Your cure for him may be as bad as the one you gave Norman. Ever since lie's been home he's been drinking, I hear, and everyone says it's because he saw you in the city and they’re all wondering what you did to him. His aunt wrote to his sister about your going out with him and she spread it all over town. I do wish you’d be more careful, Marye. The best way to help a man forget you is to give him a chance. He can’t do that if he sees you. I know you don’t do anything to make yourself unattractive. And if your young friend is jealous of your husband don't you think it would be more cruel to bring him into your home than just to drop him? With all my love, - MOM. NE W MEMBERS TAKEN INTO MUSEUM GUILD The Children’s Museum Guild entertained with a tea Monday afternoon at the Museum, 1150 N. Meridian St., with Mrs. B. M. Golden and Mrs. William J. Miller as hostesses. Mrs. G. F. Rogers and Mrs. J. Earl Brown gave readings and Mrs. G. E. Rogers, president, presided. New members taken into the guild I are: Mcsdamcs Clayton Harris. Edward Eni ners. H. C. Wisohmeier, T. B. Wright, I Gordon B. Mess. J. P. Aldrich. Ross E. Winders. Robert Binkley. W. H. Makepeace. WaLcr Jackmon, J. Edwin Holt, | George S. Smith, Eugene Street, D. J. Zimmerman.

THE CONNOISSEUR

Since his sister was a little girl with ribbons on her hair She has always asked her brother what she should and shouldn't wear, So she’s asking his opinion now about a negligee Which she ordered with some others on a shopping tour today.

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President s Day Luncheon Held This Afternoon The president's day luncheon of the Woman's Organization of Retail Druggists was held ‘.his afternoon at the chapter house with Mrs. W. F. Holmes presiding. Mrs. James E. Sproule led the reading of the collect and Mrs. V. O. Keiser, accompanied by Mrs. Ethel Spregg gave a group of songs. Mrs. E. M. Crawford played two piano numbers. Appointments were appropriate to St. Patrick’s day. Arrangements were in charge of Mrs. Edward Ferger, assisted by Mrs. M. T. Waddell, Mrs. C. V. Grant. Mrs. E. M. Crawford and Mrs. Adolphus Hoffman. Special guests were Miss Margaret Karst and Miss Bessie Mogan, of Riley Hospital, with Mrs. Sproule.

Family Menus

BY SISTER MARY BREAKFAST Baked apples, cereal, cream, shirred eggs, crisp toast, milk, coffee. LUNCHEON Oysters in bacon blankets, cabbage and carrot salad, whole wheat bread and butter sandwiches. jelly roll, milk, tea. DINNER Baked and stuffed halibut steaks, new green beans, French endive, rice souffle, milk, :offee. Shirred Eggs Four eggs, 2 tablespoons cream, l tablespoon butter, salt and pepper. Butter four muffin rings and put on a well-buttered pie pan or baking dish. Melt the butter and divide among the rings. Break an egg into each ring, taking care not to break the yolk. Pour over cream, dust with salt and pepper and bake in a moderate oven for ten minutes or until the white is set. Remove from muffin rings and serve ort a hot platter. Os course the eggs can be baked In a shallow baking dish without nuffn rings, but the rings keep the :ggs in neat shapes for serving.

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1. Irrespective of length, how should knives and forks be arranged when setting the table? 2. What is the maximum number of knives and forks that should be placed on the table in advance? 3. Should additional silver just be brought in as needed? The Answers 1. The ends of their handles should be one inch from the edge of the table. 2. Three of each. 3. Yes. Wed March 2 Mr, and Mrs. G. F. Hoffar. Marion, announce the marriage of their daughter, Phyllis, to Bon B. Dragstream, Muncie, which took place March 2. The bride is a former resident of Washington. Cat's Salad Cats need spring tonics as well as adults. Mince a leaf of lettuce and mix it thoroughly with salmon. Cats like it and it agrees with them.

THE TIMES

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Miss Doris Faucett will offer toe dancing at the party of the Ladies of the Murat Gatling Gun. Club Saturday afternoon at the county j infirmary. 1

Varied Work of Y. W.C.A.Forms Luncheon Topic Mrs. Fred Millis was hostess at luncheon Monday at the Indianapolis Athletic Club lor heads of departments of the Indianapolis Young Women's Christian Association and newspaper women. Work of the Y. W. C A. was explained in detail and plans tor an educational campaign to enlarge the work of the association were explained, Mrs. Samuel Ashby, president. of the Y. W. C. A.: Miss Pearl Forsythe, general secretary; Miss Annie Moore Daughtry, chairman of girl reserves: Miss Frances Toy, director of work foi industrial girls; Miss Louise Noble, health and recreation director, and Mrs. Blanche McCoy, member of the board of directors, each spoke of their work. Two educational teas by members ; of the board are planned each month for several months. • Gun Club Party Mrs. Frank Randall is sponsor for the party of the Ladies of the Murat Gatling Gun Club to be given Saturday afternoon at the county infirmary. J. C. Walker will give old time clog dancing and Miss Doris Faucett will give toe dancing and songs. Members will meet at the club, 709 N. Illinois St., at 1 p. m. Misses Jane and Nadine Crosby and Miss Mary Myers will dance and Miss Kate Schabon w’ill read. For Bride-Elect Miss Esther Gebauer. 2630 College Ave., entertained Monday evening with a bridge party and miscellaneous shower in honor of Miss Mary Margaret Harrison, whose marriage to Charles Wood Butler will take place Wednesday evening at the Tabernacle Pesbyterian Church. Sixtieth Anniversary Mr. and Mrs. William A. Abbett, Columbus, celebrated their sixtieth wedding anniversary Monday at their home which is the same house in which they have lived since their marriage. Both have been prominent in community affairs at Columbus. Sorority Meeting Members of Xi Delta Xi Sorority will meet with Mrs. Paul Pilkinton, 3001 Park Ave., Wednesday evening, instead of Friday evening, the usual time. Tickets for the dance at the Indiana ballroom Friday evening, may be obtained from any member of the sorority. Golden Wedding Mr. and Mrs. Columbus C. Moffitt, Knightstown, celebrated their golden wedding anniversary today with an open house from 10 a. m. until 8 p. m. Six of their eight children attended the celebration. Auxiliary Card Party Ladies’ Auxiliary No. HO, N. A. L. C., will give a card party in Room 220, Century Bldg., at 2 p. m. Wednesday. McKinley Auxiliary The Woman's Auxiliary to the McKinley Club will meet Wednesday night in the clubrooms. St. Patricks Dinner A St. Patrick’s dinner dance will be given at 7 p. m. Saturday for members of the Athenaeum.

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Recent Bride Honored at Shower Fete Mrs. Charles L. Sargeant who was Miss Martha Beard Dcfore her recent marriage, was honor guest Monday night when Miss Ona Emily Boyd, 4008 N. Pennsylvania St., entertained with a personal shower and bridge party. The fioral decorations were in pink, blue and peach. Guests were: Mesdames .1 C Mathews Herbert Binninsrr V. J. Bovie DeForcst O'Dell A. E. Lmnecsi Misses Laura Smith Charlotte Gilman Helen Straw merer Irma Ulrich Martha Dean Margaret Woesrner Maradith Thomas Dorothy Reagan Prances Peters Elsie Hancock

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BEBE DANIELS’ ‘PERFECT DISH’

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S'/ r.A Scrr.t r ft ■'HE secret of keeping one’s -*• energy at production point during a whole working day depends entirely on the kind of luncheon one eats, according to Bobe Daniels, scrccniands love-, liest. “I believe wtih the old Frenchman who said: *We arc what wc cat.' ” Babe claims to have concocted the ‘ perfect luncheon dish" herself. a single dish tint, for vitamines and appetizing appeal. Officers Chosen by Three Clubs for Year Terms A number of women’s clubs in Indianapolis are electing officers for the coming year at> first pre-spring meetings. Three clubs elected Monday. Mrs. George W. Warmoth was elected president of the Monday Club at a meeting at the D. A. R. chapter house. Other new officers are: Mesdames Harry F. Holland, first vice president; A. F. Waters, Pr., second vice president; Robert Pyle, recording secretary; E. V. Clark, corresponding secretary, and I. E. Brokaw, re-elected treasurer. Mrs. Olin .Hatton was re-elected president and Mrs. E. L. Donahue re-elected treasurer of the Welfare Club at the luncheon meeting at Lang's tea rooms. New officers elected were: Mesdames Janies E. Berry, first vice-president; Hiram B. Pierce, second vice-president; W. R. Klingholtz, third vice-presi-dent: W. H. Russell, recording secretary; O. F. Hammer, assistant secretary; Walter F. Coyner, corresponding secretary; Herbert Grimes, Omer Hawkins, A. E. Adair, Donald Graham and Reese Wysong, board of directors. The following officers were elected for the Monday Afternoon Club at a luncheon meeting with Mrs. Frank Richmann, 26 S. Arlington Ave.: Mesdames Sylvester Moores, president; Arthur Hoffman, vice president; J. C. Morrison, recording secretary; Guy Scudder, assistant secretary; J. M. Maltby, treasurer, and Edward Bilyeu, corresponding secretary. Birthday Dinner Members of the Home Economics Club of Indiana State Normal, Terre Haute, entertained with their second annual birthday dinner. Saturday evening. Miss Helen Johnson. Brazil, club president, presided. The committee in charge included Misses Carrie Henerine, Terre Haute; Bertha Simpson. Clinton, and Irene Callcoed. Grayesville.

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would rank high even if not recommended as a luncheon that will keep its eaters on tiptoe for eight hours of gruelling work. It is called "Tomatoes, ala Devil.” Here is how she makes ’em: Wipe, peel and halve, crosswise, three tomatoes, scooping out a very little of the center. Sprinkle with salt and pepper, dredge with flour and saute in butter. Place on a platter and fill and cover with t lie following thick dressing: Cream 4 tablespoons of butter, add 2 tablespoons powered sugar, 1 teaspoon mustard, 'i teaspoon salt, few grains cayenne, yolk \ hard boiled egg. 1 slightly beaten egg and wto tablespoons vinegar. Rub the yolk of egg into a paste before adding. Cook mixture over hot water, stirring constantly until it thickens. Cover the top of each tomato with powdered parsley and serve with water cress if possible. Normal Sororities Initiate Formal initiation services have been held this week by Kappa Kappa of the Indiana State Normal Terre Haute, for Mary Elizabeth Chezen. Terse Haute: Frances Conrath, Warsaw; Virginia Conrath, and Rosemary Cook, Terre Haute; Jessie Donaldson, Sullivan; Marion Patterson, Greencastle; Lillian Ros-, onfeld, Terre Haute: Avanelle Sebring.’ Brazil, and Dorothy Becherer, Terre Haute. Alpha formally initiated Mary Carver. Margaret Donnelly and Nadine Smith, Terre Haute. Girls initiated into Gamma Gamma the past week were Mildred Boswell. Lawrenceburg; Elizabeth Brinkman, Farmersburg; Laura May Briggs, Terre Hauie; Doris Dehart, Evansville; Mary Hickson and Elmore Houpt, Terre Haute; Margaret Neal, Jasonville; Marguerite Probes, Terre Haute; Bessie Ringer, Bedford and Emma Louise Smith, Mt. Vernon. Philomathean Literary Society has taken into membership Alice Kepner, a former student of Butler University; Georgia Campbell, Clinton; Betty Morse and Wanda Richart, Terre Haute; Alice McCrocklin, Greencastle and Dorothy Bechercr, Terre Haute. Studio Party Mr. and Mrs. Richard Zirnstein entertained with a studio party Saturday evening to celebrate the opening of the new home of the Zinna studio, 132 E. Maryland St.

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Tea Hosts, Hostesses Announced Among the hosts and hostessed anounced for the. annual tea of tha Little Theatre Society Sunday a 6 the Playhouse from 3 to 5 p. m. are? Messrs, and Mesdames William rl. Co* burn, Henry Hornbrook. Franklin VonneKUt. Kurt Pantzrr. Robert 8. Wild, Everett Schofield. Norman Green. Robert C. Winslow. Dick Richards, Carl Liever. Frederick Moscovics. William H. Insley, George T. Parry. George T. Ballev, Stephen A. Bogert, J. D. Peirce. George Finfrock, Mortimer Furscott. Mesdames Raymond R. Van Camp, Shel don Sayles, Ovid Butler James, Frederick Appel, John Titus, J. Benson Titus, chairman. Messrs. John B. Reynolds, Thomas <J, Howe. Misses Blanche Main. Florence Howell. Young women who will assist in* elude: Misses Rosamond Van Camp. Frances Wales. Charlotte Howe. Helen Harrison, Eunice Du Puv. Dorothy Dietz. Anti Spears, Jane Osborn. Mary Florence Fletcher. Henrietta Orr, Marion Secq*. Louise Sherwood. Anna Louise Griffith. Mellisa Wadlev. Alexandra Sherwood. Ann Timberlake. Josephine Norris. Maty Catherine Gallagher. Estelle Campbell. Dorothy Farley, Helen Coffey. Mary Ennis. Lillian Pearson.

Prize Recipes by Readers

NOTE-The Times will give $1 fpr each recipe submitted bv a reader adjudged of sufficient merit to be printed: tn this column. One recipe is printed daily, except Friday, when twenty ar given. Address Recipe Editor of Tha Times. Prizes w ill be mailed to winner*. Write on one side of sheet only. Only onp recipe each week will be accepted from one person. Butterscotch Honey Pie One cup brown sugar, three table* spoons honey, two tablespoons but* ter,* two and one-half tablespoons flour (rounding), yolks of two eggs, one cup milk, one-half teaspoon vanilla, one-quarter teaspoon salt. Cook until thick, fill previous!,/' baked crust, cover with the two whites stiffly beaten and two table* spoons sugar added. Brown in oven, MRS. J. B. SEITZ. 4049 Ruckle St., city. j Day for Guests Observed by Club at Propylaeum One hundred and fifty guests were entertained this afternoon ati the guest day meeting of the Fort* nightly Literary Club at the Pro* pylaeum. Mrs. Kate Milner Raalj talked on “Woven Coverlids.” A bowl of tulips on the speaker’s table formed the only decoration. Ices and cake were served after the talk. Mrs. Allen Headricks, president of the club presided, and Mrs. Mortimer Furscott was ehairmaiL of the program. m Tallc on Mussolini * Miss Lillian Gay Berry. Latin pro-1 fessor at Indiana University, will speak on “Mussolini” at the Congregational church in Marlon Wednesday evening under the au . pices of the Business and Professional Woman's division of the Marion, Department Club.

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