Indianapolis Times, Volume 39, Number 270, Indianapolis, Marion County, 8 March 1928 — Page 8
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Women Unable to Form Those Fine Friendships Existing Between Men BY MARTHA LEE MEN always say that women never have the close friendships among themselves that men have. Their assertion is correct because men do not permit petty things to come between them. There is one thing, though, that makes it difficult for a friendship between two girls to last and that is the habit of yqung men to date first one girl and then her friend. Being
quite feminine, the young woman deems this excuse for breaking a friendship. Women boast about their efficiency in business, their ability to manage their affairs as well as any man, their freedom from nerves and all the ailments so dear to women of grandmother’s time, but they can not say that many of them have the ability to have the unselfish love that one man can have for his friends, a love that generally no woman can destroy. Perhaps in a few years women will acquire as they have other traits, the faculty to hold their friendships so dear that nothing will spoil them. Dear Martha, Lee: I have been going with a fellow and we quarreled because I broke a date with him. I have realized how much X love him and shall never bo happy unless she comes back. He Is going with my girl friend and she and I do not speak. He told her he loved me. but did not see how he could forgive me. Do you think he cares anything for her if he tells her he loves me? Should I ■write him a letter? I shall never speak to her again. BROKEN-HEARTED SUE. Dear Heart-Broken Sue: You are a very foolish girl to let this young man come between you and this girl. It is very ridiculous that you do not speak to her. Do you not know, my hear, that most young men have that irritating habit, to girls anyhow, of always turning to their sweetheart’s best friend for solace whenever there is a quarrel. You will find that this happens constantly and causes many girls to become horribly jealous of their own friends. The girl forgets to consider the case from the point of view of the friend. The friend probably cares nothing for the young man from a romantic point of view, but she perhaps enjoys his company in a purely platonic manner. Answering your question, I should say that this young man really likes you and since he is rather boyish in his character, he thinks he can not forgive you for your offense. He will get over that. You know that you are on his mind or he would not go around telling your friend that he loves you. Resume your friendship with this girl. Try to make yourself capable of having a friendship that no petty thing such as this can ruin. However, my dear, do not write to this young man. The quarrel is on his side so let him resume the paying of attentions to you on his own accord. Dr Miss Lee: I am a young girl in my ’teens. I was engaged to a fellow eight years my senior. Now. Miss Lee. he has left town and I did not even know that he was going until his boy friend told me. Ha always acted as If he loved me. We went together six months and he never once treated me unkindly. Do vou think hej could have loved me and still not tell m# he was leaving? Everyone who knew him said he cared for me. Do vou think he.does? OPAL G. pear Opal G: Since this young mjm was several years older, and at y<|ur age eight years makes a difference you know, I imagine that he jist enjoyed your youthful freshness and joy of life. He probably lii|ed you a great deal, but realizing that he must leave town and that it* would be impossible to marry yqu and take you with him, he left without going through the unpleasant bidding "good-by” to you. fThe French have an old saying, mj? dear, that translated reads that tef say good-by is to die a little. Many persons agree with this bit of French philosophy, and will do everything to avoid this unhappiness. Perhaps that is the explanatipn of this young man’s action. JYou are so young that you will fqrget your love for him if he does not return, but you can always cherish a sweet memory of him. fyou said he was always so kind you. put down his leaving witht telling you about it as just the # t of his many kindnesses. Honor Visitor -Members of Chapters F and G, P. E. 0., entertained at a joint dinner meeting Wednesday evening at the Spink-Arms in honor of their State president, Mrs. Jessie Hawkins, Greencastle, who was also an hpnor guest at the Chapter F meeting Wednesday afternoon with Mrs. Paul M. Kilby, 3825 Broadway. Officers of Chapter F elected at the meeting are: Mesdames James A. Stuart, presidentJohn O. Johnson, vice president: John L Stuart, recording secretary; J. P. Whitmyre. treasurer; Walter T. White, corresponding secretary; Paul M. Kilby, chaplain. ana Cecil Stalnaker, guard. •Mrs. George A. Van Dyke, delegate to State convention: Mrs. Charles Valle, alternate. and Mrs. Chic Jackson, president's alternate. ' For Bride-Elect .Miss Mary Lipps, Miss Gladys Albright and Mrs. R. O. Smith entertained Wednesday evening at the home of Mrs. Smith, 6333 Park Ave., iff honor of Miss Mary Margaret Hfarrison, daughter of Mrs. Mabel Harrison, 3072 Park Ave., whose niarriage to Charles Butler will take pjace next Thursday at the Tabernacle Presbyterian Church. :Table decorations were in pink and white with roses for a centerpiece.
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Family Menus
BY SISTER MARY BREAKFAST—AppIe sauce, cereal, cream, crisp bacon, sour cream waffles, maple syrup, milk, coffee. LUNCHEON—Savory stewed eggplant in macaroni border, banana and peanut salad, gingerbread with whipped cream, milk, tea. DINNER—Ham baked In milk, sweet potato apples, cole slaw, raisin custard pie, milk, coffee. Sour Cream Waffles One and one-fourth cups flour, one-third teaspoon soda, one-half teaspoon salt, two eggs, five tablespoons melted butter, one cup sour cream. Beat eggs until very light. Stir in sour cream and add dry ingredients mixed and sifted. Beat well and add n -lted butter. Beat hard for two minutes and bake on a hot waffle iron. If the eggs are beaten until very light it is not necessary to beat the yolks and whites separately. Be sure that the soda is thoroughly mixed with the flour before adding the dry ingredients. And keep in mind that a waffle batter is a "pour” batter. These waffles are deliciously crisp and tender. Anniversary Dinner Mr. and Mrs. John W. Crise, Forest Hill, near Greensburg, celebrated their golden wedding anniversary Wednesday with a family dinner and reception.
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In a mood of generosity regretted now in vain, Mr. Van de View has done a thing he’ll never do again— Keeping children while the parents go to dinner and a show Drives a fellow to distraction and hereafter he will know.
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BY RUTH DEWEY GROVES Mom Dear: Well, Alan and I have had a real battle of the century. All because he tried to teach me to drive the car. It’s simply unbelievable how mean a man can be at a time like that. I never knew he had such a vocabulary as he used on me simply because I couldn’t start right off and drive as well as he does. "You’ve been telling me how,” he thundered: "now go 'head and do it.” He forgets how many times he jammed the thing himself in the beginning. We rolled 'er out after dinner last night. I have a temporary permit, but I want to apply for a license. At the rate I’m learning under Alan’s instructions I’ll be lucky if I get one to run a push-cart. :He yelled at me because the darned thing picked up like a kangaroo, and once when I got a little excited and tried to start in high he actually cussed until the motometer ran up to danger the air got so hot. You wouldn't think it of Alan, would you? The big blowup came when I stalled in crossroads traffic and a truck driver yelled at me to take it out on Sunday morning. Alan flopped all over the front seat throwing a fit. I made him take the wheel then and we didn’t speak to each other until this morning. I've decided to get Billy Bartlett to teach me. I should have done it in the first place, but in a weak moment I decided on Alan, because if there’s anyone who ought to have patience with you it’s your own devoted. Well, I learned a thing or two, but not about driving. Why is it, I wonder, that men are rude to their wives and say things they wouldn’t think of saying to other women. I don't mean when they’re quarreling, but even when affairs are normal. I’m sure I could have taught Alan to drive, if the case had been reversed, without spraining a blood vessel. He took the attitude that I’d been doing a lot of back seat driving and ought to be able to drive as well as he. I know I’ll learn faster, because I know what to do, but it does take some practice. And when we got home we found one of our neighbors trying to bring her bus to life and Alan jumped out and ran over to help her, and I could almost see the sugar in the words he used. Lovingly, MAR YE. Mayes-Mayer Mrs. F. R. Meidner, 3361 Carrollton Ave., announces the marriage of her niece, Miss Adelaide Mayer, to Stanley Hayes, son of Mr. and Mrs. P. T. Hayes, in Huntington, W. Va„ Sept. 9. Mr. and Mrs. Hayes are at home with Mrs. Meidner. Ladies ’ Gun Club Party Ladies of the Murat Gatling Gun Club will be entertained at cards at the home of Mrs. Lou Rost, 1206 Oakland Ave., Monday evening.
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On the verge of desperation to prevent a sad collapse He decides they’ll have to go to bed and take a lot of naps, But before he gets their nighties on, they scamper off in glee— Little Bettie in a slip that doesn't even reach the knee.
Shower Will Honor April Bride-Elect Mrs. Walter Shirley, 5632 Broadway, will entertain this evening with a bridge party and linen shower in honor of Miss Irene Seuel whose marriage to Roland Crocker Davies will take place on April 9. Appointments will be in pink and green and the shower gifts will be presented in a large basket in those colors. Spring flowers will be used on the tables. Assisting Mrs. Shirley will be her mother, Mrs. Arthur F. Sudbrock and Mrs. O. M. Shirley. The guests with Miss Seuel will be: Misses Helen Myers Anna Gardner Grace Turner Dorothy Wrlfiht Mary Sutherland Eliabcth Berterman Betty DeOrief Helen DeGrlef Majorle Gordon Sara Rodecker Prances Krelg Ann Moorehead Xlelene Sudbrock Martha Uptleßraff Mary Patla Carver Mesdames Edna Seuel Blanton Coxen Theodore Seuel William Schumacher Paul Stelcher Herbert Plel Donald Hoover David Swln. Jr. Robert Small Frank Osborn Verne Reeder Willis Conner Barrett Woodsmall Emory Baxter Allln K. Ingles, Francis Somner Oak Park. 111. Warren K Mannon Floyd Mannon Evanson Earp
Prize Recipes by Readers
NOTE—The Times will Rive *1 lor each recipe submitted by a reader adjudged ot sufficient merit to be printed in this column. One recipe Is printed dally, except Friday, when twenty are given. Address Recipe Editor ot The Times. Prizes will be mailed to winners. Write on one side of sheet only. Only one recipe each week will be accepted from one person. Deviled Flank Steak Cut the steak into pieces suitable for serving, dip in flour and brown in fat which has been seasoned with onion. Remove from pan and add one teaspoon salt, one-half teaspoon paprika, one teaspoon mustard, one heaping tablespoon of flour. Mix well and add three teaspoons of vinegar and two cups of boiling water. Allow to simmer until tender or about one hour. MRS. W. W. HENDRICKSON. 1502 Edgemont Ave., City. •CNUMint OiTOMiVE Flush Churned from 'fresh Otam GRANDPA’S ' Wonderful Popcorn A Confection that has JKta&lkibs. re ®ched perfection JPC M Crisp. Tender. Dellclou* Nutritious and Every Bite a Relish. HOMEMADE CANDIES OF ALL KINDS 244 E. St. Clair St.
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In a suit of underwear that might be worn upon the track Bobbie runs around the comer to the living room and back With the Connoisseur pursuing—Bob’s pajamas on his arm— In a state of apprehension, irritation and alarm.
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A novelty crepe de chine handkerchief with the sign of the zodiac painted in one corner comes packed in an envelope containing a small card with horoscope of the month. St. Patrick’s Party Appointments were in keeping with St. Patrick's day, Wednesday, for the luncheon of the Indianapolis branch of the State Assembly Woman's Club, with Mrs. William Henry Harison, 4221 Broadway. Mrs. Arthur L. Gilliom, 3850 N. Delaware St., will be hostess for the next meeting on April 4.
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Honor for Federation Candidate The second of a series of at home teas for members of the Woman’s Department Club being given by Mrs. S. E. Perkins, president, during the month will be given Saturday afternoon at her home, 3253 N. Pennsylvania St. Mrs. Edward Franklin White, Indiana's candidate for General Federation president, will be an honor guest. Assisting Mrs. Perkins in receiving guests will be Mesdames A. S. Ayres, John R. Curry, J. W. Moore, James A. Bawden, W. C. Borcherding, R. O. McAlexander, John D. Johnson, Lillian Poyserand Frank Lahr. In the dining room will be: Mesdames Walter Slate, W. R. Klingholz, C. F. Neu, E. L. Pedlowe, E. W. Bott, H. W. Krause. D. H. A. Kolss, Frederick Schortemeier, H. H. Wright and Louis H. Wolff. Observe Anniversary Mr. and Mrs. Jacob Vester, Green Hill, recently celebrated their golden wedding anniversary by entertaining their children and grandchildren Mr. and Mrs. James Cunningham, 637 Parker Ave., will return April 1 from Florida, where they have been spending the winter.
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And although he tells Patricia she will catch an awful cold If she doesn’t get to bed and do exactly as she’s told She is capering around him in a pantiecomblnation Making Vandie very sorry for his painful obligation.
Life’s Niceties • Hints on Etiqnet
1. Are butter pats placed on bread and butter plates before a meal is served or passed when family is seated? 2. Should bread be placed on individual plates or served? 3. Is it correct to put pickles. Jelly or anything else on bread and butter plates before a meal? The Answers 1. Either. 2. Served. 3. No. Only butter. Other articles should be served from side. Triple Link Party The Triple Link Club will given a euchre party at 8:30 p. m. Saturday in the Southeastern I. O. O. F. hall, Cottage Ave. and Olive St.
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.MARCH 8, 1928
Box Holders Patronesses Made Public Among box holders announced for the production of Mask and Wig, the University of Pennsylvania dramatic club, to be given at the Murat March 28, are: Lower Boxes—Messrs. Samuel R. Harrell. Oscar N. Torian. Harry Murphy, J. S. Watson. T. S. Little Jr., Charles Weiss, Ralph R. Teeter of Haßerstown, J. F. DbrRett, Howard Gay, Russell Lanßsenkamp. Robert Winslow and J. Elder Blackledße. Upper Boxes —Messrs. C. Willis Adams, Norman Metzfier. Perry Meek, Robert Stafford. Bowman Elder and the Broad Ripple basketball team. The patronesses for the show are: Mesdames John N. Carey. HURh McK. Landon. Harry Murphy, William R. Hißgins, William L. Elder. John H. Holliday, D. L. Chambers. Frederic Ayres. Booth Tarkinßton. W. Richardson Sinclair. William Rockwood. Henry C. Thornton, Thomas Howe. James T. Barrett, William H. Coleman. Meredith Nicholson. Ellas Atkins. Howard Gay. Eupene Miller. Albert Metzger. Ovid Butler Jameson. Paul H. White. Arthur Brown. Louis Huesmann, John A. MacDonald. John Ruckleshaus. W. W. Winslow. H. H. Hornbrook, R. F. DftßRett. R. H. Sherwood. George Vonnegut, Leonard Wild, Newton Todd, Frank M. Fauvre. Edgar Evans. Oscar Frenzel, Walter Goodall. Woodbuvry T. Morris. MISS NEEVES CHOSES WEDDING ATTENDANTS Miss Pauline Neeves, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Ross Neeves, 6915 Central Ave., whose marriage to Ernest Earl Kinkle. son of Mr. and Mrs. Ezra Hinkle will take place in April, has chosen Miss Rosmond Gabriel as her bridesmaid and Mr. Hinkle has chosen Homer Hinkle best man. Miss Gabriel will entertain m April for Miss Neeves. Golden Wedding Mr. and Mrs. Benjamin Carter, Wabash, celebrated their golden wedding anniversary Wednesday at the home of their son, Otis Carter, in Wabash. A number of friends called during the day. Auxiliary Party The Ladies’ Auxiliary to th Brotherhood of Railway Trainmen, Lodge No. 297, will give a bunco and euchre party in Trainmen’s hall. 1002 E. Washington St., at 8:30 p. m. Friday. Mrs. W. E. Dooley la chairman.
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