Indianapolis Times, Volume 39, Number 248, Indianapolis, Marion County, 23 February 1928 — Page 6

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When It’s Question of Marrying Money or Love Let Cupid Make Decision BY MARTHA LEE WAV back in caveman times, I suppose woman then, too, was settling the cpiestion of whether to marry for love or to marry some man who possessed a large collection of fine, shiny clubs that would secure for her a good livelihood. Now the modern woman has to face the same question of choosing between love and a large bank account. Though every girl will say immediately that love will be

(he only factor in her decision as to Avhorn site chooses for a husband, still with modern prices as high as they are, many a girl feels the call of the god Moloch to tempt her into deciding against the dictates of her heart. I can not say too much against the folly of marrying for anything but love. I hear so many stories of unhappy marriages that I should stress constantly that love is the only sure way of making marriage a success. Where there is love, you know, there are the wonderful qualities of tolerance, forgiveness, appreciation and consideration, qualities that are absolutely necessary for the happiness of the husband and wife. . ; Remember girls, that material things are so fleeting. We have them today and tomorrow they are gone. Love remains and though perhaps' I shall be accused of sounding idealistic, after all, love is powerful enough to last through any trouble that may arise later on. Dear Miss Lee: There are two men who have proposed to me and I am forced to make my decision immediately. Though this sound silly. Miss Lee, I do not know which to take though I really love one and merely like the other one. The other one has money and my friends advise me lhat it is just as easy to love a rich man as a poor man. Perhaps it is. but I love this othftr fellow. He is poor. He works for a fairly adequate salary, but I honestly doubt if he ever will be a success. He is the sort that will always "work hard and pay his bills, but his bills will have to be small ones. , _ I am not a frivolous girl and I think 1 can be happy with very little material wealth in spite of what my friends advise. Please give me your opinion on this subject. MAY. Dear May: Constantly I am advising readers to suggest to their ■well-meaning match-making friend that if the friend had to live with some man whose stock she is boosting, she perhaps would be less eager to have him enter matrimony. It is easy enough for one to tell you to marry for money, but that advisor has never known what it is to have to live with a man who means no more to you than a check book. There is no pleasure in buying pretty things if a wife has no love for her husband. She cares little whether or not he likes her new gown when he comes home in the evening. In fact, life itself loses most of its zest if a woman is forced to live with a man she does not love. Take the man you love, May. You will never regret it. Lonesome: My dear, it seems the hardest thing in the world for a young girl to realize that a young man stops going with her most times for the simple reason that he realizes that he does not care for hqr seriously and he has too much manhood to ruin her chances for finding a good husband. There is something about the psychology of girls that they hate to relinquish a former beau. A young man will philosophically pass off an unsuccessful affair and will immediately start looking for anew sweetheart while a girl continues to regain her lost “love.” That is my -advice to you. There are many other young men just as charming as this young man who has stopped coming to see you. Do not write him or try to see him. Let him reopen the friendship if he cares to do so. Anyhow, Lonesome, you said you did not love him, so why worry about it? J. A. S.: I am sorry, but I am too busy to send you a personal reply. I really think you love this young man and you know that most young men say that any girl can get the man she wants if she wants him bad enough, providing, of course, there is a certain amount of attraction between the two. Perhaps that will give you some encouragement.' Yqimg man is very peculiar, you know. Sometimes he will rush a girl “frantically,” as my young friends say, and then suddenly he win leave for a month or more without even a telephone call. Just from your letter, I should say that he will be back to you. He has dated you for a long time and I wager that his dating this other girl is just a temporary affair. Perhaps he wants to see what all kinds of girls are like. Men are curious creatures, J. A. S. Cheer up, and I am sure you will not be disappointed.

Firemen's Auxiliary Party Ladies’ Auxiliary to the Firemens’ Ascociation will play cards and lotto at 2:30 p. m. Friday in the old Elks Hall, 116 E: Maryland St. Players’ Club Players’ Club members will meet Friday night at the Little Theater Playhouse and later have supper and dance at the Propylaeum. The committee inclqdes, Mr. and Mrs. Robert C. Winslow, chairman; Mr. and Mrs. Mark E. Hamer, Mr. and Airs. Cornelius Holloway and Mr. and Mrs. Wynn Owen.

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Vandie's mother, just an hour ago, had sent him out the door To meet a friend of hers whom he has never seen before, She’d be wearing white, she told him, with accessories of prints And, bewildered, he has stood upon the corner ever since.

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By HENRI BENDEL For ALA Service NEW YORK, Feb. 23.—Spring styles this year are more than kindly to the stay-at-home woman. In the costumes that are fashioned for wear in the house we see all the soft, feminine touches that lend such charm to the present modes. In choosing costumes for daytime home wear, a woman likes to drop the severity of the tailored costume and ignore the formality of attire she usuallly chooses to wear on the street or in other homes. Informality is the keynote to the choice most discriminating women make for costumes to play in around home. For morning wear she may choose pajamas or a linen frock or smock in some cheerful hue. From 11 to dinner time her clothes are likely to be the type she can keep on comfortably if friends drop in to lunch or if she entertains a table or two at bridge.

Hostess City of Club Federation Discloses Plans General plans for excursions, pageants, tours, luncheons and dinners for members of the General Federation of Women’s Clubs who attend the biennial convention in San Antonio, Tex., May 28 to Jure 7, have been announced to the club women of the United States through a letter sent from the club women of San Antonio. Mrs. F. L. Carson, San Antonio, is chairman of the juniors, and has planned special entertainment for them. Indiana women will go to San Antonio on a special train, called the “Peggy White Special,” in honor of Mrs. Edward Franklin White. Indiana's candidate for General Federation president.

For Sorority Bridge Among reservations made for the Xi Delta Xi card party this evening at the Hoosier Athletic Club are: Messrs, and Mesdames H. B. Pearce. Raiph R. Scheidler, W. A. Marschke, Bert Rohrman, William Moore, O. H. Klingstein. William Madden, C. R. Martin, J. H. Foxworthy, Edgar UJrey, Fred Geiger, Toner M. Overly, H. W. Marschke, F. H. Marschke, George Roosebo, F. Holbauer, Theodore Dettlaff, C. W. Foster and Mesdames Harold Bailey, Florence Harris, and Misses Lilliam Thompson, Isabelle Bates, Helen Aldrige, Leona Sage and Leona Rahn.

Hoke to Speak Fred Hoke will speak on “The City Manager Form of Government,” at the meeting of the Business and Professional Women's Club this evening at the Woman's Department Club. Miss Anita Scott will sing. llovey W. R. C. Alvin P. Hovey, W. R. C. No. 196, will met at 2 p. m. Friday at 512 N. Illinois St., followed by a card party at 8:15 p. m.

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For he sees so many ladies who by chance could be the one That he simply stands around and looks them over just for fun, And a lot of fun it is to see them tripping down the street In their printed linen slippers on their daintjr little feet.

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Soft, Feminine Touches That Lend Charm to the Present Mode Will Be Chic Stay-at-Home Women.

A "little dress" of Chinese brocade.

I show today two types of midday frocks for the well-dressed woman, both suitable for wear from 11 to teatime. First is an inovation this season—the Chinese washable brocade frock in light blue, a very popular color this year. Here we see for the first time for spring the new sailor collar combined with jabot revers in front to soften it. Hand-embroidered batiste in the same flower design as the brocade fashions the wide back collar and its white touch is very pleasing and gives a dainty touch which suggests the intimacy of the home. The front revers have handrolled hems. The sleeves of this frock are graceful, long and taper to the wrist, then flare for a modified mitt-cuff. The most feminine touch about this soft, “little dress.” as this type of frock so often is called, is its new silhouette with gored skirt flaring

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NOTE—The Times will Rive *1 for each recipe submitted bv a reader ad--ludK*d of sufficient merit to be printed in this column. One recipe is printed dally, except Friday, when twenty are given. Address Recipe Editor of Th Times. Prizes will be mailed to winners. Write on one side of sheet only. Only one recipe each week will be accepted from one person. Somerset Salad Cut white and brown bread in thin slices. Spread thiply with but*ter. Cut cold boiled tongue and cheese in thin slices. Arrange tongue on white bread, then brown bread on the tongue, cheese on brown bread.- Repeat. Put under weight and let stand two or three hours. Cut crossways in thin slices. MRS. HARRY YOUNT. Waveland, Ind. Martha Hawkins Society The Martha Hawkins Society of the First Baptist Church held its February all-day meeting today with I Mrs. J. M. Antrim, 3620 Central Ave. j Luncheon was served at noon. The j table was arranged with pink roses! for a centerpiece and tapers in silver holders gave the light. Mrs. E. H. Caperton, accompanied by Mrs. E. 11. Pierson, sang. A business meeting followed the program. Legion Auxiliary Tea Irvington Unit .No. 38 American Legion Auxiliary will have a short business meeting followed by a program at tea at 2:30 p. m. Friday with Mrs. Simon Reisler, 5749 E. New York St. Mrs. J. P. Smith is president of the unit. The program will be given by the Irvington School of Music, Mrs. Geneva Smallwood, vocalist, Mrs. Mildred Smith, pianist and Mrs. Glenn Kingham, reader. Supper Party for Guest Mr. and Mrs. E. R. Zimmer, 5887 Central Ave., will entertain with a dance and supper party Saturday evening at the Indianapolis Athletic Club in honor of their house guest, Miss Florence Sietle, Detroit, Mich. The twenty-two guests will include Carl Tiedemann, Minneapolis, Minn.

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Wide banding of brown georgette velvet on a tan silk house frock.

from a fitted waistline and the sash tying with fringed ends. It has an even hem but quite a vide skirt bottom. For the woman who feels her guests may come in tailored attire there is a modified sports costume for home wear that is trim but soft and lovely. Flat crepe in tan and medium brown fashion it, with an exaggerated waist-banding of the sheer georgette velvet in a very dark brown tone. The skirt is box pleated and gracefully full and the V neck points sharply and is emphasized with a narrow band of the brovn velvet. So are the sleevesTea gowns for spring show the fashionable woman’s revolt against the tailleur for house-wear and her appreciation of genuinely feminine modes. The richest materials, brocades, laces. chiiTons in stunning patterns and the most gorgeous colors and trimmings bring vivacity

North Side Club Members Meet With Mrs. Ward Covers were laid for twenty-four members of the North Side Study Club at luncheon today at the home of Mrs. John R. Ward. 3309 Ruckle St. when a southern program was presented. Decorations were spring flowers and the tables were lighted with white candles. Mrs. J. Blame Hoffman gave a reading. “Old Creole Days,” and Mrs. Grace Linn Sandy sang. Mrs. Dan Brown Jr. read a paper, “Early Days in New Orleans.” Sunshine Club Bridge The Children’s Sunshine Club of Sunnyside entertained one hundred guests at luncheon bridge today at | the home of Mrs. J. F. Holmes. 4924 j Washington Blvd. The decorations,! ices and cakes were in keeping with i Washington's birthday. The com- j mittee of assistants was Mesdames! Max P. Sander, Ray McQueen, George Killinger. John Herrman, Claude Hoover and Harold J. Koch. Kappa Alumnae Feted Greencastle Alumnae of Kappa Kappa Gamma fraternity entertained at luncheon today at the De Pauw chapter house. Local alumnae who attended were: Mesdames Fred C. Millis, George W. Losey, William H. Remy, Hughes Patton, Robert M. Brewer. Robert Gilliland, Harmon Bradshaw', R. V. Clark, Herbert Eichoff, Albert Fesler, Arthur Halton, L. H. Millikan, L. C. Morgan, James C. Nelson, C. A. Pritchard. Harry Sunderland, G. B. Taylor. Frank Throop, and Misses Nellie Fatout and Jane Pritchard. Observe Anniversainy Mr. and Mrs. Harry C. Ray, Shelbyville. celebrated their fiftysixth wedding anniversary with an open house at their home. With the exception of the first year after their marriage, spent in Danville, the entire time has been spent in Shelbyville. •

to the tea-table. The hostess is as charmingly decorative this spring as any one could wish. In selecting a tea-gown to show' today I steered between the most elaborate lacy ones that many women prefer and the sophisticatedly severe ones others choose. This gown, elegant in its richness, beautiful in its simplicity, is a fitting costume for the climax of a sartorially perfect day at home. It is of gold metal cloth aflame with crimson velvet bandings and with a tie sash and frivolously long pointed cuff drapes of crimson. These sleeves are a triumph of the trend towards more and more unusual sleeve treatments. The neckline is the wider shoulder line and an irregular short V. Os course this tea-gown could be worn with any type of slippers but richly brocaded gold ones and a single strand of gold beads are proper accessories.

Life’s Niceties Hints on Etiqnet

1. When Is a hostess not expected to introduce all her guests to each other? 2. How far does her responsibility extend at such functions? 3. Is it proper for guests to talk to other guests at such functions? The Answers 1. At a formal tea, bridge or big dance. 2. She should endeavor to see that all her guests meet a few people. 3. Certainly. Fashion Scouts Always on Alert for New Ideas Cy 1 tilled Prrsx NEW YORK. Feb. 23.—Baseball fans who see need for the scouts! who each year seek out new stars for the diamond, have much in common with modem women demanding variety each month or so in their fashions, in the opinion of a prominent style expert in New York, interview by United Press. “Like the big league ball club magnate who each year sets about to find the player he will star in the stadium, like the financier who scouts for information on stocks and bonds and the diplomat who has his scouts gathering data on the next move on diplomacy’s checkerboard fashions houses must employ many sleuths,” said this New York young womans., a representattive of Tobe, leading New York fashion setter. Each season, in fact all the year round except for the dullest times, according to this authority, the fashion scout is busy. She—it is usually she, although sometimes men may be found in this work—is often found watching the theatregoers at some premiere, somettimes at a fashionable supper club, at Biaarritz, Le Houquet, Palm Beach, Newport or Lido.

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And although he thinks a printed parasol a thing of grace. He is glad it isn’t raised to hide the lady’s pretty face, When he realizes suddenly that he has had a mission And he goes to tell his mother of his failure with contrition.

MAR YE and ‘MOM’ u n n THEIR LETTERS

BY RUTH DEWEY GROVES Darling Mother: I could ask you why so many men had indigestion in your day but I won't, because you would write back and declare that they still have it. Then I'd have to tell you that it’s not the food they eat, but the pace they keep. I can't deny that we live fast but I don’t know anyone who wants to slow up just to cure indigestion. I think one reason why people used to be slow is that they were always too stuffed with home cooking to get up any pep. Imagine doing the Charleston after eating three pieces of lemon merringue pie! But I don't see why you object so much to our way of living. You didn't live as your mother or grandmother did. And all we moderns have the same values so no one is hurt. No doubt the Driscolls knew perfectly well why we were entertaining them but what did that matter? It’s a compliment when people spend money on you these days and no one expects a hostess to make a servant of herself. Only I wish I’d brought them home and served ham sandwiches instead, because Mr. Discoll threw Alan down. It was that ridiculous wife of his, I'm sure. I was going to send Betty a luncheon set but now I've got to buy anew pair of slippers with the money. Anyway, I think Alan sends her money on the sly. Naturalty I don’t expect him to tell me what he does with his money but I do think that a man’s family should realize that if. does make a difference when he marries. Alan sent both his sisters through business college, you know and now that Betty is married to a man who’s always out of a job they still seem to think that Alar, ought to send them money. I’d never think of asking Frank for help. I do wish you’d go over to Betty’s and have a talk with her and find out what's the trouble with Clyde. Os course I don't want her to suffer, but Clyde’s her misfortune, not mine, and Alan kicked the other day because I bought an import. It’s a knockout, too, what there is of it, but I guess you wouldn't call it a dress at all. Do go over to Betty’s. With all my love, MARYE.

Personals

Mrs. Alice Hartgen, 2831 E. Wasli- ' ington St., has returned from spending the winter in Tampa, Fla., with her son and his wife. Mrs. James L. Gavin, 228 E. Fifteenth St., has returned from Terre Haute, where she gave a song recital for the annual guest day of the Terre Haute chapter D. A. R. Mrs. Joe Rand Beckett, 3528 Fall Creek Blvd., has gone to Florida. Dr. Irvine Page, New York, has come to visit his parents, Dr. and Mrs. Lafayette Page, Woodstock Dr. SIGMA SIGMA KAPPA HAS GUEST MEETING Miss Helen Bettcher, 4823 E’. New York St., was hostess for a guest meeting of Signa Sigma Kappa sorority Wednesday evening. Miss Bettcher was assisted by Miss Bernice Trout. Decorations and ices were in keeping with Washington's birthday. Guests preseent were Misses Maxine Gardner Helen Bradlev Beulah Remley Roberta O'Neal Vera Snoderass Beaulah Rem Evelyn Hitz Marjorie Whiteside Hazel Henson Jm nita Lockwood Mildred Welsh Mildred Colvin Dorothy Dusdale. The members who attended were: Misses Virßinia Swaim Marßaret Biliman Vivian Keller Elaln Henrickson Evelyn Carpenter Marßaret Kcidt Eva Eckert Ruth Mao Bostic Mary Kepler Autumn Bradlev Geraldine Stokes Mildred Hausnor Jewel Martin Helen Bettcher Jessie Brunell Helen Baldwin Louise Shipman 3ernice Trout Hawaiian Chapter Mrs. James W. Clark will entertain the Hawaiian chapter of the International Study and Travel Club with a 1 o'clock luncheon Friday at the home of her daughter, Mrs. C. C. McLean, 1127 Eugene St. The lesson pertaining to “Islands of the Sea” will be given by Mrs. S. R. Artman and Mrs. Hector Blodin will give special patriotic music.

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Division Auxiliary 1 Luncheon Seventy members and guests o 8 the woman's auxiliary to the Thirty* Eighth division attended the luncheon today at the Columbia Club when a number of officers and their wives, from Ft. Harrison were honor guests. Tables were arranged with sweet peas in spring colors. At the speakers table with Mrs. Allen T. Fleming, president, were Col. and Mi’s. Cromwell Stacey; Lieut. Col. and Mrs. J. G. Mcllroy, Capt. and Mrs. Thornton Chase, Lieut. Col. and Mrs. George Green,Mr. and Mrs. Bert Ailing, Chaplain' and Mrs. Samuel Miller, Mrs. M. ,E, Robbins, acting president of the_ council of women: R. O. McAlex-.' ander, acting president of the'. Seventh District Federation of Clubs, and officers of the auxiliary; Mesdames M. B. Spellman, J. T* Cochrane, Oakley White, Emery, Towlcy, C. E. Hostetler. R. H. A. Daughman and John Compton. Miss Ruth Stockton sang during the luncheon and Miss Sarah Crouch gave readings. Toasts were given by Colonel Stacey, Lieutenant, Colonel’Mclllroy, Mrs. Robbins, Mrs,, McAlexander and Mrs. Fleming. ,

State President Addresses P. T.A. District Meeting Mrs. Homer J. Miller, South president of the Indiana ParentTeacher Association, spoke tlii.V afternoon at. the meeting of thT Seventh District Federation at the Lincoln. D. K. Morgan of Technical High School also spoke. Mrs. Bruce Maxwell, presided, and each local president, gave a report. Luncheon was served to the delegates. Luncheon Bridge Mrs. Farrell E. Potter will entertain Friday with a 1 o'clock luncheon bridge at the Marott. Appointments will be in patriotic colors. Covers will be laid for Mesdames Wayne O. Hill, Ernest Kingston, C. E short, Alvin Jones, H. Marshall, Claude Hixon and Theodore Holland. Washington Dinner Members cf Maj. Robert Anderson W. R. C.. No. 44, enteri'ianed comrades of the post with a Washington dinner Wednesday at Ft. Friendly. Following the dinner Mrs. Hattie Hopkins presented the post with a large flag in memory of Comrade J. T. Landers, a former post member.

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