Indianapolis Times, Volume 39, Number 234, Indianapolis, Marion County, 7 February 1928 — Page 8

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Selfishness, False Pride Serve Frequently as Wreckers of Marriages BY MARTHA LEE. FAILURE to “look before leaping,” selfishness, false pride and lack of consideration for the feelings of one’s marriage partner are some of the underlying causes of the domestic difficulties of which my correspondents write me. To make possible the excellent policy of looking before leaping* into matrimony, I constantly am advising against early marriages because I understand how little a young boy or girl

knows about the sort of life partner he or she desires. Other cases of impulse leading to unhappiness are young men and women with mature minds who meet with someone new and before giving the matter serious consideration run off, marry and then quarrel because they are unsuited to one another. Selfishness of the husband or wife is certain to throw discord into the home. With a selfish mate, the harassed partner must cultivate Machivellian qualities if ever the marriage is to be a success. However, by scheming and planning, the selfishness of this husband or wife can be overcome, but this takes much cleverness and finesse. False pride is such a ridiculous thing and so easy to overcome that it is unfortunate that it causes so many troubles between husband and wife. Lack of consideration for the feelings of one’s partner also is a very simple fault to overcome because many, many times this lack of consideration really hides' a great love for the one whose feelings are hurt. It is the duty of every husband and wife who realize that quarreling is ruining their domestic felicity to analyze the situation and get to the direct cause of the trouble. When the cause is discovered, try every means to remove it before giving in to the last resort, divorce. Dear Martha Lee:. I am a young wife, 23, and my husband Is the same age. We don’t seem to get along any more. He works the biggest part of his time and he tells me he never has time to think of me. Every time we have a little quarrel he tells me to leave, but I still keep me he sees other girls with whom he would like to be, but he would not date them while he and I live together. He says he like them, but not any better than he likes me. X am dependent upon him for support; otherwise I should leave him the next time he tells me to go. However, I have told him any time he Is ready to step out X shall do the same thing. Do you think I am doing wrong living with him, or do you think I am doing wrong by telling him to go ahead and have dates and I’ll do the seme. Please answer at once for I am anxious to hear from you. WORRIED. Dear Worried! My opinion is that you and your husband are both naughty children who are “ragging” each other. Children like to tease and that is what you both are doing about this “dating” idea. I really do not think your husband has any intention of going out with other women and you ought to be smart enough to realize this and stifle your pride and frankly tell him how much he means to you. Os course, it would be wrong for both of you to have engagements with other persons. Forget this and try to make your marriage a success by having your husband so interested in you that he will forget all about these other little girls, real or fictitious, of whom he delights in telling you now. Dear Mies Lee: I met young man, 23, and I fell In love with him. It wasn't two weeks before he asked me for a date and I accepted. Then we started to go together and continued for three months and during that time he claimed he loved as most girls do. I broke a couple of dates with him, but he never complained about that. So one Saturday evening he was supposed to have a date with me, but he did not keep ti. X have not seen or heard from him since. . ' Kindly tell me what I should do so he will come back to me and care as he did before. . WAITING. . Dear Waiting: You have heard, I am sure, the old saying about the worm turning. This young man probably awakefied to the fact that you had broken these engagements with him and decided he would forget all about you. He was very ungallant to fail to keep his date with you. If he had been a true gentleman he would have kept that date and then stopped asking you for any more. There is nothing you can do to win him back. If you really like him in spite of his churlish treatment of you, perhaps when you see him you can make him understand you are sorry you broke those dates with him. Are you sure that is the reason he stopped calling? Perhaps he realized that you were not the girl he wanted to marry, so decided to stop seeing you before you fell too deeply in love with him. v Valentine Bridge Alpha Chapter of Omega Nu Tau sorority will entertain guests with a Valentine bridge party Wednesday evening at the home of Miss Luville Dichmann, 382 Prospect St. Club to Entertain The Almoner Club will give a card party at 8:30 this evening at Trainmen’s Hall, 1002 E. Washington St. Mrs. J. W. Baxter and Clove Grow are on the entertaining committee.

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Luncheon Marks Club Founding The Inter-Alia Club observed its seventh annual founders’ day today with a luncheon in the Harrison room of the Columbia Club, followed by a theater party. The club members were seated at one large table, lighted with tall yellow tapers in crystal holders. The centerpiece of the table was a birthday cake, on which were seven small candles. The flowers and the luncheon appointments were in yellow and white, the organization colors. The committee in charge of the arrangements was composed of Mesdames Fred I. Jones, chairman; Raymond Maguire, Edwin Larrance, Walter G. Earll and A. L. Roberts. Officers of the club are Mrs. James W. Taylor, president; Mrs. Douglas White, first vice president; Mrs. Earle C. Hervey, second vice president; Mrs. Marguerite Hanson, recording secretary; Mrs. Charles H. Fenner, corresponding secretary, and Mrs. Ancil T. Brown, treasurer.

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BREVITY IS SOUL OF LINGERIE FOR SPRING

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Softly colorful and new In cut and material are new spring undies: (left), Dolly Varden triple voile fashions a scalloped bandeau set with fitted yoke and rose bindings; (center, above), for sports, swanky little shorts of lavender and gold silk, with lavender vest; (lower) coral belt, trouser ties and facings liven the stunning Ruth Elder black satin pajama suit with peplin jacket and scarf tie: (right), Lido blue brocade makes the season's most novel contribution, the princess combination.

BY JULIA BLANSHARD NEA Service Writer Molded brevity is the keynote to style in Milady’s spring lingerie. Elaborate revues at the United Women’s Wear League of America’s New York convention showed that .while costumes may or may not be longer, the little dainties called lingerie certainly could be no shorter! Negligees are the exception that proves the brevity rule. If your negligee does not trail in the back and have sleeves that flare or ripple or do something unusual, you are not really in style. Either choose pajamas or go in seriously for ultra feminine boudoir attire. Leg That Ties Asa matter of fact pajamas come shorter this season, the leg that ties at high-shoe length proving anew favorite. Next noticeable to the length of lingerie comes the changing silhouette. Lacy trifles use godets, inserts of cobwebby lace, pleated chiffon or ruffles of net to gain a flaring line quite the antithesis of last year’s boyish straightness. Natural waist lines are indicated everywhere. The princess combination Is the superlative of this tendency and by its curved lines establishes as the ultimate of chic for underthings the same molded silhouette that outer garments emphasize. Nightgowns, slips and combinations use the uneven hemline, too. Laciness for Femininity Elaborate laciness is perhaps the third characteristic that hits the feminine eye. Delicate georgette, triple voiles, figured chiffons, nets and quantities of lace—Alencon. Chantilly and Duchess —fluff their way to stunning styles. Bridal sets use lace almost entirely —with white satin or georgette and to add to the lacy effect they even employ bits of maribou or ostrich for ornament. All lingerie makes profuse use of ribbons this spring. Color lends its artistic charm everywhere. Running true to femrnine styles, lingerie uses a soft, complimenting flesh pink, when in doubt. But Lido blue, heliotrope, apple green, maize, rose-beige and black color many. Gowns and combinations form the usual ensemble but the times call for dance slips now and so they are often included. Various pieces show the same cut and trimming. Nightgowns come in an entirely new cut—the wrap-around. Others have side ruffles, pleats and godets to give comfortable fullness. Models of Individuality Individuality is given proper consideration in the new modes. There are dainty black point d’esprit evening sets, backless with gold edges for the woman who likes fine things but simple ones. Others feature black georgette over coral, much slashed arid pointed to show the coral and elaborately embroidered. Seme novelties deserve special

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Modernistic ones are newest so he looks at all of those With a critical intention and a thoughtful sort of pose, And he takes the one that has the English muffins on the trees Which he thinks the most sophisticated judgment ought to please.

mention. New In three ways is a princess combination that has gorgeous brocade in a Lido blue for its material—an innovation—that emphasizes the moulded silhouette and that shows the new pointed neckline. The gown of this set is precisely like the combination, only longer. The sportswoman comes into her own this season. Lingerie designes have fashinoed her cute little short suits, with hip yokes and either skirts or bandeau for the uppers The striped model in orchid and

Club Observes Guest Day With Mrs. Fred Likely Guest day was observed by the Vincent C. L. C. S. Club, Tuesday, at the home of Mrs. Fred A. Likely, 3145 Washington Blvd. The house was decorated with large basket of flowers in the rainbow shades. At serving time the appointments were also in the rainbow colors. During the afternoon Mrs. Fred Biddle, who formerly! lived in the Yucatan, spoke on “Central America or a Tropical Garden.” Miss Mildred Johns, accompanied by Mrs. Ruth Ranier Nctesler, gave a group of vocal selections. Mrs. O. R. Sumner presided. Mrs. Likely, assisted by members of the club’s program committee, was in charge of the arrangements for the day. Normal Sororities Active Mu Zeta of the Indiana State Normal, Terre Haute, has pledged Faye Green, Lexington; Lucile Kline, Cloverdale; Alida Hoar, Ft. Branch; Eloise McKinney, Harfleld, and Treva Wegrich, Terre Haute. Alpha sorority will entertain with an annual valentine tea Saturday afternoon, having as guests women members of the faculty, faculty men’s wives, mothers of active chapter girls, alumnae of Alpha, and members of other Greek letter societies of the school. Miss Lois Gallagher, Clinton, and Miss Margaret Voigt, Terre Haute, active chapter girls, will pour. The receiving line will include Miss Mildred Hand ; Terre Haute alumnae; Miss Irene Allais, active president, and Miss Mary Baur, active, Terre Haute. The committee in charge includes Miss Essie White, Camelsburg, and Miss Lorena Ramsey, Terre Haute. Pledge members of the organization will serve. They are Miss Margaret Drew, Indianapolis; Miss Margaret Donnelly, Terre Haute; Miss Mary Carver, Terre Haute, and Miss Georgia Campbell, Clinton. Alumnae of Delta Sigma will entertain the active chapter with a George Washington bridge-teai Feb. 22. Mrs. George Voges, Mrs. Louis Beebe and Mrs. Charles Wolfe are in charge.

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gold, with either an orchid or gold upper, has fashion’s approval as proper attire for the golfer or tennis fan. Triple Voile and Georgette Figured triple voiles and georgettes in beautiful Dolly Varden patterns fashioned some of the loveliest of spring under-dainties. One is pink, blue and yellow sprays on a flash background. This is the popular bandeau set—fitted yoke with flaring step-ins and bandeau all bound with pink. The scalloped edges and the rounded top of the bodice show the tendency everywhere to avoid straight lines. From among hundreds of pajama suits this spring, the Ruth Elder aviatrix suit claims a large share of chic and beauty. Fashioned of gleaming black satin, peach decorations give it dash. It has the new tied leg-bands, flaring cuffs, a tight normal belt line and a tricky little Pullman cap whose ends tie, scarf fashion, and add color to the back down which they hang. D. G. ALUMNAE PLAN SILVER TEA SUNDAY A European travelogue will be given by Miss Amy Beatty, Crawfordsville, at a silver tea, Sunday at 3 p. m., at the Delta Gamma chapter house, 152 Downey Ave., under auspices of the Butler Alumfiae of Delta Gamma fraternity. Miss Beatty’s talk will be illustrated with musical sketches by Miss Virginia Smith Lucas. Miss Alice Young, general chairman, announces that Mrs. Harry E. Yockey and Mrs. Edna M. Christian will pour tea. Miss Eleanor Mueller and Miss Lucie Ashjian are in charge of invitations; Mrs. Williams O’Daniel and Mrs. Robert Littell have charge of refreshments. The tea is for the benefit of the chapter building fund. Loveless-Ewan Engagement The engagement is announced of Mrs. Annette McGowan Loveless, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. T. W. McGowan, Watertown, N. Y., to Earl O. Ewan, son of Mr. and Mrs. Charles H. Ewan, Greencastle. Mrs. Loveless is a graduate of St. Lawrence University and a member of Delta Delta Delta sorority. Mr. Ewan was graduated from De Pauw and is a post graduate of Columbia. He is a member of Phi Gamma Delta and Sigma "Delta Chi. He is a member of the New York Times staff.

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Mrs. Presser Entertains Club Chapter Mrs. B. F. Presser, 516 N. Bradley Ave., was hostess for the Egyptian Chapter of the International Study and Travel Club this afternoon, assisted by Mrs. J. H. Ragsdale and Mrs. C. O. Nease. Mrs. S. R. Artman lectured on “Barbadoes, American -Shrine to Washington,” and Mrs. Heller Presser Miller and Mrs. Dan Stewart sang a duet. Guests of the chapter were Mrs. H. W. Knowles, Mrs. J. A. Carr, Mrs. Elmer Bostock, Mrs. Agnes R. Johnson, Mrs. J. B. Gilpin, Mrs. H. S. Walters, Mrs. Ray C. Money, Mrs. George Bell, Mrs. J. S. Jackson, Mrs. R. H. White, Mrs. Talmadge Smith, Mrs. J. G. Beck, Mrs. William Pholman and Mrs. E. H. Cook. President s Day to Be Observed With Luncheon Hamilton Berry chapter of the Service Star Legion will hold its president’s day luncheon next Tuesday at the Cahmber of Commerce. Mrs. W. S. Lockhart, secretary of the Indiana Council of International Relations, will speak. Past presidents of the chapter, Mrs. B. W. Gillespie, Mrs. Linton A. Cox, Mrs. Myron R. Williams and Mrs. Frank Nessler will give greetings and Mrs. Cora Young Wiles will preside. Mrs. Bruce Maxwell will install new officers. Mrs. M. D. Didway is in charge of the music. [ Reservations may b? made with any member of the luncheon com[mittee: Mrs. O. E Green, Mrs. Charles A. Trusk, Mrs. W. L. Horn and Miss Eloise Hamilton. D. A. R. Bridge Series Guests for nine tables of bridge were entertained this afternoon when Mrs. D. F. Bash, 3353 Broadway, was hostess for one of the series of card parties being given by Caroline Scott Harrison Chapter, D. A. R. Appointments were in red, white and blue. Sweet peas and flags were used on the tables. The hostess was assisted by Mr. S. D. Bash, Mrs. F. Ellis Hunter and Mrs. Wilbur Johnson. Valentine Dance The Bethel of Job’s Daughters in Terre Haute will give a Valentine dance, at the Tuller Hotel there Feb. 17. The committee in charge is Mildred Bledsoe, Jane Lawrence and Vera Neal. Six recently initiated members are Louise Sproul, Cloada Miller, Ella Mary Haas, Mary Yerber, Vera Wright and Ruth Wood. Dinner-Bridge Mr. and Mrs. Frank J. Horuff, 5130 N. Meridian St., will entertain this evening with the second of a series of dinner-bridge parties. Covers will be laid for twelve at a table arranged with pink roses and lighted with pink tapers. The first of the parties was given last Tuesday. Fidelity Review Dinner Members of Fidelity Review No. 140, W. B. A. will give a dinner Wednesday noon at 135 N. Delaware St. Mrs. Mary McGary will have charge. Mrs. Josephine Coibion is chairman of the card party to be given at 2:30 p. m. Cards and Lotto St. Mary’s Social Club will entertain at cards and lotto Thursday afternoon in the school hall, 315 N. New Jersey St. Party Wednesday A card party will be given Wednesday at 2:15 p. m. in the new Holy Rosary Hall, 520 Stevens St., for the benefit of the church. Hostesses will be Mrs. Theodore Adolay and Miss Freda Buennagel.

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Before her marriage at 6:30 p. m. Monday, Mrs. Runyon was Mrs. Edythe Tomson, 2617 Southeastern Ave., daughter of Mr. and Mrs. L. T. Howell, Greensburg. The wedding took: place at the home of Rev. W. G. Morgan, 418 S. Temple Ave., paster of the Woodside Methodist Church, who officiated. After a trip to Chicago, Mr. and Mrs. .Runyon will be at home at the Spencer Hotel.

Prize Recipes by Readers

NOTE—The Times will give $1 for each recipe submitted by a reader adjudged of sufficient merit to be printed In this column. One recipe is printed daily, except Friday, when twenty are given. Address Recipe Editor of The Times. Prizes will oe mailed to winners. Write on one side of sheet only. Only one recipe each week will be accepted from c e person. Eggs in Batter Mix together, on£-half cup cream, one-half cup soft bread crumbs, onefourth teaspoon salt and a dash of pepper . Butter five small baking dishes, put a spoonful of the bread crumb mixture in t i bottom of* each dish, and slip an egg in carefully. Cover with crumbs, dot with butter. Bake in slow oven until lightly browned. LORENE LAURENCE. Brewersville, Ind

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Discusses Privileges, Obligations “Womanhood in securing certain deserved privileges is bound in honor to accept the obligations which follow,” Dr. O. W. Fifer said in speaking before the meeting of the Indianapolis Council of Women this afternoon at the Lincoln. “Joys and honors can not be separated from duty,” he continued. “The problems of today which concern society mainly arise from the enlarged liberties and powers of women. Marriage, motherhood, divorce, the condition of youth, are among the problems which only women can solve. In these especially women must do for themselves. They must despise insincere flattery and humiliating condescension and accept heroically the responsibility for the acute problems which puzzle society today.” A chorus from the music section of the Woman’s Department Club, sang “To a Wild Rose,” and “Thy Beaming Eyes,” both MacDowell numbers. The chorus was directed by Mrs. Wilson B. Parker. Mrs. M. E. Robbins presided at the meeting. President of National Body Honored Here Miss Caroline F. Woodruff, president of the National Council of Administrative Women in Education was guest of honor and speaker at a dinner Monday evening at the Propylaeum given by the Indianapolis branch of the organization. Miss Evelyn M. Butler, dean of women at Butler University and president of the Indianapolis branch of the National Council of Administrative Women, entertained with a luncheon Monday in honor of Miss Woodruff at the Proylaeum. Geusts, officers and chairmen of the standing committees of the Indianapolis branch, included Mrs. Alice Corbin Sies, and the Misses Georgia Alexander, Faye Henley, Flora Torrance, Elizabeth Kirby, Charlotte Carter, Ada Wyrick, Ella Pedlow and Lucy Montgomery. miss~ryan~lwnors BRIDE-ELECT AT PARTY Miss Margaret Ryan, 528 Eastern Ave., entertained Monday night with a bridge party and misceli laneous shower in honor of Miss Marguerite Higgins, whose marriage to Clifford Courtney, will take place Feb. 20. Miss Nellie Ryan assisted her sister. The guests were: Mesdames Arthur R. Robinson Jr., Lillian Campbell and Misses Marie Gardner, June Wilson, Harriet Dennis, Esther Beatley, Clara Stilwell, Catherine McClure, Frances Schube, Betty De Grief, Aline Howes and Mary Bishop. Anderson W. R. C. Major Robert Andersen, W. R. C. No. 44, met at 2 p. m. today at Ft. Friendly. Mrs. Gertrude McLean presided. Club Luncheon Mrs. Elmer Bostick, 51 S. Gladstone, will entertain Friday with a 1 o’clock luncheon for members of the H. D. Club of which she is a member.

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