Indianapolis Times, Volume 39, Number 218, Indianapolis, Marion County, 19 January 1928 — Page 10
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Jealousy Has Only One Equal in Ending Love Affairs and Marriages BY MARTHA LEE J EALOUSY as a factor in breaking up love affairs and marriages is second only to unfaithfulness. Jealousy is a terrible green-eyed monster lying in wait to crush tender hearts and fragile loves. One has to forget petty grievances and overlook small faults in a sweetheart. One must be liberal. As one philosopher said, “A friend is a person who knows
us, but likes us in spite of wliat lie knows.” If jealousy enters into a friendship or love affair, make supreme effort to eliminate the evil. Because if jealousy is not crushed immediately, it will soon stamp out the greatest passion that ever burned. Dear Martha Lee: I am a man twentyone years old, and I have a good business of my own. ... , . I have been going with a girl whom 1 love for five months. But she doesn’t like me because I am jealous. I haven’t had a date with her for two months, but have been going with other girls. X am not satisfied and feel lonely without her. What would you advise me to do? I wrote to her once, buyhe My dear Always Looking, you have run afoul of the sinister hidden reef that so often has wrecked the “ship of love.’’ A jealous lover knows no reason. He demands the impossible. A sweetheart can not always comply with every request. If you are twenty-two years old and have a business of your own, you are ready to be married. You no longer are a mere youth who doesn’t know his own mind. But are you sure that in five months both you and your sweet heart found true love? Such a love surmounts all obstacles; sometimes even jealousy. But that “hidden reef” evidently wrecked your affair, tell your sweetheart of your love. Try one more letter, my boy, and Promise not to be jealous. And then by all the gods you hold sacred, fulfill your promise. Dear Martha Lee: This is not a love affair, but another unusual affair. I am seventeen years' old. My right arm is lifeless. and my right leg is crippled. Can you tell me where I can go to find work. My step-father says he is tired keeping me. Thank you for your advice^ I’m sure the Family Welfare Society will assist you. It has offices at 335 N. Pennsylvania St. My dear Mrs. Sixteen, indeed you have had more than your share of troubles. But don’t add any more to your troubles by going back with your husband. You have told me only your side of the case, and from that I gather that he has not been fair to you, to say the least. Divorce should be used only as a last resort. But in your case it seems justifiable. Your husband doesn’t work and refuses to support you. Why should you, under such circumstances, go back to him? I believe your mother is right. Forget the faithless husband, and from now on live your own life. Return to school if you can, or you might go to work if you have to do so. Wait at least five years until you are twenty-one before even thinking of marrying again. And Mrs. Sixteen, don’t do anything on impulse, but think it out thoroughly before talking a step. Dear Martha Lee: I am a girl nineteen years old and will be twenty in May. I have been going with a fellow who is t\entv-three, and he has been married and divorced. I love hixn very much. But there was a boy who called himself a friend of mv fellow who called me one night and told me that my fellow was goang out with other girls. But I didn’t believe it because I trust him. And you efin’t trust every fellow nowadays. I was not near enough to call or talk to my fellow when X got the phone call from the other boy, so I wrote a letter tilling him all about it. I told him I didn’t believe it, but I guess he thought I did believe it because he won’t call me up or even talk to me. I called him one night, and he wouldn't come to the phone. He said I didn't want to talk to him. But I do want to tell him who the friend is. Now, Miss Lee, I love this boy and want him to conic back to me. He loves me because he has told other people. Not only that, he asks other people how I am. Why doesn’t he come back to me? I can trust him, and I don t have to be afraid of him when I go out. Please, Miss Lee, tell me how to get him back, I remain, yours truly, BROKEN HEARTED BOBBIE. With apologies to my friend, John Erskine, who modernizes ancient folklore, I would like to cite the talc of Eve and the Snake as a solution to your problem. The Snake said to Eve, “My dear, have a bite of this delicious apple. You’ll like it, I’m sure.” But Eve replied, “Nay, nay, friend Snake, I know you tell an untruth, and eatine the apple will cause trouble.” But Eve ate the apple. You, too, were gullible enough to believe the things the boy told you about your sweetheart. You ate the apple, and it has caused trouble. My dear girl, I advise you to get in touch with your sweetheart in some manner, and tell him the truth about the affair. Tell him you love him; tell him you trust him; tell him the truth. Any man who can gain such trust and love and devotion from a woman is truly fortunate. But one more word of advice. Broken Hearted Bobbie. Unless you are engaged to be married to this man, don’t demand that he have dates with you exclusively. That’s unfair to you and to the man, too. Wed in November The marriage of Miss Dorothea Harris, Connersville, and Chester Ballard, Cedar Rapids, lowa, which took place Nov. 7, was announced by the bride at a bridge party recently. Bunco, Luncheon The Cleophas Club was entertained Wednesday with a luncheon for twelve members and their guests at the home of Mrs. Robert Mershon, 1640 College Ave. There was a bunco party in the afternoon. Attend War Conference Mrs. Samuel Ashby and Miss Helen Guynn are spending the week in Washington attending the third conference on the Cause and Cure of War. Luncheon Bridge Mrs. Eliza Tarkington Brigham, 3157 N. Pennsylvania St., entertertained with a small luncheon bridge party today in the blue room of the Marott.
Bridge and Shower for Recent Bride * One of the many parties given for Mrs. Karl Edgar Stout, a holiday bride, was the one Wednesday evening for which Mrs. Harold Leslie Mercer, 3340 N. Meridian St., was hostess. The affair was a bridge and miscellaneous shower, the decorations for which were in the bridal colors of orchid and green. Sweet peas were used on the tables. Gifts were presented in a large hat box decorated in the two colors. The hostess was assisted by Miss Sara Frances Downs. The guests were: Mesdames Francis Sommers Charles Harrison, John Kimmich Greenwood DeForest O’Dell Misses Glenn Schwenk Irma Ulrich Virginia Foxworthy Frances Woolery Margaret Haldy Dorothy Avels Virginia Curtis
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Os course, the lion would walk away with the show.. And when he gracefully gathered up his tail like a lady does her train and waltzed off the stage with Androcles, it was simply delicious. If you can’t figure out what I’m talking about, it really wouldn’t be surprising, but it is the Little Theatre’s production of “Androcles and the Lion.” The lion’s mane was braided with a little red bow over each ear. If I can stop talking about the lion long enough, I’ll try to be coherent about the rest of the play. Able Casting Mr. Somnes has cast the play excellently. In fact, he makes you think of a magnificent symphony orchestra leader who elicits from the individual members of bis orchestra perfectly attuned sounds which lend themselves beautifully to a harmonious blending of the whole. Hats off, gentlemen. Such is our tribute to Mr. Somnes . Outstanding were Andiocles, of course; Lavinia, the Christian slave, Mrs. Kurt Pantzer at her vivacious best; Androcles’ tumultuous wife, and the Emperor, and, Inevitably and always, the lion. Don’t get me started on that lion again. Mrs Louis Haerle graciously loaned me her husband for the occasion, and Mr. and Mrs. Ed Gates Jr. joined us. Mrs. Ed Gates, being chairman of the Junior League entertainment committee, was telling me of the exciting telephonic conversation she had had that afternoon with Ned Wrayburn, who is casting and producing Junior League Follies in several cities throughout the Middle West. What with Amelia Henderson, Catherine Greer, Julia Brink, and Mrs. Jo Lathan on her committee. it seemed to me she has some potential talent right there. Yesterday morning Amelia's maid had hysterics. And small wonder, what with Amelia and I careening all over Hampton Court on a comfort, taking Walter Camp’s reducing exercises to Victrola records. Doors and windows flung w’ide to the spring breezes. And why we’re doing it, don’t ask. It's only too obvious, my dear. But if certain people can reduce one and one-half inches in the same place, it just proves what dogged determination can do. Had a good stiff game of bridge the other night with Dr. Jane Ketcham. We argued so intensely all the way home about her cousin’s, Paxton Hidden’s biography of Henry Ward Beecher that I thought any minute I’d have to get out and walk home. She certainly felt deeply opt the subject and so did I and we were both expressing ourselves in no uncertain tones when she casually remarked she really hadn’t read it yet, whereupon I swooned. E. Haerle, having nothing important in mind for the immediate nonce, is jaunting off to Europe again in February. Mrs. Joseph Daniels sails about then on the Leviathan and they may join forces for the trip; although Elisabeth says no matter how many people she sails with she always makes a lonely and solitary voyage. Such, my dear, are the devastating effects of mal-de-mer. Mr. and Mrs. Orlando B. lies leave a week from Sunday to spend the month of February at Biloxi, Miss. “~~M uncie"Dele gates Among members of the Muncie chapter of Delta Theta Tau sorority who will attend the convention at the Marott Hotel Saturday and Sunday, will be Misses Hylma Hofher, Virginia Lockwood, Florence Wilson, Sara Elizabeth Martin, Martha White, Kathryn Van Buskirk, Kathryn Roe and Roberta Scott.
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Two Entertain Recent Bride With Shower Mrs. Nunzio Bruno, 3019 College Ave., and Mrs. Genevieve Kirch, entertained Wednesday night with a miscellaneous shower m honor of their sister-in-law, Mrs. Emil de Julio, who was Miss Julia Sullivan before her recent, marriage. Appointments were ail in pink and white. The hostesses were assisted by their mother, Mrs. Frank de Julio. The guests were: Irene Cassady Bess Bernstein Bertha Epstem Mary Sullivan Grace Carson Gertrude Heenan Ardella Lansford Mamie Maddalena Mesdames Charles Caldarone Paul WoII Gladys Ashley Anna Schapner Isabelle Macy Florence williams V. Russo Harry Gold Mary Sullivan Caroline Roesineer Melba Ritter Margaret Robertson Charles Bruno Harvev Cassady Alex Jonas Helen Smith PARTY AND SHOWER FOR RECENT BRIDE A bridge party and china shower given Tuesday evening by Miss Dorothy Avels, 53 W. Thirty-Second St., honored Mrs. Karl Edgar Stout, a recent bride. The hostess was assisted by her mother, Mrs. George R. Avels, and her sister, Miss Grace Avels. The guests were: Mesdames A. T. Stephenson John Kimmick Robert E Avels Mildred Morgan Dana Jones N. O. Porter Virginia Dolby Misses Katherine Schniir t Maja Brownlee Virginia Foxworthy Margaret Haldy Mary Edythe Turck Frances Woolery Maude Ann Searcy Margaret Waters Bertha Green • ' -■ ■ Luncheon Honors Officer Mrs. Walter Greenough entertained at luncheon at Ayres Tuesday in honor of Mrs. Avis Ring Ninabuck, chairman of the women in industry committee of the National League of Women Voters, who is here from Winnetka, 111. Guests were members of the Indiana League of Women Voters board. Welfare Program The Welfare Club entertained this afternoon with a program at the Home for Aged Women. Mrs. Harvey B. Martin was chairman of the musical program and the hostesses w r ere: Mesdames Frank Malott, Dwight Murphy, W. C. Chaffer, Frank Haight, Edward Schurman, Leroy S. Martin, Reese Wysong and W. H. Russell. Birthday Dinner Miss Dorothy Wright, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. B. C. Wright, 52 E. Thirty-Third St., was entertained with a surprise birthday dinner Wednesday evening. Covers were laid for ten. A theater party at the Indiana followed.
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PARTY ORGANIZATION TO BE FORUM TOPIC The Women’s Legislative Forum will meet for luncheon at 12:30 p. m. Friday at the Board of Trade. The business meeting at 1:30 in the board library will be in the form of a round table discussion of political party organization. Reservations should be made with Mrs. J. P. Cochrane, 3021 Kenwood Ave., or Mrs. B. H. Moore. 289 Burgess St. Study Group Meets Mrs. S. N. Campbell, 321 Blue Ridge Rd„ was hostess Tuesday afternoon for the study group of the administration of the child labor and school attendance law of the League of Women Voters. The meeting was held in the office of the public school social service department. William Hacker, head of the department talked. Members of the study group are Mesdames Ralph Carter, Richard Cadbury, W. T. Long. Alice Titus, R. D. Erskine, William F. Handy, Thomas O'Brien, Walter Greenough, Misses L. Williams and Sara Lauter. Expression Class Dinner A dinner Monday evening and a luncheon Tuesday noon will mark the close of the fall term of the self-expression classes taught by Mrs. Leo K. Fesler, at the Y. W. C. A. Anew class for matrons will start Feb. 1 and anew evening class Feb. 2.
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District Rally for Children to Be Jan. 29 A children’s rally, under auspices of the Women’s Home Missionary Societies of the Methodist Episcopal Churches of the Indianapolis district, will be held at 3 p. m. Sunday, Jan. 29, at the Central Avenue M. E. Church. The organizations of younger children in Methodist churches. Mothers Jewels and Home Guards, will have part in the rally. Mrs. J. C. kelly, conference director of children's workers, will be the speaker. REAL ESTATE BOARD PARTY AT MAROTT More than one hundred couples have made reservations for the dinner dance of the Indianapolis Real Estate Board to be given this evening in the ballroom of the Marott. The tables will be arranged w-ith centerpieces of roses, gifts of the Indianapolis News. The Indianapolis Times is providing balloons and paper hats for favors. Russ Holler’s Orchestra will provide music and special feature entertainments will be given.
Rush Party Alpha Delta Tau Sorority entertained with a rush party at the home of Mrs. Mary Haynes, Speedway. Tuesday evening. Mrs. Haynes was assisted in receiving by Miss Elizabeth Lee. Guests were: Misses Marguerite Wilson Mary Agnus Griffen Sussanah Herdrich Blanche Tyler Iris Jones Winifred Cavanaugh Genevieve Lee Delia Dugan Mary Louise Bash Gladys May Teresa Gray For College President The board of trustees of Teachers College will entertain Saturday at 8 p. m. with a reception at the college, 2301 N. Alabama St., in honor of the president, Mrs. Alice Corbin Sies. With Radio Team Miss Mary Tudor, of the radio team “Charlotte and Mary,” at WLW Cincinnati, Ohio, is a sister of Mrs. W. W. Lance, Connersville, and has visited there a number of times. She plays and sings.
JAN. 19, 1928
Courts’Work in Probation to Be Studied The legislative committee of the American Association of University Women, Indianapolis branch, in order to study probation work in the four local municipal courts, plans a schedule by which interested women may visit the courts. Visiting groups are not limited to A. A. U. W. members. Persons who wish to visit; courts may call Mrs. F. D. Hatfield, committee chairman. Visitors will meet Wednesday, Jan. 25, and Saturday, Jan. 28, at 8:55 a. m. at the courthouse. These visits with others to follow are being conducted by Mr. Tripp of the Church Federation. They will continue until Feb. 20, when all interested will meet at 2:15 p. m. on the balcony of the Columbia - Club to further study the report on probation in Marion county courts, the two criminal divisions of Municipal Court and Marion County Juvenile Court, made by Ralph E. Drowne, field secretary of the National Probation Association, in February and March, 1927. Mr. Drowne’s study was financed by the Indianapolis Foundation. Recommendations of the report include: Five full time 'probation officers to serve in the Marion County Criminal Court and municipal court, one to be a woman and one a Negro. These officers to recommend or not recommend probation after a study of the case. Officers should exercise thorough supervision after probation is granted. Records should be complete. There should be adequate clerical assistance. There should be monthly statistics. Cases should be registered with the social service exchange. There should be probation in more cases. Prompt check-ups should be made when probationers fail to report. There siould be mental and physical examination of all cases before sentence is passed. The committee has been invited by the local Women’s Republican Club to hear Mrs. Boys, State probation officer, who will speak Jan. 26 at the Columbia Club, at the convention of the Indiana Republican Women’s Clubs. D. A. R. HEAR HISTORY " AT INDOOR PICNIC Miss Julia G. Sharpe, historian of the Caroline Scott Harrison chapter of the D. A. R., gave a history of the chapter following the monthly indoor picnic at the chapter house, 824 N. Pennsylvania St., this afternoon. Bridge followed the program. The hostesses were: Mesdames A. V. Faris, Clarence Nichols, Theodore Vonnegut, George Wilson, Elmer Rogers, Theodore D. Craven. Walter Todd White, Lucy Stanley and Flora Weir and Miss Alice Velsey. Speaks at Lebanon Mrs. Harmon W. Marsh, 3258 Park Ave., is in Lebanon, where she will read from her published work before the Employers’ banquet of the Business and Professional Women’s Club of that city.
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