Indianapolis Times, Volume 39, Number 216, Indianapolis, Marion County, 17 January 1928 — Page 6

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Marriage Never Reforms a Man, One Rule With Almost No Exceptions BY MARTHA LEE~ ~ THERE are exceptions to every rule but the old one about successfully “making over” a man by marrying him has about as few exceptions as any L know of. And least of all can a jealous man be made over into one who likes his sweetheart or wife to have many young men friends. It is about as successful as making a decent man out of a drunkard. It is done but very seldom.

If a young woman feels that her fiance’s jealousy does not hurt her or docs not cramp her good times, then that is a different matter. But the chances are that some day the time will come when a jealous husband will be a serious handicap, and if not that, will certain ruin the nerves of a woman with a good disposition. Jealousy is a sign of distrust. Dear Miss Lee: Your advice is excellent, but what would you say to this? I am a girl eighteen and X have been going with a fellow whom I love, for two years. He is very jealous and admits it. Now, you sav a person as young as I should have lots of boy friends but if I do and thfs friend finds it out we quarrel. I do not have a tendency to want other fellows, it is Just because I feel 1 am young and must have my good times now. Although when I am with others I am not satisfied. X feel lonely until I am with him. I can't think of any one but him. Do you think I am really in love? I know his character and I know his family is the best type of people although thev are not rich and neither is he. There isn't any place he won t take me. Nothing lie won't do for me. He says he loves me. What do you think? Would you hold him if he is jealous and not try to make him over? I know that there has never been a time When this making over was a success. B. Your problem is a little bit complicated. Although you are young, a puppy love that has withstood two years of youthful activity has much to be said in favor of it. If your friend has been jealous all that time and you still love him, there is something lasting about the friendship. If you play around with other men just because you want your good times now there seems to be something lacking in the love of which you speak. Until there can be just one man it is not real love. And yet you feel lonely unless you are with him. I think perhaps your feeling for this man might grow into love after you are older, but I should not advise any entangling alliances until you are sure his jealousy won’t unnerve you. Dear Miss Lee: I have been married more than three years and I haven't been able to get a divorce I haven't had the necessary funds. There is a little girl In mv neighborhood whom I know really loves me. She is always asking about me. I don't bother her only to speak to her or talk to her occasionally. She always stops me when she sees me. I think quite a bit of her but I haven't the right to tell her I love her. My wife left me three years ago. Do you think I should have a hard time getting a divorce? I am hoping for the time when I can tell this little girl that I love her. Please advise me. ALWAYS HOPING C. Do you know this little girl well enough to be sure she loves you? Her interest in'you might be purely neighborly and friendly. The thing for you to do before you think much more about that is to get your divorce and then become better acquainted with the girl. If you still think you love her, then that is the time to tell her. I don’t think you should have any trouble getting a divorce if your wife left you three years ago.

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NOTE—The Times will ive $1 lor each recipe submitted by a reader atliudeted of sufficient, merit to be printed in this column. One recipe is printed dally, except Friday, when twenty are Riven. Address Recipe Editor of The Times. Prizes will be mailed to winners. Write on one side of sheet only. Only one recipe each week will be accepted from one person. Cabbage Au Gratin Cook two cups of shredded cabbage in one and one-half cups of boiling water with one-half teaspoons salt, twenty minutes. For the sauce, use three tablespoons of butter, one and one-third cup milk, three tablespoons of flour, one-half teaspoon of flour, one-half teaspoon salt and one-eighth teaspoon pepper. Melt butter, add flour, salt, pepper and milk and cook ten minutes. Put alternately layer of cabbage, white sauce, cheese and bread or cracker crumbs in baking dish and bake until brown. IvIRS. CLAUDE LOGAN. Danville, Ind. New Muncie Club The Muncie History Club, composed of Central High School and Ball Teachers College instructors in history and other university people meeting membership requirements, was formed Monday night at Muncie. Horace G. Murphy was elected president; Mrs. M. A. Doran, vice president, and Hubert E. Brown, secretary and treasurer. Christamore Aid Benefit The Christamore Aid Society will give its second benefit social affair in the form of a dinner dance Jan. 26 at Woodstock Club. The functions are invitational. Reservations are in charge of Miss Margaret Hamilton. The first affair was also a dinner dance at Woodstock.

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Club Marks Anniversary With Party Mrs. Roy Harrison Graves, president of the Expression Club, entertained members with an afternoon party today at her home, 20 S. Bolton Ave., celebrating the club’s twelfth anniversary. Appointments were in white and green and a bouquet of sweet peas was used on the tea table. A large birthday cake formed the centerpiece and it was cut by Mrs. Vincent Binager, as first president. Mrs. Walter Jennqy and Mrs. Lloyd C. Littcn, other past presidents, poured tea. The table was lighted with white candles in gold holders tied with green tulle. Mi’s. Harry L. Foreman, a charter member, gave a toast. Mrs. William Brower Ward assisted the hostess and Mi's. Arthur J. Randall, had charge of the program in which each member took part.

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iPhcto by Bachrach) Mrs. Robert L. Hammond At a recent election of officers for the Indiana Gamma Alumnae Club of Pi Beta Phi Sorority, Mrs. Hammond was named president.

PEN WOMEN TO HOLD LUNCHEON SATURDAY The Indiana branch of the League of American Penwomen will meet Saturday at the Propylacum for a 1 o’clock luncheon. Andrew E. Soudah of Acre, Palestine, who is studying medicine in America, will talk on “Educational Awakening in Palestine.” Mrs. Charles A. Breece, soprano, will be the soloist, and will sing in native Assyrian costume. Miss Louise Cox will read “Mandalay,” and Shakespearean selections. Mrs. Blanche Graham Williams, president, will preside. New Girls’ Work Miss May Wilson Loveland, educational director in city church, Gary, since June, 1926, has resigned to take a position as director of Girls’ Fellowship service in Philadelphia, Pa., where her work will not be confined to one church. In the new work assistance is given girls who are new to the city, and they are helped to find employment and desirable living places. Wed at Shelbyville The marriage of William Frederick, 2366 English Ave., and Miss Ada May Richardson, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. William Richardson, 1417 Silver St., took place Thursday at Shelbyville with Dr. L. T. Freeland officiating. The couple will be at home with the bride’s parents. Luncheon-Bridge Mrs. H. K. Bogan, 3340 N. Meridian St., will entertain at luncheonbridge Friday at the Marott.

THE CONNOISSEUR

Now the principal of all the beach varieties of fun. Is to spend the day upon the sand a-bask-ing in the sun, And the Connoisseur considers it as pleasant as can be For he loves the salty, atmosphere and pungence of the sea.

Bridge Party Honors New City Resident Mi's. Thomas Hood, Jr„ formerly Miss Helen Haupt, Terre Haute, who has come to Indianapolis to live, was honored with a bridge party given Monday evening by Mrs. James H. Ruddell, 59 W. Fall Creek Blvd., for members of the Alpha Phi Alumnae Circle of which Mrs. Hood is a member. Decorations, tallies and refreshments were in shades of yellow. Callendulas and yellow tapers in silver holders were used on the tables. Mrs. Hood was presented with a gift from the sorority. The guests were: Mesdames Homer Ralley, W. D. Eastland Terre Haute Wood Carnes Moll Richard H. Collin* W. W. Summers Roes Ludlow Rubv Duncan James C. Carter George T. Adamson Rav D. Grimes Vincent Barker Beorge V. Miller Louis H. Oberreich avid R. Miller M. E. Ensley Rav Northway B. B. McDonald A S. Rowe George MofTttt Lyle L. Wallace H. O. Wright Misses Giavds Rwic'nrd Ruth Tavlor Gladys Shadle Regina Herron Ann Alien Blanche Stilson Mabel Hunt Amy Glendennlng Beatrice Evans Augusta Walker

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And it seems that in addition to the aweinspiring ocean, There are certain things upon the beach arousing his devotion, For example, there's a charming sight, lie's willing to confess, In the lady in the bathing* suit so very like a dress.

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Women in Race for High Office Avoid Roughness * />// Times Special WASHINGTON. Jan. 17.—While Republicans and Democrats battle for the privilege of naming the next White House tenant, a nice ladylike campaign among the American club women is taking place. Two clever and able club women, Mrs. Edward Franklin White. Indianapolis. and Mrs. John F. Slppcl, Baltimore, Md.. are opposing each other for America's foremost job for women, presidency of the General Federation of Women's Clubs. The election will take place in San Antonio. Texas, in May. And the campaign is ladylike and different from the old party fights because neither woman would dream of asking anybody to vote for her, nor would either one suggest herself as a club speaker. The club women in the candidate’s States see that they are invited to speak and the candidates respond to very ladylike invitations in a ladylike manner. Dignity of the candidates is preserved by keeping them off the firing line. Both attended the meeting of the General Federation directors here this week.

Life's Niceties Hints on Etiquet

1. Should the guest be met at the train? 2. Is it necessary for the hostess to be there in person? 3. If unable to go, what is courteous? The Answers 1. Yes. 2. If the guest is a woman, yes. 3. Send some other woman of the family.

Family Menus

BY SISTER MARY BREAKFAST—Oranges, cereal, cream, creamed eggs on toast, extra toast, milk, coffee. LUNCHEON—AppIes stuffed with sausage, creamed celery, rice pudding, milk, tea. DlNNEß—French codfish stuffed and baked, egg sauce, boiled potatoes in parsley butter, parsnip cakes, jellied cabbage salad, rye rolls, everyday steamed pudding, milk, coffee. Egg Sauce Four tablespons butter, 2 tablespoons flour, 1!4 cups hot water, 3 tablespoons lemon juice, % teaspoon salt, Vi. teaspoon paprika, 2 egg yolks. Melt butter and stir in flour. Cook until mixture bubbles. Slowly add water, stirring constantly. Season with salt and paprika and bring to the boiling point. Add lemon juice and bring again to the boiling point. Remove from fire and stir in yolks slightly beaten. Serve av once. Or keep hot over hot water but do not let boil. the whites of the eggs for a cake or fruit whip.

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And a pair of beach pajamas in the very latest style Has delighted Mi-. Vail de View now for quite a little while, They are mace of figured China silk with trousers very wide And the blouse is rightly drawn around and tied upon the side.

Standing, left to right: Mrs. J. C. Rybolt, past president, Marion County chapter: Mrs. J. W. Harvey, past president, founder chapter; Mrs. Alice Norris, Frankfort, State recording secretary'. Seated, left to right: Mrs. John Tildas her, past president, Erbelding chapter: Mrs. Alice M. French, national president emeritus; Mrs. Henry Pearson, Bedford, president Indiana chapters. Women in the above group arc members of the year bock committee of the Indiana chapter of the American War Mothers which met here re ■ ntly to make plans for the year.

PERSONALS

Mr. and Mrs. William H. Lyjr-Tn, 5341 N. New Jersey St., left today for San Antonio, Texas, for an indefinite stay. Elmer H. Robertson returned to his home in Liberty today after a visit with his sister, Mrs. Leroy Martin, and family, 3863 Broadway. Mrs. Lauia Frederick, 863 Middle Dr., Woodruff Place, is in Chicago to attend the wedding of Miss Louise Shallenberger, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. H. G. Shallenberger, formerly of this city, to Clayton E. Naset, which will take place tonight at the Hotel Sovereign. Brass Beds Polish brass beds by rinsing with warm suds, drying thoroughly and rubbing with chamois. Metal polish is not so good.

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Wives of U.C.T. Council Members Will Be Guests Wives of council members of the United Commercial Travelers from over Indiana, who will be here Saturday for a Stats meeting, will be guests of the women's auxiliary of the local council at the Woman’s Department Club, 1702 N. Meridian St. A musical pi-ogram beginning at 8 o'clock will be followed by cards and a covered dish dinner. Mrs. Harvey E. Dodge, pi'esident of the local auxiliary, has announced the following committees: RECEPTION Mesdan-.es Waller Eckert Joseph Rayburn Walter Bozell Leroy Martin Thomas Robbins William H. Shell ENTERTAINMENT Mesdames L. Verne Sholty Howard Kimball John Johns Harry Olsen W. Virsil Kinsley REFRESHMENTS Mesdames William McMillin Elmer Welmer J. M. Sweitzer Rov Me.xwcll Otto Gabbert Visitor to Use Plane . Mrs. Nellie Dawson, in charge of the Los Angeles, Cal., office of an aviation company which has mail contracts, will visit Kokomo, Ind., this spring as part of the threethousand mile airplane trip from the east coast back to Los Angeles. The company is having new planes built in the east and Mrs. Dawson will return to Los Angeles in one of them. She will visit her son, Francis Dawson and family in Kokomo. Wed at Niagara Miss Emma Mae Hill, daughter of Mrs. Huldah Hill, Ft. Wayne, and James D. Casey Jr. of Niagara Falls, N. Y., were married at Niagara Falls Dec. 30, it has been announced. They will be at home in Ft. Wayne until Mr. Casey finishes his work at Tri-State College in June. Educational Carnival Phi Beta Psi Sorority of Kokomo will give a carnival for the benefit of its educational fund Feb. 23 and 24. The fund aids Kokomo young people who would otherwise not be able to finish high school. A dance will be given each .evening of the carnival.

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And a bathing suit of silk that has an ample pantalette Is becoming to a lady whom he doesn’t know as yet, There are many things distracting him in fact upon the shore Till the beauties of the ocean he’s forgotten to adore.

Industries of Indiana Form Topic for Club The Multum in Parvo Literary Club had for its study topic today at the meeting with Mrs. Emil H. Soufflet, 58 N. Pershing. “Industrial Indiana.” The roll call responses were “Success and Failure,” and Mrs. Basil E. Vaught read a paper on “Industry.” Mrs. Leslie S. Hallam's subject was “Buried Treasures.” Mrs. Vaught sang “Just For Today,” “Silvery Moon” and “Until,” accompanied by Mrs. William Polk. Mrs. Edna Christian spoke on “Hawaii,” at the meeting of the Alpha Eta Latreian Club today with Mrs. Hughes Patten, 4414 Guilford Ave. The Irvington Chautauqua Club met this afternoon with Mrs. D. E. Kramer, 5527 University Ave. Mrs. I. L. Miller had charge of current events and Mrs. G. W. Lahr read a paper on “The Literary Discipline.” “George Rogers Clark.” was the subject of a paper read by Miss Sue Howe before the Fortnightly Literary Club this afternoon at the Proplaeum.

BEAUTY HOW and WHY a st USE MILD CHEMICAL STAIN REMOVERS

The woman who does her own housework and more particularly her own cooking, is often deeply chagrined by stained hands. Perhaps there is a card party in the evening and she wonders how she is to get her hands in good shape before that time. She has already bathed and brushed them with hot water and soap, and still they look soiled. She has tried cold cream with no appreciable effect and as her hands are tender, she dare not try scouring them. Here chemistry steps in to aid her. If the discolorations are the ordinary ones caused by handling vegetables in preparing food, the probabilities are that the stains have become more deeply set by the alkali in the soap .used in washing the hands, and that by using an acid which neutralizes and helps dissolve the coloring matter, she may be able to entirely remove it. But there are acids and acids. Some of the powerful acids will remove any stain very quickly—and the cuticle and flesh as well. So it is well to choose for this purpose one of the milder acids, such as citric, tartaric or acetic. Most of the stain removers on the market are made of one or the other of these, though sometimes oxalic acid is used, particularly where ink is the source of the offending stain. Perhaps she knows of lemon juice as a trusty stain remover. Lemon juice is citric acid in almost pure form. Tartaric acid is formed from grape juice, and household vinegar is acetic acid diluted, colored and flavored. Never use any of them unless well diluted. Benefit Party Magnolia Circle No. 4 will entertain with a benefit card party Thursday at 2 p. m. at Redmen’s hall, Morris and Lee Sts. Sacred Heart Party The Social Club of Sacred Heart will give an extra card party at 2:30 p. m., Wednesday in the hall on Union St.

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Government by Alliances Held Doomed “Government by secret alliances and poison squads has reached its day of doom in Indiana and the political party that refuses to see the handwriting on the wall in new campaigns now coming on will meet an ignominious defeat and will deserve it,” said Oswald Ryan, Anderson attorney, who spoke at the luncheon meeting of the Indianapolis Council of Women today at the Spink-Arms. “No colorless candidate can win on any ticket in 1928,” Mr. Ryan said. “The man who wins will be the man who is not afraid to lose an election, the man who faces issues with high courage and patriotism, with honor to himself and glory to his State. “There is neither sense nor justice in the present attempt of some of our politicians to place the responsibility for the present state of Indiana affairs upon a particular political party or upon party government. Why condemn party government when it has not bepn tried in recent years in Indiana before we undertake to fix upon it the responsibility for misgovernment." Mrs. Edward Larrance, accompanied by Mrs. Raymond Mcr Guire, sang and Miss Helen Coffey, accompanied by Miss Virginia Lucas, gave whistling numbers. Mrs. Bert S. Gadd reported on. the biennial convention of the National Council of Women in New York in December. Duties Assumed by New Officers of Sahara Buds Sahara Buds held installation of officers Monday evening at the Lincoln. Lawrence Drapier, monarch of Sahara Grotto, talked. Miss Marion Weimer, outgoing captain, was presented with a bouquet of rosebuds and Miss Charlene Rollison, new captain, was given a corsage. Other officers installed with Miss Rollison were Misses Alice Emminger, lieutenant; Edith Harrison, treasurer; Dorothy Emminger, secretary; Mrs. O. Ray Albertson, sponsor; Mrs. Jeanette Wells. Mrs. Frank Picard and Mrs. William Hamilton, advisory board members. JENNY LIND CHAPTER HEARS TALK ON JAPAN The Jenny Lind chapter of the International Study and Travel Club met with Mrs. Marie Jessup, Marott Hotel, Monday with Mrs. John Robert Craig, president, presiding Piano numbers were given by Miss Dorothea Davis. Mrs. S. R. Artman talked on “Japan,” and Mrs. Craig gave an illustrated talk on Japanes silks and how they are produced. LUNCHEON BRIDGE FOR MISS HELEN FOLEY Miss May Virginia Feeney, 1321 N. Meridian St., entertained this afternoon with a luncheon bridge party in honor of Miss Helen Foley, who will marry Walter Baker Williams, Boston, Mass., Jan. 25. Covers were laid for thirty guests. Chalcedony Club Mrs. Harry Dawson was hostess today for the monthly meeting of the Chalcedony Club. Luncheon was served at small tables decorated with pink roses. Cards followed the business meeting and reports were given on the work among needy families and children for Christmas. Assisting the hostess were Mrs. Thomas A. Hendricks, Mrs. Martin J. Hyland and Mrs. Robert L. Laughlin. South Side Turner Party Ladies of South Side Turners will give a card party Wednesday afternoon in their hall, 306 Prospect St.

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