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Mother Love Will Work Harm If Heart Instead of Head Fixes Course BY MARTHA LE£ MOTHER love is one of the most admirable instincts we find in the human race. This instinct, however, can be detrimental to the very sons and daughters in whose protection it is aroused, if it is not tempered with good judgment and foresight. Every mother knows how hard it is to deny a loved child anything he wants, but the true mother will steel herself against her strongest instinct. She will consider first the

welfare of her son or daughter and then make her decisions, using her mind rather than her heart as a guide. A mother should realize that although he has this deep instinct of mother love, a child does not have a corresponding instinct regarding Iris parents. The child will love and revere his parents, but he will not make the sacrifices for them that a mother would make for him. Do not let this instinct, mothers, ruin your life and perhaps yopr husband’s and other children’s lives justbecause you can not be firm in the management of a selfish son or daughter. Dear Martha Lee: T am in trouble and I wonder if you could help me see whether I am in the riht or in the wrong. I have been married twice and have three children by my first husband, two boys and a jrirl. My second husband, whom I married six years ago is a hard-working man and at the time we were married was making good money. Mv two sons did well for a while, but then they Rot so they did not work for three or four months at a time. Mv husband did not say much about their not working at first until he stopped making good wages. We started to go in debt and he told the boys, who are now 25 and 23. they would have to get Jobs. X gave them money secretly, but my husband found it out and we started qU This* l continued until it resulted in my husband's leaving us, although he said he had nothing against me or mv daughter whom he had willingly sent to business college and from whom he would accept n °My lo infsband also said that he was willing to take care of my daughter and me any time, but he would not support two men who were too lazy to work. Was I right in defending my sons. Miss Lee, or should I try to get my husband back and tell my two sons they must get jobs? A WORRIED WIPE AND MOTHER. Dear Worried Wife and Mother: You have permitted your love for your sons to ruin your domestic happiness. Os course, it is only natural for you to defend your sons from criticism especially from the criticism of a step-father. You have been very foolish because your own common sense ought to tell you that young men of 25 or 23 are far better off working than doing nothing at all. Your husband has acted reasonably throughout your married life. He has taken the responsibilities of being a real father to your daughter. He knows, as every man knows, that two young men like your sorts are nothing but worthless parasites to society. Do not rob your daughter and yourself of a good home and the influence of an admirable man like your husband. Go back to him and let your sons “shift” for themselves. It will be the best thing for them and both they and you will realize it later. Card Party Officers of the Christian Mothers Society, Altar Society, St. Rita Society, Young Ladies Sociality, Social Club and various committees, will assist Mrs. R. A. McKinney, chairman, at a euchre, bunco, and lotto party, which will be given Sunday afternoon and evening. Euchre will be played in Sacred Heart Hall, 1517 S. Meridian St., bunko and lotto will be played in St. Cecelia club rooms, 1502 Union St. Game- in the afternoon will begin at 1:30 and in the evening at 8:30. A chili supper will be served In Sacred Heart Hall from 5:30 to 7:30 for those who wish to remain for the evening games. Woman's Club Guest Day Mrs. Gertrude Taggart read a paper on “Twice Told Tales,” at the guest meeting of the Indianapolis Woman’s Club this afternoon at the Propylaeum. Following the program tea was served.

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Republican Club Chairmen to Be Guests at Tea Mrs. Bloomfield M. Moore, will entertain the newly appointed committee chairmen of the Indiana Women’s Republican club at tea Saturday at 3:30 p. m. at the Columbia Club. Mrs. Moore is president. Selection of committees for the year will be made. Dr. Lillian Silken, chairman of the music committee of the club urges all Republican women interested in the women’s chorus to meet with her at 8 p. m. Monday at her home, 3515 Guilford Ave.

Family Menus

BY SISTER MARY BREAKFAST—Grape fruit, cereal, cream, baked sausage, creamed potatoes, whole wheat muffins, milk, coffee. LUNCHEON—Creamed oysters on lasses cookies, milk, tea. DINNER—Roast shoulder of lamb, Boiled potatoes in parsley, butter, mashed- turnips, head lettuce with Russian dressing, peach fritters with peach syrup, milk, coffee. Nippy fall mornings sound the first call for sausage. However, some persons find that they can’t take care of the hearty meal in the morning but do enjoy a dinner of sausage with mashed potatoes, apple sauce, cole slaw and perhaps buckwheat cakes and syrup. If this is the case substitute broiled lamb chops for breakfast and serve the sausage for dinner. Peach Fritters Three- fourths cup flour, 1 tablespoon sugar, % teaspoon salt, cup water, 2 tablespoons melted butter, 1 egg white, 1 cup diced canned peaches. Mix and sift flour, sugar and salt. Add water, slowly stirring to keen a smooth batter. Beat in melted butter. Add peaches drained from their juice and fold in whites of eggs beaten until stiff and dry. Drop from tip of spoon into deep hot fat and cook five miutes. The fat should register about 370 degrees Fahrenheit or an inch cube of bread from the soft part of the loaf should brown in forty seconds. Drain fritters on brown paper and roll in nowdered sugar. Serve with the following sauce: Peach Sauce Three-fourths cup sugar, 1 tablespoon flour, 1 cup oeach juice, 1 tablesncon orange juice, 1 teaspoon grated rind, 1 egg yolk few grains salt. Mix sugar and flour. Add peach juice salt and grated rind and stir until smooth. Cook ten minutes, stirring constantly. Beat egg yolk slightly with orange juice and stir into sauce. Cook one minute and serve. Maccabee Party Indiana Hive of Maccabees will give a cord nartv at 8:15 this evening at 322 E. New York St. Smooth Fudge For smooth, creamy fudge, pour the fudge into an unbuttered platter the minute it is done; let stand until absolutely cold, then stir with a knife.

ANNE MORGAN ADVISES WOMEN SHUN EMPHASIS ON SEX IN BUSINESS WORLD ACTIVITIES

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By LOUISE GARWOOD NEA Service Correspondent NEW YORK, Jan. 6.—Miss Anne Morgan, daughter of the late J. Pierpont Morgan, now devoting herself to the organization of the American Woman’s Association, preaches a gospel of common sense in regard to woman’s new position in the business and professional world. “God made women women. Why should they try to be anything else?” said Miss Morgan, in an interview, expressing her ideal as a leader of this association. “Now that economic conditions have liberated woman’s power, simultaneously with her development of capacity in the arena of life, she will develop as woman. “When men and women meet m the arena there is competition rather than antagonism, though there still exists in man’s consciousness the basic fact that he is accustomed to woman’s operating in other directions. “Man always has been accustomed to open competition with man. By the advent of women, the competition simply has been increased and made more complex. That was the inevitable result of woman’s suffrage; woman has proved her capacity by what she has accomplished, and must develop it by competition. Woman must be prepared to meet it as man to man, on the basis of the relative values of the two, with no sex-emphasis. “Women as a whole have not learned what men know is vital in business—to be impersonal. When has woman ever jjnown how to be anything but personal? Though she must adjust herself to man’s methods to some extent, she must above all use what heaven has given her, her intuition, tact, originality. Her power lies not in sex but the qualities developed in her by sex. Ridiculous Idea “There Is absolutely no purpose in the ridiculous idea of a woman's war for women. There should be rather a joint war for right, with men and women fighting side by side. “Woman is an instinctive creature. She is a pioneer—just as our country is a pioneer among nations In pioneering there always is the danger of breaking too entirely from the past. Also, when pioneering is addressed to purely material things without the spiritual, it develops faults quickly. “Women for years have neglected

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to remedy their need of outside contacts to widen their interests and round out their personalities. The American Woman’s Association is formed primarily to meet this need. In it, women find the small, personal contact as well as the large contact of the many. “Its esprit de corps gives the ad- J vantage of meeting on a common 1 ground which opens on a stiill J larger ground. Asa group its members can command what they can not as individuals. Each member enjoys benefits from the organization’s influence just as the individual soldier shares in an honor bestowed on his regiment. “Evolving leadership. forging ahead, making a channel, that is the purpose of the A. W. A. It is an organization building for the future as well as for today. In its present form it started in 1524, and since then has increased its membership from 400 to 5,000. About 187 occupations are represented in it. It is a local, not a national, organization, except inasmuch as we expect that important women from all parts of the country will eventually gravitate toward New York and the A. W. A.’’ DARLINGToks OBSERVE TENTH ANNIVERSARY Mr. and Mrs. John H. Darlington. 1404 N. New Jersey St., entertained with a dance at Woodstock Club Thursday evening in celebration of their tenth wedding anniversary. The reception hall and ballroom were arranged with greenery, roses, begenias, smilax and festoons of metallic ribbon. The supper tables were arranged with tin bowls of roses and other flowers in the rainbow shades. Mr. and Mrs. Draper Allen, Birming-' i ham, Mich.; Mrs. George Lilly and Miss Ella Marie Lilly, Anderson, j were out-of-town guests. HOOSIER ART SALON PRIZES REACH $5,500 | Officials of the fourth annual i Hoosier Art Salon to be opened in Chicago Jan. 28 to Feb. 15, have announced more than $5,500 in prizes to be given exhibitors. Members of the jury of award and admittance are Wayman Adams, Herman Wessel, John David Brein, Edward T. Grigware, Karl Buehr | and Miss Anna Lynch. Lay members of th eorganization are Mrs. William G. Valentine, Clement Studebaker and Eugene Buffington.

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Entertains Members of Bridal Party

Miss Mary Ann Miller, who is home from New York to visit her parents, Mr. and Mrs. Addison F. Miller, entertained Thursday evening with a dinner party at the Columbia Club in honor of the young women in the bridal party of the Misses Julia and Jessica Brown, whose weddings will take place Saturday night at the Downey Avenue Christian church. Miss Miller is one of the attendants. The centerpiece of the table was a bowl of vari-colored flowers and at either end of the table were tall bouquets of flowers. Covers were laid for: Misses Julia Brown Jessica Brown Constance Forsyth Anne Moorhead Elizabeth Beterraann

Patterns PATTERN ORDER BLANK Pattern Department, Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Ind. Enclosed find 15 cents for which send Pat- o i c ') tern No. O 1 O Size ... Name Street City

SO ATTRACTIVE! Attractive pajamas little folk en- | joy wearing, because tney are sash- I ioned of rayon printed in colorful floral pattern. And two yards of 40inch material is ample to make them for the 8-year-old miss. A few seams to join and they are ready to wear. Cotton crepe, voile in pastel tints, batiste, cross-bar dimity in floral pattern, cotton broadcloth in pastel shade, crepe de j chine and washable crepe satin are J also practical and dainty. Design! No. 3162 comes in sizes 6,8, 10, 12, | 14 and 16 years. Every day The Times prints on this page pictures of the latest fashions, a practical service for readers who wish to make their own clothes. Obtain this pattern by filling out the above cupon, including 15 cents (coin preferred), and mailing ! it to the Pattern Department of i The Times. Delivery is made in about a week

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Luncheon Tuesday The monthly meeting of the Woman’s Auxiliary of the National Federation of Postoffice Clerks will be held Tuesday with Mrs. Forest Fiers, 349 Leslie Ave. A covered dish luncheon will be served.

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NEW and arresting is the kerchief collar, which, knots on the shoulder with one end falling down the front and one the back. It emphasizes the importance of kerchiefs even on formal attire. Supple silver brocade fashions the bodice of this imported dinner gown, while transparent velvet in anew rich blue makes the gracefully full skirt, with its swathed hip line.

Woman’s Day

BY ALLENE SUMNER I know “only what I read in the papers,” about Governor Henry Johnson of Oklahoma and his secretary, Mrs. O. O. Hammond. But I am inclined to take at face value the Governor’s declaration that the woman is of the highest character, that nothing but a business relationship has ever existed between them, and that his enemies have indeed stooped vilely. n tt I Shudder If the characters of all modern women who have been alone in hotel rooms with men should be assailed, there’d be some surprising results. One of the finest women I know, private secretary to a big executive, has worked practically all day with her employer in his hotel room for weeks. He is ill in bed. She reports to his room each morning, takes his dictation, gets letters out of the way, and carries on all her office work at his bedside. * tt a a For Instance In my own years as a newspaper woman I have probably interviewed several actors, politicians, Governors, Senators, presidents, philanthropists, gamblers, dope fiends, authors, scientists, business men in their hotel rooms, and thought no more of it than going to their offices. Modern men and women take casual business encounters so casually that it never occurs to then* that the old die-hards may be “saying things.” If It Were Yours? A child was born in a Chicago hospital so defective that, if it lived, it could never move, talk or think. The attending physician, with the consent of the parents, made no effort to perform an operation, which might have saved the child's life. The baby died. The same uproar which happens every time any physician dares take life away from a defective child arises now, even though the case is somewhat different. But who can question the act? If the child had only been physically handicapped, but had possessed a that would have been different. But am imbecile, a cripple, a total “thing,” who could be so cruel as to wish it life? tt st a Frank Writing Speaking of babies, every modern woman will enjoy an article in a

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new magazine, “Plain Talk,” called “Why I Don’t Want Children.” The anonymous author scores this point especially well: “1 desire terribly to have a child. However, I can’t see any reason why I should be swamped by this instinct more than by others. Since I live in a state of civilization, I repress other instincts. I don’t punch people in the jaw when I am angry.” This is sound, too. Two Entertain Bride-Elect in Saturday Rite Miss Kathleen Hottell and Miss Beatrice Batty entertained at Miss Hottell’s home, 25 W. Forty-Ninth St., Thursday evening in honor of Miss Margaret Graham, whose marriage to Robert M. Armer will take place Saturday. The hostesses were assisted by their mothers. Mrs. M. B. Hottell and Mrs. D. R. Batty. The bridal colors, pink and blue, were carried out in ices and appointments. The guests were: Mesdames H. T. Graham A. M. Armer Misses Wilma Dunkle Dorotha Weaver Dorothy Carroll Harriett SchumacKer Dorothy Pier Dorothy Spooner Marv Frances Ogle Monzelle Skelton Mary Dyer Virginia Foxworthy Billie M! Kreider Marjorie McElroy Mary Eixier Dorothy Kreig Katherine Reagan Anniversary Banquet St. Paul’s Sick Benefit Society will celebrate its twenty-fifth anniversary this evening with a banquet at St. Paul’s Lutheran Hall, Weghorst and Wright Sts. This society was organized Jan. 6, 1903. Surviving charter members are: Charles Bohnstedt, Fred Heyden. Niels Nisson, H. C. F. Miller. Henry* L Rugenstein, H. C. Vehling and William F. Wiese. This organization has a mem vship of fifty. Present officers are: Fred W. Vehling. president; W. C. Reimer. vice-president; J. F. Mussmann, secretary and H. C. F. Miller, treasurer. W. C. T. V. Meeting The need of cooperation in modern churches ivas expressed by Dr. Ernest N. Evans, executive secretary of the Indianapolis Church Federa-: tion, when he spoke before the all- ! day prayer service of the Marion County W. C. T. U. Thursday at the First Baptist Church. After the luncheon an afternoon program was given.

JAN. 6, 1928

Tea Meeting to Be Held by A. A. U. W.

The American Association of University Women, Indianapolis branch, will combine the regular January business meeting with a tea in honor of the new members of th branch, at the home of Mrs. Charles O. McCormick, 4041 Washington Blvd., Tuesday at 2:30 p. m. The tea will be in charge of the standing committee on membership. Hostesses will be alumnae of Chicago and Northwestern Universities, Mrs. Howard Brinton, Ph. D., Stanford University, head of the department of English at Earlham College, will speak on “Roman Farms and Villas” and will illustrate her talk with watercolor drawings by Pierre Vignal. Mrs. Brinton, after taking her doctor’s degree at Stanford, was instructor in Latin, later going to Mills College as professor of Latin, a position she has since held at Earlham. She gathered material for her talk during her stay in Italy, where she was a student at the American Academy in Rome, as well as at other institutions in Europe. She attended the conference in London at which the International Association of University Women was formed, and was president of the Richmond branch of the American association. Mrs. Brinton is the 'wife of Dr. Howard Brinton, professor of physics at Earlham. The business meeting which will precede Mrs. Brinton's talk will consist of reports from chairmen' 1 of standing committees as follows: Scholarship—Mrs. James H. Butler. Membership—Mrs. Warren K. Mannon. Legislative—Mrs. Frank D. Hatfield. Social—/.frs. Homer Borst. Girls’ Oi-ganizations—Mrs. Walter P. Morton. Publicity—Mrs. John C. Mellett. Mrs. Jessie Cameron Moore will speak on the history of the Indianapolis branch. State Normal Activities Miss Edna Brown, head of the reference department, Indiana State Normal library, Terre Haute, has gone to Florida. She will spend the winter there and Cuba, and will not resume her duties at the Normal until October, the opening of the next fall term. Miss Brown will spend the summer in extensive travel. Mrs. J. J. Dickey will act as head of the reference department meanwhile, and will have as junior assistant Miss Ruth Richart, Terre Hute. Girls in the women’s dormitory entertained with a winter party at the hall. A turkey dinner opened the evening’s merrymaking. Between courses the girls sang school songs. Representatives from each of the three floors of the dormitory gave stunts and a chestnut roast was held after the dinner. For California Guest Mrs. Clarence Jackson, 334 Colorado Ave., entertained at bridge today in honor of Mrs. P. E. Cox, Los Angeles, Cal., who is visiting her daughter, Mrs. Franklin Russell, 726 N. Bradley Ave. The guests were: Mesdames H. S. Boone Clem Parrish Harry Mathews John Crider Harry Wiesehalin Joseph Crider Walter Horn Roseoe Ludlow Jason A. McHafTey

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