Indianapolis Times, Volume 39, Number 206, Indianapolis, Marion County, 5 January 1928 — Page 8

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If You Think You’re in Love With Two Persons, Better Not Marry Either BY MARTHA LEE SEVERAL readers have written me asking whether or not it is possible to love two persons at the same time. Some of these readers confronted with this situation are trying to decide which of the two persons they believe they love would make the best husband or wife. My advice is to marry neither one for it is human nature to want the lover not chosen. When one marries, the youthful

sweetheart ofttimes seems much more desirable than one’s husband or wife. Generally, when a girl or man believes there are two persons equally loved, that girl or man is really in love with an ideal. The two lovers together possess the characteristics of the ideal. I am afraid 1 would not be such a gambler as to take a chance on someone who did not have the power to make me desire him more than anyone else. My advice is to hunt further and I am sure that some day there will come one person alone who will have all the characteristics you want in a mate. Dear Miss Lee: I am in a peculiar situation. I am 18 and imagine I am in love ■with two fellows. I realize that it must surelv be imagination as X could not really love two at tlie same time , Both of these young men have told they love me. Both these boys treat me. with the same respect and courtesy. X have told each that X love him. Did I please tell me what I should do. Should I let things drift on oi-jshould X definitely choose one or the other? Thanking you. MARGIE _ JEAN. Dear Margie Jean: I think you made a mistake in telling either of these boys you loved him since you knew that you were not sure of it yourself. If both of these young men will make desirable husbands I would choose the one that I knew possessed all the qualities I desired my husband to have. If you discover that neither one would satisfy you, tell them both that you realize you do not love them and merely be friends with them. Frankly, I think you are really too young to make your choice now. At "eighteen, one always enjoys several “affairs of the heart.” It is the privilege of youth, you know. Wait a few years and then you will know when the right man comes. Sweetie: T think you must be a very weak-willed young man to take advantage of these girls. Just because you have the opportunity to be contemptible is no reason you should do so, you know. lam ffttre if you give this matter some thought your better nature will assert itself. As for deciding which of these girls you love and want for a wife, I do not think that you really are in love with any one of them. After all, at twenty-two oftentimes a young man has not mature enough judgment to make a decision of this kind. Wait two or three years, and I know you will be better able to make your choice.

Family Menus

BY SISTER MARY BREAKFAST—Baked apples, cereal, cream, baked hash, stewed tomatoes, raisin muffins, milk, coffee. LUNCHEON Christmas pottage, toast sticks, carrot salad, old fashioned bread pudding, milk, tea. DINNER —Mock fillet mignqn, IJrench fried potatoes, creamed cauliflower, beet pickles, canned cherries, plain cake, milk, coffee. Christmas Pottage Two tablespoons butter, two cups canned tomatoes rubbed through $ colander, two beets (cooked), one cooked parsnip, two 4 boiled onions, orre-half cup baked b'eans, one stalk stewed celery, two cups stock or water, one teaspoon salt, one teaspoon paprika, one-fourth teaspoon pepper, two tablespoons flour, one sweet green pepper. Rub vegetables through a ricer or wire sieve. Melt butter and add vegetables. Bring to the boiling point and add flour worked to a smooth paste with a little cold water. Boil five minutes, stirring to keep smooth and serve with finely shredded pepper sprinkled over the top. Social Circle Hostesses The hostesses for the meeting of the Ladies’ Social Circle of the First Baptist church which will meetj Friday evening in the church parlors will be: * Mesdames T. B. David J. N. Dwiggins A. G. Atkina H. A. Dillen T. M. Alsbaugh James Egbert J. E. Burk E. L. Eddington Raymond Blomer Edwin S. Harter Bertha Beetum Jacob Jacquart F. E. Camp C. P. Kipliart M. J. Carter J. N. Lambert Nolan Phillips J. B. Lewis C. B. Straight Alonzo Powell E. S. Ludlum H. E. P. Stanford Misses Bessie Whitlock Wilma Newman Doris Himes Carrie Roth Aftermath Club Mrs. J. P. Smith, 525 Drexel Ave., was hostess today for the Aftermath Club. Mrs. W. B. Mitchell spoke on “Old American Glass’* and Mrs. William H. Foreman, “Hooked Rugs of Yesterday.” Sullivan to Talk F. A. Sullivan, advertising manager of L. S. Ayres & Cos., will talk on “Something Else” at the luncheon meeting of the Altrusa Club Friday at 12:15 at the Columbia Club.

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Luncheon Bridge Given Today at O’Rourke Home A color scheme of yellow was used in the appointments for the lunch-eon-bridge party, which Mrs. C. B. O’Rourke gave today at her home, 336 Berkeley Rd. A centerpiece of yellow flowers was used on the table which was lighted with yellow tapers. Yellow buttercups marked the places. The guests were: Mesdames Francis Ohleyer Oscar Hagemeier Ralph Marsh Glen O'Connor Ray Goodwin y Frank Christopher Garner Bramwood Eugene Dehtner L. T. Oltdden E. R. Glldehauf Frank Grltt Edward Zimmer

Prize Recipes by Readers

NOTE—Tha Times wlli give SI for each recipe submitted by a reader adjudged of sufficient merit to be printed In this column. One recipe Is printed dally, except Friday, when twenty are given. Address Recipe Editor of The Times. Prizes will he mailed to winners. Write on one side of sheet only. Only one recipe each week will be accepted from one person. Bean Croquettes One and one-half cups of cooked beans, one cup of bread crumbs (stale bread grated preferred), yolk of one egg, one small onion, few sprigs of parsley and a bit of red pepper. Drain 6ff soup from beans and mash with potato masher. Add beaten yolk of egg and bread crumbs. Che® onion, parsley and pepper fine 2nd add. Mold into croquettes, roll in flour, then into stiffly beaten white of egg, then in bread crumbs and fry in deep fat. Serve hot. * MRS. M. MARCO, 2017 Ashland Ave., City. Gay Colors Needed The brilliant sunlight and white, dazzling sun of Palm Beach demands much stronger colors than do the sun and sands of northern resorts, points out Lucien LeTong, the famous Parisian dressmaker. M. Lelong recommends for winter in the far South colors that will vie •with the parrot and the bougainvillea flower. However, for evening wear, he suggests lighter shades, greens, grays, coral, pink, amber, ivory and white and black, since, “if subtropical sunshine is bright, so the shadows it casts are deep.”

Scarfs Still Popular Scarfs continue to be a popular item in the smart wardrobe, according to Worth, famous couturier, who has designed new and charming variations for winter resort wear. These scarves are either oblong or square in shape. The newest are broad oblong pieces of voile, shading from the edge in wide stripes from deep colors to pastel shades in the center, and further ornamented with a small plaid design in white. Fayette Luncheon The La Fayette Club will meet for luncheon Friday at the Home Economics Studio, Century Bldg., following which plans will be made for the annual reunion dinner to be given at Broadway M. E. Church Feb. 17. Hostesses for the luncheon will be Mrs. Minnie Clifton Phares, Mrs. Lulu Siebern, Mrs. Earl Shepard and Mrs. Leroy S. Martin. Study Club Chapter Mrs. Edward F. Kramer, 637 West Dr., Woodruff Place, entertained members of the Amazonian Chapter of the- International Study and Travel Club with a luncheon today. Mrs. George Maxwell, assisting hostess, gave a musical program. Mrs. S. R. Artman talked on Japan. Former Resident to Wed Mr. and Mrs. Herman G. Shallenberger, Hotel Sovereign, Chicago formerly of Woodruff Place, have issued invitations for the marriage of their daughter, Louise, to Clayton E. Naset, to take place Jan. 17 at their home. Trio Party The Trio Club gave a card party this afternoon and will give another this evening at 29% S. Delaware St.

THE CONNOISSEUR - - Mr. Van de View Makes a Snow Man

Mr. Van de View believes that there is nothing more inane. Than to frolic with the children—but he thinks it all in vain, For they beg him and beseech him and at last he has to go And assist them in the makipg of a creature in the snow. .• H -

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BY HENRY BENDEL For NEA Service NEW YORK, Jan. s.—Novelty jersey is coming into use right now for far more formal types of costumes than it has been wont to fashion. The little suit of imported jersey has anew importance. No longer is it merely sportive. By unusual cut and combinations of material, the jersey suit becomes quite chic enough to lunch at the Ritz or sip tea at other smart places. Metal jersey is nov( used extensively. But the new spring Rodier jersey materials, with metal threads giving their softness high lights, are genuinely beautiful. New jersey tweeds insinuate their loveliness into the good graces of Dame Fashion while novelty jerseys in new designs are extremely smart. Both the skirts and the jackets of new jersey suits show individuality. Box coats are anew note and are especially becoming to very slender women. Sleeves, cuffs and collar take unusual lines for modish eects. Skirts all have fullness of one kind or another, with the method of achieving this reflecting much ingenuity. I show today three extremely different types of the new little jersey suit.

SMART SHADOWS

The black and white plaid skiing jacket silhouettes itself clearly and with great chic against the snow-clad hills. Pierian Club Meets “Clarissa Harlow-Richardson” was the subject of a review given by Mrs. W. A. Claybaugh at the meeting of the Pierian Club today with Mrs. M. F. Conner, 3491 Kenwood Ave. Mrs. C. R. Lewis talked on “The Rise of the English Novel,” and Mrs. P. A. Randall discussed “Robbins and Rowe Grammar Text.” Avalon Women Meet Mrs. H. Y. Tinch was hostess chairman for the luncheon-bridge for women of the Avalon Country Club today at the Marott. She was assisted by Mrs. E. H. Emrick, Mrs. Albert Heath, Mrs. George W. Miller. Mrs. W. E. Tinney and Mrs. C. J. Mick.

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He had thought that it would be a very simple sort of matter But the snow is very chilly and his teeth begin to chatter, And he thinks perhaps that he could stand the cold a little better If he wore a pair of leggings and a little woolen sweater.

THH IN 1)1 AN AHOLIS TIMES

Three exemplifications of the brighter and mere formal day that has dawned to/ jersey: (left) rust tweed-jersey suit, with r.-.'i: •- sleeved and back-yoked jacket and box-pleated skirt; (center) simply tailored is this light brown plaid jersey suit, the skirt box-pleated at the sides; (right) black polkadots on silver white and black silk bandings on pockets, collar and lapels distinguish this jersey novelty.

One is a tweed-jersey, the second a plaid jersey and the third a polka dotted one. The first, a lovely rust-shaded tweed-jersey with pinkish silk blouse, has big double box pleats across the front slit up six inches to form a trouser hem. The fullness of the skirt lessens the obviousness of this novleyt cut. The little box coat has raglan sleeves and a back yoke that Is cut up the center like the skirt front. Its simple standing collar adds a

Life’s Niceties Hints on Etiqnet

1. Is it obligatory to call, after having enjoyed a holiday dinner at a private home? 2. If a call seems inappropriate or inconvenient, what should you do? 3. Is there any general rule to be observed about expressing thanks for hospitality? The Answers 1. No, though the old courtesy is preserved by well-bred persons. 2. Write a short note emphasizing your enjoyment. 3. Err, if err you must, on the side of appreciation. Coolidges to Entertain Bill nitrd Prcx.H Washington, Jan. s.—President and Mrs. Coolidge will entertain members of the judiciary at a reception tonight marking the fifth social event in the Wheat House season. The next event is scheduled for Jan. 25, when the Coolidges will entertain members of the United States Supreme Court at dinner. Mt. Holyoke Reservations The following members have made reservations for the Mt. Holyoke Club luncheon to be held Saturday at 12:30 at the Columbia Club: Mesdames John Weddell T. G. Wesenberg Norma Doane S. E. Perkins, Jr. Ruth Benedict Robert Walbridge Edward J. P. Fishsr Philander Lewis Ida Billman J. Perry Meek Misses Helen Thornton Gertrude Insley Eleanor Welles O. McGonlgle Evelyn Sickles Emily Rood Variety Cakes Cup cakes, made in quantity, can be varied by splitting the dough into three parts. Bake one plain, add spice and raisins to another and cocoa to the third.

So he begs to be excused, but finds it difficult to leave With a woolly little creature there atugging at his sleeve, And he helps her roll a ball to make a head, and just for that She demands that he contribute' to the man his derby hat.

youthful note as does the single envelope pocket. With this is worn a lighter rust felt mushroom hat that has only a jaunty bow of self material for trimming. Light browns jn live, but soft shades fleck the brown plaid jersey suit and the lightest tone is picked out for the soft angora blouse under it. Its stunning material and simple tailored lines set this suit apart for its smartness, it is collarless and features the diagonal closing that is still having such a vogue. A little leather belt and three leather buttons are Its only trimming. Its skirt has side box pleats giving it ample width for easy walking. It is topped by a dark brown velour hat. Polka dots are perhaps the newest novelty for jersey suits. The one shown today is of silver white with a silk dot of black in it. It has a pleated front width in its skirt and its loose jacket has no fastening. Black silk borders its closing, its pocket and tricky little collar that can be tied shut or left open. White satin with a silver tone makes the simple, long-sleeved blouse under this suit. Its modest round neckline and simple, turnedback cuffs are black bound. A black velour turban carries out the semidressy appearance.

FEMININE FURS

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Peach satin pajamas grow exceedingly feminine when befurred with marabou to help keep off the evening’s chill. Habeney-Shackleford Mr. and Mrs. )C. W. Shackleford, 2231 College Ave., announce the marriage of their daughter, Ermanelle, to Theodore Habeney, which took place June 8 at Newport, Ky. Mr. and Mrs. Habeney are at home with the bride’s parents. Assembly Club The next, meeting of the Indianapolis branch of the State Assembly Women’s Club will be held Feb. 1 at the home of Mrs. Charles Remy. Christmas Party Mrs. Noble Howard, 4341 College Ave., will be hostess for the Friday Service Club Christmas party.

BEAUTY HOW and WHY # CLEANLINESS, FIRST IN BEAUTY OF HAND

By ANN ALYSIS To be admired it. is not necessary that your hands should conform to any one type in particular. Beautiful is the artistocratic hand which we see exemplified in the paintings of the old masters (in that day only those of wealthy aristocratic class could afford to have their portraits painted). And so is the well-recognized artistic type. When someone tells us that we show such characteristics in our hands we are immensely flattered. We like to think that we show our .blue blood or our artistic leanings. But the rather broad, square fingered hand of the capable man or woman, or the fine sensitive hand of the surgeon, or the clever mixed characteristics of the business woman’s hand are all good in their own different ways. But if the,' hand is poorly cared for and ungroomed it reveals a slip-shod character, no matter how beautifullly shaped it may be. Cleanliness is the first step toward beauty. For this purpose, use a good toilet soap, plenty of hot water, and creams and lotions to dissolve the grime and dirt not removable by the usual soap and water method. All stains should be erased fronji skin and nails. Even the creams will not always do this satisfactorily, so we must call on the science of chemistry to aid us here. Something mechanical means will be of great assistance. These aids we will discuss in detail later.

Woman’s Day

'BY ALLENE SUMNER It takes a courageous mother to dare brave the world’s censur by offering to give away her baby so that she can “see the world.” But that’s exactly what Mrs. Gracie Jones of Ponca City, Okla., wants to do. The baby boy, known by health officials as “a perfect baby specimen,” is less than a month old. “We don’t want a baby now,” say the mother and father. “We want to see all the States in the Union and so far we have seen all but five. We can’c let a baby keep us from those last five.” an n Too Expensive The Joneses explain, too, that they can’t afford a baby. Just think of the gasoline and tires it will take for thoge five States. Besidefc, Mrs. Jones wants “a career.” She says that she would “just die” if she stayed home with a baby all day. Her “career” so far has been employment in a laundry. So they are hunting a home for little Bobby Jean Jones. • i • it a a Why It Is Granted that they are righjt, of course, and that a bay is more important, sometimes one wonders if the rage of mothers, who act in the orthodox manner toward their offspring by yielding up their whole lives vo them, toward mothers who do net, is not self-projection for themselves. In other words, if their lot is hard they can at least make it glorious by putting a premium upon their job and insisting that all other women accept the job with the same premium. # a a Woman’s Nerve Another self-titled “American heiress” has been caught. Dorothy Arl, at least so she calls herself, lived in one of Brussels’ most fashionable hotels until her bill totalled about SSO, and the hotel authorities got suspicious of her story that she was an American heiress of Norfolk, Va., waiting for funds. Inquiry brought forth the allegation she had cashed about $4,000 worth of bad checks in the leading hotels of Europe. Now she’s in an old medieval jail at Bruges. Do we hear of more women imposters than men? I believe we do. Perhaps it’s just a slightly different version of the woman nerve which will almost) invariably dare more than the nerve of men. n u n His Mother The terrible responsibility daring to have children unless one is physically and mentally fit is illustrated by Mrs. Eva Hickman, mother of Edward Hickman, who has confessed to killing little Marian Parker of Los Angeles. The minute one read "Mother Once in Insane Hospital,” one knew the answer to Edward. Poor mother, though! Probably she had no knowledge of her weak spots till long after Edward was born, but the innocent suffer for the family blood every time! Roll your hot doughnuts in powdered maple sugar and cinnamon while they are still hot and you will discover anew tantalizing flavor.

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And before he gets away, they plan another little trick And relieve him of his pipe and of his precious walking-stick, And for fear they’ll get his monocle, he thinks he’d better flee While they dance around the man of snow in merriment, and glee.

Patterns PATTERN ORDER BLANK Pattern Department, Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Ind. , Enclosed find 15 cents for which send Pat- 9 O 7 Q tern No. O £. O O Size Name Street City

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SIMPLE—WEARABLE Simple as the new season demands for everyday occasions is a lustrous flat silk crepe dress in lovely autumn brown shade. The applied bands at neck, cuffs and edge of circular skirt are in deeper tones of the same shade. Design 3238 features the fashionable hip yoke which slenderizes the figure. Sheer woolen, velvet and georgette crepe are suitable . for Its development. Pattern in sizes 16, 18 years, 36, 38, 40 and 42 inches bust. Every day The Times prints on this, page pictures of the latest fashJons, a practical service for readers who wish to make their own clothes. Obtain this pattern by filling out the above cupon, including 15 cents (coin preferred), and mailing it to the Pattern Department of The Times. Delivery is made in about a week Judge Entertains Women Judge Thomas Van Buskirk, Bloomfield, entertained the club women of Greene County with a buffet luncheon Saturday at which Mrs. Florence Riddick Boys, Plymouth, State probation officer, sjyke. The object of the luncheon, according to the judge, was friendship. Last year he entertained the men of the county with a similar affair. White Shrine Dinner Indianapolis Shrine No. 6, White Shrine of Jerusalem, will have a 6 o’clock dinner at the Elk’s Club, preceding the Christmas ceremonial Jan. 7. The dinner is for members of the Shrine and their guests. For reservation call Talbott 6071 or Cherry 5594. Turquoise Blue New accessories for Palm Beach show a tendency toward favoring turquoise blue. Shoes, parasols, gloves, bags and scarfs all feature it. Modish Combination A black frock has a white-lined scalloped collar, like a bertha, and a five-gored skirt with white-lined scalloped hem.

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Eat Plenty, Sure Way to Good Health By OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON k/ You must eat to be well. I believe there is no further argument about it. But sometimes it is difficult to make growing girls believe even a truth. They are inclined to think that as long as no bad results are apparent now from their dieting there is nothing to worry about. They are going to be young forever and all that! They look well, feel well, are well. But they are like a cheaply' built house—their materials will crumble • soon, unless they start, to reinforce them before it is too late. I remember well two homes in which I used to visit years ago. At that time the “girl’’ put dinner on the table and didn’t bother changing her blue checkered gingham for nifty black and white. She would open the swing door into the dining room, a crack, now and then, to see if the bread and butter were holding out, or to say “Anybody need more coffee?” When you sat down at the table you knew the worst—or the best. Your fate as far as that meal was concerned lay before you. Both hostesses went to extremes. In' one house, I shall never forget the platters of meat and tureens of vegetables. The sliced tomatoes were heaped up in a pyramid that would have delighted a dozen hungry thrashers. I used to have a helpless feeling as I sat down to a meal, like the girl who had to dip out the sea with a spoon. In the other house, the hostess hadn’t much appetite herself, and she couldn’t see why other people should care to eat. Breakfast and lunch could be covered by a word, and dinner was little more. Wafer bread, tiny dabs of butter, and never quite enough . food to go around. The “girl” never looked in to see if you would have more of this or that. I usually left hungry. I wish you could see the women today, both about sixty. The first is strong, heatlhy, clear-skinned, and full of plans for the next twenty years. The other is in a wheel chair with a nurse, suffering from a disease of the tissues caused by undernourishment all her life. So say specialists.

Personals .

Mr. and Mrs. Shelley D. Watts and daughter, Mary Louise, who spent the holiday season with Mrs. Watts’ parents, Dr. and Mrs. Amos W. Butler, 52 Downey Ave., will return to their home in Milwaukee, Wis., Saturday. Mr. Watts has recently begun his new new work as director of the Central Council of Social Agencies of Milwaukee. , Mr. and Mrs. R. C. E. Twentieth St., spent .the Christmas holidays in Clewiston, Fla. 1 TIMES EDITOR WILL SPEAK TO PRESS CLUB Boyd Gurley, editor of The Timfes, will give an informal talk at the luncheon meeting of the Woman’s Press Club of Indiana Tuesday at 12:30 p. m. at the Columbia Club. Reservations should be made with Mrs. Bernard Korbly, 425 N. Audubon Rd„ by Saturday. White’s Importance At a recent Washington, D. Cf. function, Mrs. Co'-lidge and many, others favored white satin for gowns, with one rare gem for decoration. Shoulder Straps It is a good plan to buy two pairs of shoulder straps to every slip or chemise made. The new pair should be put on before the first ones fall to pieces. Silhouette Shades Nothing pleases children more than pictures of themselves. Trace their silhouettes on a plain lamp shade to make a cute shade that they will love. Bridge Section Miss Leone Decker, 1733 N. Meridian St., will entertain her section of the Kappa Kappa Gamma bridge tournament Monday evening.

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