Indianapolis Times, Volume 39, Number 182, Indianapolis, Marion County, 8 December 1927 — Page 7

DEC. 8, 1927.

Indifferent Husband Most Irksome to Wife BY MARTHA LEE An indifferent husband is a thorn in the flesh of any woman. I have often written in this column about the curse oi’ jealousy, but I verily believe that indifference is worse, at least'from the feminine viewpoint. \ A woman with a jealous husband is at least the center of his attention. Almost any woman would prefer to be one of the leading actors in a painful scene than not to be on the stage at all.

A little jealousy may even be quite pleasant, because it is so flattering. When a husband is not the least bit jealods of anything his wife may do, she is more apt to feel humiliated than pleased. The woman whose husband is jealous at least knows that she still has the ability to kick up some sort of emotional response in him, even though it may be an undesirable one. But the woman whose husband is emotionally dead to her loses her feeling of power over him, and this loss is more painful to the average woman than brawls and blows. I do not know what can be done with indifferent husbands. Perhaps there is some way to stimulate them and reawaken their but this would take a careful study of each case, and more knowledge of psychology than the average woman has got. For the most part, I would advise every wife with an indifferent husband to get another interest in life. Let her engage in some work or follow some hobby which will help restore her own sense of superiority and compensate her for her failure in one line of endeavor. Love is important, but it is not the only thing in life, and if love has somehow eluded you, get some other interest just as soon as possible. The very fact that a woman is capable of succeeding in some work of her own has often been the means of awakening the flagging interest of her indifferent partner. He Is Indifferent, Dear Martha Lee: If some change is Hot made soon, I feel that my marriage will go on the rocks. I am only twentyona and have been married almost four years. I am considered Rood looking, make friends easily, and am well educated. I have taught school, and have, I am told, a pleasing personality. Am affectionate by nature and am a neat housekeeper. I do our laundry and keep our sturdy lad of three as clean as Is possible tor a boy of his age. Now here is what is troubling me. Mv husband is not one bit affectionate. He never notices if the houaf is clean or not and in our married life. I do nt*t believe that he has given me a half dozen compliments. He never calls me loving names or kisses me. He •is Just simply Indifferent to me and our home. I have tried everything, vacations, being cold, being affectionate, but none have any effect on him. I am afraid that he will act this way until my love for him will be gone. In fact, I do not care even now as I did, but for the sake of our boy I want to try at least once more. Can you help me? _ MRS. D. C. Dear Mrs. D. C.: For the time

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being stop concentrating on your husband and concentrate on something else. You say you have tried every thing you know. Now try doing nothing so far as 'he is concerned. \ Get a hobby. Get interested in something besides your husband. You are still very young. Forget about love for a year or two at least. Get some absorbing interest that will keep you eager and animated and help you to forget this indifference. I do not mean that you'should neglect your home, but rfierely that you should get interested in something outside of it. When he finds that he Ims really lost your attention, i tmay arouse his interest. When you come back to your problem with your husband, try to discover why he is indifferent, and go after the cause rather than the effect. Perhaps he is not emotionally inclined. Perhaps he is interested in another woman. Or perhaps his indifference is merely one way of annoying you. , Find out if possible, what satisfactions he gets out of his indifferent attitude. It may be that he unconsciously maintains it because it makes you work so hard to interest him. At any rate, let your problem rest for a while. Don’t think about it at all, if you can help it. If anything new develops, write me again. Shall She Send Picture? Dear Miss Lee: I have a boy-friend whom I met about a year ago and dated him steady for about six months. I had a date with him last week, but It was Just a "pick up" date. That was the first time I had been with him for several months. He doesn't live In my home town and do you think It would be all right for me to send him one of my pictures? I like him very much and I think he likes me. but my parents don’t approve of him. „ , , , . UNDECIDED. Dear Undecided: I certainly would not send the young man my picture unless he asked for it.

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