Indianapolis Times, Volume 39, Number 173, Indianapolis, Marion County, 28 November 1927 — Page 6

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Wife Who Is Many Women in One Best Equipped for Holding Love of Husband By MARTHA LEE HOW can a wife hold the love of her husband? There is no formula by which it can be done. Different men are held by different methods. Most men like a woman who is not always the same woman, but who is versatile enough to be several different personalities rolled into one. Few men desert the wife who can make them feel their power. The protective instinct is one of the strongest elements in the masculine make-up, and for this reason the child-like woman makes a strong appeal. The baby wife is apt to pall if she has no other card to play, but on occasion she is irresistible to the average male.

Few men have developed to the point where they do not need a mother, and this is a good weapon for every woman to keep in her little bag of tricks. Uncritical, adoring, appreciation, and sympathetic soothing are the qualities that go with mothering. In every man’s life, there comes a time when both of these types bore him; a time when he craves conversation with a mental equal; when he needs support from a capable help meet. The wise woman studies the needs of the man that she loves, and fits her personality to them. He Is Drifting Dear Miss tee: My husband is drifting away from me. For a long while he has been indifferent to my caresses. When I question him, he says that he does not know what is the matter, but that there just seems to be something missing between us. He says that he likes me, but that he cannot talk to me. He likes to come home and talk all evening about his business, and I admit I am not interested in it because I do not understand it. He says that just as he is about to make a point I change the subject and start to talk about sewing or cooking, and this exasperates him. . , Now I love my husband very dearly, and I do not want some otner woman to get him. How can I hold W^ove^^^ You may well be frightened. When a man cannot talk to his wife, the next step is that he will talk to some other woman. If you want to hold your husband, you must make his interests yours. Sympathetic listening is an art that . you must cultivate. The thing that is missing between you is companionship. Educate yourself in the things which interest your husband, and learn to talk to him intelligently about these things. This, I think, will solve your problem. Shall She Leave Him? Worried Wife and Mother, who does not want her letter printed, says that she has a ||aby girl, and would be happy except for constant quarrels between herself and her husband, who abuses her on occasion. Her mother is willing for her to come home. She will keep the baby girl while the young wife goes to work. In this case, I advise a trial separation. I do not think that you should live with a man who'strikes , you, or that your baby should witness such scepes when she is growing up. Yet it seems to me that love is not entirely dead between you, and a trial separation might show you whether or not you can live apart. Yqur husband will have more respect for you when he learns that you will go to work before you will permit him to strike you. You are indeed fortunate to have a mother who is willing to help you out. Do not quarrel with your husband any mofe. Keep your dignity, and do not let him puli' you down to his level. If he strikes you again, take your baby and go home to your mother in an unostentatious manner. Do not condemn him. Just show him that, of course, you can not permit him to beat you as if you were an animal. Violet: It is bad taste for a young girl to accept presents from boys. Sad Girl: If the boy won’t tell you why he is mad at you. I do not know what you can do. I think the best thing you can do is to forget him. > Renting Eyes After a hard day, when very fatigued, bathe your eyes with hot • water, then cold and lie down with a damp cloth over them for a few minutes.

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Sororities Give Dances, Dinners at State Normal Pledges of Gamma Gamma sorority of Indiana State Normal, iTerre Haute, will attend a formal pledge banquet this evening at the Elks Club, followed by pledge service. The banquett tables will have silver baskets filled with red and white roses, the flowers of Gamma Gamma. Miss Margaret Payne, Terre Haute, is in charge of the program. The chapter will give a dance in honor of the pledges Dec. 10 at Edegwod Grove cabin, for which Rfiss Florence Griffin, Terre Haute, is chairman. A formal dinner honored the pledges of Kappa Kappa at the Elks CluW After the dinner a pledge service was held. The Kappa dance, honoring pledges, was given Thanksgiving night at Edgewood Cabin. The committee in charge was composed of Marjorie Wilson, Terre Haute; Eugenia Dorsey, Terre Haute; Gladys Carpenter, Dugger; Marie Louise Pierce, Terre Haute, and Dorothy McCormich, Kokomo. The chaperons were Prof, and Mrs. Dewey Annakin, Prof, and Mrs. Arthur Strumm. Pledge service was conducted by Alpha at the home of Miss Mildred Valentine. Alumnae and active members were present. After the ceremony the pledges were entertained with an informal party and song fest. Alphas plan their term dance for Friday evening at Edgewood Grove Clubhouse. A pledge dinner and pledge service will honor the Psi Tribta pledges Saturday.

Koser-Mix Mr. and Mrs. Gus Mix, 150 W. Arizona St., announce the marriage of their daughter Hilda, to Robert K. Koser, which took place Thursday afternoon at the home of the officiating minister, the Rev. R. M. Zorn. Mr. and Mrs. Koser will be at home after Dec. 10 with the bride's parents. Brill-Essell The engagement of Miss Jeannette Brill and David Essell, New York, has been announced by her mother. Mrs. Mollie BrUl, 1012 S. Illinois St. Wed at Lafayette The marriage of Miss Bertha Jane Neander, Lafayette, to John M. Taylor took place Wednesday in Lafayette. Mr. and Mrs. Taylor will live, in Indianapolis.

Personals

Miss Helen Hegarty, St. Mary-of-the-Woods College, spent the weekend with her parents, Mr. and Mrs. James H. Hegarty, 2038 N. Alabama St. | Mrs. Oscar C. Hasse and son Stanley, payton, Ohio, are visiting relatives and friends here this week before going to St. Louis, Mo., to make their home. Mrs. R. D. Hardy, Richmond, and Miss Margaret Elliott, Anderson, were week-end guests of friends here. Mrs. N. W. Wagner, Knightstown, is the guest of Mrs. C. J. Buchanan, Marott Hotel.

THE CONNOISSEUR - - - - Mr. Van de View Attempts to Write a Check

Mr. Van de View, whose bank account is perfectly tremendous, Is writing out a check with figures equally stupendous, But he makes a dozen errors—of his faculties bereft— Engrossed in watching ladies on his right and on his left.

Bridge and Shower for Bride-Elect Miss Dorothy Patterson will entertain with a bridge party and shower Wednesday evening at her home on Park Ave., in honor of Miss Marian Hilgenberg, whose marriage to Harold Richard Victor will take place Dec. 10. Mrs. Pixley Ranney will entertain for thq bride-elect next Saturday Vith an afternoon party at the home of Mrs. Gavin L. Payne, 2135 N. Alabama St. Miss Virginia Lucas, 806 Fairfield Ave., will entertain Dec. 6 for Miss Hilgenberg.

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For writing checks he thinks an unimportant thing to do When he can see a bracelet set in mauve and pink arid blue, Whose colors have a sparkle and an irridescent flash Which take his mind completely from the irksome thought of cash.

DINNER DANCE COMMITTEE MEMBERS

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—Bachrach Photo. Mrs. Croel P. Conder

Among committee members in charge of the annual dinner dance of St. Margaret’s Hospital Guild to be l)eld at the Columbia Club Dec. 10 are Mrs. Croel P. Conder, Mrs. Carlyn W. Smith and Mrs. Frank Wooling. Proceeds from the dance will go to the occupational therapy fund of the city hospital in which the guild is primarily interested.

RESERVATIONS MADE FOR VOTERS' LUNCHEON A partial list of reservations for the lecture-luncheon to be held Tuesday at 12:30 p. m. under auspices of the Indianapolis League of Women Voters, with Dr. A. R. Hatton of Northwestern University, Evanston, 111., giving an address on "Making the City Manager Plan Effective in Indianapolis,” follows: Mesdames C. B. Coleman Maurice Coburn 3. W. Horst Boyd Gurley H. B. Jacobs Walter S. Greenoußh Ben Marks T. J. Appel J. F. McCullough John w. Kern H. W. Dragoo Pred G. Balz W. L. Wilson C. W. Clever Mortimer C. Furscott Frank TL Strelghtoff Walter Harmeson 3. E. Perkins Olive Edwards Veil Campbell Burton Field V. Coder Murray Auerbach M. X. Miller Claude Anderson Frank Hatfield Fred L. Pettljohn Isaac Born Katherine Hunt Charles Williams Misses Sara Lauter Martha Allerdlce Eldena Lauter Anna Robertson Ruth Shearln Gertrude Fetbleman Helen Sheerln Florence Howell Mr. and Mrs. A. H. Moore Mr. and Mrs. Edward Peterson Mr. and Mrs. J. W. Esterline Judge and Mrs. Linton A. Cox William H. Insley Dr. and Mrs. Murray Hadley. Rev. Clarence G. Baker Mr. and Mrs. Fred Hoke Franklin Vonnegut John F. White Charles F. Coffin Studio Party Miss Pauline Roes, 3342 Kenwood Ave., gave a studio party Saturday afternoon for her junior piano pupils and their guests. Those on the program were Mary Alice Helt, Gladys and Helen Whitfield, Jean Kronhalt, Betty Claffey, Harold Phillips, Bessie Anderson, Beatrice Urwitz, Bob Brown and Zelda Spencer. Eastern Star Meet Eastern Star charters of Anderson will be hostesses for the district meeting of the lodge Wednesday, when representatives from Pendleton, Markleville, Frankton and Lapel will attend. Mrs. Lottie Ferguson, Ft. Wayne, worthy grand matron of Indiana, will make her inspection at the meeting.

Wed at Muncie The marriage of Miss Dorothy P. Skinner, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Walter B. Skinner, Muncie, and Theodore Bunsold, son' of Mr. and Mrs. S. B. Bunsold, Muncie, took place Sunday morning at the home of the bride’s parents, with Rev. Graham Everson officiating. The attendants were Miss Kathryn Touhey and William Howell. Announce Marriage Mr. and Mrs. Theodore Blumberg, 1527 Draper St., announce the marriage of their daughter, Miss Lillian Blumberg, to Erwin E. Rothernel, which took place Thursday. Mr. and Mrs. Rothernel will be at home after Dec. 1 at the Kreiger Apt. ' Honor State Officer Mrs. Eugene Casady, Anderson, recently elected great Minnehaha of the State Pocahontas lodge, will be honored with a reception at Anderson Wednesday, at which'a number of members of the lodge from over the State will be guests. Union Club Federation The Union County Federation of Clubs will hold its annual fall meeting at Liberty Wednesday. Mrs. Chic Jackson, Indianapolis, and Mrs. Roscoe C. O’Bryne, Brookville, will be special guests. Pythian Sisters Party S Officers of Irvington Circle 400 Pythian Sisters, will give a card party Tuesday night at 130% S. Audubon Rd.

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—Bachrach Photo. Mrs. Carlyn W. Smith

Officer Speaks at Employers’ Dinner Tonight Miss Lena Madesin Philllips, president of the National Federation of Business and Professional Women's Clubs, who spoke at the tri-State meeting of the federation at Ft. Wayne Sunday, will be the speaker at the employers’ dinner to be given this evening by the Indianapolis Business and Professional Women’s Club in the Riley room of the Claypool. Miss Phillips spoke at noon at the woman’s Rotary Club luncheon fit the Columbia Club. Miss Glen Anderson, president ox the local club, will preside at the dinner. The local club will learn with in* terest of the election of Miss Emily R. Knoubuhl, Minneapolis, Minn., as executive secretary of the national federation, to succeed Miss Emma Dot Partridge, Topeka, Kan., resigned. Miss Ruth Rich of Jacksonville, Fla., former editor of the Independent Woman, magazine of the national federation, has been named field secretary of the organization. Achievement Day Members of the Home Economics Clubs of Adams County have planned an Achievement day celebration to be held at Kirkland on Wednesday, at which time exhibits of the work of the women will be made. A play, "Mrs. McCarty Buys a Hat,’’ will be given by one of the township clubs. Dinner will be served at noon. Sorority Breakfast The Delta Phi Kappa sorority entertained with a breakfast for fortj Sunday morning in the Hunter’s room of the Marott. Concert at Crawfordsville The Crawfordsville Music Club will sponsor a concert Tuesdaj night to be given by Eugene Guthrie Hassell, pianist, of the De Pauw University music school.

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ANNUAL LUNCHEON OF MISSION SOCIETY DEC. 8 Invitations have been issued to all districts of the Indiana M. E. conference to members of the Women’s Home Missionary Societies for the annual luncheon of the Indianapolis district of the society at the Elks Club - Dec. 8. Reservations have been received from the Bloomington and Columbus districts. Mrs. H. *C. Goode, Sidney, Ohio, national president, will speak and the De Pauw Music School will provide music. MUSICAL PROGRAM GIVEN ’AT CLUB MEET Mrs. Bert C. Morgan read a paper on the German opera, “Lohengrin,” at the ‘meeting of the Irvington Coterie this afternoon with Mrs. Edwin C. Donnell, 5372 E. Washington St. Mrs. Morgan played the motif of the opera on the piano and then records from the opera on the, phonograph. State Pan-Hellenic • All national fraternity women residing in Indiana are invited to attend the annual fall meeting of the State Panhellenic Association at Lafayette Saturday. Luncheon will be served at Lincoln lodge followed by a business meeting. Luncheon Hostess Mrs. James Baker, 4421 N. Illinois St., entertained fourteen guests with a luncheon in the blue room of the Marott today. f Entertains at Luncheon Mrs. J. A. Bange, 5687 Central Ave., entertained eight guests with a luncheon today at the Marott.

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And when he sees another in a dainty leaf design It is difficult his complimentary speeches to confine— He holds his fountain pen aloft and make a frightful blot, And thinks he’d like to introduce himself upon the spot.

Bride-to-Be of Saturday Entertained Miss Margaret Kluger. Miss Margaret Robinson and Miss Susie Harman entertained Saturday evening at the home of Miss Robinson, Hampton Dr., with a bridge party and miscellaneous shower in honor of Miss Freda Doeppers, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. E. C. Doeppers, who will be married Saturday to Hubert Houghey Merrill, Terre Haute. All appointments and the the ices and confections carried out the color scheme of rose and blue. The guests were: Mesdames E. O .Doeppers A. Robert Vestal! P R. Lyda R. B. Morrison Herbert Hill Russell Justice Charles Williams Hans Jacobson Robert Fennell Lawrence Drake G. W. Cline Leslie De Voe Maynard King Misses Dorothy Stewart Louise Kerr Esther Renfrew Julia E. Miller Margaret Hohl Daisy Schulz Eleanor King Katherine King Margaret Newton Elizabeth Fullenwlder Isabelle Eddy Ellen Ocker Ruth Ann Carson Helen Bedell Jeanette Nunamker -Edith Christian Ilene Young. Sheridan

BEAUTY HOW and WHY u LEAD SALTS IN HAIR DYE REQUIRE CARE

BY ANN ALYSIS Among the chemicals used in the manufacture of the various hair dyes are certain salts of lead. They often are combined with Sulphur, and in many cases the sulphur content is conspicuously mentioned on the label because most people are familiar with sulphur and so consider the preparation harmless. The lead salts are dangerous if absorbed by the skin. Another chemical highly favored as an ingredient of hair dyes is pyrgallol, an extremely poisonous article of vegetable origin. So you will see that though the label may state that no poisonous minerals are used, and that the particular dye Is of purely vegetable origin, it will behoove the wary purchaser to remember the most deadly poisons the world has ever known have come from the vegetable kingdom. No manufacturer of repute will deliberately put up a preparation that is harmful, and if, of necessity, he must give you a dye containing an ingredient that under certain circumstances may cause trouble, he will always furnish you with directions which, if followed closely, will prevent this. If those who have suffered ill effects confess the truth, they will tell you that they have been careless In applying the hair dye, have allowed some of the irritating liquid to touch the scalp, or have violated the printed instructions in some other equally blameworthy manner.

NOV. 28, 1927

Christmas Fete to Be Wednesday Yuletide decorations will prevail at the Christmas bazar of the toll office of the Indiana Bell Telephone Company, Wednesday N/ening, in the auditorium of the Marion Club building. Miss Jean Porteous, 1145 Holmes Ave., is chairman of the booths and general arrangements. The committees of th* various booths and attractions art as follows: NOVELTY Miss Edna Mathias, chairman Mrs. Dorothy Strong Misses Gertrude Koontz Fay Ahl Catherine Whitmore Ida Belle Parker Josephine Kinsclla Elizabeth Uebele Naomi Buchanon Doris Lasley Marlon Nelson Bessie Nelson Clarice Sheets Georgia Redelraan ART Mis*. Mary Dugan, chairman Misses Helen Kaley Seraphine Huser Elsie Gamester Marjorie Cox Hester Barnett Nelle Lusk Helen Keers Mary King Catherine Martin CANDY Miss Reba Harkins, chairman Mesdames Marla Higgs Caroline Kitchen Misses j Margaret Gee Lula Pavey Margaret Calhoun Jeannette McArthy FISH POND j Miss Martha Pommerening. chairman I Misses Clara Ziegler Hazel Black Marie Butcher Julia Clifford Mary O'Brian Thelma Combs Nora Ford Nettie Sturgeon Bernice Bonifleld Inez Wallers Emma Brunson Marie Williamson Helen Eckler Margaret Brummert Clara Hulnagle REFRESHMENTS Miss Nannie Gee. chairman Mrs. Mary Geiso MiSSCS Margaret BaHard Ruby Hood Mildred Freese Mable McCormack ENTERTAINMENT Miss G. Johnson, chairman | Mrs. Margaret Waltz Misses Myrtle Hemmings Lillian Ullrich BINGO Mrs, Helen Boeldt, chairman Mesdames Lela Thomas Helen Heltkans Misses Mae Stelnbarger Irene Townsend Eugenia Magidson Della Dugan Pauline Windhorst Dorothy Storey . T Mable Cosier Martha Hammond Nancy Neeley

Prize Recipes by Readers

NOTE—The Times will give fl for each recipe submitted by a reader adjudged of sufficient merit to be printed In this column. One recipe Is printed dally, except Friday, when twenty are given. Address Recipe Editor or The Times. Prizes will be mailed to winners. Write on one side of sheet only. Only one recipe each week will be accepted from one person. Horseradish Sauce Five or six tablespoons of drained horseradish, one-half cup cream, one teaspoon lemon juice, two egg yolks, one-half teaspoon salt, onehalf teaspoon taragon vinegar, one dozen finely chopped almonds. Whip cream until stiff. (Sour cream may be used, in which case omit lemon juice and add one teaspoon of sugar.) Beat the egg yolks thor-ou'-'.ly and add the nuts and seasc rig including the horseradish. When well mixed, blend lightly but thoroughly with whipped cream. The nuts may be omitted as may also the tarragon vinegar and cayenne, ar.d more horseradish may be added to suit taste et eeially for meats. Mrs. Wayne i odse n, Whitestown, Ind. Betrothed Couple Hot ored Mr. and Mrs. Baptist l aueisen, Mr. and Mrs. George T. I-any rnd Mr. and Mrs. James F. Frenzel entertained Saturday evening at Woodstock with a dinner party ii honor of Miss Mildred Conklin, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Alfred P. Conklin, and Oscar Frederick Frenzel Jr-, whose marriage will take place Dec. 3 at 8:30 p. m. at the Meridian Street M. E. Church.

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