Indianapolis Times, Volume 39, Number 171, Indianapolis, Marion County, 25 November 1927 — Page 16

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Do Nothing, Advice to Wife Whose Husband Transfers Love to Another Woman By MARTHA LEE WHAT can a wife do when her husband falls in love with another woman? The safest thing that she can do is nothing. I am not an advocate of the doctrine of non-resistance, but in this case there is no other course open. And if anything will save the day, non-resistance will do it. All the fussing and crying and reproaching in the universe will not recall love that is lost. But at least a wife can salvage

respect and friendship from the wreck. Besides, there is always a chance that a husband may be mistaken about the enduring quality of his love for the other woman, and after his fling is over, he may be not only willing but anxious to return to the comfortable habit of domesticity. If no ugly quarrels have disturbed the serenity of his home during his spiritual .absence, he is far more apt to renounce his brief experience in thb sunlight than he would be if his wife had fanned the flame of his desire with unwise opposition. The plot of a recent novel deals with a man who fell in love with a “strange woman.’’ His wife’s unexpected attitude of tolerance and sympathy revealed in her a person with whom he was totally unacquainted, and to his amazement he found that she was the one who was the “strange woman.” Likes Her as a Friend Dear Martha Lee: My husband and I lived together three years this last October and have a sweet little girl of two. He says that he loves her as well as I do. and says he cares, appreciates and admires me as a dear friend, but does not love me. He works every day and has never yet refused to get anything I asked him that was in reason, and has never mistreated me. But, about four months ago, he started to acting queer, and got so he didn’t want me to kiss him nor caress him in any way. ... Ha does not want to take me any place, and goes out without saying where he is going. Sometimes he does not stay late, and at other times he does. He said he knew from the way I acted that I thought he was out with other women, but God knew he had not been. * I asked him if he would be better satisfied if we would separate, and he said be didn't know, but that if I didn't want to stay under the circumstances, he would arrange in reason anything satisfactory to me. My heart is broken, for I have had the impression up until the last four months that he loved me, and after three vears I find out that he doesn’t. I can never be happy again, knowing that he is not. Before I noticed anything wrong he never acted as though he even wanted to go out anywhere without me, and I thought he was happy like myself. Do you think I will ever be able to win his love? If so, how? Do you think I could ever be satisfied without him. or whether I should go ahead as though he loved me? RUTH. Dear Sir: You say that your husband cares, admires and appreciates you as a dear friend. Now this is your role for the present. Do not kiss or caress him or in any way remind him that you are anything but just a dear friend? Do not ask him to take you places. Do not reproach him for going out. Just give him all the freedom in the world, to do exactly as he pleases. Do not comment on his actions. Do not criticise him. sit tight just as long as you can stand it, and see what happens. Keep your mind as busy as possible. Read "Happily Married,” by Corra Harris, and “The Strange Woman,” by Elmer Davis. I somehow doubt that your husband is not interested in another woman, but if you suspect this to be the case, do not mention it. If you follow this course you have every chance in the world to win him back again, but if you make yourself unpleasant you are sure to lose. I feel for you from the bottom of my heart, for I know exactly what your state of mind is. But I also know that you will make the situation a lot worse by opposing your husband in anything that he may care to do. He needs a dear friend just now. If you are a big woman, and really love your husband, you can be that dear friend. I 6hall be glad to hear from you again, and if you wish me to answer you personally, inclose a selfaddressed and stamped envelope and I will w rite to you as often as is necessary to help you work out your problem.

NORMAL SORORITIES ANNOUNCE PLEDGES

Sororities at Indiana State Normal, Terre Haute, announce the following pledges: ALPHA Mary Oarver, Margaret Donnelly, Margaret Drew and Nadine Smith, all of Terre Haute. DELTA SIGMA Augusta O'Neal. Marshall. 111.: Dorothy Boeder, Terre Haute; Jessie Needham. Terre Haute: Irma McKinney, Terre Haut; Ruth Helen Hixon, Terre Raute; Ruth Robertson. Clinton: Grace RathXon, Petersburg: Evelyn Slade, Terre Haute: Helen Davies. Carbon: Doris Markee, Palestine. 111.: Edith Harris. Blckneil: Irene Calllold. Terre Haute; Betrlce Higgins, Terre Haute. EPSILON DELTA Prances Stevenson, Evansville: Edith Holbert. Martinsville; Martha Taylor, Kokomo. and Kathryn Slocomb. Marion. GAMMA OAMMA Mlldren Boswell, Sullivan: Laura May Briggs. Terre Haute: Elizabeth Brinkman. Brazil: Doris De Hart. Lexington; Bessie Ringer. Fairbanks: Emma Louise Smith. Sullivan; Pauline Snow, Terre Haute: Roberta Harrod. Lewis; Elmore Haupt, Terre Haute: Mary Lawrence. Terre Haute; Jane Lawrence. Terre Haute: Marjorie Neal, .Tasonvllle: Mary Pentecost, Terre Haute; Marguerite Probst, Brazil, and Marian Stout, Brazil. KAPPA KAPPA Rosemary Cook, Terre Haute: Avanelle Sebring. Shelburn; Lillis Arnold. Hvmera: Marlon Patterson, Vincennes; Marie Kantman. Terre Haute; Lillian Rosenfeld. Terre Haute: Virginia Conrath, Terre Haute: Francis Conrath. Terre Haute, and Dorothy Beecher. Terre Haute. LAMBDA DELTA PHI Josephine Swope, Clinton; Mynena Anderson. Shelburn: Margaret Turk. Terre Haute; Elizabeth Ford, Terre Haute: Sibyl Dupuis. Sullivan: Madge Porter, Shelburn; Carolyn Wolff. Terre Haute, and Rose Simon. Terre Haute. MU ZETA Helen Stephenson. Martinsville: Helen Tennis, Crawfordeville; Helen Hollingsworth. Terre Haute; Catherine Wright. Clinton: Mary Baur. Lancaster: Paige Wallace, Marion; Louise Setzer. Graysville: Loretta Campbell. Danville: Lorene Campbell, Danville: Veneta Lawson. Terre Haute, and Ruth Shrontz, Lakevlew. Fla. OMEGA SIGMA CHI Helen Yer-v*.r, Advance; tvra Evans, Dugger; Bess.'e Teasley, Greencastle: Ruth Asgison. Wabash; Hazel McVev Lewis: Margaret Daniels Boonville, and Mildred Howell. Lexington. PI ZETA Jean Hoison. Sullivan: Ruth Banks, Fairbanks; Vetha Ford, Meilot, and Hazel Dwlgglns, Castleton. PSI THETA Ruth Helnlecamp. Vincennes; Mae Marketo. Clinton; Mary Downs. Terre Haute; Jane Mats. Marshall. 111.: Rose Jaeon. Clinton: Margaret Johnson. Terre Haute: Lois Galnefct. Graysvllle; Catherine Brown. East Chicago; Mary Elma Lewis. Sullivan: Helen Gord, Terre Haute; Jane Freud. Macksvllle, and Rose Hantel, Terre Haute.

Afternoon * Wedding at Church The marriage of Miss Katherine Shaffer, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. B. F. Shaffer, 321 N. Riley Ave., and Russell B. McMahan, son of Mrs. E. G. McMahan, Richmond, took place at 3:30 p. m. Thursday at the Emerson Avenue Baptist Church, with the Rev. Louis Crafton officiating. The altar was decorated with ferns, palms and rose-colored chrysanthemums and lighted by cathedral candles. Mrs. William Leonard played a program of bridal music before the ceremony and Miss Ruth McMahan sang “I Love You Truly” and “O Promise Me,” and Miss Beatrice Johnson sang “At Dawning.” The two flower girls, Miss Betty Lou Summers and Miss Marguerite Ruth /Martin, wore rose-colored crepe dresses and carried baskets of rose petals. The bride’s sister, Miss Dorothy Shaffer, as maid of honor, wore green satin backed crepe fashioned with tight waist and full shirt and carried pink roses. ,TAe bride wore white satin with a cap-shaped veil caught at the side with orange olossoms. A bit of rose point lace in front formed a coronet. She carried a 'bouquet of bride’s roses and baby’s breath. Lester Beach, Richmond, was best man. A reception at the home of the bride followed the ceremony. The house was arranged with roses, ferns and chrysanthemums. The couple left immediately afterward for a motor trip and will be at home in IVvington after Dec. 1. The bride' traveled in a rose dress and dark green coat with black satin hat. TAGGART-HAZLETT WEDDING THURSDAY Miss Margaret Ann Hazlett, daughter of Mrs. Mary E. Hazlett, was married to Edward Day Taggart at 4 p. m. Thursday in the study of the Westminster Presbyterian Church with Rev. H. T. Graham officiating. Miss Alice Jacobs, the bride’s only attendant, wore dark green satin crepe with hat to match and carried Columbia roses. The bride wore a shade of lighter green satin with silk hat to match. Her flowers were Premier roses. Howard McDavitt was best man. Mr. and Mrs. Taggart will be at home at 812 Bancroft St. The bride attended Miami University and is a member of Sigma Kappa Sorority. Mr. Taggart attended Indiana University.

Personals

Mr. and Mrs. Lynn B. Millikan, 1304 N. Delaware St., will leave soon to spend the remainder of the winter in Florida. Lieut. Walter M. Graesser, U. S. S. Nokomis, spent Thanksgiving with friends in Indianapolis. Mrs. Gilbert H. Hendren, 108 E. Sixteenth St. and Mrs. Henry L. Browning, will leave Saturday for Orlando, Fla., with their grandchildren, Henry and Gilbert Browning, sons of Mr. and Mrs. Henry L Browning Jr. Sponsor Film at Home A committee from the Indianapolis branch of the Indiana Indorsers of Photoplays will sponsor a film at the Home for Aged Women next Thursday night Mrs. Freda S. Robinson, assisted by Miss Rosalee Spong, will give a musical program. Mrs. William Birk is chairman of the committee, assisted by: _ ~ _ Mesdames &vld Ro , , W. C. Bartholomew Gelsel Floyd Fults OUn Hatton Miss Sarah Birk “Kid” Party The Beta Delta Tau Sorority entertained Wednesday evening with a “kid” party at the home of Mrs. Marion King, 1533 Ashland Ave. Children’s games and refreshments in keeping with children’s parties were features. The guests were Misses Jeweldeene Flesher, Lucille Fooler, Dorothy Waller, Dorothy Vehling, Naomi Jolley and Lillian Richardson. Dinner at Propylaeum Among the members of the Propylaeum who entertained their families with Thanksgiving dinner at the clubhouse today were: _. , .. Messrs, and Mesdames Edwin H Forry Charles A. Charles Marttnaale Greathouse Jesse C. Moore Harry R. Fltton Herbert Foltz Clyde Osborn . , _ „ „ Mesdames John N. Carey Samuel C. Carey Caroline V. Collins Jacob P. Dunn Charles 8. Voorhees R. R. Shlel Luncheon-Bridge Mrs. W. A. Durkin, 3918 Central Ave., entertained Tuesday with a luncheon-bridge party. The appointments were in yellow and white. Covers v">re laid for: „ Mtc-ames w. B. Hodge T. C. Bayer ?!* K * rk Herbert Barker Shirley Denting John Durnta Francis Ohlmeyer E. R. Glldhaus J- D- Charles Herln William Salllday Ohrl*s Campbell , Garnet Bramwood Clifford Sveser Ralph Martin. Detroit. Mich. Booster Party The Myrtle Booster Club will give a card party Saturday night at the hall, W. Washington and Addison Sts.

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The pledges of Alpha Pi Sorority of Butler University will entertain Friday night with an informal dance at the SpinkArms. Miss Martha and Miss Iris Hinshaw are members of the commute ifx charge. Altar Society Party The Altar Society of St. Roch will give a card party Sunday afternoon in the hall at 3600 S. Meridian St. The following will entertain: Mrs. Lillian Thuer, Mrs. Lillian McCorkle, Mrs. Joe Braun, Miss Amelia Buegele, Mrs. Charles Klein, Miss Louise Roy and Mrs. Amanda Niehaus. A chili supper will be served from 5 to 7. Indiana Pioneers Dinner The Society of Indiana Pioneers will hold its annual dinner Saturday evening, Dec. 10 in the Riley room, Claypool Hotel. Arrangements are being made to obtain a man of national reputation as speaker for the meeting, it is announced by Charles N. Thompson, society president. ' Club Luncheon Mrs. Edna Robinson, 3137 Park Ave., entertained the members of the Coreopsis Club with a luncheon today. Mrs. Mayme Castor had charge of the program. * / Pledges Announced Theta Sigma Phi, journalistic sorority at Indiana University, announces the pledging of Ellen Helton, Elizabeth Loveland, Dorothy Schulmeyer and Mary Pattie.

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Elizabeth Daly Becomes Bride on Thanksgiving Miss Elizabeth Ann Daly, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Daniel Daly, 643 Coffey St., and Ralph Joseph Jansen, son of Mrs. Estella Jansen were married Thursday morning at the Church of the Assumption by Rev. James H. Jansen. The nuptial mass was read by Rev. Joseph Weber. The altar was banked with ferns and chrysanthemus and lighted with eleven tapers in gold branch candelabra. During the ceremony Miss Caroline Foltz sand “I Love You Truly” and Rev. Father Jansen sang “Ave Maria” at the offertory. Before the recession Mrs. Carrie West sang •’Believe Me.” Little Ann Daly, niece of the bride, was flower girl. She wore a frock of sea green georgette and a head band of gold ribbon. She carried a basket of roses. Little Francis Hanley, nephew of the bride, carried the ring on a satin pillow. Attended By Sister The bride was attended by her Sister, Miss Lenora Daly, maid of honor, who wore a gown of embroidered cream silk net over flesh crepe. The skirt In robe de style was tangerine taffeta. The hem line was scalloped and faced with nasturtium taffeta. Her hat was gold metallic cloth and lace and she carried Mrs. Aaron Ward roses. The bridesmaids, Miss Catherine McNeils and Miss Marguerite Porten, also wore gowns of cream silk net over flesh crepe fashioned in robe de style. Miss McNeils’ skirt was of nasturtium taffeta and the hem line faced with Alice blue taffeta. Miss Porten’s skirt was crocus taffeta faced with blue. They wore gold metallic and lace hats and carried butterfly roses. Bride in Satin The bride, given in marriage by her father, wore a gown of old ivory satin fashioned with tight bodice. The neckline, rounded in front and cut with a low V in the back, was inset with georgette, beaded with crystals and rhinestones. The sleeves were long nad close fitting. The skirt was fashioned full anl scalloped. The long tulle veil was arranged with a close fitting shirred cap with a wreath of orange blossoms at the front. The hemline of the veil was bound In Venetian lace. The bridal bouquet was of bride’s roses and valley lilies. Ralph Brendel was best man and Ernest Hinkle and Daniel Daly were ushers. A breakfast for sixty guests was served at the bride’s home following the service. The table was decorated with plateaus of white chrysanthemums and lighted with white tapers. In the center was a large wedding cake.

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Miss Lighthiser Becomes Bride of William Cross The parsonage of the Englewood Christian Church was the scene of the wedding at 11:30 a. m. Thursday of Miss Florence Marie Lighthiser, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. James P. Lighthiser, Sebring, Fla., to William G. Cross, son of Mrs. Luvina Cross, 318 Eastern Ave. Rev. O. A. Trinkle performed the ceremony in the presence of the Immediate families and a few friends. Mr. and Mrs. Walter F. Keilman were the only attendants, Mrs. Keilman wearing a pale green georgette gown with a corsage of butterfly roses. The bride wore pink silk crepe with a beaded overdress. Her flowers were pink roses and lilies of the valley. Little Betty Lighthiser. niece of the bride, as flower girl, wore pale green silk and carried pink roses. A wedding breakfast at the home of the bridegroom’s mother followed the service. After a short trip, Mr. and Mrs. Cross will be at home in Indianapolis. Officers at Newcastle New officers for the American Legion Auxiliary of Newcastle will be installed at the annual Christmas banquet of the auxiliary Dec. 6. Mrs. D. S. Wiggins is the new president: Mrs. Clarence Scott, first vice president: Mrs. Clarence Johnson, second vice president; Mrs. Gordon Marshall,, secretary, Miss Alma Wright, treasurer; Mrs. Leonard Gold, chaplain; Mrs. Guemey Grey, historian, and Mrs. Leota Flinchpaugh, sergeant-at-arms.

National Worker of Voters League to Visit Indiana Miss Elizabeth J. Hauser, chairman of the efficiency in government committee of the National League of Women Voters and fourth vice president, will spend the first part of next week in Indiana speaking at local league meetings on problems of government. She will address a meeting ox the Elkhart League Monday, and will be in Valparaiso Tuesday, Miss Hauser’s visit will mark the launching of the political education campaign the Indiana league is conducting. She will continue this work in the southern part of the State early in January. The executive secretary of the Indiana league. Miss Florence Kirlin, will confer with Miss Hauser and Mrs. J. C. Boss, State chairman of efficiency in government, at Elkhart Monday. Mrs. Boss is also chairman of the special committee on political education recently appointed by Mrs. Frank Hatch Streightoff, president of the Indiana league. The State league is particularly interested in obtaining a good registration law for Indiana, the present situation as regards election laws in Indiana and the needs of the State in this regard will also be discussed at the conference with Miss Hauser. Miss Kirlin also will visit the South Bend and Peru leagues before returning to Indianapolis. Melv in-Elliott Mr. and Mrs. Frank Elliott, Muncie, announce the marriage of their daughter, Lelia, to J. R. Melvin, son of Mr. and Mrs. E. B. Melvin, also of Muncie, which took place June 14 in Lebanon. The couple will live in Anderson.

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Miss Seitz Is Bride in Church Rite The marriage of Miss Viola Marguerite Seitz, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Edward J. Seitz, 915 Prospect St., and Hewitt De Koven Talbott, took place at 4 p. m. Thursday at Christ Church with Rev. Floyd Van Keuren officiating. Cheston Heath, organist, played wedding marches before the ceremony. Miss Dorothy Fartholomew sang “I Love You Truly” and “At Dawning.” Little Iris Jean Gutzmfiler, flower girl, wore a pale green taffeta dress and carried a basket of rose petals. Miss Lillian Seitz, sister of the bride, was maid of honor and wore peach pink taffeta with basque waist and full skirt and hat to match. She wore silver brocade slippers and carried butterfly roses. The bridesmaids were Miss Mary Pulton and Mrs. Kessler Truelove. Miss Fulton wore yellow taffeta with hat and slippers to maten and carried premier roses. Mrs. Truelove wore peach yellow with slippers and hat to match and carried premier roses. Bride Wears White Satin The bride, who was given in marriage by her father, wore white satin with an entire lace overskirt and tight bodice. Her veil was bound in lace and caught at the sides with orange blossoms. She wore a filigree necklace, a gift of the bridegroom, and carried a shower bouquet of bride’s roses and lilies of the valley. Edgar Seitz, brother of the bride, was best man and the ushers were Dr. Kessler Truelove, Iris Fulton, Orban Tomey and Arthur Sanford. Reception at Home A reception at the bride’s home followed the ceremony. Mrs. Seitz received in a dress of ashes of roses and wore a crosage of premier roses. Mr. and Mrs. Talbott left on a wedding trip and will be at home at 3955 Broadway, after Jan. 1J The bride traveled in a navy blue crepe di<.ss with wine color coat and silver brocade hat. Among out-of-town guests were Mr. ahd Mrs. Clay Rockwell, Cincinnati, Ohio, Mrs. Arthur Boothly, Hollywood, Cal., and Mr. and Mrs. Joseph S. Boomersheim, Bluffton. Mr. and Mrs. Rex P. Young spent Thanksgiving in Chicago. They attended the International Travel Show.

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