Indianapolis Times, Volume 39, Number 170, Indianapolis, Marion County, 24 November 1927 — Page 6

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Society’s Decree That Only Legal Divorce Grounds Are Right Causes Harm BY MARTHA LEE j. Y/l HEN two animals who are confined in the same cage fight IW [ and scratch and tear each other to pieces, no one doubts the wisdom of separating them. But when two human beings who are confined in the same house by marriage, fight and scratch and tear each other to pieces, society decrees that these people shall go on 'living together until one of the two of them provides grounds for divorce by some violation of the law.

This is irrational. Emotional incompatibility causes as much misery as cruel and inhuman treatment, adultery, non-support, or any of the other legitimate causes for divorce. Enforced intimacy with someone who is an alien in spirit is degrading. Constant contact with a person whose every word and gesture irritates is destruction. There is no excuse for the continuance of a marriage which is not a union. Even where there are children, the constant friction and the everpresent tension between parents who are mismated are far more harmful than divorce. People who are naturally antagonistic should not attempt to live in the same house together, but should separate, even though they have no legal grounds for a final divorce. Shall They Separate? Dear Martha Lee: I have been married three years, and for a year my husband has worked at night. I hate to stay alone. I work in the day time, buy my own clothes and pay my own bills, but he seems to be interested only in his work, and says that it is the only pleasure that he has. He thinks I should not go any place, but just sit at home every night by myself. or visit older peoples, but I am only 21. and feel like there should be some pleasure in life. When he and I are together, we are forevermore in a quarrel. Do you think I should continue my married life? I get awful blue and disgusted sometimes. IDA BELL. If you and your husband have ceased to care for each oth#r, I see no reason for the continuance of your marriage, particularly since there are no children to complicate matters. In this instance, I should think that it would be easy for you to get a divorce on grounds of nonsupport. In case you do divorce your husband, take my advice and do not marry again for several years. You are toQ young. I agree with you that life should hold some pleasure for a girl 21. Shall She Give Him a Present?, Dear Martha Lee: I have a girl friend who has just been married two months. I have met her husband only once, so I am in doubt whether or not to buy him a E resent for Christmas. I am going to uv her one for she was once a dear friend, but I don’t have much money to spend on Christmas presents and would like your advice if it would be conventonal to send her a present, and him a pretty card. SMILES. It is neither necessary nor proper for you to buy your friend’s husband a Christmas present. If you send a card, address it to both of them.

BRIDGE ME ANOTHER (Copyright, 1927, by The Ready Reference Publishlhfr Company ) BY W. W. WENTWORTH

(Abbreviations: A—ace; K—kins:; Q—aucen; J—jack; ie —any card lower than 10.1 1. Holding: spades A Q X;.hearts —A Q X diamonds—X XX; clubs— X X X X; what do you bid initially? 2. What is indicated by an encouraging discard? 3. What should you bid initially when you hold: spades—A XXX; diamonds—A KQ X clubs—A X X X; no hearts? The Answers 1. Pass. 2. Strength in suit discarded. 3. One diamond.

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NOTE—The Times will give *1 lor each recipe submitted by a reader adjudged of sufficient merit to be printed in this column. One recipe Is printed dally, except Friday, when twenty are given. Address Recipe Editor of The Times. Prizes will he mailed to winners. Write on one side of sheet only. Only one recipe each week will be accepted trom one person. Turkey and Chestnuts Boil twenty-four chestnuts for twenty minutes. Refrnove the shells and brown skins, and chop the kernels very fine - . Then add them to a dressing made of one quart of stale bread crumbs, four tablespoons of butter, salt and pepper to taste, and the yolks of two eggs beaten lightly. Fill the turkey a little more than half full. Sew up the vents; covey with a paste made of butter anc\ flour, and place in a moderately hot oven to roast. If an uncovered dripping pan is used place the giblets in with the turkey. Fill a pan with boiling hot water and use this to baste the fcirkey every fifteen minutes until it begins to cook; then baste every ten minutes until tender. Mrs. Lettie Nagle, Nenberry, Ind. Zetathea Club Mrs. A. C. Bennett, 405 N. Drexel Ave., was hostess for the Zetathea Club Wednesday afternoon. Quotations were from Charles Wagner’s “By the Fireside.” Mrs. A. C. Caldwell read a paper on “Cultural Contributions to the Home,” and Mrs. C. E. Crippin on “The Restoration of Home Influence.” Talks on Indiana “Indiana’s Scenic Beauty,” was the subject of Mrs. Walter Carnahan when she spoke to the Irvington Quest Club Wednesday afternoon at the home of Mrs. James H. Dunne, 5526 E. Michigan St. Members gave quotations from Booth Tarkington’s writings. Postpones Meeting The regular meetihg of the Xi Delta Xi sorority has been postponed from Friday to Dec. 2 and will be held with Mrs. Leo Kropp, 1031 3jfn St.

Gertrude Hacker Becomes Bride in Church Rite Mr and Mrs. Charles Hacker, 935 N. Beville Ave., announce the marriage of their daughter, Miss Gertrude Kathryn, to Raymond Voss Schmidt, which took place this morning at 9:30 at St. Paul’s Episcopal Church with the Rev. Lewis Brown officiating. A wedding breakfast was served at the home of the bride’s parents after the ceremony. Mr. and Mrs. Schmidt have gone on a wedding trip to New York and New England. They will be at home after Dec. 15 at Forest Glen, E. SixtySecond St.

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Bridge Tea Mrs. Otto N. Frenzel, 236 E. Fifteenth St., will entertain with a bridge tea Friday afternoon in honor of Miss Mildred Conklin, whose marriage to Oscar Ffederick Frenzel Jr. will take place Dec. 3.

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Alice Dichmann, George Sheridan Wed at Church St. Francis de Sales Church was the scene at 8 this morning of the wedding of Miss Mildred Alice Dichmann, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. William J. Dichmann, 382 Prospect St., and George Sheridan, son of Mrs. John Sheridan, 729 N. Sheffield Ave. Rev. Father Bernard Sheridan, brother of the bridegroom, read the nuptial high mass before an altar arranged with ferns and chrysanthemums. The church choir sang the mass. , Miss Lucille Dichmann, sister of the bride, was her only attendant and wore a light blue satin dress with silver hat and back slippers with silver buckles. She carried Columbia roses. The bride wore pii\k satin with silver hat and carried white roses. Cornelius Sherinda, brother of the bridegroom, was best man. A wedding breakfast for the bridal party was given at the Lincoln following the ceremony. Mr. and Mrs. Sheridan are on a wedding trip to Detroit, Mich., and Chicago. They will be at home in Indianapolis after Dec. 15. Surprise Dinner Shower Miss Dora Zachariah, 2121 S. East St., whose marriage to Garfield A. Kallman, New York, will take place soon, was honored with a surprise dinner shower Tuesday evening. The table was decorated with bowls of flowers and lighted with tapers in silver holders. Covers were laid for twenty-five. Firemen’s Auxiliary Party The Ladies’ Auxiliary of the Firemen’s Association will give a card party at 2:30 p. m. Friday at the; hall, 116 E. Marvland St. Mrs. Frank Braun is chairman. Committee Party The building committee of Brookside lodge, I. O. O. F., will give a euchre party Friday evening at the hall, Tenth and Rural Sts.

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Sigma Epsilon Gives Formal Dinner Dance A color scheme of green and white was carried out in appointments for the formal dinner dance of Sigma Epsilon Sorority Tuesday evening at the Marott Hotel. Match cases with the sorority crest were given the guests. Members wore arm bows of tulle in the sorority colors. The dinner was served in the Hunters’ room and dancing took place in the ballroom. The committee in charge included Misses Sue Shaffer, Audrey Moore, Florence Donovan and Katherine Foster. Covers were laid for: Messr*. and Mesdames P. J. Moore Bruce Graham C. Kershaw Robert Ittenbach Misses Hazel Hughes Martha M. Simpson Katherln Foster Florence Donovan Viola Hermsen Margaret Biggins Marjorie Miller Sue Shaffer Mtldre dOwens Mildred Harris Katherine Biggins Marjorie Kern Thelma Shadday June Mune Kathleen Davison Morris Donald Messrs. Audrey Cox Harold Hanson Poynton Smith Hans Geiger Ferd Keller George Moore Paul Hudson Elmer Schwegman John Forsthoefel F. McDonald Paul Ewing

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1. Are children introduced to each other as grown-ups are? * 2. How does one introduce a friend’s child- who has come to play with the children? 3. How should children acknowledge the introduction? The Answers 1. Never formally. 2. “Joan and Bob, come show Nancy your toys. She has come to play with you.” 3. They may just say “hello,” informally, or they can shake hands. The women of Mooseheart Legion will give card parties this afternoon and evening at the Moose Temple, 135 N. Delaware St.

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BY ANN ALYSIS The label on the bottle does not disclose the chamicals that have entered into the manufacture of the hair dye, through the use of which the purchaser intends to recapture, if possible, the youthful tint of her hair. As I stated in a previous article, hair dyes are almost always made of chemicals which are in their very nature dangerous. Some, such as silver nitrate, or copper nitfate, which are very extensively used, are highly caustic in their action, and if allowed to come into contact with the scalp will cause irritation that may lead to endless trouble. However, if proper care is observed in applying the dye so that the scalp is not moistened, this irritating action may be avoided. Dyes made of nitrate of silver solutions generally come in dark bottles. The liquid itself is as clear as water and becomes dark when applied to the hair and then exposed to the rays of light. By placing a few drops of suspected dye on a piece of white cloth and observing whether the spot, at first colorless as water, when exposed to the light gradualy becomes darker and darker, till it finally becomes black, you may be reasonably certain that it contains the caustic nitrate of silver as its basic ingredient. Having made this simple test, you may decide for yourself whether you wish to use the dye, and if you so decide, be careful to follow the directions given. If you do this, you will no doubt escape unpleasant consequences. NEXT—Mineral and vegetable dyes. Luxurious Wrap A dolman wrap of white velvet is richly embroidered in crystals and strass and has a luxurious collar of white fox.

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Miss Kruge Is Bride in Church Rite The marriage of Miss Emma Louise Kruge, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. William Kruge, 3225 E. Sixteenth St., to Vernon Ralph Me* Quilkin of Cleveland, Ohio, took place at 8:30 p. m. Wednesday at the Redeemer’s Church. The single ring ceremony was performed by the Rev, William H. Eifert, pastor, before an embankment of palms and ferns, altar was decorated with chrysanthemums, and white tulle marked the pews for relatives and immediate friends. Before the ceremony Mrs. Fisher Davis playqd “Ave Maria,” “My Heart at Thy Sweet Voice,” “Believe Me If All Those Endearing Young Charms,” and “The Indian Love Call.” William Robertson sang, "Ich Liebe Dich,” “Promise Me," and “Love’s Old Sweet Song.” During the ceremony Mrs. Davis played “Love’s Old Sweet Song.” Three Dressed Alike The bridesmaids were Misses Lydia and Alma Kruge, Miss Lydia wore subdued yellow taffeta with gold slippers and carried an arm bouquet of yellow chrysanthemums. Miss Alma’s dress was of silver green taffeta and she wore sliver slippers. Her arm bouquet was of bronze chrysanthemums. Miss Alice Kruge ,maid of honor, wore pink taffeta and silver slippers and carried pink chrysanthemums tied with pink tulle. The gowns were fashioned alike with basque waist and circular ruffled skirt of uneven hem length. They wore bracelets to match their gowns, and which were gifts of the bride. The bride, entering alone, wore bridal satin with basque waist and full skirt longer in back. Her tulle veil was trimmed with lace andheld in place by orange blossoms. She carried a bouquet of white chrysanthemums. W. C. Lincoln was best man and th# ushers were Robert J. Bloss and Sheldon Wright. Reception at Home Following the ceremony a reception and supper was given so fifty guests at the home of the bride’s pr rents. Mrs. Kruge received in a gown of black crepe arranged with lace. The bridal table held a twotier wedding cake lighted with pink tapers. Mr. and Mrs. McQuilkin have gone on a wedding trip and will be at home in Nashville, Tenn. The bride traveled in a crepe dress of autumn brown with darker brown felt hat and suede slippers. Mr. McQuilkin is a graduate of Ohio State University and a member of Sigma Phi Epsilon. Among the out-of-town guests were Mr. and Mrs. H. J. Kruge, Ft. Wayne; Mr. and Mrs. H. S. McQuilkin, Cleveland; Mr. and Mrs. H. T. Haskett, Columbus, Ohio, and W. M. Krieger, Chicago

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