Indianapolis Times, Volume 39, Number 165, Indianapolis, Marion County, 18 November 1927 — Page 18

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Reaction to Environment Greater Influence Than Surroundings Themselves BY MARTHA LEE judge a person by his parents. Remember that he IN was not consulted when they were picked out, and he has no control over them. , , It is true that environment plays a large part in the formation of character, and we may well fear that the child of unworthy parents will learn some of their unworthy traits from association.

Very often this is the case. But just as often it is not. Sometimes the evil in the home awakens in the child a longing for good. For Instance, one girl I know Is meticulously honest and religiously pays her monthly bills on the 10th of the month. “My father never paid his bUls,” she said. “Collectors at the door were the nightmare of my young life.” The cleverest cook I know confessed to me, “My mother never put a decent meal on the table in her life. Asa child, I resolved that when I grew up I would learn to cook or die.” Thus the children of quarrelsome parents long for peace. Daughters whose mothers were dirty housekeepers are many times scrupulously clean in their own homes. It is not the environment which is significant, but the way the person reacts to it. Always judge an individual for himself alone, and not for the home that he comes from. Is He Like His Mother? Dear Martha Lee: I am in need of advice very badly. There is a young man I like very much, and I think he likes me, too, for he keeps asking for dates, but I put him oft. X have heard—l don't know for sure—that his mother is not Just the right kind. Would that make any difference to you, if you were' in my place? While I haven’t had any dates with him. he has taken me home several times, and he seems to be very nice. I have a girl friend who used to go around with his crowd, and she said she doesn’t know anyone who is nicer than he. Please tell me If you were in my place what you would do. ANXIOUS. I would not make up my mind hastily. I would take plenty of time to observe this young man and to test him out in various situations. Then I would form my opinion without taking his mother into consideration at all. The fact that she is not “the right kind” may increase his respect for women who are the right kind. If she is morally loose, it may instill in him a reverence for chastity that a minister’s son would be incapable of feeling. If this is the way he has reacted to the wrong kind of a home, he may make a better lover and husband than the man who has been reared in a home of too rigid virtue. Open Letter on Jealousy Dear Martha Lee: Once I was a Jealous woman, always nagging my husband, thinking that he no longer cared for me. I would thro’'' up other women when he didn’t come 1" me at a certain time. And that Is what started our trouble. X nagged all the time. Jealousy led me to trouble. Trouble I surely had. Jealousy, the green-eyed monster was always in my mind. Wives, don't be jealous, or have fear and hate. Stop and think and good will come your way. Always have kind thoughts about "friend husband, and he will have kind thoughts about you. He is not thinking about other women. —only working for you—throughout all the day. Yet you women will sit at home and say, “Oh. I know he Is out with some other woman, doing this and that. Oh dear. I know It is so!” How can a man live with a wife like that? I sure learned my lesson from Jealousy, for I am single again today when might have been happy. L. L. JAMES-TILLINGHAST WEDDING AT CHURCH Miss Ruth Tillinghast and Arthur K. James were married at St. Philip Neri Church Thursday morn’n? by the Rev. Early. The altar was lighted with cathedral candles. The oraginst played “Ave Maria,” during the ceremony. The bride’s only attendant was Miss Catherine Smith, who wore a jade green dress with hat to match and carried Ward roses. The bride wore tan and brown with hat and shoes to match and carried a shower bouquet of Ophelia roses. The ceremony was followed by a wedding breakfast &t the home of Charles Lyons, 440 Eastern Ave. After a wedding trip through the East Mr. and Mrs. ames will be at home at 440 Eastern Ave. Auxiliary Party Ladles’ Auxiliary to Faithful Division, No. 528, G. I. A., to the B. of L. E., will give a card party Saturday night in the hall at Addison and W. Washington Sts. Miss Betty Endsley Is general chairman of a bunco party to be given at 218 Keystone Avk., at 8 this evening by members of the Cos Club. Members assisting will be: Miss Endsley, Miss Bernice McCoy, Miss Frances McCready and Miss Viola Hicks, president.

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Club’s Tea Celebrates Anniversary

The Alpha Chi Omega Sorority house, S. Downey Ave., was the scene of an afternoon tea today when the Mother’s Club of the sorority entertained to celebrate the fourth anniversary of the founding of the club. In the receiving line with the officers, Mrs. Charles-H. Smith, Mrs. Charles W. Roller, Mrs. Walter King, Mrs. John G. Barclay and Mrs. W. T. Martindale, were the two past presidents, Mrs. E. J. Erber, and Mrs. George Patton; the house mother, Miss Emma Matthews, and two of the founders of the national sorority, Mrs. Scoby Cunningham, and Mrs. Ralph D. Clarke. Miss Beulah Moore and Miss Myra Triller, members of the Alpha Chi chapter at Butler, gave piano numbers during the afternoon. The color scheme throughout was yellow and white. Bowls of white and yellow chrysanthemums together with large candelabra holding yellow tapers were used at the entrance. In the sun room and in the living room, the tea table had for its decoration a low bowl of yellow chrysanthemums, and crystal holders with tall white tapers tied with bows of yellow • tulle. Presiding at the table were Mrs. Charles Bretzman and Mrs. Ira Berger. Miss J. L. Hawecotte was general chairman of arrangements. The social committee included: Mrs. W. T. Martindale, Mrs. G. E. Stevenson, Mrs. A. E. Wren, Mrs. P. T. Triller, Mrs/ Fred Steele, Mrs. Charles Roller, Mrs. C. E. Johnson, Mrs. D. F. Swain, Mrs. E. M. Wood and Mrs. A. T. Mayfield. They were assisted by Mrs. C. A. Rockwell, Mrs. Isaac Davis, Mrs. John Lambert, Mrs. H. L. Dipple and Mrs. C. M. Richter. Among guests during the afternoon, were members of the Alpha Chi Omega chapter of Butler University; the alumni chapter of Alpha Chi, andmembers of the Mother’s Clubs of all the sororities and fraternities of Butler

ANNUAL DINNER DANCE OF DE PAUW GRADS The Indianapolis Association of De FSuw University Alumni will hold its annual dinner dance at the Marott Hotel, at 7 tonight. Entertainment features will include selections by the Alpha Chi quartet, of which Mrs. ames Ogden is director; George Kadel, tenor, and the Old Gold orchestra. Officers of the association include Fred C. Tucker, president: Mrs. Harold E. Sutherlin, vice president; Miss Blanche Stillson, secretary, and Perry Lesh, treasurer. About 200 alumni are expected to attend. Welfare Program Members of the Welfare Club entertained at the Home for Aged Women Thursday afternoon with a program of readings by Mrs. W. D. Long; songs by Mickey Conner, accompanied by Walter Lally; musical monologues by Miss Pauline Roes, accompanied by Mrs. Olive Steinkamp; readings by Miss Virginia Allen Sawyer, and songs by Mrs. Vivian Clark, accompanied by Miss Lora Cool:. The program was in charge of: Mesdames . _ _ H. O. Lust, Chairman A- C. Earing Charles Sandberg Walter F. Coyner Louise Kriete Alice Hood Effle Morgan G. J. Schmidt William Lymon Artists' Lecture Homer Saint-Gaudens, director of fine arts of Carnegie Institute, Pittsburgh, Pa., will lecture on “The Art spirit,” at the Woman’s Department Club at 8 this evening under the auspices of the Indiana Artists’ Club. Mr. Saint-Gaudens is the son of the great American sculptor, Augustus Saint-Gaudens.

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All Souls Fair to Have Pirate Ship and Crew A pirate ship, the Idea and articles for which were brought by Mrs. Ernest M. Wiles from Nantucket, where she has spent summers for many years, is one of the features of the fair to be held at All Souls Unitarian Church on the afternoon and evening of Dec. 2. Mrs. Wiles’ assistants will be dressed as pirates and nautical features .will lend atmosphere to her booth/ There will also booths for the sale of fancy work, aprons, home cooked and canned foods, candy and a baby booth in which articles of every descripition will be on sale for the youngest member of tt family. Every organization of the church is assisting. The men of the Laymen’s League will have a surprise feature, the Lincoln Club of boys and an electric grab. The Dorothy Dix Club of young girls will be in charge of the tea table, where Mrs. Louise Schellschmidt Koehne will act as hostess. The Channing Club, composed of young men and women of the church, will have charge of the punch. Dancing will follow a cafeteria dinner to be served at 6:30 p. m. The committees are: General chairmen, Mrs. O. S. Mueller, Mrs. E. T. Talbott and Mrs. Russell Lowell; fancy work, Mrs. J. E. Wilson; baby booth in charge of the Young Matrons Club, the Elizabethans, with Mrs. H. H. Rinne, chairman; aprons, Mrs. Theo Reyer; ’food, Mrs. Robert Elliott; pirate ship, Mrs. Ernest M. Wiles; white elephant, Mrs. C. C. Pearson; candy, More Light Guild; decorations, Miss Catherine Conner. Vinegar “Mother” To prevent “mother” from forming in vinegar, add a little salt and put the cork back in tightly.

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Sorority Bunco Party lota Kappa Sorority will entertain with a bunco party this evening at the home of Mrs. W. M. Willis, 1701 Montcalm St. Appointments, decorations and prizes will be carried out in Thanksgiving design. Miss Mary Lou Metsker and Mrs. Randle C. Willis are In charge. Guests and members who will attend are: Misses Ruth Muentzer Delores Friedman Winona Merrifleld Roberta Cameron Tda May Wolf anna Wolf Thelma McMurtry Bobby Merrifleld Carolyn Snow 3enevieve Smith Betty Jean Sweeney The pledges are: Misses , Nola Oates Mildred Thornton Dorothy Masters Marian Koontz Eva Walker Josephine West Plorine Musselman Carmen Smith Beth Burns

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December Bride-Elect Entertained

Miss Dorothy Lou Thomas, 4939 Park Ave., entertained Thursday evening with a bridge party and linen shower in honor of Miss Eugenia Brooks whose marriage to George Herbert Smith of Marion will take place in December. At serving time tapers in the bridal colors, pink, orchid, blue and green lighted the tables. Ices and nut cups were in rose shape in the four colors. The gifts were presented in a treasure chest. Mrs. H. B. Thomas assisted her daughter. Guests were: Misses Helena Sleloff Mary P. Ogle Madeline Byrket Ruth Omelvena Hilda Smith Pauline Pierce Mary:White Mary A. Huggins Margtfret Thompson Betty Springer Julia Patton Dorothy Carroll Dorothy Pier Nillle Mae Krleder, Janet Barnard Plainfield. Dorothy Spooner Mesdames P. Noble Ropkey Walter O. Hlser Ralph Bchetter , : 1. A. C. Dance One hundred and fifty couples attended the formal dance Thursday evening which was the closing event of the first annual ladies’ day of the Indianapolis Athletic Club. Approximately 800 women members and out-of-town guests enjoyed full privileges from noon until midnight. The Holy Name Society of St. Catherine’s Church, will give a card party Sunday at 8 p. m., at St. Catherine’s Hall, Shelby and Tabor Sts. Charles Oliger is chairman.

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