Indianapolis Times, Volume 39, Number 164, Indianapolis, Marion County, 17 November 1927 — Page 6

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Husband Managing Art Works Best When Wife Keeps Technique Hidden BY MARTHA LEE SHE art of managing a husband calls for as much skill and practice as any other art. And the'most successful wife is the one who can conceal her technique. The highest type of marriage, of course, is not one in which the wife is forced to resort to tactics in managing her husband. But in the vast majority of cases, strategy is absolutely necessary if harmony is to prevail.

First of all, never openly oppose a husband in anything that he wants to do. Opposition makes him stubborn. Give him perfect freedom to do whatever he may wish, and find other means to win him from the course to which you object. Always let a husband think that he is the head of the household. Never assume a dictatorial attitude. Let all of your commands be requests, accompanied by some affectionate or flattering remark. If you wish him to stay at home in the evening, make home the most attractive spot on earth for him, and he will not wish to go out. And if you want to supplant another woman in his affections, be more attractive and"''charming than she is. No man likes ah autocratic wife, and he values her according to the strength of her devotion to himself. Do Not Complain Martha Lee: A wife would like to /rfiow how to deal with a husband who seems to have gone wild and Is running around with a bunch of men. He stays out all hours of the night and will not tell who he is with. He Is 40 years old. Do you think men go through that stage and then settle down, or am I doomed for the rest of my days? _... . „ , . , I have complained quite a bit at his ;going, and the more I say, the more he goes. Do you think a man loves his wife pnd family when he does that? A few weeks ago Anxious, wrote wanting to know how to mentally keep up with her husband, as she had spent seventeen years at home keeping house and raising her children. I would like to hear from her and know what she is doing. Is she taking a course? I need to brush up myself. Can she help me? HOPEFUL. Martha Lee hopes that Anxious will answer Hopeful, and the letterwill be printed in The Times. The Columnites should learn to help each other. Hopeful, you must stop complaining about anything that your husband may choose to do. As you say, “the more I say, the more he •goes.” This is just the point. Be sweet to him and pleasant, and urge him to go out and enjoy himself. As soon as dinner is over, get his hat and coat and brush it off, and tell him that you hope he has a good time. I would not advise you to “turn the tables on him,” if you mean do as he is doing, but I would advise you to get as many interests apart from him as you can find. Go out in the evenings yourself. Do not call his attention to the fact, but rather be quiet and a little aloof. I would not be affectionate. Neither would I act disapproving. Occasionally you might say something kind about some good quality of his, but say it impersonally, as if he were some stranger.

Try this out for a while, and then write in again and tell me if you have got any results.

Open Letter to Jealous Wives Dear Miss Lee: I have Just read a letter on jealousy. I have been married three years, and all those years I have been a Jealous wife. All but the last six, months. I see where my mistake was. I had no i room whatever to be Jealous of my husband, but I would accuse him of being with a woman. He would Just laugh found' out now that he doesn’t even talk with other women, and if he did, it wouldn’t hurt anything now. Six months ago if I had caught him talking to another woman. I would have gone straight up. But Jealousy is only a little PeSt - 1 JEALOUS 6 WIFE. TROUSSEAU SHOWER FOR VIVIAN SANDERS A trousseau shower in honor of Miss Vivian Sanders, whose marriage to Benjamin Hill, Lawrence, will take place Saturday, was given Wednesday evening by Miss Kathleen Harris and Mrs. Richard Wray, at the home of Miss Harris, 2305 S. Meridian St. Appointments were in yellow and white. The guests were; Misses Nellie Hoffman Clara Shoemaker Irene Robinson Dorothy Richter Opal Gault Elizabeth Armitage Cell3 Riley Florence Fissie Pearl McAllister Mesdames Claude Hurley William Howard F. J. Harris Minnie Carnes James Grimes, Lawrence De Pauio Dance William P. Evans today urged those who expect to attend the De Pauw University alumni dinner dance at the Marott Friday evening to make reservations at once. Tickets may be obtained from Mr. Evans or other members of the committee. Tickets, however, will be available at the hotel for those unable to make advance reservations. / Honors Bride-Elect Mrs. Charles Lentz, 3425 Speedway Rd., entertained "Wednesday evening for Miss Pauline Layton whose marriage to Guy Loftin will take place Sunday. The affair was in the form of a kitchen shower. The hostess was assisted by the birde’s-elect mother, Mrs. Roscoe E. Layton. ' Program, at Columbus Mrs. Walker Baylor, mezzo-so-prano, and Mrs. Cora Young Wiles, composer, gave a program of Mrs. Wiles’ compositions, Thursday, at the book fair in Columbus, sponsored by the Art League of Columbus. 'they were guests of Mrs. Harry H. Sohn, formerly Miss Virginia Wiles, and were luncheon guests of Mrs. Philip R. Long.

CORRECTION Inadvertently the report of the talk given by J. W. Estsrline Wednesday before the Woman’s Department Club stated that he said the city manager league has “now turned Its job over to the, mayor,” when the report should have read “The city manager league has NOT turned its job over to the mayor.”

Thousand Attend Scaif.e-Mellon Wedding Dinner Bu United Press PITTSBURGH, Pa., Nov. 17.—Mr. and Mrs. Alan Magee Scaife, the bride, the former Sarah Cordelia Mellon, made plans today for a wedding trip to Europe. Later they will return to their home in Pittsburgh. In a setting almost as magnificent as a regal wedding, Mr. and Mrs. Scaife were married late Wednesday in |he East Liberty Presbyterian Church. After the ceremony, more than a thousand guests were entertained at a reception and dinner at the home of the bride’s parents, Mr. and Mrs. R. B. Mellon. He is president of the Mellon National Bank of Pittsburgh. A ballroom for the entertainment of the guests was erected on ths Mellon estate at a cost of SIOO,OOO. Among the out of town guests were Secretary of the Treasury Andrew W. Mellon, Prince and Princess Lobkowits, New York, and David K. Estes Bruce, son-in-law of Secretary of the Treasury Mellon. Mrs. Bruce was unable to attend the wedding because of illness. White Satin Gown

The bridal gown was of white satin, embroidered heavily in seed pearls, with a deep V neckline and long tight sleeves edged in pearls. The court train of satin held an inserted panel of pearls embroidered on net. The tulle veil was secured with a cap of lace, sprayed with orange blossoms. She carried a bouquet of white orchids and valley lili?s, framed by a fringe of white lace. Miss Eleanor Chalfant, Pittsburgh, was maid of honor. Bridesmaids included Mrs. C. A. Griscom 111, Mrs. Charles Denby Jr., Margaret C. Perkins and Mrs. Carnes Weeks, both of New York; Mrs. Austin Dunham, Hartford, Conn., and Anna Knevals Childs, Pittsburgh. James Verner Scaife Jr. was his brother’s best man. Three Terraces The huge marque built for the reception represented three palatial terraces. The first was patterned j after the French renaissance with Moro tapestried walls, blended in yellow and gold. The second terrace was of Spanish architecture. In the ballroom, the third of the terraces, broad Oriental tapestries, hung from the balconies. In the Italian garden of the Mellon estate, the life sized statuary was artificially lighted. The setting presented a spectacle like a scene from the Arabian nights.

BEAUTY HOW and WHY * KEEP HARD WATER OFF YOUR FACE

BY ANN ALYSIS To realize the devastating effects of hard water on the texture of the skin, and the ruin it brings to its delicate coloring, we must learn something of the elements that produce this hardness. Water, as it trickles through the earth, takes unto itself such mineral as it may find there. If the amount of this mineral be small, the water is said to be soft. But, should the water percolate through a locality rich in lime or magnesia, and become deeply impregnated with these minerals, it becomes “hard.” How to Tell Now, if you are in any doubt as to how to classify the water in your vicinity, you will have only to observe its reaction to common soap. If the soap dissolves readily and with very little milkiness, the water is soft, and may be safely used for any toilet purposes. However, should the soap cause the water to curdle, or cause an unsightly scum to form upon it, the water is hard and decidedly unfit Sor toilet purposes, tl should never be used on the face. The lime and magnesia it contains will, in time, destroy the skin’s delicate texture, as well as its natural coloring, and it will become wrinkled and leathery.

Try Boiling It Sometimes it is possible to precipitate these unwanted salts by boiling the water. Pour off the upper part of the boiled water, and try the sgap test just given. If the soap dissolves freely, without forming a scum, your problem is solved. If not—well, my next article will give you further help. NEXT; Sedative beauty baths. W . R. C. Meet Anderson W. R. C. will meet with Mrs. S. S. Fisher, 1121 N. Tacoma Ave., Friday afternoon.

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Mr. Van de View whose circle of acquaintance is astounding Has accumulated letters till it’s perfectly confounding. And although they’re from the ladies and he lovds them very /dearly, He must rid himself of every one of them —or very nearly.

Roseman-Carr Marriage at Flower Church Miss Lorene Genevieve Carr, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Carr, 610 N. Riley St., and Joseph Lester Roseman, son of Mr. and Mrs. Daniel Miller, 1337 E. Market St.. were married at 8 a. m. Wednesday at the Little Flower church, with Rev. Father Duffy, pastor, officiating at nuptial high mass. Miss Mary Feeney sang “I Lews You Truly,” “Ave Maria,” and “O Promise Me.” Miss Wilma Voliva, maid of honor, wore orchid taffeta with hat to match and carried an arm bouquet of roses. The bride wore peach taffeta trimmed in velvet, lace and silver, with hat to match, and carried an arm bouquet of white pom-pom chrysantemums and sweet peas. Leland Roseman, brother of the bridegroom, was best man and the ushers were Thomas Carr Jr. and Norris Aubry of Vincennes. A wedding breakfast at the home of the bride’s parents followed the ceremony. The color scheme of orchid and peach predominated in appointments. A large wedding cake on a peach mound formed the centerpiece of the table. Mr. and Mrs. Roseman will be at home after Nov. 26, at the Millikan Apts., 408 E. Michigan St. Among the out-of-town guests were Mrs. Fannie De Lisle, grandmother of the bridegroom; Mrs. Grace Aubry and Norris Aubry, all of Vincennes. Annual Turkey Dinner Women of the Jessy Wallin Heywood Alliance of All Souls Unitarian j Church will give their annual turkey dinner at the church at 6:30 p. m. Friday. The ways and means committee, which has charge of the dinner, is Mrs. Otto S. Mueller, chairman; Mrs. Damon Frederick, Mrs. Murray Auerbach, Miss Minnie Allemong, Mrs. Burton Field Mrs. William Harvey. Mrs. Francis Joy, Mrs. Eric Leth, Mrs. John O’Conner. Mrs. Oscar Pond, Mrs. William Russell and Mrs. Thomas Snyder. Reservations must be in by Thursday evening with Mrs. Emma Abbott Allen, Li. 7094. Elect Officers At the meeting of the Irvington auxiliary of the Public Health Nursing Association held Wednesday with Mrs. Robert H. Insley, 5448 University Ave., the following cers were elected; Mrs. Insley, president; Mrs. F. Marshall, vice president; Mrs. Albert N. Alexander, secretary, and Mrs. Frank Bowlby, treasurer. Mrs. Charles Mcßride is the outgoing president. There will be no meeting in December. Mrs. George Buck will be hostess in January. Meetings are held the third Wednesday of each month. Card Partij The Fren-Da-La Bridge Chib will give a card party in tlje women’s; card room of the Marott hotel at j 8 this evening. Miss Mary Sullivan i is chairman, assisted by Mrs. E. J. Young.

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So he takes a pack and shuts his eyes and steels himself completely. And then throws them in a basket with a gesture very neatly. Anew basket which he likes for its distinctive decoration, A bright print depicting ladies of colonial inspiration. ■*

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Mrs. luppenlatz is manager of the booths at the gypsy fair to be given Friday afternoon and evening at the Teachers College of Indianapolis, 'Twenty-Third and Alabama Sts. Features of the fair will be solo dances by Miss Geneva Mills and Miss Wilma Matney, and fortune telling from handwriting by Mrs. Fannie K. Baker. Home 'economics students under direction of Miss Alta L. Smith have made candy, orange marmalade and fruit cakes, for the fair. The sewing classes have contributed yarn flowers, luncheon sets, quilted pillows, oilcloth bunnies, elephants and cats, as well as charmingly dressed rag dolls. In the pantomime which will open the fair at 2 p. m„ the tallowing will take part: Miss Mercedes Harsin, gypsy queen; Miss Lois Wiggins, Miss Louise Lewis, Mrs. Catherine (yHaver, Miss Minnie Walls, gypsy men; Miss Lenore Ellsbury, gypsy page; Miss Maxine Kelso, Miss Anna May Boring, Miss Mildred McLauhlin, Miss Helen Beatty, Miss Martha Miser and Miss Alice Keister, fairies. The fair will close with a party Friday night. Mrs. Horace Marshall Moorman is chairman qf the committee iff charge. She will be assisted by Mrs. Helen Robb Smith, Mrs. Ruth O. Benedict and Miss Twanette Nutter. The fair has been an annual custom at the college since 1899. New Club Members Miss Caroline Miller, Indianapolis, was elected an associate member and Mrs. Eva K. Graves, Kokomo, and Miss Anna Louise Ross, Indianapolis, became active members tff the Writers’ Club of Indiana at tfie meeting at the Columbia Club, Wednesday evening.

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There’s another group contaiing notes in blue and pink and buff v And for sentimental reasons he would like to keep the stuff, But he gets another basket with a cactus on the side And so parts with them in agony that can not be denied.

I. A. C. First Grand Ladies Day Observed The Indianapolis Athletic Club today was celebrating its first Grand Ladies’ day, beginning at noon and continuing with a variety of features until midnight. The club was thrown open at tnoon to families and out-of-town guests of members with a luncheon for women in the main dining room, men’s grill and women’s case. A formal dinner will be served from 6 to 9 p. m., followed by dancing. Exhibitions to be given tonight

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will include events in the swimming pool, handball courts, squash courts, bowling alleys, billiard room and gymnasium. Inspection will be made of the Turkish bath, barber shop, private** dining rooms, golf school and WFBM radio broadcasting station. Chess, dominoes, mah jong and bridge will be provided in the game rooms. George Irish has arranged a dinner concert. The club will give a dinner at 6:30 p. m. Friday for the cast and chorus of “The Vagabond King.” Musical features and dancing will be among the features of the affair. Sparkling Suspenders A flame colored chiffon gown has a jeweled girdle that has jeweled straps, like suspenders, extended up over the shoulders.

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It still takes another one the confiscation to contain And it’s very hard for Vandie his emotions to restrain, This third basket is of lacquer—of the gayest red and gold— But he thinks it’s very gloomy if the truth were only told.

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1. What are the duties of bridesmaids? 2. What is the especial favor of the maid or matron of honor? 3. Who holds the bride’s bouquet during the ceremony? The Answers 1. They precede the bride up the aisle and afterwards help act as hostesses at the wedding breakfast or reception. 2. She helps the bride dress, and after the ceremony, helps her change to going-away costume. 3. The maid of honor.

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Tea, Shower Tendered to Bride-Elect Fifty friends of Miss Mary Wall, a bride-elect, and her mother, Mrs. John Wall, were entertained with an afternoon tea and miscellaneous shower by Mrs. Arthur R. Dewey, 3204 N. Illinois St., this afternoon, Miss Wall will be married Monday to David C. Bixler, Chicago. Appointments were in pink and white and on the tea table was a low bowl of pink roses. The table was lighted with tall pink tapers in low crystal holders tied with pink tulle. The confections and ices were in the same color scheme. The gifts for Miss Wall were delivered in a parcel post package with a message from the guests. Mrs. Dewey was assisted by Mrs. Wall and Mrs. Andrew Shirley.

War Mothers Name Bedford Woman Head Mrs. Henry Pearson, Bedford, was elected president of the Indiana chapter of American War Mothers at the close of the tenth annual convention of the body on Wednesday at the Spink-Arms. Mrs. S. C. Gibson, Logansport, was elected first vice president; Mrs. C. B. O’Connell, Vincennes, second vice president; Mrs. Robert McGrath, Lafayette, third vice president; Mrs. Ida Johnson, Muncie, fourth vice president; Mrs. W. S. Mossi, Frankford, recording secretary; Mrs. M. L. Moon, Indianapolis, treasurer; Mrs. John W. Harvey, Indianapolis, historian; Mrs. W. N. Gartin, Greensburg, keeper of records; Mrs. L. E. Cloud, Newcastle, auditor, and Mrs. Addia Winslow, Fairmount, chaplain.