Indianapolis Times, Volume 39, Number 152, Indianapolis, Marion County, 3 November 1927 — Page 10

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Mothers Who ‘Take Out * Emotional Outbursts on Child May Cause Harm BY MARTHA LEE OME people have no other emotional outlet aside from losing their temper and throwing things at the object of their wrath. When a mother decends to throwing things at the little daughter whom she loves, it is pretty safe to conclude that she is angry about something else, and is denied expression for her rage. , One method of relieving her feelings is to transfer her pent

up anger to the nearest object. If this happenss to be the child, the mother is apt to pick on some trivial incident and rave until she gets the emotional storm out of her system. All this is very hard on the child who understands nothing of the ■problems which beset her mother and is powerless to provide the channels of self-expression so necessary for her emotional health The child is the victim, and is often defiinitely harmed by these exhibitions of unrestraint. Let mothers choose someone their own age to fight with, and not let their impressionable young daugh- : ters witness these ugly scenes which

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may cause them to carry some psychic scar for the rest of their lives. lie * <* Loses Her Temper • Dear Miss Lee: I am a girl of sixteen, my mother is very good to me at times, and at other times she is awful. When, she gets mad at me she throws things at me. Once she saw me talking to a boy I like, and it was something awful the wav sne talked to me. This boy thinks that I like some other boy. and has turned against me, but I think I can win him back again if you will tell me how. Mother can’t get along with him, and she is always watching me and has to know everything. What shall X do. SWEET SI&TEEN. Study ways of winning your ; mother. Try not to arouse her temper. Find out what pleases her and do it. Why does she dislike t this boy? Maybe she has a good reason. Try to understand your mother, and try to make her understand you, but you cannot do this without a series of heart to heart talks with her. When you see that she is angry, keep out of her way if possible. * * * A Perverse Girl Dear Miss Lee: I met a fellow last February whom I liked at first sight. I wont with him about a month and a half and quit him because he got stale. Now he goes with another girl. He says he does not like her and goes with her to pass the time away. I know he likes me best though he won't let on. Now 1 like him mere than ever tnd would like to go with .lln: again. Please tell me how to win him back. II I would not try to win the boy back again, sweet sixteen. If he is worth while, he will seek you out of his own accord. But if he is the type who is subject to unreasoning attacks of jealously, then let him strictly alone. When you are older, you will find someone more worthy of you. /It is human to want what you .cannot have. If you got this fellow back, you would probably tire of him again. However, if you want to get him back again just for practice, show him yiat you are interested in him. Note what his good points are and tactfully mention them to him. When y6u are with him, make it a point to say pleasing things, mostly about himself. Do not appear to be •anxious about his friendship with the other girl. Compliment her if you can sincerely. Then just wait and see what happens. You cannot ' do anything else. Initiate at Normal Girls entering the dormitory at ‘the Indiana State Normal at Terre Haute to live for the first time this .year were guests of the last year girls at a backwards party which the guests learned during the evening was an initiation ceremony. The initiates included: Opal Beckwith. Allendale: Dorothy Barington, Jasonville> Ethel Behf. Knightsvifle; Helen Breshear. Elkhart: Betty Britt, .Noblesville: Hazel Buser, Clinton; Mary Burr, Linton; Loraine Campbell, Brazil; Mildred Campbell, Brazil; Marjorie Carette, Hammond; Ra Nella Clifford, Sullivan; Helen Davis. Harmony; Jessie Donaldson. Crawfordsville; Helen Eastburn, Rockville; Ruth Eckert. Lewis; Margaret Farrington, Elnora; Pearl Glenn. Clinton; NoTmal Grobarn. Brazil; Eunice Hadley. Lewis; Ruth Neinekamp, Coalmont; Alada Hoor, Clay City: Helen Hopewell, Jasonvill; Anna Humphreys. Bicknell; Mildred Hutchinson. Crown Point; Marie Jablonski, Lewis; Katherine Kaufman, Marion; Mary Kebrer, Ft. Wayne; Louise Kraemer, French Lick; Edna Lane. Sullivan; Ruth liUdwig, Carlisle: Pauline Lutz. Hammond: Alyce Mackie, Franklin; Norma Marketta, Aurora. 111.; Francis Martin. Marshall, 111.: Irene McGuire. Linton; Helen Mesgar. Muncie; Helen Miller, Farmersburg ;Lucv Miller. Shelburn: Virginia Mowrv, Princeton; Marian Patterson, Wabash: Irma Pelton, Crawfordsville: Margaret Bineger, Rockport; Orena Schfeber. Bedford; Catherine Slocomb. French Lick: Helen Stephenson, Bloomingdale; Bernice Teany, Shoals; Florence Thompson, Kokomo; Carolyn Townsend. Fairbanks, and Mervle Thompson, Plainfield. Committee Chairmen The following committee chairmen for St. Margaret’s Hospital Guild for the year have been announced by Mrs. Frederick Van : Nuys, president: Mrs. Wesley E. Shea, entertaiment; Mrs. Reinie .Miller, hospital; Mrs. Preston C. Rubush. occupational theraphy; Mrs. Frank Davis, sewing: Mrs. George Grinsteiner, purchasing; Mrs. Frank J. Haight, motor corps, and Mrs. Myron C. Cosier, publicity. Celebrates Birthday Living in Indianapolis sixty years, . Mrs. Caroline Baldus celebrated her eighty-ninth birthday Wednesday at the home of her daughter, Mrs. Kate Heaiy, 2916 Olney St. More than thirty guests were entertained. The Firestone Corner Boys gave a program of songs. Plan State Convention The Columbus chapter of Phi Beta Psi social sorority is arranging for .‘.the annual state convention of the organization to be held there Nov. 25 and 26. Among events on the convention program will be a for- ! mal ball and luncheon.

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BY SISTER MARY BREAKFAST Baked apples, cereal, cream, tomato omelet, crisp oatmeal bread toast, milk, coffee. LUNCHEON—Toasted cheese and green pepper sandwiches, fresh pear salad, milk, tea. DINNER—VeaI pot roast with carrots and potatoes, fried summer squash, stuffed beet salad, frozen caramel junket, milk, coffee. When ice cream is not frozen in a mold suitable for slicing and serving try scooping the frozen cream out in balls and arranging them on a thoroughly chilled chop plate. The service can be garnished with slices of fresh fruit, chopped nuts or shredded candied fruits. Frozen Caramel Junket One cup granuatel sugar, one-half cup boiling water, three cups milk, one cup whipping cream, two teaspoons vanilla, one junket tablet, few grains salt. Melt sugar in an iron frying pan, stirring constantly until the color of maple syrup. Add boiling water and cook until thick and syrupy. Let cool and add to milk which has been heated until lukewarm. Stir in junket tablet crushed and dissolved in two tablespoons cold water. Add vanilla and salt and let stand in a warm place until set. (The temperature of the average kitchen is “warm.”) Turn into freezer mold, pack in ice and salt and let stand fifteen minutes. Scrape down sides of mold with wooden spatula and beat, in cream whipped until stiff. Let stand two or three hours, scrap-* ing down sides of mold several times to insure even freezing. This recipe is for a crankless freezer. EMMA LOUISE KRUGE TO WED V. R. M’QUILKIN Mr. and Mrs. William Kruge, 3225 E. Sixteenth St., announce the engagement of their daughter, Emma Louise, to Vernon Ralph McQuilkin, Cleveland, Ohio. The wedding will take place Nov. 23. Teachers * Club Mrs. Fred Millis will entertain the primary Teaihers’ Club of the Tabernacle Presbyterian Church at 2 Friday afternoon, at her home, 4715 Washington Blvd. Special Meeting A special meeting of the Fi-Gar Club will be held this evening at the home of Miss Margaret Fierek, 1011 N. Rural St. Swank o’ the Blues

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Altrusa Club The Indianapolis Altrusa Club, at luncheon Friday at the Columbia Club, will hear Ray D. Everson, local newspaper man, speak on “Outwitting the Other Fellow.” Announce Marriage The marriage is announced of Miss Mary Ellen Sutilef, Bluffton, and Clayton Barrick, Uniondale, which took place May 14, at Newport, Ky. The bride is the daughter of Mrs. W. A. Thornton. Decatur. Jewish Women Conference The Indiana-Kentucky conference of the National Council of Jewish Women which has been in session at Lafayette, closed with a luncheon at noon today. Mrs. Henry Wolff is chairman of the interstate council. Bethany Class Mrs. Fred Kurtz will entertain members of the Bethany Class of the Tabernacle Presbyterian Church school at 8 Friday evening, at her home, 609 Highland Dr. Mrs. Kurtz will be assisted by Mrs. J. H. Alles and Mrs. H. S. Leonard. Pink Touch A black satin day-time with r moulded silhouette has a jabot of pink lace and pink cuffs showing inside the black ones.

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—By Courtesy of H. P. Wesson & Cos. and De/.heimer Photographer. The large jap fox collar with its beautiful markings is one reason for choosing this imported, twotoned, novelty sport coat. It is worn over a one-piece high necked dress of novelty tan tweed with ; dark stripe, distinctively trimmed with brass buttons and a wide leather belt. Sorority Party The Sigma Sigma Kappa Sorority entertained Wednesday evening with a party at the home of Miss Elaine Henricksen, 2521 Central Ave. The hostess was assisted by Miss Eva Eckert and Miss Vivian Crampton, formerly of Beta Chapter at South Bend. At the last business meeting the following officers were elected: Alice Massey, president; Virginia Swaim, vice president; Mildred Hausner, secretary; Margaret Heidt, corresponding secretary; Ruth Mac Bostic, treasurer; Elaine Henricksen, pledge captain; Geraldine Stokes, sergeant-at-arms, and Helen Bettcher, publicity chairman. Bridge Party Mr. and Mrs. Eugene Williams, 2311 Boulevard PI., entertained Wednesday evening with a bridge party honoring Mr. and Mrs. R. V. McMurphy, who will leave Monday for residence in California. Celebrate Golden Wedding Mr. and Mrs. William Penrod, Patricksburg. celebrated their golden wedding anniversary at their home by entertaining a number of friends and relatives. Mothers’ Club Elects Mrs. Ralph Thompson was elected presideent' of the Kappa Phi Mothers’ Club at the luncheon meeting at the chapter house, 41 N. Ritter Ave., Wednesday. Mrs. Le Roy Carpenter was hostess. League Rally Four hundred and fifty persons attended the Epworth League rally of the Indianapolis district Wednesday night at the Merritt Place M. E. Church. The Rev. Walter Merrill Briggs, pastor of the Galena Boulevard M. E. Church of Aurora, 111., spoke. Small Umbrellas New umbrellas are decidedly individual—both in unusual colors and in their tiny size which prevents more than one person getting under them.

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The first to get his sanction is a pastel cloth of rose, For the dainty shades of linen now are very smart, he knows. Its border is the Grecian key—though modernized in line— And he thinks a crystal set would make a table very fine.

State Voters League Board Hears Reports Mrs. Edna M. Christian, chairman of the committee on women in industry of the Indiana League of Women Voters, and Miss Florence Kirlin, executive secretary of the State league, gave reports at the meeting of the board of directors in the league headquarters Wednesday. Mrs. Warren K. Mannon. member f the Indianapolis league, was appointed to the State board, to .take the place of Mrs. Russell Fortune, who will leave soon for Europe. Members of the board attending the meeting were: Mesdames Walter S. Greenough. W. T. Barnes, Frank D. Hatfield. Edna Christian, J. E. Neff, South Bend; J. C. Bos*. Elkhart; Elizabeth Claypool Earl, Muncie; Homer McCray. Kendallville; Misses Sara Lauter and Adah Bush.

Personals

Mr. and Mrs. Rex P. Young, 417 N. Wallace St., have returned to Indianapolis after an extensive tour of Europe and North Africa. Mr. and Mrs. John J. Minta, 3025 Bellefontaine St., have motored to Milwaukee. Wis., where they will visit for several days. Indianapolis arrivals at the French Lick Springs hotel are Robert B. Rhoads, David Lurvey, Mr. and Mrs. W. H. Trimble, Mr. and Mrs. I. F. Kahn, Mr. and Mrs. S. C. Kahn and Joseph B. Kealing. Miss Margaret Pantzer. 717 Middle Dr., Woodruff Place, will leave Monday for a month’s visit in New York. Spangled Jacket A chiffon evening gown of citron shade has a matching colors; short spangled sleeveless packet of transparent velvet.

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Miss Ann Ursula Mathews While spending the summer in Los Angeles, Calif., Miss Mathews, I harpist of this city, studied with Enrico Tramonti. She has returned to this city and is at home at 3865 Ruckle St. MISSES SEXTON GIVE SHOWER FOR BRIDE A color scheme of pink, yellow, blue and g een was carried out in appointments for the party given Wednesday evening by Miss Alice and Miss Eleanor Sexton. 4065 Park Ave., in honor of Miss Barbara Fischer whose marriage to Walter L. Dearing will take place Nov. 16. Favors were Dresden china slipper.';. Gifts were presented in a hat box decorated in the four bridal colors. The guests were Misses Julia. Cora and Katherine Griffin, Miss Frances Lyons, Misses Helen and Mary Hickey and Miss Helen Gorman. 1 Trousseau Shoivrr A trousseau shower was given for Miss Pauline Harrison at. 2305 s. Meridian St. Wednesday night by Miss Kathleen Harrin and Miss Vivian Sanders. The wedding colors are yellow and white and the house was decorated with chrysanthemums in those colors. The guests were: Mesdames Dee Moxlev Curtis Wray William Williams C. M. Wray William Howard C. Eves Alvin Howard S. .7. Harris Hugh Johnson Allen Snyder. Fred Smith Mt. Comfort, Ind. Willard Winer Harry Wray. Alfred Rimer Cumberland. Ind. Misses | Nell Huffman Hester Beckman Lola Lvzott Penell Juday Celia Riley Eva Allen Clare Shumaker Frieda Hopfingrr Florence Slddons Ina J. Chapman Ruby Red An evening gown with swathed hip-line and full, irregular hemmed skirt and its complementary evening wrap are both fashioned of ruby red velvet. Gold Hat Gold lace fashions a sweet little evening hat that features the scalloped edge of the lace for.the flange.

Druggists Dance Three hundred and fifty couples attended the seventh annual dance of the Woman’s Organization, National Association of Retail Druggists given Wednesday evening in the ballroom of the Columbia Club. The room was decorated in yellow chrysanthemums and ferns, carrying out the club colors. Mrs. W. F. Holmes Is president of the organi-

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zation and Mrs. Lloyd Weiss was chairman of the dance. Bridge Party Mrs. R. E. Horton, 219 State 5,., will be hostess for the regular bridge party of the Fren-Da-La Club Friday evening. Final plans will be made for a benefit card party to be given by the club at the Marott hotel Nov. 17.

NOV. 3, 1927

Shower for Bride-Elect of Nov. 17 Miss Ruth Tlllinghast, whose marriage to Arthur K. James will take place Nov. 17 at SI. Fhlijfr *<eri Church, was honored with a miscellaneous shower given Wednesday evening by Mrs. Leonidas Jeffries, 850 N. Beville Ave. Appointments and decorations were in pink and green, with refreshments also in those colors. The shower gifts were presented in a decorated basket. Miss Dorothy Jeffries assisted her mother. The guests were; Mesdames F. D. Mulholland James Tovenau N. a. Morgan William F. Kr.uth W. A. Tlllinghast 8 E. Daughery W. W. Tlllinghast Charles Wheat A. W. Wilson G. G Bartels Thomas McGannon Elmer Holtman Misses Catherine Smith Armilda Cox Anna McNeff Mary Hendershot Mamie Purcell Katnrvn Sullivan Hazel Bakemcier Katherine Weed Margaret Shearer Dorothy Wilson Bernice Mullhollond Directs Roll Call The Kappa Kappa Sigma sororty of Rushville has taken charge of the ived Cross roll call in that city for this year. The roll call will start Armistice Day and close Thanksgiving day. Uneven Tailleur Even street dresses featured the uneven hem. A black broadcloth tailored suit has dipping pointed sides and back, with the coat f\* lowing the line. _

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