Indianapolis Times, Volume 39, Number 150, Indianapolis, Marion County, 1 November 1927 — Page 10

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Adults With Emotional Make- Up of Childhood Dangerous to Happiness t i BY MARTHA LEE SHE infantile attitude toward life is the cause of a great deal of trouble in family and community life.' Many persons of mature years are emotional infants. Arrested physical or mental development is easily detected, but for some reason - arrested emotional development escapes notice. Thus many men get into public life who react emotionally like children under 12 years old. Stripped of all rationaliza-

tions, their actions closely resemble those of spoiled children determined to have their own way, and who “won’t play,” “get even,” or “tell mama when they don’t get it. Likewise there are women who can not bear to be crossed in their desires. I know one woman, prominent in the community, and mother of grown children, who when she can not control her husband’s conduct and mold it according to her own standard of right and wrong, attacks him physically, scratching and clawing like a child. Self-control, wisdom, and restraint are adult qualities, and are not inherited, but acquired through growth and experience. People who stop growing emotionally while they are still children are not only seriously handicapped themselves, but are also a menace to those who to live with them. Would Teach Her a Lesson Dear Miss Lee: I have been engaged to the finest fellow on earth, but couldn’t fill a date I had with him one night, and he got sore and did not come over any more for a week. Then I met him at a girl friend’s house, and he told me hg was going to marry another girl. He couldn’t keep his hands off me for five minutes, but we got in an argument and he wouldn’t take me home. He cried and told me he loved me but was just going to teach me a lesson by marrying this other girl because X just might as well learn now as later. He is a stage star, and X love him more than life itself. He doesn’t love this other flrl and he told me so. Miss Lee, should let them live together or not, for I want him back and I love him dearly. RITZA AND DEODIRA. I could not tell from your letter whether your young man had actually married the other girl, or was just contemplating it. If he has married her, forget him. No man worthy of the name would marry one girl to spite another. If he has any prinefple at all he would not ruin three lives to gratify a desire for revenge. If he is that sort, there is no happiness to be had with him, and you are better off without him. If he has not already married the other girl, it may be that he is just bluffing. Keep your dignity, and if his love is sincere it will win out over this silly, spiteful threat. A Different Letter Dear Miss Lee: You receive so many letters from people who are sure that their troubles are the worst. But my letter is different. There are so many young girls who read your column and ..perhaps contribute to it that I have a message There Is happiness. There are men in this world who are like what we would have them to be. Girls are becoming hardened towards life, skeptical about love. I want them to know that I felt as they do. but in the last year, things have been different. _ , „ Fourteen months ago X met the man, and I love him more every day. I. too, used to laugh when people said “Some day you'll meet the man.” but now it has hapepned. So you girls who think that love belongs to the past ages of lavender and old lace are wrong. It still exists and it is beautiful. _ SOMEBODY’S SWEEHEART. It is refreshing to receive a letter like this, and heartening to realize that one girl at least has been able to overtake what she was searching for. Moreover, there is much of wholesome truth in her letter. Real love is rare, but it exists. And it is both good and beautiful. Sunnyside Masked Party A Halloween party was given at Sunnyside Monday night by the Marion County Tuberculosis Association for patidhts, their visitors, and the staff, most of whom were masked. The festivities begun with a tour of the basement where ghosts loomed out of the darkness at every turn. The grand march was formed in the dining room, and proceeded through wards for the benefit of bed patients. The entertainment consisted of a mock wedding. Participants were Harry' Williams, Galelah Chandler, Dena Redinbaugh, Peggy Forrester, Edna Boyd, Ilene Patlock and Anna Kirker. , A male quartette composed of Art Lamb, Wilbur Cowgill, Pettis Martin and Harry Wilson gave songs and parodies. Prizes were awarded for the most beautiful and the most grotesque costume to Mrs. Peggy Forrester, and Eddie Troy respectively. The contest prizes were won by Claude Croughs, Adolph Goldberg, and Leslie Roades. The prizes and refreshments were given by the Sunnyside Guild. The entertainment committee under the direction of Gertrude Stagg was composed of George Mayer, Frank Kliner, Anna Kirker, Dena Redinbaugh and Irwin Bqhn. Director to Speak The ninth annual banquet of the Muncie Business and Professional Women’s Club Monday evening will have for its speaker Miss Helen M. Benett, Chicago, managing director of the Woman’s World’s Fair. New Uniforms for Nurses Nurses at the Home Hospital in Muncie have adopted anew uniform with sleeves far above the elbow. They believe the new style will be more sanitary than the old with long sleeves and cuffs. Church Card Party Mrs. Mary J. Brown, 1714 W. Morris St., will be hostess for a benefit card party Wednesday at 8:15 p. m., assisted by the women of Assumption Church. Euchre, bunco, bridge and lotto will be played. .

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Miss Schulz Honored With Bridge Shower A color scheme of orange and black, was used in the appointments Monday evening for the Halloween bridge party and miscellaneous shower given by Paul Emerson Green in honor of Miss Edna Schulz, who will be married Saturday to Leslie DeVoe. The guests were: Elizabeth Fletcher Margaret Robinson , Naomi Adams Mary Elizabeth Joyce Helen Gorman Frances Lyons Delma Vestal Fieda DoPpper* Messrs. Harold Rubin Kenneth Cornwall Louis Whitesell Hubert Merrll Edwin Schulz Edward Huenterfauth Leslie De Voe ADDITIONAL PATRONS FOR DRUGGIST jS* BALL Mrs. Lloyd C. Weiss, general chairman, announces the following additional patrons and patronesses for the dance to be given Wednesday night by the women’s organization, National Association Retail of Druggists in the ballrom of the Columbia Club. Messrs, and Mesdames L. O. Hamilton Harry Burgess Edward W. Harris Nathan Sherman ChM-les G. Mueller Otis Paris E. G. Graun Grover Shinn C. A. Mueller Henry Gaul Ernest Passmore W. C. Stedfeld John Knox A. W. Milev Arthur E. Johnson F. W. Meisner, E W. Matz La Porte W. E. Cox Guy McCoy, J. L. Heider Greenfield

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(Abbreviations: A—ace: K—kins:; Q—queen: J—jack; X —any card lower than 1. Holding K Q X, how many times is the suit stopped? 2. Partner not having bid, what do you lead against a suit play, holding A K Q J of another suit? 3. Playing against suit bid, player hold J X and dummy K X. How may trick be made if led through dummy by opponent? \ The Answers 1. At least once; possibly twice. 2. K. 3. Play small from dummy. Ladies’ Lions Club The luncheon of the Ladies’ Lions Club will be held at 12:15 p. m. Wednesday at the Spink Arms. Mrs. C. S. Merrick is chairman of the entertainment committee, assisted by Mrs. J. C. Martin.* A musical program will be given by a trio composed of Misses Virginia Leyenberger, Opal Mae Thomas and Octavia Landers. After the business meeting the women will play bridge. To Speak on Trip Mrs. Franklin Hildebrand, Portland, will speak at the “Publicity and Official Organ” night of the Portland Business and Professional Women’s Club Wednesday on her trip to Europe. She has recently returned from attending the American Legion convention.

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In the morning, full of theories, he bravely sallies out And calls upon a friend who introduces him about. The first one wearsa monogram that’s low upon the side And her name’s a very simple one, it can not be denied.

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Mrs. James Lincks Before her recent marrige Mrs. Lincks was Miss Clara Burnett. She will be honored with a party Wednesday evening given by Mrs. Lottie Forthoffer.

NORTHERN MISSIONARY SOCIETIES TO MEET The forty-fourth annual meeting of the Woman’s Home Missionary Society of the M. E? churches of the North Indiana Conference will meet in Portland, Thursday and Friday. Miss Erma Bevington will be toastmistress for the jubilee banquet on Thursday evening. Among those on the program for the two-day meeting will be: Rev. F. F. Thornburg, Rev. E. E. Tripeer, Rev. E. E. Franklin and Mesdames A. C. Hoover, Dan Tyndall, Fred Ramsey, Stuart Rehrer, Fred Obendofer, V. G. Carter, W. B. Huron, W. E. Weldy, W. W. Rohrer, Ward Painter, Edgar Ringenberg, J. W. Vail, Virginia Caplinger, Thomas Davies, Laurk Albright, C. _W. Gilmore, May L. Reardon, E. E. Youse, C. B. Croxall and Misses Margaret Hand, Mopsie Ford, Margaret Ramsey, Olla Grace and Faye Stults. Baptist Circle Mrs. O. T. Tatum and Mrs. John L. Mertz will entertain the Missionary Circle of the Temple Baptist church at 2 p. m. Wednesday at the home of Mrs. Tatum, 1504 W. Twen-ty-Second St. Lodge Card Party Indiana lodge No. 2, Cosmos Sisters, will give a card party at 2:30 p. m. Wednesday at Castle Hall, 230 E. Ohio St.

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Scrambled Letters on Materials Spell “Cheerio” and “It” So Wearer Can Express Herself Without Saying a Word

H " NEW* YORK, Nov. I.—The latest mode in dresses will make it possible for the enterprising young woman to speak her mind without saying a word. That is the idea of new "message” prints which are on view at an exhibition of designs for silk prints at the Art Center here. Samples of the messages which are printed in the form of scrambled letters on the dress materials are “Cheerio,” “It” and “Je t’aime,” thus enabling the modern American girl to get over her greeting with the

minimum amount of effort. The designs represent work of a group of well-known American artists who seek to translate to silk dress fabric something of the dynamic force of contemporary American life. These artists, calling themselves the “American Group,” are Ralph Barton, Charles B. Falls, Neysa McMein, Clayton Knight, Helen Dryden, F. V. Carpenter, Dwight Ta”lor, John Held Jr., Ruzzie Green and Steichen, the photographer. Steichen, recently introduced the brilliant photographic compositions which, translated to silk, made such arresting and decorative dress designs. In the present exhibit he has done an amazing thing with a sti: ’y of “Buttons and Thread.” Progressing from conservative floral and by now conventional geometric patterns, the designs rfcch the graphic force of “Rhapsody” by John Held Jr., a dedication to classic jazz; “Cinema” by Ralph Barton, a galaxy of Hollywood notables and “Metropolis” by F. V. Carpenter, a representation of Fifth Avenue traffic at its most dynamic. Charles B. Falls’ “Ticker Tape” and “Pegs,” and “April” by Clayton Knight, a sky-scraper view of umbrellas, are noteworthy examples of this new school of applied design.

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1. If invited, informally, to a dinner and you are uncertain whether to “dress” or not, what can you do? 2. What, ordinarily, should a woman wear to a dinner? 3. When in doubt, is it better to wear a decollette evening dress or a long sleeved frock? The Answers 1. Call your hostess and ask her frankly. 2. An evening gown, if one does not possess a dinner gown. 3. The latter. Veterans Post Party La Velle Gossett Post, Veterans of Foreign Wars, will give a benefit card party Wednesday evening at the hall, W. Tenth St. and King Ave. Reception for Pastor The Brightwijod M. E. church will give a reception for the pastor. Rev. V. B. Hargitt, Thursday evening at 8 p. m. at the church.

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Pleads for Awakened Citizenship “The best way for us to celebrate Armistice day is to awaken in our citizens a civic consciousness to the extent that they will take part In the making of changes in our forma of government and in the selection of officials,” Dan Sowers, director of the Americanization commission of the American Legion, told members of the Indianapolis Council of Women at the monthly meeting at the Lincoln this afternoon. “Citizens should take part in tho councils of he political parties to which they belong. Hardly half of we people who are supposed to be governing ourselves, go to the polls and vote,” he continued. “If we continue to neglect our government by indifference the result will be the same as if we neglected our business, ,our farms or our homes.” Mrs. W. H. Lewis, president of the council, presided. Mrs. Melville Moon was program chairman. GIRLS WILL DEBATE AT STATE NORMAL Indiana State ’ Normal, Terra Haute, will have a girls’ debating team, Prof. J. B. Wisely has announced. The debaters will take part in a preliminary tryout the last of December to determine speaking positions on teams. The problem for discussion Is, “Resolved, That the direct primary system for the nomination of State and Federal officers should be repealed.” Those who have signed up sos work are Florence A. Powell, Terre/ Haute, a former public speaking/ student of Northwestern Universityr Audrey Pittman, Brazil; Adelaide Mills Kipp, Linton; Dorothy Flem J ing, Sullivan; Esther Blouch, Terj Haute; Lois I. Wall, and Catherine Kelley, Jasonvlllef Social Director Leaves I Miss Dora M. Jones, social director of Mansfield Hall, De Pauw University, has been granted a leave of absence for the remainder of tfie college year, which she will spend traveling in Turkey and Asia Minor. Miss Jones will sail from New York on the Sinai Nov. 12 for Constantinople. She will visit friends there. She Is especially interested in these eastern countries because of their recent change of policies. Miss Elizabeth Morrison, head of the home economics department, will combine tha duties of social director of Mansfield Hall with her other work.

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