Indianapolis Times, Volume 39, Number 130, Indianapolis, Marion County, 8 October 1927 — Page 8

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Proper Mated Existence Without Equal in Effect on Reasons and Society BY MARTHA LEE HERE is nothing more farreaching in its effects on the individual and on society than mating. The dual existence seems t obe the one in which ma nthrives best, and without it he is apt to suffer from a feeling of unfulfilment. A properly mated person is a constructive force in the community, but a mismated one is the prey of painful conflicts Avhich throw him at war with himself and his environment.

If young people realized the acute misery that results from marriage with the wrong person, they would spend more time and thought on the selection of their mates. A similarity of interests, and the same general outlook on life is absolutely essential for successful living together. If you cannot get on together before marriage, it is fairly assured '•'■'u will not get on afterward. Tolstoy says not to get married until you can no longer help yourselves, this is a safe rule to follow. Shall She Marry Him? Dear Miss Lee: I would like to get your opinion in this matter. I have been engaged to a fellow for almost a year. I . ... 31. X am almost certain nat ns loves me .but he acts so queer sometimes. I’m not sure. Several times he promised to come over to my house early, and Instead goes places, or stays downtown with his boy friends, and comes over to see me later. Even if he knows that I have waited all afternoon on him. he never apologizes. He also has a terrible temper. Several times he has been He tells me that he wouldn't come to so angry that he has talked awful to me. see me If he didn't love me. If I mention a fellow’s name, or an old friend comes around to see me. and he finds it out, he gets peeved. His mother tells me he gets worried thinking he might lose me. Mother tells me he doesn’t care for me. But I don’t want to think that, for I love him, and he can be as nice as can be when he wants to. What do you think? SIS. Sis, your mother is right. This young man loves himself, and he loves you only as you contribute to his comfort. He is probably selfish and spoiled and wholly unworthy of a nice little girl like you. No matter how much you may think that you love this boy, cast him out of your life at once, for you are his superior, and nothing but misery would come of your union. Hpwever, if you are in love with this boy, I may as well save my breath, for you will marry him anyhow. If this disaster occurs, then I can only urge you to stop spoiling him as you do now. Stop apologizing to him for things which you do not do. He should apologize to you. Be independent and insist on being treated with the respect that you deserve. If he really loves you, he will straighten up and behave himself. But I am afraid that he is so selfish that there is no hope for him. Loves a Good Time Dear Martha Lee: I am 17 yeais of age and engaged to the best fellow on earth, Pho Is 30 years old. I have known him i bout two years and ahalf. and have been ( ngaged three months. Do you think we ; iould break our engagement? I love to i out on a good time, dances, shows, etc., hlle he cares nothing for these. Also I Sm to want to go with other fellows, ile X don’t want him to even look at >ther girl. am living with my mother, and we ?e quite a bit of trouble at my home. Taking this all into consideration, do you it best for us to split up till I am 18 anyway, or perhaps see him less? SHELLEY. Skelley, I do not think that y°u arc old enough to marry. You have not had enough parties and good times to settle down yet. Yes, I wqtgd break off the engagement If I were you. You can still be friends with this young man, and if after several years, you still care for each °tlpr, it will be time enough to get 5%m sorry that the conditions in yoni; home are not what they should be*||Of course, the temptation is to essg£>e them by marriage. But you wqifld not better yourself at all. Year can’t escape one problem by taking one another. It is easier to brjeak off unpleasant home ties than to i break up a marriage. Walt a wljlle. Uncertain. Love is a very purifying influence. If you two young people really love each other, you will keep yourselves clean, and wait. Wondering. It is not necessary to return inexpensive gifts when an engagement is broken off. Brown Eyes. Do not listen to hearsay or gossip about the character of someone you like. Talk it over with him, and time will tell. Their Friend. The young couple should not let the stepmother Interfere In their lives. Skating Party The Gar-So-Nel Club will give a skating party Monday evening at the Riverside rink. Ray Hasenstab is chairman of the committee in charge. Bunco Party The young ladies of Prospect O. E. S. will give a bunco party at 8 p. m. Tuesday at the South Side Y. W. C. A. Pocket's Importance Pockets assume stellar roles in rimmlngs this fall. They come in all manner of shapes, anew suit having octagonal embroidered pockets. Slenderizing Heels New chiffon hosiery shows great ngenuity in she pointed, twin and clocked heels which lend symmetery and shapeliness to ankles. One-Two Hat Anew one-two hat combines beige and brown velvet, with the left (beige) side trimmed with a rosette bow of deep brown and the brown side trimmed with beige. Nature Motif Ornaments this fall, for hats, shoulders, applique work and belts all tend to be flowers, animals, or of some other nature motif. Winter “Smoking” A chic "smoking” for the modem woman has pantaloons of black velvet and jumper of ecru under an Eton jacket of the velvet. Printed Velvet Printed rose velvet, in a tiny geometric pattern, makes a squarenecked jumper to top a plain rose velvet skirt. * I

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ONE-PIECE TYPE A one-piece dress that will meet everyday requirements for it is simply fashioned of navy blue flat silk crepe with novelty crepe contrasting. Four seams to join! Two circular flounces are stitched across front of dress. Sleeves can be made in either of two lengths. Applied bands trim V-shape neck and long sleeves. Crepe satin, wool jersey, silk twill, velveteen or wool rep IS an excellen choice for style No. 3169. Pattern designed in sizes 16, 18 years, 36, 38, 40 and 42 inches bust. Every day The Times prints on this page pictures of the latest fashions, a practical service for readers who wish to make their own clothes. „ Obtain this pattern by filling out the above coupon, including 15 cents (coin preferred), and mailing it to the Pattern Department of The Times. Delivery is made in about a week.

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Attend Conference Mrs. Charles N. Teetor, Hagerstown, chairman of the living costs committee of the Indiana League of Women Voters, and Mrs. L. E. Myers of Valparaiso, will attend two committee conferences in Winnetka, 111., next week, at the home of Ivfrs. William G. Hibbard, Fourth regional director of the national league. Mrs. Myers will attend the child welfare conference, Mrs. Teetor ttye one on living costs. There will be a meeting of the ex•ecutive committee of the Indiana league in the State office on Wednesday.

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Pan-Hellenic Fall Luncheon Next Saturday The fall luncheon of the Indianapolis Pan Hellenic Association will be held next Saturday at 12:30 p. m at the Columbia Club. The following new officers will be installed: Mrs. Darrell Foster, president; Mrs, Stuart Ruch, vice president; Miss Bertha Leming, treasurer; Miss Mildred Blacklidge, recording secretary; Miss Frieda Bach, corresponding secretary; Mrs. Paul Summers, State Pan-Hellenic representative. Mrs. Howard Jensen, outgoing president, will preside. Members of the committee arranging the luncheon are Mrs. James H. Ruddell, chairman; Mrs. Oscar Kearby and Miss Frieda Bach.

TELL ENGAGEMENT OF MISS BAMBERGER Mr. and Mrs. Ralph Bamberger, 2937 Washington Blvd., announce the engagement °f their daughter, Caroline, to Dr. Reuben A. Solomon, son of Hyman Solomon. Mr. and Mrs. Bamberger will be at home to their friends Sunday afternoon and evening.

Memorial Service George H. Chapman Post No. 209, G. A. R. and George H. Chapman, W. R. C. No. 10, will hold joint memorial services Tuesday at 2 p m. at Fort Friendly, 512 N. Illinois St., for members who have died during the year. Announce Engagement The engagement of Miss Mary Lenora Sharp, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Granville W. Sharp, 3510 N. Meridian St., to Harold W. Hancock, is announced. The wedding will take place Nov. 5.

He’s ready to return them with due exasperation When a novel one of suede excites his ardent admiration. Its buckle is a golden one and puzzling as can be— And he smiles to think that women, too, are all a mystery. 1

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Before her marriage in September Mrs. Frank J. Murello was Miss Emma Jordan, daughter of Mrs. A. A. Jordan. Co-ed activities at Butler University have begun in earnest and a number of societies have held elections. Miss Virginia Hampton is president of the Womans’ Athletic Association, Miss Jane Ogborn is president of Scarlet Quill, the senior honorary society for women and Miss Louise Eleanor Ross is vice president of Scarlet Quill and president of Theta Sigma Phi, honorary journalistic sorority. Miss Jane Messick has been selected as chairman of the art work in the 1928 Drift. Butler’s annual.

MARDI-GRAS PARTY FOR SIGMA EPSILON The Sigma Epsilon sorority entertained with a Mardi-Gras guest party at the home °f Miss Katherine Foster, 3524 Kenwood Ave., Friday night. Decorations were carried out in the usual carnival fashion and there were side shows and a fish pond. The committee consisted of Miss Viola Hermsen, Sue Shafer, Mary Regula, Katherine Foster, Mildred Owen, Margaret Kern, Marjorie Miller and Hazel Hughes, who were the losing team in a recent contest. They were assisted by Mrs. F. J. Moore, president. Guests were Misses Josephine Weidmann Martha Mav Simpson Norris Dollens Gertrude Smith Alpha Barney Dorothy Summers June Noone Helen Farson Margaret Noone Marjorie Duffey Kathleen Davison Members present were Misses Florence Donovon Margaret Biggins Kathleen Biggins Mildred Harris Josephine Biggins '.T3SE Mesdames Bruce Graham Roy Hutz C. Shadday Nell Kershaw * Donald Curtiss Bervle Hoatson There will be a meeting at the Marott Hotel Monday night. Church Society Luncheon The Women’s Society of the First Baptist Church will give a travel luncheon for members Friday at 1 p. m. at the church. The honor guest will be Miss Tomasine Allen, who has just returned from Japan. Miss Allen will talk on “Home Coming Through the Holy Land.’ 4 - The joint hostesses will be Mesdames C. C. Gibbs Frederick Taylor Floyd Baker E. O. Noggle Alleen Boejsel Blanch McCoy Shirley Harmon C. W. Stevenson W. G. Kabel Misses Margaret Day Lcttie Blue Viola Ruge

And this one’s like the ladies, too, he muses with a grin, They never think of finishing the things that they begin. This started out to be a reptile belt —bih only half Is fashioned of the snakeskin, and the other part is .calf.

DRUGGISTS' WIVES TO HAVE BIRTHDAY MEET The womans’ organization of the National Association of Retail Druggists will hold its birthday luncheon at the chapter room, E. Market St., Tuesday. Guests of honor will be Mrs. William Estell Lee of Philadelphia, Pa., national financial secretary, and Mrs. John C. Otis, Cincinnati, 0., national treasurer. The decorations will be in yellow and white with yellow tapers in crystal holders and white chrysanthemums. The place cards will be flowers to which lines from Riley’s poems will be attached to be read by the guests. Mesdames W. C. Freund, C. B. Stolts, Edward Ferger, William Oren, J. C. Meade, W. F. Werner and E. M. Crawford are the committee in charge. Mu Phi Chairmen New chairmen for the year of the Mu Phi Epsilon sorority were named at the last meeting by Miss Norma Mueller, president, as follows: Miss Nell K. McMurtrey, program; Miss Margaret Porterfield, housing and year book; Miss Lutie Gruber, finance; Miss Inez McNutt, membership; Miss Elsie Pattison, auditing; Miss Irma Judd, nominating; Miss Mable Rose, telephone; Miss Margaret Gregoire, courtesy, and Miss Edna Gent, luncheon dues. Plans were completed for a luncheon to be given at the Marott hotel, Oct. 28, in honor of the national president, Mrs. Lucile Brettshneider, Cincinnati, O. Card Party The Co-Operative Club will give a card party at 8:15 p. m. Thursday at Washington St. and Hamilton Ave. Mrs. Ida Snedaker is chairman.

Bridal Dinner Given at Ulen Country Club Mr. and Mrs. William C. Jacques, Thorntown, entertained with a dinner Friday night at the Ulen Country Club in Lebanon in honor of their niece. Miss Lida Milne Lochhead. daughter of Dr. and Mrs. John M. Lochhead, whose marriage fr> Neil Craine Estabrook, son of Mrs. Fannie Taylor Bryson, will take place at 8:30 this evening at the home of the bride’s parents, 1202 N. Pennsylvania St. Covers were laid for the two families and members of the bridal party. ALPHA PHI ALUMNAE COMMITTEES NAMED Mrs. James H. Ruddell, president of the Alpha Phi Alumnae Association, appointed the following comTnittees for the year at the meeting of the alumnae this afternoon at the home of Mrs. A. S. Rowe, 2921 N. Delaawre St.: Program, Mrs. Roy Northway and Mrs. Rowe; - flower, Mrs. Neal Grider and Mrs. Ray B. Grimes; Christmas party, Mrs. George V. Miller, Miss Irene Lester and Mrs. Horace Townsend; social, Mrs. James A. Carter. Mrs. Wood C. Moll and Mrs. K. E. McConnaughey; scholarship, Miss Amy Glendenning and Mrs. Lyle Wallace. Dinner Party Mr. and Mrs. Bert J. Westover, 55 S. Audubon Rd., entertained at dinned Friday night for thirty-four guests, members of the city building department and tfieir wives. Mr. Westover, until his recent resignation, was a city building inspector. Dahlias formed the table decorations and green tapers in crystal holders lighted the table. The covers were laid at U-shaped table. Following the dinner James and Irene Westover gave a program of music, dancing and readings.

The other one’s elaborate—for evening, he would say— A sparkling rhinestone buckle on a belt of black moire. On second thought—he’ll keep tnem all —a fortunate mistake— It occurs to him that each of them a a lovely gift will make.

News Notes of Y. W.C.A.

Educational Classes Registration may stih be made for the Monday morning sewing class taught by Mrs. May K. Stevenson. The evening class meets on Tuesday at 7 p. m. Bible for high school credit Is offered to any high school student on Monday at 3:45 p. m. The Bible classes taught by Miss Florence E. Lanham are open to any young woman who may wish to study the poetry of the Bible, or the International Sunday school lessons, "The Kings and Prophets of Israel." In the latter there is both a day and an evening group. Bible study groups in any other subjects will be formed upon request. Mrs. C. J. Buchanan’s Bible class is meeting this year at the Tabernacle Presbyterian Church on Thursday at 10:00 a. m. All classes will still be open to visitors during the coming week. Consultation regarding all classes may be had at any time by visiting the Educational office at 329 N. Pennsylvania or calling Main 2601.

Industrial Monday at 6:15 p. m. the first meeting of the Student Industrial group will be held at the Kappa Alpha Theta house at 215 S. Butler Ave. The “Frosh” will be the subject of discussion. The Industrial girl will give her experience as a freshman in industry and the student will tell of her entrance into college. The group will then discuss the program for the year. Misses Evelyn Seward of Butler, and Evelyn Van Hook of the Industrial department are co-chairmen of the committee. Girt Reserv es The Girl Reserves Club of school No. 14 had its first meeting last Monday. The following officers were elected: President, Maxine Martin; vice president, Nancy Gillahan; secretary, Thelma Fletcher; treasurer. Mary Schewmyer; program chairman, Mary Ellen Klingman; service chairman, Ada Brown; social chairman, Thelma Sullivan. The Inter-Club Council for high school clubs will meet at the Y. W. C. A. Thursday afternoon at 4. There will be a skating party for high school girls Friday. The grade school girls will have a skating party Saturday, at 1:45 p. m. The following clubs will meet during the week at 3 p. m. in their respective school buildings:

Club ny IS Friday 14 Monday 15 Monday 16 Thursday 18 Thursday J 0 Tuesday 20 Thursday 31 Tuesday 33 Thursdav 39 Thursday 45 Friday 78 Friday 7S Thursday Southport Wednesday The officers for school No. 13 are: President, Anna Jensen; vice president, Dorothy Butch; secretary, Helen Jensen; treasurer, Wilhelmina Hall. Schobl No. 31 elected the following officers: President, Virginia Boyd; vice president, Harriett Hinckel; secretary, Thelma Jacobs; treasurer, Louise Rudhick; program chairman, Louise Bur; service chairman. Vera Cook; social chairman, Beatrice Price. Health Education

The regular public skating parties will be held Tuesday and Saturday evenings at 7:30. On Thursday at 8:15 the Veterans of Foreign Wars will hold a skating party, and the Girl Reserves will skate Friday at 8:15. Registration for the social dancing class will close Wednesday evening when the second lesson of the ten weeks’ course will be given. A class in Life Saving is now being formed. Anyone desiring enter may register with Miss Nash,‘swimming instructor. South Side Branch Miss Vera has had on exhibit a display of craft work including jewelry, batik* scarfs, leather tooling, basketry, gesso craft, woodcarving, block printing and enameling. The work will be taught on Thursday at 7 p. m. Call Drexel 4155 for further information. The ministers of the Reformed churches and their wives have arranged for a dinner and social evening Monday at 6:30 p. m. The Otlum Club with Mildred Chaney as hostess will meet Monday evening and the Lambda PI Sigma sorority will have initiation in the social room Monday night.

W. C. T. U. NOTES

The Broad Ripple W. C. T. U. will meet with Mrs. Fannie Kelso at 6360 Beliefontalne St., Wednesday at 1 : 30 p. m. Arrangements are to be made for a local institute. The University Heights W. C. T. U. will meet all day Tuesday withMrs. Charles Mann, 4206 Otterbeln Ave. Luncheon will be served at noon. Mrs. David Ross will speak on “Censorship of Moving Pictures.” The University Heights quartet composed of Mrs. Ethel Gilllat, Mrs. Mable Quackenbush, Mrs. Kenneth Smith and Mrs. Edward Patton will sing, accompanied by Mrs. Jack Tllson. Mrs. Robert McKay, president, will preside. Euchre Party A euchre and bunco party will be given Sunday at 8:30 p. m. by Division 4, L. A. A. O. H., at St. Anthony’s Hall, N. Norman Ave. The hostesses will be . Mesdames Delia Collins Maymle Pope Mary Wohlheiter Charlotte Butler Marguerite Reilly Misses Marcia Dugan Margaret Heston Anna McNeff Shoe Buckles A black moire evening slipper has triangular buckles of rhinestone that point high up on the ankle.

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Alpha Chis Honor Four of Founders

Four of the five living founders of Alpha Chi Omega, national fraternity, gave a surprise program at the monthly meeting of Beta Beta alumnae chapter Saturday afternoon. Mrs. C. E. Cottlngham was hostess to the chapter for 3 o’clock luncheon and meeting at her home. 3641 N. Pennsylvania St. Mrs. Ralph B. Clark presided at a tea table, at which the other three founders were seated. There were Mrs. Harry Smith. Greencastle; Miss Estelle Leonard, Union City, and Mrs. Bcoby Cunningham, who read excerpts from a diary she k<jpt at De Pauw University in 1885, when the fraternity was organized. A “new record” was introduced and Mrs. Donald U. Bridge and Miss Jane Adams sang softly the beautiful duet, “Alpha Chi Memories,’' which Mrs. Clark had composed especially for this occasion. Miss Hannah Keenan, Leßoy, 111., duaghter of a deceased founder. Mrs. Luther Courtland Keenan, was another guest of honor. The assistant hostesses were Mrs. Claus Best, Mrs. Clarence Weaver, Mrs. T. M. Rybolt, Mrs. Charles Jones. Miss Virginia Cottlngham, Miss Twanette Nutter, Miss Geraldine Reep and Miss Dorothy Patterson. During the business session which preceded the program, Mrs. Robert Wolfe, newly-installed president or the chapter, appointed the following committee to take charge of a formal tea and reception which the chapter will give Nov. 6: Mrs. H. D. Thompson, chairman; Mrs. Clarence Weaver, Mrs. L. G. Wjld. Mrs. T. M. Rybolt, Mrs. W. Finley Wright. Mrs Kurt Ehlert and Miss Evelyn Shipman. This tea is to honor Mrs. Donald U. Bridge, who has received appointment to the national office or Eastern Province president of the fraternity, and will be given at Mrs. Thompson's home, 2710 Sutherland Ave.

Prize Recipes by Readers

NOTE—The Times will gwe $1 for each recipe submitted by a reader adjudged of sufficient merit to be printed • n this column. One recipe Is printed daily, except Friday, when twenty are given. Address Recipe Editor of The Times. Prizes will he mailed to winners. Write on one side of sheet only. Only one recipe each week will be accepted from one person. Eggless Fruit Cake Two cups brown sugar, one cup lard and butter mixed, two cups raisins, cooled, one teaspoon soda, two teaspoons baking powder, one teaspoon ground cloves, one teaspoon nutmeg, two teaspoons ground cinnamon, pinch of salt. Sift with enough flour to make a medium dough. Bake in large pan slowly for one hour. Mrs. Frank Lane, 305 Caven St, City.

Family Menus

BY SISTER MARY BREAKFAST—Baked apples, cereal. cornmeal pancakes, broiled sausage, oven toast, milk, coffee. LUNCHEON —Spinach timbales, sliced tomatoes, bread and butter sandwiches, oatmeal cookies, milk, tea. DINNER—Baked white fish with baked tomatoes, scalloped potatoes, hearts of celery, fruit custard tart, milk, coffee. The dinner dessert is quite elaborate and might be served to your sewing or bridge club in place of “ice cream and cake.” If possible, get the tiny individual sausages for breakfast. These can be broiled without any previous cooking. Larger sausages should be parboiled for twenty minutes before broiling to Insure thorough c joking. Fruit C ustard Tart Six eggs, two cups milk, threefourths cup sugar, one-half teaspoon vanilla, one-half teaspoon lemon flavoring, peaches, green gage plums, raspberries or blackberries, one cup whipping cream, one-half cup currant Jelly, baked pie shell. Use a deep pic dish and a rich crust for the shell and do not remove from dish. Pare, halve and remove stones from enough peaches to border tha outside of the pie. Cook In a heavy syrup until tender. Remove stones from enough green gages to make a border Inside the peaches Cook in heavy syrup until tender. Beat eggs slightly with sugar and a few grains of salt. Slowly add milk heated to the scalding point and cook over hot water until mixture coats spoon. Let cool and beat In flavoring. Pour into baked pie shell and let stand until cold. Then arrange the halves of peaches around the edge and inside the peaches put a row of green gages. Fill the center with any small fresh fruit lightly sprinkled with powdered sugar. Whip cream until thick and beat Into a little more than half of it the jelly, which has been melted over hot water. Garnish with alternating spoonfuls of plain and pink whipped cream.

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