Indianapolis Times, Volume 38, Number 209, Indianapolis, Marion County, 7 December 1926 — Page 11

DEC. *7, 1926

IT’S NOT TRUE LOVE WHEN DISTRUST AND JEALOUSY EXIST

Sister Writes That Wife of Brilliant Young Physician Is Ruining His Career Because She Is Su°vc'ous of His Patients. By Martha Lee ' A lot of human emotions carelessly labeled “love” are not that at all. We might well paraphrase a certain well-known exclamation by saying, “Oh love, what crimes are committed in thy name!”

It is not love, but selfishness, that wraps a confining cloak about another individual; insisting that that Individual have no outlets of growth, little freedom of action, no interests but those in which the first person can also take part. It is not love, but lack of trust and jealous fear that mentally haunts the footsteps of another, insisting upon an almost hour-by-hour account of where the "beloved” has journeyed during his absence, who his companions have been, etc. Real love-e-worthy of the name, has confidence and trust woven well into its fabric. Having the best interests of its beloved, even bdore its own, in mind, it takes the attitude that will mean most development and happiness to the other. For Instance the wife of Edison. Days at a time, for years, Edison, in the midst of experiments, saw only the inside of his laboratory; his meals had to be taken to him. A such times he was entirely engrossed and his wife must have seriously missed his companionship, but she never interfered, even in the early days of their marriage. She' loved him, not herself. Think what some women could have done to his career! Dear Martha Lee; I have a. brother who is a j ouiig physician, and if I do say it myself, he has a brilliant mind. Wft have had the highest hopes for his futures. but last spring lie married and I want to tell you Miss Lee. that if something is not done, his career will amount to nothing. ills wite 1b extremely jealous. She goes to his office almost every day and tries to keep tab on his patients. If he is out on a case tor what ne considers too long a time, she telephones to him it she can find out where he is. He is very conscious of this, dote not feel free and I can see a difference in Ills manner already. What do you think of this? ______ A SISTER. I think it is very unfortunate, indeed. There la no glossing over the fact that a woman, under such bond age of jealousy can practically ruin a professional men’s career. Have you talked to your sister-in-law, bringing out these points? Os course, it’s a deiiente task-Mrying to make I cr s.e this, but if she has real live in . wider tlie heavy current of vi may reach her. . ..nls to Be Popular i 1 am n girl IT yca*s .! wi h bine eves and ■ r. atir-i :tive. However, i. . :■ ami I do not sec the reatic lest clothes money a tell me how to be TOOTS. . ots, think of some of the < iii you know to be popuii are their characteristics? you noticed that they are wound up in themselves? ’ •].. wn who is actually unpopular is the one who is the center of his owh universe; he doesn’t think or remember mud} about the other fellow’s interests, hobbies, or feelings. So engrossed is he by himself that he builds a mental wall of indifference around his personality and ofiher folks don’t take the trouble to break through, so he’s left more or less to himself. He’s Just Friendly Dear Martha' Lee: I am a junior in h school 16 years old. I have many •ends, both boys and girls, but I ■ 'icoiallr like a certain boy, who lg 18,

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He is very handsome and the girls all like him. i have known him three or four years ami it us and to be. wo were together almost every day. As he has got older, lie has paused ms '‘green age ' 1 guess. Anyway, he is different. He talks friendly, but I want to win his love. Please tell me how. WINNIE. Why not get through school before settling down to the serious business of- trying to "win” him? Anyway, there is no mysterious recipe for making another love you. Just be yourself and if this personality, which is you, attracts him, you will hold his friendship which may later ripen into love. You can not force love, even though vamps and i movies might Induce you to think so sometimes. Can Wot Change Him Deaf Martha Lee: Could you advise me? I hare no relation or neighbors to confide in. I am so blue and and scouraged and T have almost given up hope. I have two little boys. 8 and 0 years old. My husband does not treat me like a wife and he nags at me all the time. 1 stay home day in and day out. Never go any place All I ect is what I eat and he fusses about the grocery bill. I have done everything to change his disposition. He acts lilse he hates me. Shall I go away for a while? I am getting to be a nervous wreck. MARGARET C. Yes, go away for a while, but take it in small doses. Go out every day, walking, shopping, visiting—anything to change your narrowed interests. You have stayed home too closely and have ceased to interest your husband because you think, and probably talk, of nothing but matters domestic. Quit trying to change his disposition and give your mind to enlarging your own outlook. You will therefore not center j>our thoughts ion him all the time and he will quit nagging, I feel sure.

ONE MORAL CODE FOR BOTH SEXES Why D ; 3cnminate Against Women, Question Asked by Mrs. Ferguson. By Mrs. Waller Ferguson An ardent reformer points to the decadence of the times with this statement: "A loose girl of the nineties was shunned. Today unchaste women often become quite respectable members qf society.” And why not? Are we to build a barrier between good and bad women and not between good and bod men? Men are generally grouped Into various classes with regard to their wickedness. Bad men may be thieves or liars or murderers. Bad women are always those who have lost their virtue. Two entirely different constructions upon the same word. The time never was when a man could not live a loose life and get by with it. Even though his morals are coal black where women are concerned, if he have money and a charming personality, he is welcomed into the most exclusive of homes. Prominent men do not shun him. Good men do not snub him. Neither his business nor his social status is undermined. This being the case, why discriminate against women? It Is not a sign of the decadence of the times that we look with more leniency upon a woman who Has had an unfortunate pajst. It is proof that we are improving. It is unfair to have two different standards for women and men. The very fact that the Magdalenes of can Mimetlmes climb the awful mountain ' of respectability Is one of the best evidences of our moral growth. Whether, with women becoming less careful of their conduct, the whole moral structure of society may x be weakened is neither here nor there. If both men and women cannot be judged by one standard of right and wrong, then we may as well admit that our social fabric is awry. The point is that there is no sense in having the worqen chaste if the men are going to be otherwise. You can never have a good world with one sex moral and the other immoral. Obviously the thing to have done was to purify the men, making them as virtuous as those dames of the nineties. That being impossible, there seems no good reason why almost any old kind of a woman may not become a respectable member of society—society tjeing mostly composed of men who are far from snotless.

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Saint and Sinner

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" What’s the matter, darling? Are you crying? You really must hurry, Cherry baby,” Faith leaned against the locked door and spoke softly, pityingly. If Cherry was spending those last minutes of her girlhood in lonely desolation and fear and remorse, her sister could not find it in her heart to blame her. There was no answer. Something in that absolute stillness beyond the locked door sent a sharp, sickening pang of fear through Faith’s overwrought nerves. What if Cherry had —oh, no! She couldn’t do that, not life-loving little Cherry! But Faith, as she leaned dizzly against the door, remembered that she had left the bottld of bromide tablest on the dresser, after giving Cherry a mild dose to quiet her nerves. “Cherry! Cherry! You’re scaring me to death!” she cried sharply, rattling the knob of the door desperately. There was no answer. Faith, panicstricken, dropped the lovely golden-

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poppy bridesmaid to the floor and flung her weight against the door. "Cherry! Cherry! Open this door this minute!” There still was no answer. If only her mother and father or Junior were there to help her. But they were in the church by this time, or nearing it in George’s swift car. But the chauffeur who was to call i for her and Cherry—old Mr. Cluny’s chauffeur, with the magnificent Rolls Royee that would be Cherry’s, unless— "Oh, I’m going craxy!" Faith groaned. Then realization of her partially clad state rushed over her and she sped into her bedroom, to fling on her shabby old winter coat. She hardly knew what she was doing when she rushed from the house, down the path to the street, which was covered now with the feathery, big flakes of snow that were falling steadily, out of an almost windless sky. The Cluny limousine was not In As she turned back toward the house, a glimpse of fluttering window drapery caught her eye. Cherry’s window—open! Wide open! And the themometer at thirty! Running through the six Inches of soft snow In the yard, she arrived at ! Cherry’s open, lighted window. By j standing on tiptoe sho could peer | Into the room. Cherry was not In the room. On the floor, on one of the small’rosecolored chenille rugs, lay a little pool of Are and snow—Cherry’s rhlne-stone-and - pearly - embroidered wedding dress. And across a chair back drifted the feat hen-light cloud of Cherry’s wedding veil. But there was no bride to wear them. The wedding dress was In a little round heap—as If Cherry had put It on, and had then let It slip to the floor and had stepped out of It. Faith’s first reaction from numbing horror was one of heart-clutch-ing relief. At all events she was not dead. She had fled. But she was not dead. Her second reaction was one of almost Insane Joy that somehow Cherry had cheated the altar of the sacrifice of her growing youth. Anything was better than that lovely Cherry should marry an old man whom she did not love. Near the window stood an Old paint bucket, unless Joy had re-

moved It. Faith groped for it in the dark, found it, snatched it up, planted it beneath the window, and hoisted herself. Surely Cherry would not run away without a word to her mother, to her sister who loved her and understood her, understood even the panic which would make her flee Into the snow and the night. She found it on the dresser, weighted down by a nail buffer— Cherry's hastily scrawled note, written with lead pencil on the back of an old envelope addressed in Chris Wiley’s bold, black, dashing handwriting. “I'm running away, Faith. Tell Muggy I’ll he all right. Don't worry. I couldn’t do It after all. Faith. He was so old! Plesae don't try to follow me. Give me time to get away oV I’ll kill myself. Love, Cherry.” And across the envelope was a childish row of crosses, made with quick, heavy slashes of the pencil. Torn between her love for Cherry, which dictated that she heed the frantic girl's plea to give her a chance to get far enough away to elude pursuit, and her Instinct to cry out for help, because she knew that she could not trust her own judgment In such a crisis, she moved almost mechanically to the telephone and called Bob Hathaway's number. After what seemed an age of wait-

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