Indianapolis Times, Volume 35, Number 159, Indianapolis, Marion County, 16 November 1923 — Page 6

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Dancing. SHE gentleman places himself in the position of asking for the favor when he asks the lady to dance. At the end of the dance he thanks her and makes Some complimentary remark to the effect that he enjoyed the dance. Perhaps the most commonly used form of asking for a dance is to say “May I have the pleasure of a dance?” or "May I have the next dance?” It is poor taste to say. "Have you the next dance?” And then if a negative answer is given, to ask for the dance. Ofter a girl does not like to admit that her dances are not taken and this question is not at all pleasant. A young woman always precedes her escort when entering a ballroom. If accompanied by a chaperon. a young woman slightly behind the older lady, Bhe pays her respects to the hostess and then moves away, making room for other guests. Return to Chaperon When accompanied by a chaperon, a young woman may return to her side after each dance if she wishes, particularly if the numtier of acquaintances is small or if she has no dancing partner. However, if a number of her dances are sought, she need not return to her chaperon unless she wishes, though it is courteous to return at intervals. It is not good form to decline a dance unless the young woman is ill or is not dancing. If she declines a dance, then she should not dance any more during the evening. It would, of course, be rude to refuse a dance with one man and then accept an invitation from another. Nor is it in good taste to “sit out” a dance, or frequent darkened corners. A young woman should also efrain from devoting too much of her time to any one man. even her fiance. The gracious and popular girl dances with each partner that

SOCIAL ACTIVITES

N informal house-warming will be given tonight from 8 • ■ to 11 by the active chapter of Kappa Kappa Gamma of Butler College at their new home. 5657 E. Washington St. The student body and all the fraternities on the campus and the faculty are invited. In the receiving line with Mrs. Hazel Nauck. house mother, and Miss Gwendolyn Dorey, president of the chapter, will be the pledges: Miss Anne Cunningham. Martha Belle Pierce, Maude Custer, Ruth Ann Clarke. Eloise Owens, Emily Brosman, Esther Jane Johnson. Dorofhy Clayson, Jean Coval, Lucille Sperry, Mary Kinnernan. Alice McGinnis, Mary Biggerstaff. Mary Martha Lewis, Kathryn Bowlby, Katherine Noggie Hall, and M'ldred Johns. Girls from the chapter will provide music during the evening. Miss Gertrude Schmidt and Miss Mildred Stockdale are in charge of arrangements. • * • Miss Editlj Cline, whose marriage to Robert Phillips will take place Sunday, will be the guests of honor tonight at a miscellaneous shower at her home, 1050 W. Thirty First St., given by Mrs. Frank Forrester. Mrs. Edwin Friedley, who will assist Mrs. Forrester tonight, will be matron of honor at the ceremony. Kenneth Cline, brother of the bride, will be best man. The ceremony will take place at the home of the officiating min ster, the Rev. J. J. Patterson. Mrs. Fr.edley entertained the members of the Jolly Twelve Club and a few friends Thursday night in honor of Miss Cline. The club’s colors, yellow and lavender, were used In the appointments. The gifts were presented on a little wagon prettily decorated with lavender nad yellow crepe paper. Members of the club presented the bride-elect with a Dutch silver basket containing a winter bouquet. The guests: Mesdames Ed Talbott, Roy Smith, * Robert Barker, Cecil Berry. John Ford Sr., C. E. Cline, John Clark, James Jackson, A. J.

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No. I—Ballroom1 —Ballroom Hints

BRUSH UP ON YOUR DANCING

ACT AS THOUGH YOU ENJOY DANCING WITH YOUR PART NER. EVEN IF IT HURTS. ARTHUR MURRAY AND AILEEN MEEHAN DEMONSTRATE. asks for a dance. Impartiality is much better taste than favoritism. Must Feed Ladies It is the duty of the gentleman to serve the ladies and see that they are supplied with everything they want from the supper room. A woman does not help herself in the supper room, but depends upon

Egold. Elmer Burkhardt, E. C. Clamitt and Roy Rafert. ... Announcement is made of the marriage of Miss Margaret Bond, daugh ter of W. C. Bond of Carmel, Ind.. and Byron R. Hunt, son of Mr. and Mrs. J. D. Hunt. 529 E. Twenty-First St„ which took place Thursday morning. The ceremony was read before ft few friends and the immediate relatives at the home of the officiating minister, the Rev. L. E. Stout. Miss Catherine Bond, sister of the bride, was her only attendant. Robert Sawyer was best man. Mr. and Mrs. Hunt will be at home at Carmel. Ind.. after Nov. 25. on their return from a wedding trip to Chicago. • • • Mayor and Mrs. Lewis Shank entertained several of the theatrical managers and newspaper critics of the city Thursday night at dinner at their home, E. Washington St. ai\d Krookville Rd. • • • Guest day was observed this afternoon by the Indianapolis Woman's Club at the Propylaeum. 1410 N. Delaware St. After the program tea was served by the hostess committee. Mrs. William H. Taylor. Mrs. Samuel M. Deal, Mrs. Donald Jameson. Mrs. Edgar H. Evans and Mrs. Gordon E. Varney. The program included a paper. “Glimpses Tnto the Past,” Mrs. Grace Julian Clarke, and "Alice and Phoebe Gray.” Miss Elizabeth Nicholson. * * * The active chapter of Zeta Tau Alpha sorority of Butler College will entertain tonight with a Harvest dance at the Irvington Masonic Temple. Thanksgiving decorations will be used. The dance is an annual affair given by the pledges for the active members and their guests. Among the out-of-town guests will be Miss Ruth Fillmore from the Purdue University chapter. Chaperones

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her escort and the servants to supply her wants. When a. dance is over, a lady may stroll with her partner through the drawing rooms or accept a glass of punch or go into the supper room. If she wishes to be released from the company of her companion, she may ask him to take her to her chaperon, or to join a group of friends. Needless to say, a gentleman never leaves a lady standing in the middle of the floor, but escorts her back to her chaperon or friends. The man does not take the girl’s arm when walking In the ballroom. He .may make a graceful escape from dull or uncongenial companionship by thanking her for the pleasure she has given him and stating that he must find the young lady with whom he has the next dance. No Reservations Programs have practically become obsolete, so that a girl does not reserve dances so far in advance as formerly. The popular habit of “cutting in” almost prevents her from reserving even one entire dance for a partner, especially if popular. In a “no-break” dance, the gentleman may break during the encores. A departing guest always seeks out the hostess and expresses pleasure for a pleasant evening. However, if one departs early and the hostess is engaged, he may nroperly leave without disturbing her. After dancing with a girl, if a young man wishes to seek another partner, he should leave his first partner with friends or the ehaper ons and seek another gentleman to dance the next dance with his orig inal partner. He can leave his partner by explaining that he wishes to hunt a friend whom he is anxious for her to meet. Mr. Murray discusses “Success and Dancing” In his next article.

will be Prof, and Mrs. Herbert Hill, Prof, and Mrs. Howard Jensen and Mrs. Dora Winton. Pledges who will act as hostesses are Misses Bernice Billman. Margaret Hohl, Freeda Doeppers. Margaret Newton, Jane Routzong, Laura Templeton, Wilma Mikesell, Barbara Fischer. Thelma Haworth. Lois Hunt, Edna Schulz. Pearl Collins, IjOulbp Kerr and Grace Pritchard. Miss Wilma Mikesell is chairman of arrangements. * * • The Gamma chapter alumnae supper to have beeL held at the chapter house, 215 8. Butler Ave.. Monday night has been postponed until Nov 26 on account of the Theta bazaar at the Woman's Department Club Monday and Tuesday. * • • Mrs. G. W Dungan. guardian of the Leva-Ldge wood group of Cftni;i Fire Girls, was the hostess for the presentation of the film, “The Jackknife Man.” this morning and after noon at the public library under the auspices of the Indiana Indoisers of Photoplays. * • • H. E. Hall, 3026 N. New Jersey St., left today for a visit in Florida. • • • The wedding of Miss Betty Crowe, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. F. L. Crowe, 1512 N. Pennsylvania St., and Alexander Taggart Jr., took place Wednesday in Danville, 111. Mrs. Taggart was in Butler College, a member of PI Beta Phi sorority and Mr. Taggart, a I*si Upsilon at Keyon College. Neither will return to school. Miss Mary Hamlin, a student at De Pauw University, and Marcus Warrender from Wabash College attended the

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ceremony at the home of the officiating minister, the Ker. T. X. Ewing of the St. James M. E. Church. Mr. and Mrs. Taggart will make there home for the present with the bride’s parents. • • • Members of the Indiana Artists' Club who have been exhibiting their paintings at the Provincetown colony \ in Massachusetts will tell of their im- j pressions of the work there, tonight ! at the meeting at th< it .rooms ini the D. A. R. house, 824 X. Pennsylvania St. Mrs. R. L. Dodds will sing a group of songs. • • • The Home and Education Section of the Woman's Department Club will have their meeting In the form of an old-fashioned school on “recitation afternoon. ’’ Nov. 20, at the clubhouse. 1702 N. Meridian St. • • • The Major Robert Anderson W. R. C. Post, No. 44, will entertain with a luncheon at the Lincoln in honor of Miss .Alice 8. Kirk, of Danville. Albert J. Ball, commander of the Anderson G. A. It. Post No. 369, Mrs. Grace Hoffmeyer. Mrs. Claudia Either, and Mrs. Charlotte Given are in charge of arrangements. Reservations for the luncheon may be made with any one on thq committee. The amtu.il Inspection at K. of P. hall, 119 E. Ohio Bt., will be held after luncheon. •* • _ The Phillip Bcho:f Chapter of the

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United States Daughters of 1812 will meet with the regent, Mrs. Samuel E. Perkins, 1011 N. Pennsylvania St., Monday. A sociail hour will follow the program. ROBERT B. RING RITES Funeral for Old Rt*ident to Be Held at 2 P. M„ Monday. Burial of Robert B. Ring. 78, a resident of Indiana polls for fifty years, will be at Memorial Park cemetery following funeral services at the home 1411 Southeastern Ave., at 2 p. m., Monday. Air. Ring wus born in Grant Cour.ty. where he lived until he movftd to Indianapolis. He was a member of the Knights of Pythias Lodge, No. 56. and was a member of local Painters’ Union No. 47. Surviving: The widow. Mrs. Carrie j Ring: two daughters. Mrs. Anna j Grover and Mrs. Edward Reynolds, both of Indianapolis; and two sisters. Mrs. Harry Engle and Mrs. William j Pegden. both of Marion, Ind. Mothers, Excluuige Club Guests Mothers attended the meeting of the | Exchange Club at the Lincoln today. | Harry Wood is to be in charge of the j program. Mrs. Glen Friermood, conI trftltrt. nnd Mrs. S. K. Ruick of the i Lincoln Trio furnished music.

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lyjartha Lee Her Column

Dual Love Dear Miss Lee: lam a woman 36 years old. 1 love two men. One is about 54 years old the other, about 46. I love them bo much alike I am very unhappy except when I can be with them both. I will call them “B” and “C.” When 1 go out with B, I am Bad and longing for C, and when I go out with C. 1 am iongi.ig tor B I am very jealous and unhappy and ieel there is no one who knows just how t spniputhize with ine. They are Christian men and quite popular. Love certainly is a dangerous thing. I am afraid 1 will bh unhappy when I get old. Will you please suggest something that might help me? -LORI A. You are self-centered. What yod need is to take an interest in other people and get your mind off yourself, or you certainly will be unhappy. You're not in love, either, if I read the signs aright, because women do not love two men at the same time. It’s not their nature. Determined Girl Dear Martha Lee: There are several fellows who chum around together. My girl friend and I have met these felows or. several oceassions and two of them have asked for dates several times. My friend made a date with one of them, but I did not. I like this fellow as a friend but he is rather settled and when he would start keeping company he would want to oomc steady, 1 think, or not at all. This 1 do not care to do as I am not ready to settle down. He now thinks I do not care for his friendship and hardly speaks. He is awfully independent and so am I. He thinks it is a giri a place to speak first, but whether it is or not I will eome only half way. If he does not look like he wants to speak. 1 don’t speak, sc naturally he doesn't. He is one of those who would like to have a girl run

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after Mm. Please advise m* how I can keep Ids friendship without making dates. 1 Ts it so terribly wrong to go machine riding when there are a bunch of girls and ieliowsV 3. I am wpndering whether I should bob my hair. Mother doesn't care: >n fact, she really wants me to, as all my riends have theirs bobbed and she said I lrok so mueh older. I am 19. What Is your advice? My hair really does not need bobbing? 4. 1b it proper for girls to go to dances and come home by themselves? PATSY 1. It is the girl’s place to recognize a man first, so the man is right in waiting for you to speak. I don’t understand why you Could not give him one or two dates, without giving him, “steady” dates. If that did not please him. you let him know your views and let him understand that he could see you only on your conditions. No man has a right to demand the privileges of an engaged man, unless he has asked a girl to marry him. ‘2. Not so terribly. 3. The bobbing question has to be settled by each individual. You must decide whether or not bobbed hair would be becoming to you; whether it would improve or spoil your looks, and whether or not it would add to or detract from your, individuality. 4. No. That Green-Eyed Monster Dear Miss Lee: I am a young man in my twenties and am going with a girl in her teens . I love her better than any one else in the world and she says 9he loves be. But she went with a fellow before she went with me and she loved hitn. He did not treat her right and she gave him up for me at least, she said she did. Xow he keeps coming around and she acts very nice to him. She tells me lies and 1 have caught her In them She turned him down late'y and I to’d her I would not go with her if she would let him come.

FRIDAY, NOY. 16, 1923

She said that if ho called up she would tell him not to eome out. that she wanted jae. He called last night and she told him to call later. 1. Should I quit her? I love her aod that would hurt me. 2. Should I continue to go with her and let her have the other fellow, too? 3. Should I show her I am jealous’ She is jealous of me and doesn't want to go with anyone else. We spilt up twi-a only for a night. She called me to com* back and said she could not do without me. HOOSIER BLACKIB. The girl evidently is trying to hold the attention of you and the othftr man at the same time. That’s all right, but there's no excuse for bar lying. I don’t know why you should giv* up the girl's friendship. But yoa should not expect her to give up other men friends for you, unless you ask her to marry you, and you should make her understand that you, In turn, cannot let her limit your friendships. You should not show her you are jealous, because you should overcome this jealousy. It never adds to happiness. Matter of Etiquette Dear Miss Lee: When calling at a home where there is a death and you are not ao well-acquainted, but feel It a duty to call, ia it necessary to sit. after having been takan directly in to view th % body? R go No. It is correct to leave cards for members of the immediate family, but do not ask to see them. Jar Tops Tops of fruit- jars can be cleaned by laying them in sour milk or vinegar until the mold comes off. They can then be washed in water.