Indianapolis Times, Volume 35, Number 292, Indianapolis, Marion County, 17 April 1923 — Page 5
TUESDAY, APRIL 17,1923
Martha Lee's Advice— Girl Sees in Flirting Only Way'to Meet Men
£ A girl reader sees in flirting her only chance to meet men, because most of her girl friends “keep steady company” and therefore know few men. She means flirting in the twentieth century way—“picking up” acquaintances. She asks my views. It’s not worth the game. It causes gossip. Furthermore, if a man or a girl will flirt once, why suppose he would not flirt frequently? lie might not, but the trust that is necessary to a true friendship would be lacking. Tit an office, it is different. There introductions are unnecessary. Quick friendships are formed. It is up to the girls to use
go. J judgment In weeding out the de- j si ruble * -*m the undesirable. Not a 'Gentleman' Dear Martha Dee: X am 13. nice-looking and dress v--. 11. I find it hard to become acquainted with fellows by introduction, because most of my girl friends are keeping steady company and do not know many fellows any more. What are some ot your ideas on flirting? Do you think it wrong or forward to take up with a man in a good respectable place, by carrying on a conversation? It is a risk. but. tell me. what can you do when you a#e so lonely and want a gentleman friend? A LONESOME MAMMA. Don’t you see, my dear, that the chances of getting a “gentleman” friend through a flirtation are very, very small. That is not the kind you get that way. except in the hundredth case. The “steadies" of your girl friends probably have men friends who are ••unattached.” Make yourself at- j tractive enough and they will want; these friends to meet you. | Mother Objects Mr Dear Miss Lee: I am 17 and go with a fellow who is 10. I lore him dearly and know he loves me. He asked my father whether he cared if I went with him. Father said he did not. But my mother.and sisters do not like him at all. I don_t see why Thev want me to stop going with him. I know I am too young to go steady with | Mm He asked me a An I told him we would only be friends. Should I stop gotng with Mm? BROWN-ETED BLONDE. Find out why your mother ond sis-. t*rs object to the boy. Then either ( convince them they are wrong, or. If j you are convinced they are right, give him up. How to Apologize ROBINSON CRUSOE: Don't get impatient. I answer my letters in the order in which T receive them, except that I try to answer imnortant questions immediately. Your questions, ■ you must admit, are not important, j although they are interosting. 1. The way you apologize to a girl depends upon the occasion for the apology. You tell her that you regret the happening, you realize you were In the wrong, you beg her pardon it all depends. To bow is hardly neces- j sary. 2. Yes. it is all right to wavff at a girl friend. Difference Too Great Dear Miss be*: l am a man of 44 and love a rirl of 17 and she says she dearly loves me and I have been going with her for thr*e weeks and I would ” ,>* to marry her and she says she would like to marry me. I know there is some difference in the age* but it seems to me that I would be ■flippy with her. and she says so. too Gives Hae your advice. You might * hai would she be happy with you? You could hardly know, after three weeks. Remember that, by the time you are 60 and ready to “settle down.” she will be just 33, still eager for good times. Do you think you could hold her then? She is only 17. too young to marry, and too young to know whether she is In love or not. The fair thing for you to do is to give her up now. Both of you will be happier. Heartbroken Ruth —Please send me a stamped, self-addressed envelope for personal reply. Your letter will l>c held In strb-t confidence. Please repeat your story in detail. Youth Again bar Mo. Lee - 1 hm 17 and am going • ith a fellow of *f I hare gone with him •vet* months and am eucared to him. I ■ *• tom very much and he te:!s me he lores • But atAinils he acts very funny. He 1 e- a roaming disposition—one night with (He next he goes to town. What would \ ■ advise me to do? DOLLY DIMPLE. Break the engagement. Both of you are too young to l>e engaged. Longs for Son 1 ><ar Martha. Lee: lam 24 and have been ma-ried since 1 was I*l. I have been separated from my husband six months We have the sweetest little boy 7 years old. He stays with my mother. He has a good home, but 1 cannot wo him very often, as my mother does not live in Indianapolis It is breaking my hear tto be away from home. My husband adn I are getting a divorce. He so mean to me and ran after other Mumnt. He did not seem to care for the odd. [ met a nice man not long ago and learned to lov ebim. I told him my trouble and he wanted me to get a divorce, but he never said anything about r.s getting married. He is 34. He caught me in a lie one night and got awfully sore He caught me in another lie and left. He called me up recently and asked whether I still lied and said he had lost confidence in me. Is there any wav I can get him back? I had dreams of a nice home an (lray little boy with me HEARTBROKEN J. Don't try to win this man hack. The fact that he suggested that you get a <U V orce is enough to condemn him in my eyes. Instead, work, hard so that you can bring your boy to live with you, or can go to your mother's home. If you ever-should remarry, be just as sure as possible that the man will be a good father,to your child. t I believe you have learned your lesson in regard to telling lies. ANXIOUS: Your troubles seem to be mostly imaginary. I can see no objection to your marriage to this man.
Lost Love My Dear MJe* L<re. I am 19 anl to lore with a fellow my w He hurt my feelinsra once and I could not treat him right afterward Now I hare forgiven him. He le enEiged to a girl who does not love him. I now of things ahe has said about him. Tet she treats him right. X try to treat her nice for hie sake. Tell we what I shall do. DISCOURAGED AND BLUE. Perhaps you are mistaken about the girt- You may misinterpret her statements. If she can make him happy, and you really love him, you trill continue to do as you are doing l —be fcriendly to the girl, for his sake. HeWn’t Tell . Dear Mis* Lee: lam 22. My suitor Is 26. He loves me. but will not say that he doe*. Pifao advise me what to do. X. Y. Z. You seem sure. Then why worry? Perhaps the man is not in a position to marry and does not want to express his love until he can ask you to be his wife. Don’t give him all of your time.
Another Dance Queen Crowned Hu United Press CLEVELAND, Ohio. April 17. —A new record for continuous dancing was set at sixty-six hours and six minutes by Miss Madalene Gottschick today. Miss Gottschick left the floor at 9:06 a. m. She had been dancing since 3 p. xy., Saturday.
COUNTY ASKED TO COMPLETE RILEY HOSPITAL QUOTA Campaign Under Way to Reach $700,000 Goal — $400,000 Donated, An appeal to complete the raising of Marion County’s quota of J 700.000 for the Riley Hospital for Children was issued today by the county ex ecutive committee. The committee pointed out today that thousands of persons in Indianapolis are wefl acquainted witti the j movement for tae erection of the Rl- j ley Hospital, are cognizant of the j urgent need for such an institution, and are willing to contribute to the j campaign fund. It was pointed out. j however, that hundreds of active work- | ers are needed to visit many who wish I to contribute. “The fact that approximately S4OO. 000 has already been voluntarily contributed by Indianapolis donors, without the aid of a general campaign, shows how deeply the hospital movement is regarded.” Ruddell said. 1 “Os approximately $1,000,000 which is available for the building fund," i said the committee’s announcement, *?!’>00,00u has come from sources out- j side of Indianapolis, from practically i every county in the State. Indian- j npolis must complete its quota now— ! before we can expect the outlying dis- * tricts of the State to supply the balance of their quota.” SECOND RECITAL TONIGHT Vocal Pupils of Edward Nell Are Well Received. The second of two students recitals will be presented by Edward Nell, head of the vocal department of the Metropolitan School of Music, tonight in the Odeon. The first recital, Monday night, was well-received. , Taking part tonight: Josephine Frey. Cieo Hunt. Doreen Mitchell. Mrs Clyde Wilson. Bonny Blue Brown. Mrs ; Harvey Martin. Helen Goodpasture. Mrs. Foster Smith. Robert Gels. Mrs. Don Tullt*. Mildred Johns, Marion Lantz. Virginia Galno .t-r, Mrs D E. Gruber. Leona Wright. Mrs. W. H. Lay. Ruth Beals Paul Richman, Florence Byers. Frieda Heider and Frank ; Nusbaum. "GLOVES AGAIN - In Paris gloves have returned to favir and are worn for practically all i occasions. It Is Interesting to notice that nearly all the gloves are of short length and make no attempt to cover the space between the wrist and ! shoulder. SMART MILLINERY Helmet-shaped hats of rough straw •or milan are closely trimmed with j ribbon or feathers tightly wound ! about the brim, or with some long sweeping feather. The shape is kept very severe.
The Doctor Was Right
When the good old family doctor was asked about baking powders, he said: “Use Royal. It is made from Cream of Tartar and is absolutely pure. You could dissolve a couple of teaspoons of Royal in water and drink it with benefit. That’s a health test mighty few baking powders can meet.” The doctor was right. ROTC4JL Baking Fowder Made from Cream of Tartar derived from grapes Contains No Alum—Leaves No Bitter Taste
London Takes on Holiday Air Preparing for Royal Wedding
DUKE OF YORK AND HIS FIANCEE. LADf ELIZABETH BOWES-LYONS
Bjj United Press LONDON, April 17.—Legions of American sightseers are descending upon London to catch a glimpse of royal splendor iir^natrimony. The wedding of the Duke of York, who some day may be King of England, to Lady Elizabeth BowesLyons, scheduled for April 26. is
Girl Born in India Wins Honors Here
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MARGARET GRAINGER Two and a half years ago Margaret Grainger, 363 Burgess Ave., came to Indianapolis from her birthplace, India, where her father, O. J. Grainger, was a missionary. She had been educated in an Indian missionary school, later a Government school. Since she entered Shortridge High School, Miss Grainger has made a perfect record —A plus, 95 or above. She Is on the senior honor roll. Heading the honor roll, with averages of A plus for four years, are Dorothy Overman and Dorothy Crosby. GORGEOUS GOWN A gorgeous gown recently exhlbj ited in Paris Is of black lustrous crepe j with diamond shoulder straps, an elaborate design of peacock feathers worked out in diamonds In the front panel, extending from hem to waistline. DOUBLE FACED' Double-faced materials are very stylish, a crepe surface on top and a smooth satin below. This makes It | possible to use one side for the main | body of the gown and the reverse for trimming.
THE INDIANAPOLIS TIMES
the objoct of their curiosity, and the increasing numbers landing from every boat from New York caused one newspaper to remark: “It is the typical democratic love for the aristocracy.” With these new arrivals and the hastening of preparations for the marriage ceremony, London town itself Is beginning to take on a carnival appearance. A brilliant, luxurious pageant setting Is being prepared for the legal ceremony. Presents are pourlnto the royal residence. Lady Nancy Astor, always distinctive, sent to Lady Bowes-Lyona today one of those curious little articles of furniture peculiar to Europe called a "what-not.” It Is an arrangement of mahogany shelves which would stand In the front parlor of a Main street home and contain all the trinkets ard bric-a-brac of the household. TAILORED COSTUME A coat frock of Poiret twill gains Its chic through its lack of trimming. Only bindings of black silk braid about the collar and pockets are used. VOILE NIGHTGOWNS Nightgowns of silk voile come in all colors and are as plain or as fancy as one desires. Frequently they are embellished with double hemstitching or ribbrm binding*. CAMEL’S HAIR The suit of tan camel’s hair is going to be very popular for spring It is light in weight as well as In tone, and is an extremely youthful style.
IPI Ohe Secret of Serving \ DELICIOUS SALADS at Every Dinner at Little Cost ,w r on'irr r to Do you know that Mazola has the greatest f bermne chilled * sale of any brand of salad oil in America? This is IJ \Xt' i' \ j. f See Recipe Below because it costs considerable less and is preferred by mf'v\\ imillions of housewives to the finest imported oil. Mazola is so sweet and pure, and blends so wonderfully with your other salad ingredients, that once you become acquainted with it, you will be / delighted to serve a Mazola-dressed salad at every k It imparts to all your fruit, fresh or canned vegetable salads, a rich, satisfying and wholesome • . h. \ flavor. \\ 4 4 4 4 .ft. . . N'-jW. ,-***.& \\ * ffliEflv* --<t' X % \\ You,r grocer sells Mazola in pint, quart* v-ft^'lf fl\ tY***^* 8 """ *\\ half-gallon and gallon tins, packed and sealed under -#*■ 1 T3 \\ expert supervision. It is never sold in bottles or in Wsm 1 AiH I\l\\ Vi bulk®V & ISk || ll 3% ■ We extend to you the privilege of trying a—here ts If % 1 \ u can of Mazola. If it is not satisfactory to you, your tm u'ov > matte |4 l L fygL ?* \\\ grocer refunds the cost without question. PERFECT I \\\ French Dressing 1 ~ ! \\ 9 rtblnpomi* Mazela ft \\ \ 1 \\ -p-p-pp Beautifully I!lastr.ted SimjoonSiit jggf Si, Jr*- A \\ A Corn Produots Cook I tratpoon Suftr ■pj ■KyRM k tfaijL, (H 11 . % tcMpoo. P.prik. £.;}*>■■ t > A W . * IDL 11 Book of sixty-four pages. write to Add ISnAVm L RO ? u ? T I s t I S ca IVI Mazola and lemon juice V |E,\\v™ra IVR \\ <JtIC 816 Merchant* Bank Bldg, or vinegar and beat until IvWUMIPk# 4* * * / 'Wk %\ D _ Indianapolis, IndL creamy. This dressing may B \ vffiVj fck\ WK C §*Jr ***' " , £ IS \\ OCSL 10l be made in larger quantities \\Va\v®\|L 4 1 * MV X ||| |\ , -g and kept in a bottle and shaken iTOMiAyftWflV v ■> H ff <6% H I as used. v •• J eA ; s\ w W Thla ta the rcsulatWm rMip for fmch StMt \ A %Wk fr'A „■**’ *' (2/7 W Dreaatiif. but tb .rogoniooa ct oil ng WS \ y> .rid may b. reverted to mrii. h Unit KftfA \ .Bat ttvrt R/fft My'A MM i Iff /lfl , S<%da ySf more tart tor tboa. daatrlue a ttotjnt ■&!>]> \ dreaaior. HWIA 1 fIR Vpa .a6 V#M* \ Qfly
COCIAL Activities ENTERTAINMENTS WEDDINGS BETROTHALS
Kappa alpha theta* win give a bridge party Saturday afternoon, May 19, for active members and alumna/A Miss Grace Hackleman, 1201 N. Alabama St., has charge. • • • IN honor of her guests. Mrs. Robert of Evansville, Ind., and Mrs. Henry Marshall, Jr., of Lafayette, Ind., Mrs. Carl M. Geupel, 309 E. Fall Creek Blvd., entertained at tea today. Spring flowers were used in the decorative scheme. Assisting the hostesses were Mesdames Louis Geupel. Otto Klauss, George Losey, Ward Brown, O. It. Catterlin, Frank Farris and Edward Boleman. Mrs. Geupel entertained at three tables of bridge-luncheon Monday in honor of her guests. Complimenting Mrs. Markel and Mrs. Marshall, Mrs. Otto Klauss. 3609 Carrollton Ave., will give a small bridge party Wednesday afternoon. * * Miss Romille Gaffron, 2223 N. New Jersey St., will entertain at dinner Wednesday night in honor of Mr. and Mrs. Gordon W. Fiscus of Chicago, who are visiting Mrs. Fiscus’ mother, Mrs. ll£rry A. Itost, 4151 College Ave. Mm Rost wi 11 givo a dinner tonight for Mr. and Mrs. Fiscus and Mr. and Mrs. Arthur Queisser of Elkhart, Ind., who are also her house guests. Mr. and Mrs. George Fiscus, 2150 N. New Jersey St., entertained at dinner Sun day in honor of Mr. and Mrs. Gordon Fiscus. • * Mr. and Mrs. Carl L. Rost, 3727 Central Ave.. are In New York to meet Miss Helen Irene Rost, who will return this week from abroad. * • • * The Wednesday Needle Club of Myrtle Temple No. 7, Pythian Sisters, will meet Wednesday afternoon with Mrs. Beatrice "Doyle, 656 E. Twenty-First Street. • • • The Woman's Club of the Fletcher Savings and Trust Company entertained 200 employes of the company at dinner Monday night. Miss Josephine Shaw, president of the club, was in charge. Talks were made by Alias Shaw, Miss Roberta Branham, Miss Margaret Shipp. Miss Helen Illcks, James Rea. Francis Ohleyer and Mrs. Edith McKinney. ... Mrs. A. E. Mclntosh, 2010 N. Meridnn St., entertained with a bridgetea this afternoon, having Mrs. Krw' Ilirch, who moved here recently from New York City, as a special guest. American beauty ross were used to decorate the rooms. The guests: Mesdames William 11. Folk, Gladys Farber, David Edwards. L. G. Ferguson. Mabel Stahl. Bernard Street, Erwin Hlrch. George M. Lee, George Naylor and R. L. Mosley. • • • “Mother's Day” was observed by the Expression Club today at a meeting with Mrs. Joseph P. Gallagher, 2501 Ashland Ave. Spring flowers were used throughout the rooms. The tea table, decorated in white and green, held green tapers, tied with green tulle. In silver candlesticks. Mrs. John B. Rees gave several vocal selections, accompanied by Mrs. Ned Clay. Mrs. Gallagher gave piano selections, Mrs. Walter E. Jenney talked on "American Short Story
New Fabrics Are in Printed Design
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Once upon a time there were caJieo prints—and that was all. Now you may choose between all these fabrics for your summer frocks; ratine, voile, cotton crepe, silk crepe satin, linen, organdie, percale, crepe de chine, georgette, sateen and eponge. The costume sketched is a sport costume—printed blouse and plain while skirt—expected to be popular this summer. ■Writers” and Mrs. H. F. Saey gave leadings. The hostess was assisted bv Mrs. Harrison Porter Thrush. Mothers and friends of the members were special guests. Mesdames Gertrude Jenney. Eugene Fisher, E. P. Talbott, H. C. Keener, J. S. Duckwall, George Ftelhorn, Ed Johnson, Frank Richman. L. B. Baughman, Adam Bush, Caroline Cordes and E. J. Meunier. in compliment to bet- nephews, Dan O'Brien of Minneapolis and Dan James O'Brien of Dps Moines. Mrs. Harriet Keefauver. 19 E.- St. Joseph Si., will entertain with a bridge party this evening. * • • Women of the South Side Turner’s Club will be entertained with a card party at their hall In Prospect St., Wednesday afternoon by Mrs. Theodore Bernd. * • • The Only Euchre Club will give a card party this evening at Musicians’ Hall. 143 E. Ohio St. • • • Sisters of Golden Rule Lodge No. 25. ladles’ auxiliary to the Brotherhood of Railroad Trainmen, will serve a chicken dinner at noon Thursday in Trainmen's Hall, 1002 E. Washington St. The dinner will be followed by a card party In the afternoon and a dance In the evening. TH[S~SEA SON'S HAT The popular hat or this season is shorter in the back than in the front, and has a small, very small, drooping brim, and little trimming.
fSL siot **^ { W EMOTIONS revealed in private .letters j copyright !92i -nea servree me
LETTER FROM LESLIE PRESCOTT TO LESLIE PRESCOTT, CONTINUED. This impression or sex difference lasted but a moment. I told myself that was a silly, foolish woman, that my husband did not mean anything particularly against me, he was only annoyed because he might be expecting some business complication in Sydney's letter gnd did not. -want me to worry about it. The waiter pulled out my c-hair and asked solicitously, “Will madame have fruit?” “Did not my husband order breakfast,” I asked, again feeling irritated. Jack had always ordered the meals up to this. The simple negligence took upon itself the Importance almost of an insult. “Only for himself, madame,” came to my ears in obsequious tones. I had a terrible sinking of heart. Jack must be greatly worried over something or very angry at me. “I will have a cup of coffee only.” I knew my voice was trembling. He Was Scowling .Tack paid no attention whatever to my conversation with the waiter. He was scowling intently upon his letter. Consequently, when the coffee came I could not swallow. With a great effort I murmured, “Jack, yViu must excuse me.” I waited an Instant for hitp to answer and then left the table precipitously. I knew If I did not I should burst into tears in a public dining-room. I walked unseeingly out the door and, to my mortification, abruptly bumped into the hotel clerk who must have seen my agitation. At last I found my way to my room and threw myself on the bed with a feeling that my whole world was rocking. I wonder if every bride feels that life is ended after the first quarrel. I wonder if there are any married people in the world who do not quarrel. Jack and I had known each other for such a little while that we had j not had the slightest disagreement | in all the time of our engagement I and here we were married only less | than one month and both of us with ■ hearts bursting with annoyance. If j not actual hatred. Illusions Dissipated In whatever way we may patch up this difference, one of my most beautiful illusions is already dissipated. Jack was very inconsiderate. If be had only said to me I must not open letters that had come to him from his men friends, I would have respected his wishes and tliis never would have happened. But the way ; he has acted in the matter makes i me believe In his heart he thinks I j have done something disgraceful, : something no right-minded woman would do. I think I have been very liberal minded with Jack. I did not ask him anything about his life before he knew me. I considered that was a closed hook, but I think that after marriage the hook should be open
for the inspection of either one of the partners. I know I have seen my mother often open dad’s letters. In fact, she always took care of all correspondence that came to the house whether it was addressed to him or to her. I wonder if dad and mother had a quarrel before they came to that understanding? NEXT: Continuing her secret letter, Leslie Prescott learns her husband does not believe they were made one by marriage. NOVEL SLEEVES' Circular ruffles and cape-like frills are greatly liked as a relief from tho sJeveless or the very long sleeved frocks of the season. “black net ' Black net, trimmed with all-over embroidery or delicate traceries in braid or beads, is used in many ways by the fashionable modiste.
Peeling Off the Years From the Aging Face
It should be possible for a woman of 45 to make herself look not a day over 25. Almost any woman of 30 can look 20. Modern science has achieved in ordinary mercoUzeJ wax a medium that accomplishes the seemingly Impossible. Just as a withering rose can be made t look young and beautiful again by peeling off Ilia faded outer petals, so the face will refzi.i Its youthful appearance if tho dead cuticle Is removed as fast as It appears, allowing the new, fresh skin underneath to develop like a bud creaking into flower. And that is what snereolized wax actually does—peels off the ailing surface skin—gently, gradually, harmlessly. If you’ve never tried tilts remarkable suostance. get aa ounce Jrom your druggist, use like cold cream at night, washing it off mornings —and watch the years peel off.—Adver* tisemeut.
Moliers Prefer Cnticm Shampoos For Children Regular shampoos with Cuticura Soap and hot water, preceded by touches of Cuticura Ointment to spots of dandruff and itching, keep the scalp clean and healthy. Proper care of the hair during childhood is the basis for healthy hair through life. Simp'.* Each Free br MiL Atl4re*r “Cntionr* or* tori®*. Dfv 18G, Maiden 41. Mam.." Sold everywhere. Soap 25c. Ointment 25 and 60c. TaJcum 25c. Cuticura Soap ahavea without mug.
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