Indianapolis Times, Volume 35, Number 193, Indianapolis, Marion County, 22 December 1922 — Page 9

DEC. 22, 1922

Eliminate Selfishness to Insure Happy Homes

Wht a different world this would be i£ there was no selfishness in It! Husbands would think flrst o£ tbeir wives’ happiness, not their own. Wives would not buy so many hats if they knew Hubby would have to work overtime to pay for them. Because practically every ci vie movement starts in thè home, and husbands and wives are thè center of thè home, thè spirit of unselfishness would spread. Children would gTow up to think of others flrst. Then these children, grown-ups and members of civic clubs would think of thè good of thè whole city, not just one part. Stili further along in thè movement. cities would take into consideration thè effect of their acts on thè State, and thè State on thè Naiion. And gradually this spirit would -sxtend to thè whole world and make it a world of brothers. It would all start in thè home. Christmas is a good time to think about it. Child Wife Ùnhappy Dear Martha Lee: I am a very unhappy ijirl. I was married about two months aro. I was 16 thcn. but have had a birthday sinee my marriatre -*■ My husbard and I get along pretty well, only he thinks a great deal of his mother. We stayed with his parents for a while and now we are e tarine with my parents But he doesn't set-m to be satisfied and wants *o go to houeekeeping. But he wants to Uve up near his people and l don’t like thè ni i-hHnrhood. He doen’t seetn to <-are whetber X do or not. WìU you pleaee rive ni. - * adviee'-—POLT.Y. Married at 16! Oh well, It does no good to teli you now that you should not have married before you were at least 19. Tou should be glad your husband t.hinks 60 much of his mother. The men to be trusted most are those who do Just that. But he is selfish. Aa you will be at home much more than he wlll, he should b? willlng to go to housekeepìng In a locality that satisfles you. Perhaps you could get some place that you would lik but that stili would be near enough to his parent3’ home for him to see his mother and father frequently. I am glad you ilo want to go to housekeeping. That ls much better than living with either of your parents. And, Polly, even though you do not get just what you want, make your home a pretty, cheerful one, wherever it is, and you will find happiness. Baby Is Tie Dear Martha te: I am quite unhappy and I wish for your adviee. I am married and have one of thè sweetest baby girl, 7 months old. This ts about thè only reason I want io live with my husband. for he eems to think much of thè baby. He daitr.s be thinks lots of me. aiso. But I don't belteve he eares for me. becsuse he is always out flirtine with other women. He doesn't work very weli. He

AN UNUSUAL ìffllSflfìf IFMTniFhW yPM^t lILuiERf EVENTI Choice of any hat in our popular priced sehtion SATURDAY, $5.00. This is your opportunity to obtain one of thè seasion’s best at a ridiculously low price. SHAPES • COLORS Small Turbans, Mush- Copen, Sand, Brown, rooms, Pok es, as ~[f Henna, Pearl, Rose, Well as thè barge /V 4 Jade and Plent.y Dress Hate Lff' °f Black MATERIALS and TRIMMINGS Made of such attractive materiate as silk hair cloth, faille silk, gros de londre, satin, satin combined with fur, and combination embroidered hats set off with trimmings of imitation paradise, ciré ribbon, flowers, ostrich and fur. Many of These Hats Have Beai Marked Very Much Higher Than thè Sale Price —FOURTH FTXJOR, MILLINERY. The Wm. H Block Co

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Martha Lee*s Adviee

doesn’t go out at nights, however. He does his flirt ing in day Urne. I wish to know how to guide us on thè road to happiness, for thè baby’s sake.— HOPE. Are you sure your husband flirta with other women? You know, sometimes our imaginations run rìot. Perhaps he is naturally friendly and is not flirting at all. As he eares so much for thè baby, that is your chance to make your berne happy. Make plana for thè Utale girl and teli him about them. Teli him of all thè things he can do for thè baby when he begins to cara more money. Teli him or pretty things you see in thè Windows that you want him to buy for her. Just dream happv dreams for thè girl and teli your husband about them. That will spur him on. Then make your home such a happy one that you will not have to be afraid of his flirting. Ne ver nag. If you want to stop any flirting, do it lndireetly by speaking of thè effect a fatcer’s and mother’s actions have on their children. Girl Is Fickle Dear Mise Lee. I ara a man of 23. Threc years ago I fell in love with a girl two ycars youngrr tha r I. She pronused ot marry me. bui broke thè engagement two months before we were to be married. without any reaeon. A few months la ter she martied another man, who is qnite wealthy. I ara raakine only a fairly good salary. She obtained a -livorce irom this man. who is twice her ape, a menth ago. Sinee then I have seen her often and she speaks of our love, as if she would like to tnaary me now. Miss Lee. I stili think a great deal of her: but my trust is genie. Do you think we could be happy?—JUST A MAN. Fickle, isn’t she? It may be that she leamed her lesson and that she would make you an ideal wife now.

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Ahead of Hubby in Public Office Pat S. Nagle, Socialist orator of Kingflsher, Okla., has been seeking public office for years back, only to see his wife, shown above, appointed to office before him. Mrs. Nagle becomes a member of thè State board of affairs Jan. 8. But I can understand how you feel. You must judge for yourself whether she could settle down to lise now with a comparatively poor man. Perhaps she thinks that with your love and thè alimony I suppose she gets, she could be happy. I could not teli without meeting her. Love at 16 Dear Martha Lee: I am 16. I went with one boy for about a year and qult him a few months ago to go with another fellow. Now I am tired of this seeond fellow and really like thè other one better. Won't you to’ me how to win him back?—ANNABELLE. Good gracious, Annabelle! I hope you learn. some day, when you see a good thing to stick to IL How-, ever. it is not so important in this case, for it may be for thè best that you dici not stick.

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i I really think you are worrying too much about thè “fellows,” Anna belle. Let them be just friends for a few more years and don’t think of winning them and winning them back. I can arsure you that you will get a great deal more enjoyment ouì of lise that way than if you stari thinking of love affairs now. Cousin Is Dilemma Dear Miss Lee: My r*r 1 cousin, about mv age, is ccming to visit me during thè holidays. I am going to a dance one night. T rcpived tha invitation before I Unew she was coming My escort will be a man Ido not know very well. but I expect to see htn Saturday. Should I say arything about my cousin. or is it all right for me to go to tbr dance without her?—J. E. F. If thè dance is a private affair, cali thè hostess and teli her of your visitor. She will make arrangemenis for an escort. Do that immediately. so as to cause her as little inconvenience as possible. If it is a public dance, teli your escort, when you see him Saturday. that your cousin is coming and that you did not know it when you were invited. He probably will offerto find an escort for her. If he does not, say that you will not be able to go unless she receives an invitation. EXCHANGE CLUB HOLDS CHRISTMAS CELEBRATION The annual Christmaa party of thè Exchange Club of Indianapolis was held today at thè Hotel Lincoln. Exchange of presente llmited to fifty cents value among thè members of thè club was thè cause of merriment. Amendments to thè constitution of thè club limltlng thè membership to one hundred, and changing thè yearly dues and fees were discussed. TRAINMAN IS KILLED By Uniteti Pret* B ATAVI A, Ohio. Dee. 22.—Frank | Kelley, brakoman, was kllled and Are- J man Casey Wood’s leg was broken ; when a double-header freight train J was derailed at Mount Orab, six miles east of here today.

SOCIAL A CTIVITIES

Mrs. Donald P. Hawkins entertained with a tea-dance this aftemoon at thè Hotel Severin, introducing her daughter, Clarice. Receiving with Mrs. Hawkins and Miss Clarice was Mrs. Mary J. Hawkins, Miss Hawkins’ grandmother. The tea table was decorated with bowls of roses in pastel •hades and ropes of smilax and was presided over by debutants and young society matrons. • Mr. and Mrs. Arthur Vorhees Brown will entertain with a dancing party his evening at thè Propylaeum in honor of their daughter, Katherine. Christmas greenery and a multitude of vari-colored balloons will be used in decoration. Covers were laid for twenty-four at thè luneheon and Christmas party of thè Friday Aftemoon Reading Club at thè home of Mrs. George W. Schowe today. The centerpieee was a miniature Santa Claus on a mound of holly. Mrs. E. W. Stockdale arranged thè informai program whlch fcllowed. * • Miss Helene and Miss Haven Hibben entertained their dancing pupils with a Christmas party in Carr's hall In Irvington yesterday aftemoon. * * * Mrs. E. C. Rumpler gave thè history of thè Republican party from 1852 to 1860 at thè meeting of thè Seventh District Democratic Women’s Republijan Club yesterday aftemoon at thè Columbia Club. The next meeting of thè club will be Jan. 18. and thè

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birthday anniversaries of Washington and Lincoln will be celebrated with a luneheon, Feb. 12 at thè Columbia Club. * • The annual Christmas dinner-dance of thè headquarters staff of thè American. Legion was held last evening at thè Spink-Arms* The program include 1 stunts by Ruth Granville and Hai Sanders, who are on thè bill at thè Palace Theater. Talks were made by Alvin M, Owsley, national oommander; Lemuel Bolles, national adjutant; Frank Henly, State adjutant; Miss Bess B. Wetherholt, national secretary for thè auxiliary; William N. Day, natiopal auditor; Miss Elsa Fisher, representing thè office force and Miss Hazel Worktnan, secretary of thè auxiliary of thè Indiana depurimene * * * Mrs. Curtis Hodges spoke in favor of thè marriage and divorce bill and thè all-time health officer bill at thè meeting of thè business woman’s section of thè Woman’s Department Club. Miss Merica E. Hoagland and Miss Elizabet ì Rainey also spoke. * * The Christmas dinner of thè Woman’s Auxiliary to thè 38th Division, which- was to have been given on Wednesday. Dee. 27. will take place Thursday at thè home of Mrs. W. H. Blodgett. * * * Mrs. Nicholas H. Moyes entertained with a luneheon yesterday. announcing thè engagement of Miss Jane

Ridgely, daughter of Henry D. Ridgely and a niece of Mr. and Mrs. J. K. Lilly, to A. Gordon Murdock, son of Mr. and Mrs. Samuel T. Murdock, which is to take place at thè home of Mr. and Mrs. Lilly in January. a * • The board of directors of thè Locai Council of Women will meet at 10 o’clock Tuesday moraing in thè Fletcher American Bank building. • • Miss Maria n K. Fischer, who is attending De Pauw University, and Karl M. Fischer from Indiana University are spending thè holidays with their parents, Mr. and Mrs. M. C. Fischer of Woodruff Place. • * • Mrs. Thomas Stewart entertained thè Frìendship Club with a Christmas dmner yesterday. Covers were laid

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