Indianapolis Times, Volume 35, Number 179, Indianapolis, Marion County, 6 December 1922 — Page 5

DEC. 6, 1922

MARTHA LEE’S COLUMN OF AD VICE TO TROUBLED

“Happy medium*' is an overworked phrase. but it stili means as much as lt did thè day it first was used. It can be applied to love, as to manv other things. Here’s thè problem: One girl writes that her friends teli her she should be “more loving” with thè men; an-

Thrnngh a tj poi; rapii Seal error I was qLoted yesterday as ielllng bhirle? C. 1 il d not think she was wrong In letting thè boys klss her. My inteiv110 wa to teli her 1 th.nk she was right In not letting boy kiss her.— Martha Lee.

other girl writes she eannot hide her feelings when she is with a certain man, and her friends say she should “treat him eool.” Which is thè best way? Tbe “medium** way, in my opinion. No man wants a cold look turned on him ever; rime he tells thè girl of hls dream that her eves are like thè stara. Bui any man gets tired of having som girl constantly teli him how much sh loves him. and demand that he teli her of his love every two <y three minutes. The "happy medium” solves thè problem. And of eourse thè man’s eharacter has to be taken into consideration. Sincere friendship, and later, sincere love, might be substituted for "happy medium.” Dear Miss Lee: I have been ponderine over a question i or some time and am aure you ■ an aaswer it correctìy. I have been -oinp with a feliow for almost a year steady. and find that when I am with him I canno! hide my feeling!. When I talk to my girl friends they *ay I am too “soft.” They gay I should act as though I do not care much for him: in other word, vreat .him “eool.'* Now. Miss I-ee. every night I think that thè nevt date I have with nim. I wUI treat htm "eool.” Then when he cornea I flnd that it is fmpossible to do so. I love this feliow and ani sure I will never love any one else as l have loved him. I would hate to t*ve him qult me just because I treated He is very easiìy peeved. Will teli me how to treat him:— Treat him as a very good friend, of whom you think a great deal. That l.s thè "happy medium" between treating him "eool" and being too ardent. <>rtainly you should not make love io him, if that la what you mean when you say you can not hide your feeiings. If you intend for him to do thè proposing when thè time Comes for that. yoty had better let him do thè court! ng now. Bear Miss Lee: I am a girl IT years old and have been goinsr with a young man two years older than I for several weeks. He is a very niee young man and takes me mmj piace*, but he gets cui te angry at me at times and says he has chance* to go to see other girls. but he keeps wanting to come to see me. He tells me he likes me very much. but as I mentioned before, he wants me to do just as he says. I like this young man and he tells me he like me. Could you please givs me any Information showing whether he care* for me:—ANXIOT7S. Apparently thè young man likes you, or he would not continue to come to see you. But. my dear, I should not let myself like him too much. He Is too assertive. Surely he must be a fast worker. to be ordering you around, aster coming to see you for three weeks! Don’t let any man begln ordering you around, unless you intend to let him continue lt. It is an easy habit for a man to acquire—too easy. Answer to M. L.: I was very glad to read your letter. It showed you are honestly t**ying to do what is best for your child. as well as for yourself and your husband I belleve your suggestion that you talk to your husband's mother is a very good one If her husband Is like her son. she probably will be able to teli "you what to de and sho also may be able to ehow your husband what he is doing. You. too. must keep on trying to show him what harm he is doing your child. If he does not change I belicve lt would be best for vou to go home to your parents untll aster thè birth of your child. However, I think your husband can he made to see he !s wrong. so such stringent measures will not be neo^ssary. Dear Mise Lee : I ani 24 year old and have been marrir-d si ve years. I have no chi lilrea ar.d my busband a oc* not vani ali'. We have alita,': danced and my hubn-i refnse* to give un dancing. He is an awtul flirt and gets very angry when I tei! thè young girl that he is mamed to me On several occasiona lately he has suzgested that I go to thè dance and he would come later, but he never cornea. When I return bome he lella me of come piace he has been. My husband runa a poolroom and is kardly ever at home He la gone from nlne in thè morning to twelve at night. The only time we were together wa when we went to a dance: but lt seems he has taken even that privilegi away. I have ollen spoken to him about it, but be only beeomes angry. Do you think I should go on living like this'-—WOKRIED. If eourse you should not go on living as you say you are. But, Worried, I wonder whether things are as bad as you 6ay. or whether you are exaggerating. If you are sure you do all you can for your husband and that he ls deliberateli* cruel, I think thè best thing for you to do would be to go away for t while. Give hiin a chance to realiste what it would mean not to have you there, waiting for him. Let him think things over. Then come back to him, aster he has had a chance to repent. Of eourse, if you wish him really to repent, you must not nag. Just make your home such a pleasant place for him he will want to come there. If you do not think thè "cure” would work in this case, write to me again, giving me your reasons for thinking that, and I eliail try to work our another solution. My Dear Miss Lee. I am 18 years old and bare been raarned twlce. My husband

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is a trareling man and so ls out of town inost of thè time. I have three young men who cali on me. One of them ia 21 years old and pays me a great deal of attention. Is it wrong for me to go out with him as long as my husband does not know. or should I teli him': Please let me kr.ow what 1 should do.—PEACHES. Peaches, did you promise to "love, honor and obey” your husband only when he ls in town? Do you think your obligatlon to him end as soon as he goes on a business trip? No wonder you have had two hushands! I suppose tha first one could not stand that for very long. Two husbands and three lovers — and you are only 18* Oh, Peaches, have you no conscienco? You ask whether it is wrong for you to go with this man as long as your husband doesn’t know. I answer that it most certainly is wrong for you to do that, and it would stili be wrong if your husband did know. Unless you want to have a second x-husband, stop going with these .ien right away. Surely you carnet :elp seeing how wrong lt is for you o go out with other men while your lusband is out of town, or while he V. in town. Even if you do not see, take my advice and don’t do it any more.

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SOCIAL ACTIVITIES

A novel idea in bazaars will be thè “Chrlstmas Stocklng Fair" which thè Teachera’ College of Indianapolis will give Dee. 8 and 9 at thè school on Alabama and Forty Third Sts. Each booth will contain gifts suitable for different type of person and will be managed by three or four wornen, for exaniple: “For thè Children and Our liearest Friends” will be in thè care of Miss Mary TuVner, Miss Ruth Patterson, Mrs. Borace Moorman, Mrs. Olile Cunningham, thè first term kindergarten and primary class and thè special art classes, and will contain dolls, toys and handmade art goods. "For Sister’s Stocking” is in care ot Miss Elizabeth Downhour, Mrs. Laura B Royse. Mrs. Franees Kelsey, Mrs. Emma Jessup and thè first year elementari* school classes, and will contala varlous types of fancy work. "For Our Kinfolks” will be portraits. snapshots and pictures in charge of Miss Ida Conner, Miss Josephine McDowell, and thè third term kindergarten and primary class. “For Orandmother and Our Teachera” will offer aprons in care of Miss Ruby Stapp, Miss Fay Marshall, Miss Mary Walkup and thè second year kindergarten and primary class. “For Mother’* will be thè household booth in charge of Miss Elizabeth Hall. Mrs Fannie Baker, Mrs. Helen Robb Smith and thè second year elementary school class. “For Grandfather and Everybody”— tbe candy booth —will be In charge of Miss Alta Smith, Mrs Bianche Chenoweth. Mrs Flora Nuckolls and thè home economics classes. "For Father’s and Brother's Big Appetites"— thè canned goods, cakes and bread—will be in care of Miss Ethel Bryan, Mrs. Heckman. Miss Emma Henry and thè Jackson kindergarten and graded school. The specialtles, as flowers, shoe shining, manicure parior.

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800 Fresh , New Garments of Philippine Lingerie Hand-Made and Embroidered At $1.95 and $2.95 INASMUCH as thè Philippine lingerie you buy from Ayres cornea to us directly from thè Philippines, where it is made under American supervision and according to American styles, you pay really lesa for more desirable garments than you do for Philippine lingerie made and bought in thè usuai way. These Are Exceptio :ially Tempting Value*

Nightgowns Of very fine nainsook, with or without sleeves, with square, V and round necklines, hand n.ade and hand embroidered in as many as seven different designs—fi.9s and $2.95.

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etc„ will be managed by thè alumni. Saturday afterr.on thè fair will dose with a childrens’ party arranged by Miss Ruby Stapp. There will be games, dances and storfes under thè direction of expsrienced klndergartners. * * * The entertainment to be provlded for thè members of thè cast of thè play to be given by thè dramatic club of thè University of Michigan at thè Murat, Dee. 20, includes a tea to be given that afternoon at thè SplnkArrrs. Mrs. Victor Jose, Jr., ls chalrman of thè hostesses’ committee which includes Mrs. Linton Cox, Mrs. W. Gage Hoag, Mrs. Owen Miller, Mrs. Homer Lathrop, Mrs. Herman Kothe, Mrs. Jesse Moore, Mrs. Russe! Seeds and Mrs. Robert Elliott. * • • “Important Foundations and Gifts” was thè subject of thè dlscussion at a meeting of thè Wednesday afternoon club In thè home of Mrs. J. G. Martin this afternoon. Mrs. J. L. Dunn had as her topic “John D. Rockefeller” and Mrs. J. L. Leist spoke on "Andrew Camegie.” • • • One of th3 most interestlng of thè regular programs of thè Matinee Musicale was promlsed for this afternoon. The soloists included Miss Norma Mueller in a group of songs accompanied by Mrs. Frank Edenharter with a cello obllgato by Miss Yuba W.ilhlte. Miss Ruth Parry was to give a group of songs accompanied by Miss Isabel Parry and Mrs. liouls G. George was to give several selectlons with Mrs. Robert O. Bonner as accompanist. The Lincoln Trio also was to take part in thè program. • • • Mrs. Demarchus Brown will give a lecture on "The Passion Play”

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Mrs. Norman Metzger is visitlng in Toledo, Ohio. • * under thè auspices of thè young ladies* Sunday school class at Roberts Park M. E. Church, Tuesday evening, Dee. 19. The proceeds will be used toward furnishing a room for charity patienta at thè Methodist Hospital. • • * Carnation Club No. 4 met this afternoon at thè home of Mrs. Irvln Jones on Trowbridge St. • • • The literary and drama sectlons of thè Woman's Department Club held a joint meeting this afternoon at thè clubhouse. The following members from thè drama section took part in a playlet, "The Well Remembered Voice.” Mrs. Frank Reissner Mrs Dick Richards, Mrs. Leo K. Fessler, Mrs. J. Gardner Wilson, Mrs. W. 8. Kirby and Mrs. 11. A. Crossland. Mrs. Inaura Blanton read a paper on "The Lise and Works of Slr James Larrie.” Miss Katherine Lucilie Windera, accompanied by Mrs. M. J>. Didway, will sing several selections. • • • Mrs. Horaeo F. Woods entertained informally this afternoon in honor of Mrs. Fred Comps of Culver, who ls a guest of Mrs Robert Husbands. • • • The annual fair of St. Paul’s Episcopo! Church will be held In thè parislì house from 10 o’clock In thè morolog till 10 o'clock Thursday evening. The Parish Aid Society, thè Choir Chapter, thè Girls* Friendly Society and thè choir will have booths. 8t Margaret's Guild will arrange thè candy sale, and thè Daughtera of St Paul will sell church calendari. Luncheon will be served from 11 to 1 o’clock.

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Men’s Heavy Sleeping Garments In a Specially Attractive Sale Pajamas, Suit Nightshirts, Each $1.75 $1.39

“Knight of thè Knight” brand, fall eat, beautifully mede of fine, higheount, soft outing flannel ; striped patterns in a varied assortmcnt, with military collar and trimmed with pearl buttons ahd fiber frogs.

Philippine Underwear, $1.98 ideal for Christmas giving are fine, soft, handsoraely hand-em-broiderod Fhllippine umler-garmf-nts; nightgowns and ecvelope chemises; in aizes to 44.

Also ‘‘Knight of thè Knight” brand as well made and as full cut as thè pajamas, of fine soft outing flannel as well, and well made; button to thè waist ; neatly <• trimmed with fiber frogs; made with pocket; wide opening at throat.

YARD GOODS Hemstitched Pillou)• cases, 39c Each 42x36 Inches; fine quality, well made. Crib Blankets, 35c Plaids and plain colora; size 34 x 45 inchea. Sheet Blankets, 95c Ea . Size 64x76 inches ; in plain gray, with plnk or blue border. Yard-Wide Challis, 17c Yard New patterns; good substantial quality; yard wide; Persian pattern. Cotton Batts, $1 Each Good clean cotton. 72x90 inches; 3-pouud roll. Reai Silk Hosiery Substandards 80c Pr. Made of 12-strand pure thread silk, ankle fitti ng, with high-splieed licei, fashion mark. mock seam, ravel stop, doublé top, of merccmed lisle ; also hcel and toe and sole. Regular sizes in twenty-five shades ; out siz.*s in five. Have Passed Five Inspections — Visit thè Reai Silk Booth WomerTs Winter Union Suits, $1 Each Low-neck, sleeveless, aoxkla and knee lengtli. Dutch neck, short sleeves, ankle length. High neck, long Eleeves. sud ankle length. Sizes 36 to 60—not all aizes te all etyles ; white only. Sample Overblouses, $5.95 Each CaDton crepe, crepe de risine, ueorgette, hand embroidered, some in batik patterns. some bead trimmed; some lace trimmed; light and dark shades; sizes 86 to 44—in broken size ranges. Excellent Value — Fine Holiday Gift Suggestions Women’s Giove, $1.19 Pair Of cape, kid, and ned#; black, brown, gray, white and sand; embroidered in self, gray, black, white and tan; sizes to 10,

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