Indianapolis Recorder, Indianapolis, Marion County, 12 May 2000 — Page 19

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friends excessively is a major prob-

of maturity is a re- lem. From time to time, various isure a healthy rela- outcomes of “friends vs. mates” exler to establish a ude from an unhealthy relationship, communication, it is Adequate bondage should be condiscuss all feelings and sidered when committing oneself to with their compan- such a responsibility. If a party is not ( ■nggJr v adult enough to take on such acthe problem with me and countability, then the relationship was the fact that we should not be weighed. A relation-

boo shy or afraid to talk ship should never be an obligation; ^ aboutthe way wewere when two people unite, harmony chaotic. A said Michelle Strong, a 17- should come of it, because if both outcome of a ‘ road Ripple student. We individuals contemplated on joining petitipn. In be able to communicate together, they should make the best inevitable that both of us could be under- of their relationship. will have a res each other. Without “I realized about a month ago that to them.

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