Democratic Sentinel, Volume 14, Number 20, Rensselaer, Jasper County, 6 June 1890 — Page 3

AFTER MARRIAGE.

of the First Lessons to Be Learned I* Mutual Ccnfideuce. The only possible secrets between two married people should be those which are sonfided to either one of them by others. While some people, who call themselves worldly wise, will laugh at the idea of inch perfect confidence as this implies, ethers still, especially the newly married, who have had small worldly experience, will be shocked that I should suggest the Keeping of any kind of secret by either wife or husband from the other. lam not prepared to say that these last are not the wiser of the two. Only, in that ca<e, when > ny confidence is proffered to either husb nd or wife, the recipient of it stould make hrs or her position clearly understood, says a writer in the Domestic Monthly. No personal secret cun fitly belong to one only of the two people of whom love and law have made one flesh. The very ideal of’ marriage had been realized by that old judge who had knelt tor so many years to say a la-t prayer at night beside his wife, that when at last the had left him his lips were dumb, and without her he could not even open his heart to God. One frequent cause of trouble in married life is a want of openness in business matters. A husband marries a pretty, thoughtless girl, who has been used to taking no more thought as to how she should be clothed th -n the lilies of the field. He begins by not liking to refuse any of her requests. He will not hint, so long as he can help it, at care in trifling expenses—he does not like to associate himself in her mind with disappointments and self-denials. And she, who would have been willing enough, in the sweet eagerness to please of her girlish love, to give up any whims or fancies of her own whatever, falls into habits of careless extravagance, and feels herself injured when, at last, a remonstrance comes. How much wiser would have been perfect openness in the beginning! There are thousands of lictle courtesies also that should not be lost sight of in the cruel candor of marriage. The secret of a great social success is to wound no one’s self-love. The same secret will go far toward making marriage happy. Many a woman, who would consider it an unpardonable rudeness not to listen with an air of interest to what a mere acquaintance is saying, will have no least scruple in showing her husband that his talk wearies her. Of course the best thing is when talk does not weary—when two people are so unified in taste that whatever interests the one is of equal interest to the other, but this cannot always be the case, e'en in a happy marriage; and is it not better worth while to take the small trouble of paying courteous atten- ■ tion to the one who depends on you for his daily happiness than even to bestow this courtesy on the acquaintances whom it is a transient pleasure to please? Ideality is a good house-mate. That love lasts longer, as well as reaches h'gher, which idealizes its object—yet there is one dangerous direction which - ideality may take. If it deceive us into the belief that we are wedding perfection, then the revelation of human infirmities, which is an inevitable consequence of all marriage, comes upon us with a shock which is sometimes perilous to contentment. The best antidote for this rude shock would be a little wholesome selfexamination. The vainest of us can scarcely cherish a secret belief in our own perfection. We realize in ourselves, when we look within, the very faults of which we are most intolerant in others. Above all things, let those who would find in earthly marriage heavenly delight and life-long sweetness, learn that to love —which includes all good things—includes forgivness of sins and gentleness of judgment.

School Days of Long Ago.

No more interesting character of our times now lives than Gen. F. E. Spinner of Treasury fame. Although nearly ninety years old he preserves all his faculties, and in “College and School” he tells in an entertaining manner of his schooldays in Mohawk Valley. The schoolboys and girls of the present day will be able to contrast their happy lot with Gen. Spinner’s. “And now ‘the master;’ he was, as a rule, selected from the hands who worked on the farm in the summer and taught school in the winter; not for the quantity or the quality of his brains, but for his superior muscular development. "His equipment consisted of a stout pair of coarse cowhide boots wherewith to discipline the big boys, a lot of rods, a heavy ferule and a two-bladed pocketknife, the larger blade used for the cutting and trimming of rods and switches, and the smaller one wherewith to make pens from quills out of the wings of a goose. A goose! fit emblem of all that pertained to an old-time common school in the Mohawk Valley. * “Teaching in those early days was principally by induction, and it was induced by rod and ferule. Old King Solomon, •the wisest of men,’ made the law that governed tire old-time common schools in the Valley of the Mohawk. “ ’Spare not the rod,’ was the edict at the home and in the school. ‘Spare the rod and spoil the child,’ came from the pulpit, the school-room and the nursery. "Perhops this is the reason why I did not spoil, and that I am now, at the age of eighty-eight years, so well preserved. The rod was never spared on me at home or m school, and now, with grown-up great-grandchildren, I can truthfully say I have never, in all my long life, struck a child a single blow. “I was licked enough to last through the whole four generations of self and my posterity. I have found it safe through life to practice the reverse of what was taught me to do. “Farm hands in those days received f 8 a month and board. When employedin the winter as teachers they sometimes managed to get. a little more, but they were obliged to ‘board round’ with the parents of their pupils. “The board usually consisted of john-nie-eake for breakfast, corned beef and* cabbage, or pork and saner kraut, for dinner, and sepawn and milk for supper. The lodging a ‘shake-down’ in the garret. “Websters Spelling book, Columbian Reader, English Reader, Jiabol’s Arithmetic and Lindley Murray’s Grammar were the books mostly in use in those far-off days. “The routine of the school exercises of that day was to commit to memory passages from the books, the meaning of .which the pupil had no more conception lot than Nicodemus had of the second fcixth.’’— Golden Daye.

“STRUCK THE GOLDEN MEAN”

As a Blood Purifier. The Detroit Free Press says: "Hibbard's Rheumatic Syrup, prepared by The Charles Wright Medicine Company, ot this city, has struck the (/olden Menu in the treatment of all blood diseases, and its success is au evidence that an honest, pure and valuable medicine is not incapable of attracting the attention of every mmily. There seems to be but one opinion as to its merit as a family medicine." This is the real secret of the success of this wonderful remedy; It-* perfect and speedy action in removing all impure and poisonous matter from blood. No home should be without it. as a thorough and effectual blood purifier lor young and old. For sale by all drusgists.

He Also Had Rules.

He had opened a rest urant in Buffalo, and after two or three weeks he called at a bank to get the cash on a small check received from some one in Philadelphia. “Have to be identified, sir," said the teller as he shoved it back. “But I am Blank of the new restaurant around the corner." “Must be identified.” “This is payable to me or order, and I've indorsed it," protested the restaurateur. “Can’t help it sir. Rules of the bank.” The man went out and brought some one back to identify him, and the money was handed over. Three days later the teller dropped in for a lunch at the new restaurant. He had taken a seat and given his order, when the pioprietor approached him and said: “Have to be identified, sir.” “How! What?” “Have to be identified before you can get anything here, sir.” “Identified? I don’t understand you,” protested the teller. “Plain as day, sir. Rule of the house that all bank officials have to be identified. Better go out and find some responsible party who knows you.” “Hang if I do!” growled the teller, and he reached for his hat and coat and banged the door hard as he went out. — New York Sun.

The Preventive of a Terrible Disease.

No disorders, excepting the most deadly forms of lung disease, involve such a tremendous destruction of organic tissue as those which fasten upon the kidneys. Such maladies, when they become chronio—and none are so liable to assume that phase—completely wreck the system. To prevent this terrible diseass, recourse should be had, upon the first manifestation of trouble, to Hostetter's Stomach Bitters, which experience has proved to be highly effective as a means of imparting tone and regulaiity to the org&cs of urination, as noli as to the liver, stomach, and bowels. Another beneficial result or this medicine, naturally consequent upon its diuretic action, is the elimination from tne blood of impurities which beget rheumatism, neuralgia, gout, dropsy, and other malaaies. By increatiug the activity of the kidneys, it augments the depurative efficiency of these cr>:ans, whinh ate most important outlets lor the escape of such impunt.es.

The Girls Study—the Boys Frolic.

We are gradually finding out that thoughtful men—men of education and fine feeling, and especially those who have attained to public distinction—are disposed to give wr'men their just dues. Professor Taylor, of Vassar College, who h»s had unu-ual opportunities to measure the ability and poss bilities of girl students, announces his conviction that “if boys and girls were placed together in the same college, with exactly the same chances and opportunities, the girls would not only compete with but would surpass the boys, not only because of equal brain ability but on account of superior application on the part of girls, Girls will, as a rule, devote the evening to study, while boys are frolicking. ”

Hotel Colfax, Colfax Springs, Iowa.

This popular resort (on the site of the famous “Old M. CL” Mineral Sprine) has been put in complete order for the Grand Opening, Saturday, June 7. tor the season ot 189 U. The fact that the management of this hotel has been placed in charge of the well-known caterer, Frank Stewart (Supt. Dining Cur Seivice on the Chicago. Rock Island & Pacific Ry.) . is a sufficient guarantee that it will be conducted in a firstclass manner, and that guests will receive every possible attention and coinfort. The prospects for a " ull house” are already very flattering. Write and secure accommodations at cnee before the midsummer rush commences.

Abbotsford fully maintains its popularity as a show-place, and it is evident that Sir Walter Scott has not lost his hold upon the public, either in Europe or in America. Tne library and the four other rooms which contain Sir W alter’s books, curiosities, personal relics, and articles of virtu, are open on certain days during several mouths in the year on payment of a small fee, and during last year the net revenue which Mrs. Max-well-Scott, the owner of the place, derived from this source was £419.

Confidence Begot of Success.

So successful has Dr. Pierce's Golden Medical Discovery proved in curing chronic nasal catarrh, bronchial and throat diseases. that its manufacturers now sell it through dsuggists under a po.sitwe guarantee of its benefiting or caring in every case, if given a fair trial, or money paid for it will be refunded. Consumption (which is scrofula of the lungs), if taken in time, is also cured by this wonderful medicine. For Constipation or Sick Headache, use Dr. Pierce’s Pellets; Purely Vegetable. One a dose. State Entomologist Lintner, of New York, has received from a lady at Au Sable Forks samples of a peculiar fly “which frost cannot kill.” Hesays: “They have been I ving by thousands all the winter on the windows of a room without fire. She fiist saw them eight years ago, and each year since they have made their appearance, first on the brick wall outside, in the month of August, and later in the house, and always in this one room.” J. C. SIMPSON, Marquess, W. Va., says: “Hall’s Catarrh Cure cured me of a very bad case of catarrh.’’ Druggists sell it, 75c. A Maine woman gives the secret of her success in raising calla lilies. She says she allowed her calla plants to rest during the summer, repotting them m the fall in good rich earth which contained much ammonia. The plants were then trimmed and moss placed on the earth to retain the moisture. There are three men in the Oregon State Prison, each of whom cut off a hand to avoid work. They are confined in solitary cells. Two others eut off ths •nds of their fingers.

He Was a Good Boy.

A boy who was trying to get a box into the top of a shade tree on Charlotte avenue was asked by a pedestrian what his object was, and he replied : “It’s for a robin’s nest." “But why not let her make her own?” “Oh, this will save her the time and trouble." It was a soap-box filled with feathers, and while that boy may wonder as the days go by whv the robins don’t nest again, his goodness of heart will some day make a great man of him.— Detroit Free Preaa.

The Old Way.

Old Emperor (up in heaven)—Any news from earth, St. Peter. St. Peter—Yes; I've just beard that the young German Emperor has called a Labor Congress. Old Emperor—Labor Congress? What’s that?

St. Peter- It appears that the labor market is oveistocKed—more men than jobs for them. Old Emperor—Bless my stars! Doesn’t that young fool know enough to get up a war?— New York Weekly.

Hibbard’s Rheumatic and Liver Pills.

These Pills are scientifically compounded, uniform in action. No griping pain so commonly following the use of pills. They are adapted to both adults and children with perfect safety. We guarantee they have no equal in the cure of Sick Headache. Constipation. Dyspepsia, Biliousness; and, as an appetizer, they excel any other preparation.

Rudyard Kipling, the new literary light in the London sky, is a young man of twenty-five. His poem, “They’re Hanging Danny Deever in the Morning," which has made such a sensation, is a British army lyric, repulsive in theme, but striking in thought and realistic in express ion.

A Boon to Wives.

Having used “Mother’s Friend," I would not be without it. It is a boon to wives who know they must pass through the painful ordeal ot childbirth. Mrs. C., Melbourne. lowa. Write The Bradfield Regulator Co.. Atlanta, Ga.. for further particulars. Sold by all druggists. A Chicago barber says a razor gets tired and discouraged sometimes. No wonder; it is “strapped" so often.— Texas Siftings. Six Novels Free, will be sent by Cragln & Co., Philada., Pa., to any ono in the U. S. or Canada, postage paid, upon receipt of 25 Dobbins’ Electric Soap wrappers. See list of novels on circulars around each bar. Soap for sale by all grocers. Spike has a dog that he calls Compass, because it “points” to the north. 4 < Blest, easiest to use and cheapest. Piso’s Remedy for Catarrh. By druggists. 50c. America’s finest. “Tansill’s Punch” Cigar.

Hood’s Sarsaparilla Is prepared from Sarsaparilla. Dandelion, Mandrake, Dock, Juniper Berries, and other well-known vegetable remedies,' in such a peculiar manner as to derive the full medicinal value of each. It will cure, when iq /he power of medicine. Scrofula, Salt Rheum, Sores, Boils, Pimples, all Humors, Dyspepsia, Biliousness, Sick Headache, Indigestion, General Debility, Catarrh, Rheumatism, Kidney and Liver Complaints. It overcomes That Tired Feeling caused by change of climate, season, or life. Be sure to get Hood’s. ICC doses sl. ENJOYS Both the method and results when Syrup of Figs is taken; it is pleasant and refreshing to the taste, and acts gently yet promptly on the Kidneys, Liver and Bowels, cleanses the system effectually, dispels colds, headaches amd fevers and cures habitual constipation. Syrup of Figs is the only remedy of its kind ever produced, pleasing to the taste ana acceptable to the stomach, prompt in its action and truly beneficial in its effects, prepared only from the most healthy and agreeable substances, its many excellent qualities commend it to all and have made it the most popular remedy known. Syrup of Figs is for sale in 50c and $1 bottles by all leading druggists. Any reliable druggist who may not have it on hand will procure it promptly for any one who wishes to try it Do not accept any substitute. CALIFORNIA FIG SYRUP CO. BAN FUNCISCO, CAL LOUISVILLE, KY. NEW YORK, N.Y. WNTS--PENSTONS“!MjSr Send for digest of Pension and Bounty Laws. Send for Inventors’ Guide or How to Oec a Patent. Patbick O’Fabbkll, Attorney st Law, Washington, D. C. FlEN8IONA?l , 3 yrs iu last war, 15 adjudicating claims, atty since. VnilCM LAY BY SSOO TO 51590 I ULI ajear by working for us. Youcan’tdoitin ■ VW any surer or simpler way.no matter how you try. We furnish capital & pay liberally those who work either whole or part time.istamp not required for answer. Jno.C.Winston & Co-131 Van Buren st,Chieago F -at. folks! »»th. Th«y csaw no »lckn««, eontslß no poison asd newt taU. Sold by DrasrlstsoserywhersorMntby .Partis.JarsfawM Tf.WilMX'l BpSClfiC Cfc, PfclU., Pa.

Single Blessedness.

If I had to decide for my daughter whether, in view of her &rg%ter 'hapni?, ness, she should marry or reinMii single, I would find the task difficult. iaya Oliva Thorne Miller. In marriage the ordering of her life is taken in a great measure' out of her own hands; she must bend to circumstances; she is modified bv; thq influences which have surrounded her husband all his life; she t key to herself in his relatives a new set of kindred, who may or may not be agreeable to hot. The single life is much less complex, and it offers her what poets have sung ahd heroes died for—independence. Btttjtfhe points out. a woman will rarely enjoy state of single blessedness unless she is prepared for it in training and is allowed to be independent if she remains at home. - , Nearly the whole of Sennacherib's' great palace in Assyria has been cleaned! out, and the result is that 1,70 b new tablets, etc., have been secured for the British Museum.

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