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Calendar of events Tuesday The support group meeting for anorexia victims will be held at 7 p.m. Tuesday. Dec 4 at the Carmel United Methodist Church, Carmel. For further information, call Barbara Terhune, 739-6342. Greencastle Morning Musicale will meet at 8 p.m Tuesday, Dec 4 at the home of Ruth VanZwoll, 112 Northwood Blvd. Please note time change. The Alzheimer Support Group will meet at 7 p.m. Tuesday, Dec. 4 at the Putnam County Mental Health Office, 7 N. Vine St., Greencastle. The Beta Psi Chapter of Tri Kappa will meet at 7:30 p.m. Tuesday, Dec. 4 at Public Service Indiana. Please notechange in time. Wednesday The Fathers Auxiliary of the VFW will hold its regular meeting at 7:30 p.m. Wednesday, Dec. 5 at the post home. The Crescent Club will meet in the Terrace Room at the DePauw Student Union for lunch Wednesday, Dec 5 Mrs. George Williams is the hostess. Even parents need time oft. Wednesday mornings you can be yours if you bring your preschooler or infant to Tots Time, located in the First Baptist Church on Judsor/ Drive (in back of Marsh). You can take care of business, shop or just relax while your child plays with others and learns to cope with the outside world. Tri Kappa Associates will meet at 11:30 a m. Wednesday, Dec. 5 at the home of Joanne Fletcher. Bring a luncheon dish and table service. There will be no January meeting. The Putnam County Historical Society will meet at 6:30 p.m. Wednesday, Dec. 5 at the Double Decker Restaurant. Mrs. Vera Kierstead will give the program on Christmas music. Make reservations with Mrs. William J Boatright by noon Tuesday. Dec. 4. The League of Women Voters will meet at St. Andrews Episcopal Church at 7:30 p.m. Wednesday, Dec. 5. This will be a public forum on health care in Putnam County. Panelists will be: John Fajt, Putnam County Hospital ad ministrator; Dr. Gregory Larkin, family physician; Ruth Ralph, director of Putnam County Health Services Clinic; Katryna Shipman, director of Put nam County Welfare Department, and Hubert Clodfelter, Putnam County Council of Aging. The public is welcome. Greencastle Chapter No. 255 OES will hold a stated meeting at the Masonic Temple at 7:30 p.m. Wednesday, Dec. 5. All members are welcome. The Woman’s Club will meet at 2 p.m. Wednesday, Dec. 5 with Mrs. Hubert Smaltz. Mrs. Grafton Longden will give the program on Greencastle and the Putnam County poets. A series of Advent worship services began at the Peace Lutheran Church, 218 Bloomington St., Greencastle, and will continue each Wednesday at 7 p.m. through Dec. 19. All worshippers are welcome. Thursday Larrabee Lodge No. 131, F & AM Stilesville will hold its regular meeting at 7:30 p.m. Thursday, Dec. 6. An election of officers for 1985 will be held. All members are strongly urged to attend. All visiting Master Masons are welcome. The men’s interdenominational prayer breakfast is held at 6:30 a.m. every Thursday at the Double Decker Restaurant. Those participating order from the menu. Friday The Putnam County Shrine Club installation will be Friday, Dec 7 at the Mathena Manor. The social hour is at 6 p.m. and dinner is at 7. A Brown Bag Recital, part of a series of mini-recitals, will be held at noon Friday, Dec. 7 at First Christian Church, located at Indiana and Poplar streets. Greencastle. The music will be presented from 12:05-12:35 p in. Those who choose to bring a sack lunch can eat it in fellowship hall Beverages are available Recitalists are Kathy Kern, violin, and Roger Scott, organ. The recital is free and open to the public. Epsilon Chapter of Delta Kappa Gamma will hold its initiation and Christmas celebration with a dinner in the DePauw Student Union Saturday, Dec. 8. The initiation will start at 6 p.m. and will precede the dinner. Reservatioas are due by Dec. 1. Saturday RSVP is sponsoring Breakfast with Santa at 8:30 and 10:30 a.m. Saturday, Dec. 8 and Dec. 15 at the Putnam County Senior Center. Breakfast costs $3 Monday The National Association of Retired Federal Employees will meet at the Colonnial House at 12:30 p.m. Monday, Dec. 10 to eat. A business meeting will follow. The Putnam County Coin Club will hold its regular meeting Monday, Dec. 10 at the Putnam County Senior Center. New officers will be installed and there will be a large auction as the feature for the evening. Dealers tables open at 7 p.m. and the meeting begins at7:3o p.m. Anyone interested in coins or paper money is welcome. Chapter CB of PEO will meet at 8 p.m. Monday, Dec. 10 at the home of Ruth VanZwoll. Ellen Kelly will be the co-hostess. Please bring a can of fruit. Wednesday The Garden Club will meet at the Sunset Manor Nursing Home at 1:30 p.m. Wednesday, Dec. 12 for the Christmas celebration. Thursday The general meeting of all circles of Gobin Church will be held at 1: 15 p.m. Thursday, Dec. 13 in the Colonnade Room for the annual Christmas party. Come and bring your friends. Programs for 1985 will be distributed. AARP will have its regular meeting Friday, Dec. 14 at the Brick Chapel United Methodist Church. The dinner meeting will begin at 1 p.m. Reservations must be made by Dec. 8. Dinner is $5. There will be a short business meeting and program. The Century Club will meet at the home of Mrs. F. Durham at 2 p.m. Friday, Dec. 14. Wear an apron.

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Abby: Grandma worries grandson's decision may be irreversible

DEAR ABBY: My 28-year-old grandson and bis wile have just had their second child. I love this grand son dearly as I took care of him when he was a child. Yesterday he told mo that he was going to have a vasectomy! I was horrified, lie said he couldn’t tell his mother or father hut wanted me to know, which shows how much he thinks of me. 1 am very much against his getting a vasectomy. In fact, I couldn’t sleep for worrying about it. Abby, what it his wife dies and he marries a woman who wants children from him? There’s also a chance that something will happen to one or both of his children; he would definitely want more. I don’t think he realizes what it would mean for a young fellow like him to do such a thing. He makes a meager living. 1 pay his rent and utilities. 1 agree, no more children, but I can’t let him do this. His wife thinks the pill is dangerous. Surely there are other ways of birth control besides a vasectomy for him. Please help me before it’s too late. I am an 80-year-old doting grandmother, but sign me ... WORRIED DEAR WORRIED: Although I am informed that some vasectomies can be reversed, your grandson may not be one of the lucky ones should he later change his mind. He and his wife should visit a family planning clinic and learn about alternate methods of birth control. Your concerns are legitimate, Grandmother, but the final decision is your grandson's. * * * DEAR ABBY: My daughter-in-

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law insists on calling me by my first name (“Joan”). I don’t like it. I think it shows a lack of respect. After all, we are not contemporaries. When she first started to call me Joan, 1 asked her to please call me Mom or Mother, as my son does. She told me that she has only one mother, and her mother would resent it if she were to address me by that title. Abby, I feel that I have earned that title, and out of respect to rm—and her husband—she should call me Mom or Mother. What do you think? A NAME PROBLEM DEAR NAME PROBLEM: I think how your daughter-in-law addresses you is not the problem. The real problem is how she feels about you, and how you feel about her. Since it irritates you to be addressed by your first name, you were wise to tell her. But since she is uncomfortable calling you Mom or Mother, you shouldn’t insist on it. * * * DEAR ABBY: The woman who wrote that she was frustrated and irritated because of guests who failed to return their already stamped and addressed RSVP cards for her wed ding had every right to be upset Dinner receptions are expensive, and it would be very embarrassing to run out of food. My husband and I have a solution to this problem. After the ceremony, when the couple has left the sanctuary, the pastor should make a brief announcement: “Those people who returned their RSVP cards indicating that they would be able to attend the wedding dinner may go downstairs and find their places at their assigned tables;

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and for everyone else, there is punch and cookies in the room just to the right of the sanctuary where the bride and groom will he ready to greet you.” ’This would let everyone know, without insulting anyone, that dinner was prepared for those who responded and yet there is still punch and cookies for everyone else. This would greatly help the bride-to-be, who could then just sit back and relax and forget about calling those

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The Chapter wishes to thank the following individuals and merchants that made the D.U. Banquet possible:

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who did not respond. RICK AND St E IN CENTRA LI A, WASH DEAR KICK AND SUE: Your suggestion makes sensi but few would have the courage to do it. Of one thing I am certain: Those who missed out on the wedding banquet because they failed to respond would respond PDQ to their next RSVP.

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