Banner Graphic, Volume 15, Number 44, Greencastle, Putnam County, 24 October 1984 — Page 4

The Putnam County Banner-Graphic, October 24, 1984

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Family and friends are invited to share the celebration of the 50th wedding anniversary of Fred and Eileen Gowin 2-4 p.m. Nov. 4 at the Roachdale Lions Building. The couple were married Nov. 3, 1934 at Greencastle. Mrs. Gowin is the former Eileen Malayer. Hosting the celebration will be their daughter, Marjorie Tippin and their grand-

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children, Janie Tippin, Mr. and Mrs. Ron Brothers, Mr. and Mrs. David Frazee, Mr. and Mrs. Larry Tippin and Mr. and Mrs. Terry Tippin. They also have seven greatgrandchildren. The family has asked if anyone has a special memory or picture to share with them on that day.

Dear Abby 'Mannish look' of girlfriend makes date look other way

DEAR ABBY: I am 17 years old and so is my girlfriend. This summer she got her hair cut real short and started combing it like a boy. I didn’t like it and told her so. Last weekend I took her to a movie, and she wore a man’s shirt and tie, a man’s type jacket and trousers, and even a pair of wing-tip shoes. I felt embarrassed to be seen with her and refused to hold hands with her because I was afraid people would think we were a couple of homosexuals. She got mad and said 1 was a real square. She said she was being fashionable—that the mannish look for women is “in.” Is this true? Am I weird to want my girlfriend to look like a girl? 808 DEAR BOB: You aren’t weird —the fashion designers are. Your girlfriend has the right to dress the way she wants to dress. And you have the right to refuse to be seen in public with someone whose appearance you find embarrassing. First the bad news: The mannish look for women is “in.” Now for the good news: A lot of women aren’t buying it. * * * DEAR ABBY: “Safe and Secure,” who ignored a male driver who was trying to get her attention when they both stopped at a red light, could also be paranoid. The stranger might have been trying to alert her to a faulty taillight, a hanging muffler or perhaps a belt hanging out her door. I know because I have been ignored for trying to communicate the same things. And by the way, not all men are ax murderers; I wish women would give us men half a chance before shutting us out. INSULTED IN NEW YORK DEAR INSULTED: You’re 100 percent right. But I would rather mistake a good guy for an ax murderer than mistake an ax

Burgess weds

Bonnie Lee Burgess, daughter of Orville and Avonda Burgess, Fillmore, exchanged wedding vows with Larry K. Mason, son of Elizabeth Mason, Greencastle, and the late Paul M. Mason. The double-ring ceremony was held at the Gobin United Methodist Church July 14. Rev. Bruce Kenline, Greentown, officiated. THE ALTAR WAS decorated with two sets of candelabra with floor-length white ribbon streamers. Fresh daisies and wide white ribbons decorated the pews. Attendants were situated on opposite sides of the main altar as David Ott, organist, and Tom Fitzpatrick, soloist, both DePauw University professors, provided the music. Fitzpatrick sang “Somewhere My Love,” “Lord’s Prayer,” and “Memory,” featured in the Broadway musical “Cats.” Employed by the Eastern High School, Greentown, the bride chose a white Alfred Angelo gown of chiffonet for her wedding day. She was given in marriage by her parents. The designer gown worn by the bride also featured a bodice with a high neckline covered with English net yoke decorated in seed pearls and embroidered with Schiffli lace. A Chantilly lace ruffle edged the yoke. The Victorian sleeves were made of ribbon lace. The skirt was

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murderer for a good guy. * * *

DEAR ABBY: Last weekend 1 had a date with a man I didn’t know very well. (I had met him in a bar the night before and gave him my phone number.) He took me out for dinner so we could get better acquainted. He came on to me pretty strong, and there was something about him I didn’t like (bad vibes). When he took me home, I planned on saying goodnight at the door because I really didn’t want this man in my apartment. (I live alone.) When I said goodnight, he asked if he could use my bathroom. What could I say? After he used the bathroom, he sat himself down in my living room and asked if I would make him a cup of coffee. I was beginning to get the idea, but didn’t want to be rude. He sipped his coffee slowly, and kept looking at me in a way that made me uncomfortable. After the coffee, he made a grab for me. I pulled away from him, said I had to get up early for work, then I asked him to leave. I was trembling inside for fear I had a rapist on my hands. Thank God he didn’t give me any trouble. Please print this to let other women know that “May I use your bathroom?” is one way a man can get into a woman’s apartment. Now I’m sorry I didn’t say, “Sorry, find a gasoline station.” LUCKY IN DALLAS DEAR LUCKY: Your first mistake was letting the man know where you lived before you got to know him better. You should have met him somewhere to get better acquainted, then taken a taxi home when the vibes were bad. * * * (Problems? What’s bugging you? Unload on Abby, P.O. Box 38923, Hollywood, Calif. 90038. For a personal reply, please enclose a stamped, self-addressed envelope.)

Mason in double-ring ceremony

adorned in Venice lace and Schiffli embroidered medallions. It swept to a cathedral train. A cathedral length veil was edged in Schiffli lace and had embroidered floral medallions scattered throughout. The mantilla, which featured a Juliet-style cap, had large lace medallions circling the head. The knee-length cascade bouquet carried by the bride featured lavender, purple and white silk flowers decorated with greenery and white satin streamers tied with love knots. THE MOTHER OF THE bride wore a rose-colored street-length dress. A corsage of cream roses completed the look. Cheryl Danberry, Bainbridge, was maid of honor. Bridesmaids were Susan Richey, Kokomo; Janice McCarty, sister of the bride, Greencastle; Louanna May, Greentown, and Barbara Burkett, sister of the bridegroom, Greencastle. Angie McHaffey, Indianapolis, cousin of the bride, was the flower girl. The attendants wore lavender floorlength gowns with lace capelets. They wore wrist corsages in shades of lavender with matching floral hair combs. Miss McHaffey was attired in a fulllength white gown of lace decorated with

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Wedding Shaw-Palmer

Mr. and Mrs. Walter A. Shaw, Route 1, Cloverdale, announce the marriage of their daughter, Shellie P. Shaw to Cpl. Robert Edward Palmer of the United States Marine Corps, Cherry Point N.C. The couple were united in marriage on May 10, 1984. Shellie and Edward are presently residing in North Carolina. THE CEREMONY WAS a military-style wedding as the bridegroom and his attendants were attired in the dress blue uniform of the United States Marine Corps. A 1983 graduate of South Putnam High School, the bride wore a wedding dress of white Chantilly lace featuring a four-foot train. A cascading tiara veil adorned with

purple and white streamers in the back of the dress. She wore a floral head wreath. THE BRIDEGROOM IS a 1969 graduate of Greencastle High School and is presently employed by Greencastle Community Schools. He was attended by his brother, bestman Terry Mason, Greencastle. Groomsmen were Dave Deacon, Columbus, Ohio, Steve Pfrank, Terre Haute, Steve Jones, Roachdale, and Tom Ottenbacher, Indianapolis. Ushers William Burgess, Terre Haute, Terry Wieckert, Connersville, and John Burgess, Fillmore. Mitchell Stark, Greencastle, was the ring bearer. The groomsmen wore gray tuxedos with lavender and purple boutonnieres. The bridegroom’s mother wore a turquoise street-length dress and a corsage of cream roses. Mark Benassi videotaped the ceremony. The church bells were rung by a brother of the bride when the couple were pronounced man and wife.

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pearls, hand-embroidered roses and a crystal rain drop centered on the tiara completed the look. Wedding colors as displayed in the flower arrangements were red, white, blue and gold. The bridesmaid wore clothing featuring the wedding colors. Corporal Jerry Leary was the best man while Mrs. Wilma J. Leary, Haveloch, North Carolina was the matron of honor. THE BRIDE IS currently employed at the First National Bank of North Carolina. A 1982 graduate of Ben Davis High School, Indianapolis, the bridegroom is currently a communications expert in the United States Marine Corps.

A RECEPTION WAS held at Wesley Hall immediately following the ceremony. Jean Gorham, Greencastle, registered guests from Missouri, Ohio and Indiana. Erika Greenawald and Laurie Lee served guests a three-tiered wedding cake topped with lavender bells. The cake also featured two heart-shaped layer cakes on the side made by Pat Inman, Bainbridge. The cake was decorated w'ith white and lavender bells and w-as edged in a lace design matching the bride’s gown. A fountain of lavender water was placed under the three-tiered cake. A second reception was held at the groom’s family home. The bride is a 1976 graduate of North Putnam High School and a 1980 graduate of DePauw University. The bridegroom is a 1975 graduate of DePauw University and a 1979 graduate of Indiana State University. After a wedding trip to Pennsylvania and Ohio, the couple now reside at 305 E. Walnut Street, Greencastle.