Banner Graphic, Volume 11, Number 106, Greencastle, Putnam County, 6 January 1981 — Page 3

Dear Abby: This man's heart is not reached through his stomach

DEAR ABRY: I ve been going with a fellow for over a year. He's 30 and I’m 26. He wants to marry me, but, Abby, he has one fault that really turns me off. His table manners are terrible! He holds his fork in his fist like a small child who is just learning how to eat by himself. He stabs at his food with his fork and eats so fast he makes me nervous. When I try to correct him in a nice way, he gets angry and says, “If it bothers you, don’t look at me!” I realize that a man could have worse faults such as drinking, dope or chasing women, so maybe I’m out of line to complain about something as petty as this, but sitting at

Calendar of Events Tuesday Theta Chapter, Delta Theta Tau Sorority, will meet at 8 p.m. Tuesday, Jan. 6 at the Greencastle Federal Savings and Loan Building. Co-hostesses are Mrs. Floyd Allen and Mrs. Norm Peabody. A "learn and return" lesson for extension homemakers on ‘‘Dressing to Keep Warm" will be presented at 1 p.m. Tuesday. Jan. 6 at the fairgrounds. Morton Lodge No. 469, F & AM, will hold its regular stated meeting and installation of officers at 7:30 p.m. Tuesday, Jan 6. Members are urged to attend and visitors are welcome. Over the Teacups will meet at 2 p.m Tuesday, Jan. 6at the home of Mrs Philip Silvas. Mrs. Warren Macy will present the program. Wednesday "The Squeeze.” a fifteen minute slide/tape presentation on . school finance, will open the League of Women Voters’ meeting at 7:30 p.m. Wednesday, Jan. 7 at Charter House Lounge Financed by a grant from the Lilly Endowment, ‘‘The Squeeze” raises the issue of equitable funding for schools, A simulated game will follow. Everyone is invited to come and learn about this timely and vital topic. Greencastle Chapter No. 255, Order of the Eastern Star, will hold their stated meeting at 7:30 p.m. Wednesday, Jan. 7 at the Masonic Temple Past Matrons and Past Patrons will be honored. Visiting members are cordially invited to attend. The VFW Fathers’ Auxiliary Post 1550 will meet at 7:30 p.m Wednesday, Jan. 7at the Post. Associate Tri Kappa will meet at 10 a m. Wednesday, Jan. 7 at the home of Mrs. Cleon Schauwecker. 928 Sherwood Drive, Greencastle. Thursday The Beech Grove Ladies Aid will meet all day Thursday. Jan. 8 at the church. Don’t forget something for the cheer box. The Jefferson Township Extension Homemakers will meet at 1 p.m. Thursday, Jan. 8 at Asbury Towers. Mrs. Audrey Naylor is the hostess. Group meetings for the Christian Women’s Fellowship of First Christian Church will be held Thursday, Jan. 8 as follows: Group 1-9:30 a.m.. hostess, Mrs. Madonna Hurst, at the church: Group 2-9:30 a m., hostess, Mrs. Gail Arnold, 316 Redbud Lane: Group 3-2 p.m., Mrs. Chester Liptrap, at the church: Group 4-7:30 p.m., Mrs. Wanda Hammond, 834 Gradenside Drive. Project for the month is used Christmas cards. Omnes Chapter. Order of DeMolay. will hold its stated meeting at 7:30 p.m Thursday, Jan. 8 at the Greencastle Masonic Temple. Plans for the state basketball tournament will be discussed and a DeMolay Week committee will be selected. Master Councilor Brian Humphreys invites all DeMolays and interested Master Masons to attend. The United Methodist Women of the Cloverdale United Methodist Church will meet at 1:30 p.m. Thursday, Jan. 8 in the Social Room of the Senior Citizen Complex. The program is "Prayer and Self Denial.” There will be a special offering.

Community celebrates holiday The Christmas pitch-in dinner at the Cunot Community Center was held Tuesday, Dec. 23, with 35 people attending A ham was furnished and prepared by Mary and Ed Black and a wide variety of food was enjoyed by everyone.

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the same table with him sometimes irritates me to the point of not being able to eat. He’s honest, hard-working and generous. Do you think I’m being too picky? IRRITATED DEAR IRRITATED: His refusal to accept constructive criticism shows him to be stubborn and inconsiderate. Don’t marry this man unless you want to be reminded three times every day that you made a poor choice.

Hints from Heloise DEAR HEIDISE: I ruined a good pair of my son’s jeans by accidentally getting them too close to the bleach. There are now white spots on his blue jeans. Can you help me revive them? Ginny Kaminski ★ * * Fads change too fast for moms, right? Used to be they begged you to bleach their jeans out so they'd look old. Now, with designer jeans, they’re “old" after the first sign of fading... But, here’s one way to keep a step ahead of them. If the knees start fading out or the hemline has been replaced and there’s a telltale line or, as in your case, the bleach does its thing, counterattack with crayon. Really! Piek a color closest to the jeans and gently rub it across the faded area. When you’ve reached the desired shade, put a piece of waxed paper over the colored area and press with a warm iron. The iron will set the color to help keep it from washing out. The process will have to be repeated every so often as the crayon will eventually wash out. Just be sure to wash the jeans separately in case the color runs. Heloise KEEPING THAT HEM Dear Heloise: When putting in a hem or facing by hand, about every fifth stitch, take an extra one or make a knot. If the hem starts to come out, it won’t go far, and you won’t be embarrassed by a sagging hem. Mrs. Avis Friend And what a friend you are. Thanks! Heloise SHELLGAME Dear Heloise: Want to keep warmer on those chilly days? Don’t pack away those summer shell tops. Wear them under sweaters, even blouses, if the colors blend. No bulk, just comfortable warmth. Dottie M.

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DEAR ABBY: How can I get out of telling my age when I am asked point-blank? I’m not the type to reply, “It’s none of your business.” PRIVATE PERSON DEAR PRIVATE: Try this: “It’s mind over matter, so if you don’t mind, it doesn’t matter.” (Cribbed from Rabbi Samuel A. Friedman, Silver Springs, Md.) * * * DEAR ABBY: On a recent cruise in the Caribbean, I saw a man at the beach who was average in appearance and

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physique, except that he was wearing a gold earring through his left nipple! It caused quite a stir, as you can well imagine. Abby, could he have been a member of some cult or organization? If not, what is the reason for such bizarre adornment? ANNE IN INDIANA DEAR ANNE: It is considered “macho” among a select segment of the male population. It has nothing to do with a cult or organization. All one needs is a gold ring, a left nipple and a penchant for bizarre J adornment.

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