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Saturday, October 27, 1973

Mate can learn to accept / tender, physical love By Abigail Van Buren £ 1973 Chicago Tribune-N. Y. News Synd., Inc. DEAR ABBY: It might do your correspondent whose husband wants no bodily contact except sex good to know that there are others with the same problem. I have a husband who wants no bodily contact outside sex. Even kisses are few and far between. If I sit too close to him in the car, I get an elbow in the ribs. If I get too close to him in bed, I get a sharp nudge and an admonition to move over! He has a healthy appetite for sex, however, altho he is completely lacking in the tenderness that turns a woman on. After years of brooding and studying, I found an explanation for his hangup. [Explanations don’t solve problems, but they do help you to be more patient and understanding.] My husband was an unwanted baby, and his mother let him know this from the start. He had very little cuddling and fondling at home. He has never learned how to accept physical love because he has never had any, and consequently, he doesn't know how to give any. For years I felt I was unattractive and unlovable. Now I know it’s not something lacking in me . . . it’s something lacking in him. Knowing this takes the sting out of it. RESIGNED DEAR RESIGNED: Your husband’s lack of tenderness, which is simply his reluctance to learn how to please his partner, was learned, and that which was learned can be unlearned. Don’t “resign” yourself in a martyred manner. Talk turkey to your man. He is capable of understanding a few explanations, too. DEAR ABBY: Recently I called on a thriving trucking company, whose business it is to ship. I was asked to wait a few minutes as the owner was busy on a long distance call. While I waited, the receptionist, a very attractive young woman, constantly cracked her chewing gum. The waiting time grew longer, and the noise of that gum cracking became more and more irritating. Finally, my nerves couldn’t take it any longer, so I told the receptionist I would come back later, and I left. I located another hauler—one whose receptionist did no* chew gum! I wonder what the owner of that first truck line would say if he knew that his receptionist’s gum-chewing was responsible for his having lost a good account? NAMELESS, PLEASE DEAR NAMELESS: He probably would have chewed her out—but good! DEAR ABBY: I am a 40-year-old woman with children away at boarding schools. My husband and I are divorced, bnt we haven’t told our children about it for fear they may hate us for life. The children go to school in Ohio. I live in North Carolina, and my husband lives in California. Whenever the kids come home, he flies down here and brings enough of his clothes with him to make them think he is still living here with me. He is complaining that it is getting to be a terrible expense, and if I am going to continue this pretense I will have to start paying for his transportation. I am only a part-time cocktail waitress and make just enough to live in comfort. My husband is paying for the children’s education. Please, help me. T. IN N. C. DEAR T.: Put an end to the ridiculous charade and tell your children that Daddy doesn’t live there anymore. They’ll survive. Problems? You’ll feel better if you get it off your chest. For a personal reply, write to ABBY: Box No. 69700, L. A„ Calif. 90069. Enclose stamped, self-addressed envelope, please. For Abby’s booklet, “How to Have a Lovely Wedding," send $1 to Abigail Van Buren, 132 Lasky Dr., Beverly Hills Cal. 90212.

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Writers of letters to ti.e editor must include full name and address, although the letters can be published with initials only at the request of the writer. We reserve the right to edit letters and to print them in one or both editions; the preference of the writer regarding choice of edition, if noted,«ill be followed if possible. Opinions represented herein do not necessarily represent those of this newspaper. If feasible, submit typed, dou-ble-spaced letters. Dear Editor: “Children are our greatest resource. Each child born is hope for the future; each child lost is one less chance to improve it.” The above quote is from a recent Banner-Graphic letter and the author was making a pitch for UNICEF funds. Isn’t it paradoxical that a plea is being made to save the “world’s children” while, at the same time, our own nation callously permits the annihilation of its children by abortion? In 1972 the LT.S. government gave S15 million and private citizens donated $5.9 million to UNICEF. Russia furnished a mere 2 per-cent and our softheaded, gullible government provided 30 per cent of UNICEFs total funds. What percentage of those funds were spent to improve the lives of children in his country? What’s wrong with the old adage “Charity begins at home?” One country who derives benefits from UNICEF is communist Cuba. There babies, when but a few weeks old, are taken from mothers and placed in Day Care Centers. This frees each mother to exercise her equal rights by working in cane fields, factories, or whatever needed. When youngsters reach Head Start age they are sent to a camp in the mountains to engage in what is termed “austerity programs.” Small tots line up each morning at tiny wash basins to brush their teeth while facing “hate Amerika” posters on the wall. During the day they march 1 and drill while chanting “hate Amerika” slogans. Isn’t it ironic that American children are encouraged to love the “world’s

children” and these same' children are being drilled to hatel ours? And while American' children are being programmed to live peacefully in, and to love the world, the “world’s children” are being trained to enslave and rule ours. And if the enemy persists, and succeeds with their plan how will the teachers and ministers, now touting for UNICEF, fare then? A “turn our cheek to the enemy” is a noble attitude but compeletely turning one’s back to the enemy is foolhardy. The knife we’re asking for could be provided by UNICEF. June Eiteljorge Route 4, Box 63 Greencastle

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Continuedfrom Page 1 to as “a divine synthesis in which everyone can participate, and it’s called love.” Following his address, Turpin entertained questions, and invited any interested students to consider working at the Project Concern site in Appalachia for their Winter Team project.

Veterans Continuedfrom Page I The purpose of the talk, said Reach, was to “enable the case workers to help educate prospective applicants in the Welfare Department to their benefits with the Veterans Administration.” Hensley gave new information concerning orphan and widow benefits, basic entitlement of veterans, and the benefits of the disabled veteran and the recipients of the Purple Heart, said Keech. He said there was “a good reaction with questions from all sides. We’re interested in seeing people served on this level (the Veterans Admin-

rather than Welfare when

Continuedfrom Page 1 the product labels is a chart which shows the results of the collection. It reads: --One Royal Dessert-five glasses of milk --Five gum wrappersprotection for one child from diptheria, whooping cough, tetanus --one Welch’s label- saving one child from blindness --one Chocks package -100 servins of food supplement —one picture of Blue Bonnet Sue- protection for one child against tuberculosis —two Kool-Aid packageprotection for one child against smallpox. Accident Continuedfrom Page 1 Damage set at $150 was done to the Siddoms car while $250 in damages was reported on the Glover vehicle. No citations were issued.

Check It Out Greencastle-Putnam County Library 102 E. Walnut 653-6216 9-5 Mon. Wed. Thurs. Sat Pre-Schoolers’ Story Time 9-8 lues. Fri. 10:30 lues. Bookmobile Service to the County Last weekend found some 700 Indiana librarians and library trustees in Evansville for our 82nd annual Conference, with Greencastle well represented by people from the DePauw University and Green-castle-Putnam County Libraries. The Executive Inn and the new Vanderburgh County Auditorium were our headquarters. Business meetings and book exhibits were, of course, the main order of the days. But for this librarian the highlights were talks by Marilyn Durham, the Evansville woman who wrote “The Man Who Loved Cat Dancing” (and says she’s never met Burt Reynolds!); and by Erwin Canham, the scholarly editor of “The Christian Science Monitor.” For those of you who like to examine the “Indiana University Independent Study Division Home Reading Program,” compiled every year by Marion Cruver, the new one is at the circulation desk. Choice among our new books: “My Paris,”by Maurice Chevalier. A picture book which captures the spirit and atmosphere of the city. “The Complete Book of Bazaars,” by Dorothea Britton. What to make and how to display it, with lots of pictures, patterns, and recipes. “The Burning and Other Stones,” by Jack Cady. Winner of the third annual Iowa School of Letters Award for Short Fiction. “A New Baby! A New Life!” by Erma Brenner. A beautifully illustrated, simply written book for parents to use with children who are going to have a new sister or brother. “Everything you’ve Always Wanted to Knew about the Law But Couldn’t Afford to Ask,” by Edward Colby. Information about buyingon credit, the family car, mortgages, wills, marriage and divorce, juvenile courts, and a dictionary of legal terms. Don’t forget!! Story Hour children come in costume this week. And we hope that the older ghosts and goblins will come trick-or-treating at the Library!

HONOR ROLL Greencastle Senior High Honor Roll—1st Six Weeks

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SENIORS HIGH HONOR ROLL Brenda Andis, Rick Bittles, Leota Boesen, Debbie Clover, Donna Cook, David Deacon, Linda Gobert, Kevin Gough, Marcia Miller, Dede Pershing, Amy Phillips, Susan Robertson, Amy Shedd, Jan Smaltz, Judy Smaltz, Darla Stanage, Terri Sutherlin, and Tom Wilson. HONOR ROLL Tom Albin, Terri Aubrey, Terry Black, Janet Boling, Frank Bundy, Elizabeth Chase, Jayne Cross, Mike DeVylder, Bob Edwards, Laura Evens, Tom Grubb, Pam Hightower, Heidi Knights, Holly Knights, Jane Lydick, Mike McClaine, Diane Morrison, Connie O'Hair, Rick Parrish, Judy Penturf, Cathy Scobee, Diane Shaw, Calvin White, Terry Weickert, and Jeff Wood. JUNIORS HIGH HONOR ROLL Charles Banks, James Bemis, Brenda Cody, David Conrad, Rick DeVylder, Marcia Foxx,

Real Estate Transfers

Stardust Hill, Inc. to Alvin C. Ross unm, warranty deed, lot 164 in Lazy River Country. American Central Corporation to Thomas E. Goodman etux,warranty deed, lot 92 in Lincoln Hills. Harry L. Renner etux to Donald L. Boyd etux, warranty deed, 5.41 acres in Washington Township. Anna B. Cash to Robert F. Bellew etux, warranty deed, lot 30 in Fillmore Parkview First Addition. T. & W. Corporation to Glen E. Huff etux, warranty deed, .271 of an acre in Greencastle Township. Chapel Cemetery Co. to Robert H. O’Hair, cemetery deed.

Charles M. Deardorf etux to Woodruff Frye, warranty deed, lot 27 in Hoosier Highlands. Elva L. Tincher Snapp to Margaret Bruner, warranty deed, part of lot 32 in Mt. Meridian. Mary Baker Ruddick etux to Sanford E. Siddons etux, warranty deed, part of lot 16 in Greencastle E.J. Peck's Enlargement. . George Kleiber etux to Charles A. Eaglin etux, warranty deed, 2.7 acres in Floyd Township. Forest Hill Cemetery to J. Frank Nelson, cemetery deed. Colonial Discount Corp. to James H. Holder etux, warranty deed, 6.24 acres in Floyd Town-

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Bridge

• B. Jay Becker

The Impossible

South dealer. EastrWest vulnerable. NORTH *A 10 8 V8 6 4 ♦ A J 9 7 *K 10 3

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Pass

2 NT

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Pass

4 V

Pass

6 V

Opening lead - king of diamonds. Performing the impossible is a contradiction of terms, but there are hands where declarer

dummy with the ace. In an effort to escape the spade loser, South ruffed a diamond at trick two, hoping the queen would fall on either this round or the next time diamonds were led. He then played the ace of hearts, learning to his horror that West had two natural trump tricks. But, undaunted, he decided to play West for the only distribution that would permit the slam to be made. Accordingly, South started by cashing three club tricks, ending in dummy, then ruffed the nine of diamonds. With everything going smoothly, declarer returned to dummy with a spade and ruffed the jack of diamonds. By now West was out of diamonds and clubs. When South next cashed the king of spades, West ran out of that suit also. With three tricks to go, West’s remaining cards were the Q-10-9 of hearts. Having won the first ten tricks, South led the six of spades, and, lo and behold, the three losers he had started with

Freda Allen to Margaret Rosina Rolls, warranty deed, 1.19 acres in Marion Township. Daisy Goodman to lota House of Kappa Kappa Gamma, Inc., warranty deed, part of lot 6 in Greencastle Central Survey. Naomi F. Carson to James E. Lacey etux, warranty deed, 1.282 acres in Jackson Township. Richard L. Edwards etux to First-Citizens Bank & Trust Company, warranty deed, lots 186 and 190 in Greencastle Original Plat. First-Citizens Bank & Trust Company to Franklin Center, warranty deed, lots 186 and 190 in Greencastle Original Plat.

NOTICE OF ADMINISTRATION IN THE PUTNAM CIRCUIT COURT Estate No. ESI 73-75 Notice is hereby given that Peggy Torr was on the 10 day of October, 1973, appointed administratrix with the will annexed of the estate of James H. Torr, deceased. All persons having claims against said estate whether or not now due, must file the same in said court within six months from the date of the first publication of this notice or said claims will be forever barred. Dated at Greencastle, Indiana, this 10 day of October, 1973. Ennis E. Masten Clerk of the Putnam Circuit Court IYON & BOYD Attorneys Oct. 13-20-27-3T

Annette Hammond, Cynthia Heinlein, Connie Hunter, Kim Lykken, Blair MacPhail, Angela McFarland, Susan Rattray, Kim Richardson, Linda Robbins, Susan Ross, David Rowings, J. F. Strain, and Pam Walton. HONOR ROLL Jackie Albright, Lorie Bitzer, Shelia Buck, Kathy Carrington, Rita Carter, Chris Collins, Marvin Douglas, Wendy Frazier, Nancy Frye, Kathy Gammon, James Lett, Martin Mishler, Mike Murphey, Bill Jeffries, Cindy Porr, Julie Poor, Rita Rains, Tony Sawyer, Edmund Taylor, Rick Wokoun, and Sandy Zeiner. SOPHOMORES HIGH HONOR ROLL Brian Bartley, Jon Hamm, Terri Ottenbacher, Sharon Stamper, Janae Stouder, Cathy Steele, John Torr, and Jeannie White. HONOR ROLL Kevin Bitzer, John Blumer, Doug Cockrell, Judy Cook, Mark Cox, Bill Earl, Rhonda Evans, David Gray, Shellie Harris, Rick Harris, Lana Jackson, Scott Kissinger, Tammy Lewis, Dan Losin, Julie Masten, Steve Mason, Randy O'Neal, Mike Pitts, Lisa Poor, Jean Robertson, Ryan Roof, Debra Spence, John Stevens, Greg Tislow, Jane Torr, Jerry Torr, Kim VanZwoll, Mark Vaughan, and Tim York. FRESHMEN HIGH HONOR ROLL Surita Alexander, Cheryl, Baumunk, Jeanetta Beams, Lisa Gedert, Brenda Greenlee, Anne Lezotte. Jeff Mager, Fred Miller, Eileen Mishler, Mike Morrill, Patty Phillips, and Melodic Strain. HONOR ROLL Cindi Andrews, Terri Asbell, Lisa Breese, Russell Christian, Dan Corbin, Brent Cox, Michelle Evans, Patty Evens, Karen Fenwick, Tim Foxx, Phil Huestis, Becky Hunter, Natalie Irwin, Mike Jackson, John Lett, Robert Littrell, Debbie Lyon, Karla Phillips, Susie Robbins, Amy Taylor, Julie Westerfield, Janet Wheeler, and Robin York. Birthday Peggie Sue Little will be 14 years-old Saturday, Oct. 27. She is the daughter of Barbara Little and granddaughter of Mr. and Mrs. William Cosner. She is also a student in the eight grade at Greencastle Jr. High School.

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Take this hand where South has a spade loser and, as the cards lie, two trump losers. It is of course mighty difficult to make a slam with three natural losers, but our hero, South, met the challenge with ease. West led a diamond, won in

West had to ruff the spade and return a trump — and that was the end of that. West could not avoid the endplay by which South, in one miraculous swoop, succeeded in telescoping three

losers into one.

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Card Of Thanks We the Louisiana relatives and friends wish to try to express our profound and sincere feelings of appreciation to all of the Indiana relatives and friends of our beloved Rose Fisher. Never have we seen such sincere expressions of grief and love before. It has helped us to bear our own grid,-knowing how loved she was in life and also knowing her memory will live on in so many hearts. Many thanks to you all and God bless you. The Bourdreoux Family New Iberia. La. Hospital Notes Dismissed Thursday: Kenneth Dammeir David Kendall Floyd Blacketer Cordelia McCullough Lucylle Fuson Rosemary Priest Randy Bellmore Rose Wagner Hedwig Brueggeman Michael Pottorff Thelma Hasty Ancil Keller Mrs. Marie Medina and son BIRTH. Mr. and Mrs. John R. Coomer. Tulip Trail, a girl.

Card of Thanks My sincere thanks to the intern who took care of me when I entered the hospital at 2:20 a.m. Also to Dr. Marvel, the nurses, who took care of me before 1 was transferred to the Methodist hospital. 1 wish to thank all my friends and relatives for the many many cards and beautiful flowers. 1 wish to thank Rev. Day for his visits and for staying with my daughters until after the operation was over. May Gods blessings shine on each and everyone of you. Carrie Miller

Obituary Naomi McCurry Mrs. Naomi McCurry, 78, well known Greencastle resident, died Thursday morning in University Hospital at Indianapolis. She was born on December 4, 1895, the daughter of Lincoln D. and Kate Perry Snider, The deceased and her late husband, Charles A. McCurry owned and operated the McCurry Funeral Home for many years. She was a member of the Gobin Memorial United Methodist Church and the Daughters of the American Revolution. Survivors include a daughter, Sally Thornilee, Denver, Colorado; a brother, LaVerne Snider, Atlanta, Georgia; a sister, Mrs. Esther Snider Jones, Greencastle; two grandsons, Scott and Paul Thornilee, and a great grandson, Sean. Services will be conducted at 3 p.m. Sunday at the Hopkins Funeral Home in charge of Rev. Clyde Lininger and with burial in Forest Hill Cemetery. Friends may call at the funeral home after 7 p.m. Saturday. In Memoriam In loving memory of our dear husband, father and grandfather Clinton (Vic) Cue, who passed away two years ago today Oct. 27th 1971. ' Some say time heals all sorrows, and helps us to forget. But time so far has only proved How much we miss him yet. God gave us strength to face the grief And courage to stand the blow But what it meant to lose him, No one will ever know. Sadly miss by, Wife Carrie, son Dale and Wife Evelyn and grandchildren Gary & wife Margie and Karen-and great grandson Kelly. Marriage License James Harold Poynter, farm hand, Bainbridge, and Rita Elaine Webb, at home, Perrysville.Kentucky. Circuit Court Betty Joan Wallace and Joseph D. Wallace, individual petition for dissolution of marriage. ''It Wovm For All" Bonner-Graphic Consolidation of Tho Daily Banner Established 1850 The Herald The Daily Graphic Established 1883 Telephone 653-5151 Dr. Mary Tartian, Publisher PvWUMd rvry m*ming mnd •ventng *ic«pl lundmyt mnd YWHmyt by luMar Nwiy^.n, Inc •» 20 Narfb Jachcan It. Oraancasria. Indiana 44115. Intacad In tfca PaM Offtca at Oraancactla. Ind., at 2nd dattmaH mattar wndtr Act «t March 7, l*7» lUSKlVTON SAKS Pac Waab, by cantac SO* ParManHibymatar ravta S2.1S MaM SwbtcHytian latte » »• w AlOthar Othar Putnam Ca. Indiana US. A. I Waab SO* jo« to3 Manttw 14.50 $3.00 S7 00 OManltn $7 00 3100 310 00 ITaar $12 00 *14.00 $1100 •And «*eccHyttan» payabU In advance .. . nat are apt ad In tawnt and wHara matac rawta tarvka

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